i told my best friend that i liked her but she said she doesnt have the same feelings..she just wants to be closer..what does that mean? how can i get her to realize i want to be with her? should i flirt with her more? i dont know what to do can someone help me out..? do i talk to her? should i call her on the phone and let her know i really want this? I NEED HELP ..ANY ONE PLEASE!HELP!! i need peoples advice and answers on dating!?
That's a weird comeback...
You need to ask HER. Don't be pushy about it, don't necessarily ask her right away, and don't sound disappointed or anything, that will just risk pushing her away.
Just tell her that you don't want to push her away, and you want to know what she meant, so you will know how to treat her, and how to act around her.
Then just be patient, take your time. You can't force people into these situations, maybe she just needs to move slower than you do.HELP!! i need peoples advice and answers on dating!?
She's saying you should stay as just friends. So don't try to make something happen if she was really interestend in dating you she probably would show it or tell you. If it's meant to be it will.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need peoples advice please?
okay so i have extremely curly hair and its a little past my shoulders and i want to get it cut into a bob kind of a long bob with bangs and straighten my hair every day my parents don't think it would look good but idk i rly want it like that do u think with having curly hair it will look ok??
I need peoples advice please?
i think it would be cute. but if you straighten it everyday it will ruin and burn your hair. but its your choiceI need peoples advice please?
to be honest curly bobs arent that cute. they tend to to be too short and it gets really big. If you want to see what it will look like on you get layers in your hair and then take the shortest layer and let them stay and the rest of the hair put up in a ponytail and then u will see what it looks like.
mmmmhhmmm Bobs were'nt made for curly hair! Straightening your hair daily will only damage it badly. BAD IDEA. Keep your curly hair
I need peoples advice please?
i think it would be cute. but if you straighten it everyday it will ruin and burn your hair. but its your choiceI need peoples advice please?
to be honest curly bobs arent that cute. they tend to to be too short and it gets really big. If you want to see what it will look like on you get layers in your hair and then take the shortest layer and let them stay and the rest of the hair put up in a ponytail and then u will see what it looks like.
mmmmhhmmm Bobs were'nt made for curly hair! Straightening your hair daily will only damage it badly. BAD IDEA. Keep your curly hair
Need Mortgage peoples advice...?
Moved from the West Coast to Middle America 9 months ago and bought a home, and now I want to move back to where I was, how long do I have stay in my home before I can move? And should I notify my mortgage company that I'm thinking about moving? I want to continue buying the house and I have a relative who wants to occupy it, so it wouldn't be vacant. I am very concerned about this, help!Need Mortgage peoples advice...?
I am assuming 'I want to continue buying this home' means that you wsh to continue paying the mortgage payment and that you closed this purchase 9 months ago...
The only thing you need to tell the existing mortgage company is the new address where you want the bill sent. Your interest rate will not change jut because you have decided to move and rent out this home. You have not committed loan fraud since you intended and indeed used this property as a primary home just like you said you were going to. The fact that you have decided to move back west does not matter.
Your real issue is going to be moving back and finding somewhere else to live. If you intend to purchase again keep in mind that you will now have to qualify for the new home along with the other property. Lenders will only allow you to use 75% of the rental income for qualification purposes since they know there is money spent on the rental in maintenance, vacancy etc...
If you do decide to buy again make sure that the renters have signed a rental agreement even though they are family since a new lender will want a copy of the agreement.
Other than that, good luck!
Kevin 866-562-6838 x 106
kruorock@firstatelending.comNeed Mortgage peoples advice...?
As long as you pay your mortgage on time you can move. The mortgage company won't care.
The mortgage company also won't care if you rent the house.
The home is legally yours and you can do with it what you please. The mortgage company only has a lien.
Much of this will depend on whether there is a prepayment penalty attached to the loan you have. Many of these would be at least a 2 year commitment with a penalty equal to 6 months interest if you close the loan early.
Even in that case that doesn't prevent you from selling the home immediately if you can afford it.
Here is some additional info. Hope this helps.
There is no reason to tell your mortgage company that you are moving. Also your interest rate will not change because you have not converted your former owner occupied property into a rental.
