Only single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?

when you want to ';date'; someone what do you first thing look in them ? is it their look ? i mean every one has some stranders. the reason im askin this is because. an old girl who fits all my look stranders. and shes a fun person,has money, but shes a shallow person,she has no goals in life,the only talks about her relationships,


all what she does in life is go to college.n focus on her relationships/n try to have fun in weekends, thats all!! she either look for a bf or she has one, dont get me wrong she aint a hoe, but i think being in a relationship is the most important thing to her, infact,she has nothin esle going on.


is it me ? or thats what 19 years old girl think about ?


i want someone fun/look good/money and actually has abimitions, somethin i think my ';stranders'; are so unrealistic i mean i wont find a goodlooking+educated=in one person ?


or a fun in an immature way and also mature on other things if u know what i mean. what is the most important thing that i should lookOnly single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
Different person looks for different requirements. In order to have the relationship work and last, these are some pointers in which u can take note;


1) Good personality


Eg, Kind, warm-hearted, faithful, understanding


2) Same Objective


What both will be aiming towards


3) Chemistry


Without this, can't last long


Getting forever together does not involve love only. In future, love will become a routine. U need to find out what will bring both together.


Age plays a part too. Too young, they can't think properly. By the age of about 22-26 onwards, they are more mature and will look into these factors.


Lastly, all the best.Only single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
it's all down to 'chemistry' i've dated all types from high school drop outs to phd's but it's whoever fulfills ur soul........they can be anyone from anywhere u can't put restrictions or have a 'type' if u knw what i mean etc.


u just need to meet some like minded (trust me, even this's a BIG task) then take it from there.


good luck.
no your standards arn't too high. There are girls out there with all of that they are just harder to find. Why settle for second best?
I have to agree with Deshi on this one,why can only single people answer this? Everyone, whether they are single or not have standerds,right?:) You are going to be the one that will have to ';deal'; with the person you are in a relashonship with so therfore, your standerds can never be too high! BUT remember everyone has bad things about them and knowone is perfect so you just try to overlook the bad as long as it is not to bad:) Good Luck!!!!
First of all - why are you only interested in listening to the advice of single people?





I would suggest that if you want to find out how to get a girlfriend, ask someone who has one how they did it!!!





Secondly, everyone is different and has different priorities in life. Putting relationahips first is not worng - this girl is just different from you. Sounds like you need to find someone you have more in common with.