No one will come and knock on the door to find out who resides there except the censor.
You should notify mortgage company of the change of address, unless you trust your relatives to send the mail to you.
You are still responsible to the mortgage company to pay the mortgage.
I hope this is of some use to you, good luck.
';FIGHT ON';
They will care less who lives there now just so long as it is paid on time all the time! You can give them the new address to send all statements etc.
You can move whenever you want to. Since you will be renting it out, it won't be a good idea to tell your mortgage company, since this will no longer be your primary residence. They will consider it as commercial property and you interest rate will change.
It sounds like you haven't even closed on the purchase of this home in the Midwest yet?
If so, please read the following: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You can't continue with your purchase if you have zero intent to occupy the property.
Basically, since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Good luck!!
Since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.stella mccartney
I am assuming 'I want to continue buying this home' means that you wsh to continue paying the mortgage payment and that you closed this purchase 9 months ago...
The only thing you need to tell the existing mortgage company is the new address where you want the bill sent. Your interest rate will not change jut because you have decided to move and rent out this home. You have not committed loan fraud since you intended and indeed used this property as a primary home just like you said you were going to. The fact that you have decided to move back west does not matter.
Your real issue is going to be moving back and finding somewhere else to live. If you intend to purchase again keep in mind that you will now have to qualify for the new home along with the other property. Lenders will only allow you to use 75% of the rental income for qualification purposes since they know there is money spent on the rental in maintenance, vacancy etc...
If you do decide to buy again make sure that the renters have signed a rental agreement even though they are family since a new lender will want a copy of the agreement.
Other than that, good luck!
Kevin 866-562-6838 x 106
kruorock@firstatelending.comNeed Mortgage peoples advice...?
As long as you pay your mortgage on time you can move. The mortgage company won't care.
The mortgage company also won't care if you rent the house.
The home is legally yours and you can do with it what you please. The mortgage company only has a lien.
Much of this will depend on whether there is a prepayment penalty attached to the loan you have. Many of these would be at least a 2 year commitment with a penalty equal to 6 months interest if you close the loan early.
Even in that case that doesn't prevent you from selling the home immediately if you can afford it.
Here is some additional info. Hope this helps.
There is no reason to tell your mortgage company that you are moving. Also your interest rate will not change because you have not converted your former owner occupied property into a rental.
No one will come and knock on the door to find out who resides there except the censor.
You should notify mortgage company of the change of address, unless you trust your relatives to send the mail to you.
You are still responsible to the mortgage company to pay the mortgage.
I hope this is of some use to you, good luck.
';FIGHT ON';
They will care less who lives there now just so long as it is paid on time all the time! You can give them the new address to send all statements etc.
You can move whenever you want to. Since you will be renting it out, it won't be a good idea to tell your mortgage company, since this will no longer be your primary residence. They will consider it as commercial property and you interest rate will change.
It sounds like you haven't even closed on the purchase of this home in the Midwest yet?
If so, please read the following: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You can't continue with your purchase if you have zero intent to occupy the property.
Basically, since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Good luck!!
Since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
0k so i just watched the movie ( The Notebook) for the 1st time .. and let me tell you I was balling like a baby LOL .. i cant help but wonder if love like that is real is it true ? Ive been with my husband for 10 and a half years about to be married 5 ..we share a child together ..my marriage is very rocky and im not secure in it at all .. after watching that movie i cant help but wonder what im missing out on .. does love like that really exist is it real ? I put up with alot in my marriage cuz i feel i committed myself to him in marrige and its the right thing to do but now i cant help but wonder what im missing if that kinda love really exists i want to have it . has any of you had it ?? and if so plz explain ..my husband works and cares for me and our child while im a stay at home mom and i appreciate that very much ..but wonder if this is luv cuz i dont feel it.. i dont feel comfortable around my husbOlder adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
I was with a guy for 20 years where he lied and cheated almost the whole time, rarely worked, abused me and his kids, used me and drugs, didn't respect me or anyone else, and thought it was his right to cheat on his wife but not his wifes right to cheat on him (I didn't even though he did over and over). I was very young and stupid when I met and married this jerk. I finally got fed up, left, and divorced him.
I have since that time found true love. I have the most wonderful, amazing, fantastic, caring, loving, respectful, honest, truthful man on this planet!! He loves and respects me with his heart and soul, like I do him. He treats me like a goddess and has me on a pedestal, and I treat him like a king and have him on a pedestal. We have tons in common, and what we don't have in common makes the relationship interesting and fun. We don't depend on each other for much. We just compliment each others lives. I was too dependent on my ex for far too long and refuse to do that again.
Anyway, I do believe that there is true love, a soul mate, for every one. I got lucky and found mine.
I believe that when in a relationship, you must have: trust, great communication, lots of love, and respect. If you don't have those things for each other, then you really don't have a marriage but a relationship of convenience or a living hell. I think that you need to search in yourself and decide what you want and need to make you happy, with or without him. It is up to you to make yourself happy, not him. If he does, then all the better. But if he doesn't, then don't expect him to change and do it now. Have you talked with him to let him know how you feel? If not, then how is he to know what you want and or need. What kind of stuff are you putting up with? You shouldn't have to put up with anything, especially abuse and cheating. From what you have written, it sounds like he doesn't love or respect you. Do you really want to live with that? Do you really want your kids to see and feel the disrespect? Believe it or not, kids will see and sense the tension between you, even if you try to hide it from them. Then they suffer as much as you do because they don't like to see or sense that their parents are unhappy. It is not healthy for them to see or sense this stuff. When they do, they usually end up growing up thinking that that's how marriages are supposed to be: one abusing another, the abused putting up with it, etc. Do you really want that for your kids?
These are all things for you to think about and answer. Only YOU can answer these questions, and any others you can come up with. Only YOU can make the decision to change your life if you are unhappy. DON'T expect someone else to do it for you because it won't work. Only YOU can change your life.
Good luck. I do hope that this has helped.Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
There were times I thought I was, but looking back I'm not so sure...
True love begins within oneself.
We can spend our whole lives trying to make others happy and hope that they shower us with love in return.
It just doesn't happen that way.
One thing I know for sure is that love is not supposed to be painful or uncomfortable.
Sure marriage isn't easy, and it sometimes takes a lot of work;
but that's not a reason to be miserable.
Love is supposed to sponsor comfort.
Try to work it out with your husband, but remember that you can't force love.
It's either given freely or not at all.
You might even have to face the fact that you don't belong together.
i havent found it
Yes it does. I was married 30 years when my husband died at work, and I found it very hard to go on, but I did because that's all you can do.
I was with a guy for 20 years where he lied and cheated almost the whole time, rarely worked, abused me and his kids, used me and drugs, didn't respect me or anyone else, and thought it was his right to cheat on his wife but not his wifes right to cheat on him (I didn't even though he did over and over). I was very young and stupid when I met and married this jerk. I finally got fed up, left, and divorced him.
I have since that time found true love. I have the most wonderful, amazing, fantastic, caring, loving, respectful, honest, truthful man on this planet!! He loves and respects me with his heart and soul, like I do him. He treats me like a goddess and has me on a pedestal, and I treat him like a king and have him on a pedestal. We have tons in common, and what we don't have in common makes the relationship interesting and fun. We don't depend on each other for much. We just compliment each others lives. I was too dependent on my ex for far too long and refuse to do that again.
Anyway, I do believe that there is true love, a soul mate, for every one. I got lucky and found mine.
I believe that when in a relationship, you must have: trust, great communication, lots of love, and respect. If you don't have those things for each other, then you really don't have a marriage but a relationship of convenience or a living hell. I think that you need to search in yourself and decide what you want and need to make you happy, with or without him. It is up to you to make yourself happy, not him. If he does, then all the better. But if he doesn't, then don't expect him to change and do it now. Have you talked with him to let him know how you feel? If not, then how is he to know what you want and or need. What kind of stuff are you putting up with? You shouldn't have to put up with anything, especially abuse and cheating. From what you have written, it sounds like he doesn't love or respect you. Do you really want to live with that? Do you really want your kids to see and feel the disrespect? Believe it or not, kids will see and sense the tension between you, even if you try to hide it from them. Then they suffer as much as you do because they don't like to see or sense that their parents are unhappy. It is not healthy for them to see or sense this stuff. When they do, they usually end up growing up thinking that that's how marriages are supposed to be: one abusing another, the abused putting up with it, etc. Do you really want that for your kids?
These are all things for you to think about and answer. Only YOU can answer these questions, and any others you can come up with. Only YOU can make the decision to change your life if you are unhappy. DON'T expect someone else to do it for you because it won't work. Only YOU can change your life.
Good luck. I do hope that this has helped.Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
There were times I thought I was, but looking back I'm not so sure...
True love begins within oneself.
We can spend our whole lives trying to make others happy and hope that they shower us with love in return.
It just doesn't happen that way.
One thing I know for sure is that love is not supposed to be painful or uncomfortable.
Sure marriage isn't easy, and it sometimes takes a lot of work;
but that's not a reason to be miserable.
Love is supposed to sponsor comfort.
Try to work it out with your husband, but remember that you can't force love.
It's either given freely or not at all.
You might even have to face the fact that you don't belong together.
i havent found it
Yes it does. I was married 30 years when my husband died at work, and I found it very hard to go on, but I did because that's all you can do.
I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
so here's the story. We've been friends for awhile and only just started to see each other. We went to semi and i couldn't wait to go home. i honestly couldn't just go to the dance with one person and be expeced to dance with them all night. We kissed and it was one of the most...wierd things i have ever done. i really don't think i'm ready to be in relationship. i've never ben with anyone before. are these feeings normal or should i get out now before we're together too long and i end up hurting his feelings.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
That is all perfectly normal. Just do not stress about it, it's OK to like someone without getting all touchy. Boys are not good at that and he may not like it but that's his loss. If he ONLY want's to snog and paw you then he can not be your friend and you have to let him go.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
When I was young and started hanging out with my now fiance (been together 5 and half years) , he went in for the kiss and I didn't feel comfortable with it either. I thought I'd upset him but it all turned out ok, it's only good when you feel comfortable with yourself and the other person.. give it some time.
That is all perfectly normal. Just do not stress about it, it's OK to like someone without getting all touchy. Boys are not good at that and he may not like it but that's his loss. If he ONLY want's to snog and paw you then he can not be your friend and you have to let him go.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
When I was young and started hanging out with my now fiance (been together 5 and half years) , he went in for the kiss and I didn't feel comfortable with it either. I thought I'd upset him but it all turned out ok, it's only good when you feel comfortable with yourself and the other person.. give it some time.
Need peoples advice?
This year i have made my New Years resolutions they are to loose weight , save money %26amp; better my families lives I really want to stick to these give me some good advice on things I can do to acomplish these resolutions ? We are a family of 6 if that helps any , also four boys are under the age of 14 .Need peoples advice?
here are just some little things to help accomplish your goals. especially since a lot of people dont keep new years resolutions because we try to make a dramatic difference all at once and ofcourse we get thrown off course and dont go back.. so by doing something so simple weighs itself out in the end!
lose weight
i would say stop eating after 8pm! or even 7, even something little like that over a period of time definately makes a difference.
save money
fast food! edit the amount you get fast food! im not saying dont go out to dinner or nething, just fast food!! ya maybe once a week but you limit the amount of fastfood you get you save bundles!!
and maybe other things such as snacks at a gas station, or a magazine, or little mundane things as such. (throw some snacks in your car if you must, such as goldfish, cheeseits, chex mix etc... (i kno these things are only a few dollars at once but just think about it, and add it up, people waste $100's of bucks a year on little things like that!
me and my fiance cut out fast food and just bought a few more groceries to eat at home, and we saved over $100 in one month!!!!!!
better your family life
patience is key! especially with 6children which im sure you've mastered the patience thing now!! but if not, when you feel like exploding...take a DEEEEP breath...dont do it in a rush, just try to breath...it helps clear your mind a little bit, and the least bit helps!!
also try to do atleast one family thing a week...i kno its hard to get a family to do stuff together especially one so large...but even something as small as watching a movie together, going out to dinner, going to the park to play, playing cards... anything helps!
everyone needs family time!!
GOODLUCK AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!Need peoples advice?
as far as loosing weight... the first step is watch what you eat, cut portions, keep out the processed stuff. Meat, rice, potatoes, veggies... just change up the combo's... make sure its balanced.
to make you and your kids happier.. cut out the sugar. look at the sugar content in things you buy them.. you will notice a difference in their energy levels, even their moods. i promice! go for walks, do a quick work out every day... once you start to see results you will only want to go further with it.
These are simple things you can do that will make all the difference.
as far as resolution... DONT use that word..... thats almost like an excuse not to do it... just make it your goal :)
good luck
I agree buy in bulk for things that most or all of you like it save a bunch of money. Eat at home when ever possible and pack lunches from home as well. In order to stick to your goals why not write them down with suggestions on how to accomplish each of them.
Such as for losing weight you could write lose 1-2 lbs a week. And as for how to accomplish this write something like take a 30 minute walk each day. Then to implement it you could try taking a 10 minute walk every night after dinner, and gradually work your way up. If you are low on money you could use water bottles as weight to help you build muscle this will also help with you weight loss. If you stop buying soda when you shop and stock the fridge with cold water then you can save money as well as help aid in your weight loss.
To save money buy in bulk, eat at home, and pack lunches.
Don't try to do too much at once. Pick one for the first part of the year, then another, then another. Good luck!
Im feeling ya! I have the same goals! I have a family of 4 with 2 kids ages 2 and 3! Im not going to eat out as much and not buy as much junk food. That kinda helps me lose weight too. Don't buy anymore pop unless it is on sale...that gets really expensive too. Right now is the best time to buy things when they are on sale! Good luck!!!!
to save money sit down figure your total monthly bring home and write down each and every bill and how much each costs. Limit your grocery bill each week (or month depending on how often you want to go to the store) include entertainment and clothes and gas. Also make yourself a saving allotment and pretend it is a bill. That way you will have a little savings.
here are just some little things to help accomplish your goals. especially since a lot of people dont keep new years resolutions because we try to make a dramatic difference all at once and ofcourse we get thrown off course and dont go back.. so by doing something so simple weighs itself out in the end!
lose weight
i would say stop eating after 8pm! or even 7, even something little like that over a period of time definately makes a difference.
save money
fast food! edit the amount you get fast food! im not saying dont go out to dinner or nething, just fast food!! ya maybe once a week but you limit the amount of fastfood you get you save bundles!!
and maybe other things such as snacks at a gas station, or a magazine, or little mundane things as such. (throw some snacks in your car if you must, such as goldfish, cheeseits, chex mix etc... (i kno these things are only a few dollars at once but just think about it, and add it up, people waste $100's of bucks a year on little things like that!
me and my fiance cut out fast food and just bought a few more groceries to eat at home, and we saved over $100 in one month!!!!!!
better your family life
patience is key! especially with 6children which im sure you've mastered the patience thing now!! but if not, when you feel like exploding...take a DEEEEP breath...dont do it in a rush, just try to breath...it helps clear your mind a little bit, and the least bit helps!!
also try to do atleast one family thing a week...i kno its hard to get a family to do stuff together especially one so large...but even something as small as watching a movie together, going out to dinner, going to the park to play, playing cards... anything helps!
everyone needs family time!!
GOODLUCK AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!Need peoples advice?
as far as loosing weight... the first step is watch what you eat, cut portions, keep out the processed stuff. Meat, rice, potatoes, veggies... just change up the combo's... make sure its balanced.
to make you and your kids happier.. cut out the sugar. look at the sugar content in things you buy them.. you will notice a difference in their energy levels, even their moods. i promice! go for walks, do a quick work out every day... once you start to see results you will only want to go further with it.
These are simple things you can do that will make all the difference.
as far as resolution... DONT use that word..... thats almost like an excuse not to do it... just make it your goal :)
good luck
I agree buy in bulk for things that most or all of you like it save a bunch of money. Eat at home when ever possible and pack lunches from home as well. In order to stick to your goals why not write them down with suggestions on how to accomplish each of them.
Such as for losing weight you could write lose 1-2 lbs a week. And as for how to accomplish this write something like take a 30 minute walk each day. Then to implement it you could try taking a 10 minute walk every night after dinner, and gradually work your way up. If you are low on money you could use water bottles as weight to help you build muscle this will also help with you weight loss. If you stop buying soda when you shop and stock the fridge with cold water then you can save money as well as help aid in your weight loss.
To save money buy in bulk, eat at home, and pack lunches.
Don't try to do too much at once. Pick one for the first part of the year, then another, then another. Good luck!
Im feeling ya! I have the same goals! I have a family of 4 with 2 kids ages 2 and 3! Im not going to eat out as much and not buy as much junk food. That kinda helps me lose weight too. Don't buy anymore pop unless it is on sale...that gets really expensive too. Right now is the best time to buy things when they are on sale! Good luck!!!!
to save money sit down figure your total monthly bring home and write down each and every bill and how much each costs. Limit your grocery bill each week (or month depending on how often you want to go to the store) include entertainment and clothes and gas. Also make yourself a saving allotment and pretend it is a bill. That way you will have a little savings.
I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
theres this guy i like that lives next door to me and hes going away and cant decide whether hes cumin back
i really like him but he kinda older than me but he doesnt act like it
he doesnt know that i like him
wot can i doI really need peoples advice on sumthin?
he's going away. Forget about him %26amp; find someone a little closer to your age............I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
If he doesn't know that you like him, of cause he wouldn't react. Love is two-way. It's not about the age difference or what but something that made you feel he is the one for you.
did you tolk with him before about any thing ?
he is older then maybe he have gf .. do u fell he is trying to tolk with you ?
u can't do anything.. besides.. u don't even know if he likes u??? have u tried talking to him??? well talk to him and find out if he likes u2... if not.. let him go... if he does then tell him to stay...
If you really like him then you need to tell him.Make him want to come back,which I think if you tell him your feelings for him,he will want to come back. Love does not recognize
age,so what if he is older!!!! GOOD LUCK!
just let him go... there's a lot of young guys same age as you out there...
depends on how much older. if your under 18 and hes over forget it.
Tell him you are madly in love w/ him and that he shouldn't go.
start by saying that u really would love to be his friend and that u are hoping that u can keep in touch, for the sake of friendship. a smart guy wont turn down a girl's offer of wanting to be their friend. then, maybe from there u can start thinking bout ur phase 2 strategy =)
Make a move.
let it go if he is going away it is not going to work anyways, find someone who will be there.
i really like him but he kinda older than me but he doesnt act like it
he doesnt know that i like him
wot can i doI really need peoples advice on sumthin?
he's going away. Forget about him %26amp; find someone a little closer to your age............I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
If he doesn't know that you like him, of cause he wouldn't react. Love is two-way. It's not about the age difference or what but something that made you feel he is the one for you.
did you tolk with him before about any thing ?
he is older then maybe he have gf .. do u fell he is trying to tolk with you ?
u can't do anything.. besides.. u don't even know if he likes u??? have u tried talking to him??? well talk to him and find out if he likes u2... if not.. let him go... if he does then tell him to stay...
If you really like him then you need to tell him.Make him want to come back,which I think if you tell him your feelings for him,he will want to come back. Love does not recognize
age,so what if he is older!!!! GOOD LUCK!
just let him go... there's a lot of young guys same age as you out there...
depends on how much older. if your under 18 and hes over forget it.
Tell him you are madly in love w/ him and that he shouldn't go.
start by saying that u really would love to be his friend and that u are hoping that u can keep in touch, for the sake of friendship. a smart guy wont turn down a girl's offer of wanting to be their friend. then, maybe from there u can start thinking bout ur phase 2 strategy =)
Make a move.
let it go if he is going away it is not going to work anyways, find someone who will be there.
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