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You are not a bad person! You just have to believe it!Please really need outher peoples advice on my? i asked thank you?
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Is there anyway to replay to peoples advice you get on answers.yahoo besides email??
Yahoo Answers is really a question and answers site. And not really designed to carry on conversations.
email is probably the best way to reply to someone who gives you an answer.Is there anyway to replay to peoples advice you get on answers.yahoo besides email??
when giving the the best answer you can leave comments and feedback.
I mean besides email/IM what do you expect? a phone conversation? send a personal letter and gift basket? how about asking them for their address so you can personally thank them. im sure they'd like that
email is probably the best way to reply to someone who gives you an answer.Is there anyway to replay to peoples advice you get on answers.yahoo besides email??
when giving the the best answer you can leave comments and feedback.
I mean besides email/IM what do you expect? a phone conversation? send a personal letter and gift basket? how about asking them for their address so you can personally thank them. im sure they'd like that
Other peoples advice is good to know too. ?
We are ttc. My period ended on the 7th of Nov. We had unprotected sex the whole week I was fertile and a few more times after that. I should start my period Friday. I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back neg. I know I should wait till after I miss my period. Do you still think there is a chance I could still get pregnant?Other peoples advice always help.Other peoples advice is good to know too. ?
yes yes you could still be pregnant. the hCG can also not be registered in your urine yet, just wait until your missed period!Other peoples advice is good to know too. ?
Yeah, you probably tested too early. Wait at least until the day (or the day before if you can't stand waiting any longer!) of your expected period. Good luck!!
you never know, try again on friday-good luck
yes there is a chance; just wait until u have a missed cycle then test. i just ovulated about a week or 2 ago. im not gonna test until the 29th which is suppose be when my cycle comes. good luck and lots of baby dust.
OMG i am supposed to start on thursday i too took a test already it too was neg so i am playing the waiting game as well.... i am going to test on sat...the longer you wait the better chance you got for it to show up !!!! (its so hard to wait though)
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yes yes you could still be pregnant. the hCG can also not be registered in your urine yet, just wait until your missed period!Other peoples advice is good to know too. ?
Yeah, you probably tested too early. Wait at least until the day (or the day before if you can't stand waiting any longer!) of your expected period. Good luck!!
you never know, try again on friday-good luck
yes there is a chance; just wait until u have a missed cycle then test. i just ovulated about a week or 2 ago. im not gonna test until the 29th which is suppose be when my cycle comes. good luck and lots of baby dust.
OMG i am supposed to start on thursday i too took a test already it too was neg so i am playing the waiting game as well.... i am going to test on sat...the longer you wait the better chance you got for it to show up !!!! (its so hard to wait though)
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Is there any advice out there on how to make my charcoal portraits of peoples' faces more natural?
Don't labor too long over them. Try and draw them quickly, like a gesture drawing. It all depends on your style. Make sure you use the entire value scale. I usually work on a gray paper and use charcoal and white chalk.
I need advices people!!!?
so I am cycle day 32 , and so far no signs of an period. I been having breast discomfort , and cramping that comes and goes..... also in the morning i noticed some watery discharge..... my last period was Jan 11 and took clomid on cd 5-9 . should i expecting a period of i took clomid?????Can it be a delayed period??? Plz help!!!
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i hope all goes well for you
period can be delayed for many reasons not just clomid
i hope this valentines day is extra special for you!I need advices people!!!?
I wish you luck! But if not don't get down because you can still make v day special by ttc on v day!!!! *BABY DUST* Good Luck I hope you are preggers!
please relax it can be normal to have these symptoms before a period if in doubt take a test.stella mccartney
ttc for 9 months
testing V day !I need advices people!!!?
i hope all goes well for you
period can be delayed for many reasons not just clomid
i hope this valentines day is extra special for you!I need advices people!!!?
I wish you luck! But if not don't get down because you can still make v day special by ttc on v day!!!! *BABY DUST* Good Luck I hope you are preggers!
please relax it can be normal to have these symptoms before a period if in doubt take a test.
I need peoples advice on a guy.?
i Started likening a guy.
i got a webcam
he saw me naked
he asked me out.
i said yes.
a few months l8r he broke up with me.
i found out he had a older,skinnier girl.
and i was just the one that made him horny.
i love him. i know he loved me. he anoyed the **** out of my friends cause i broke my phone and was supposed to get a new one. and he only got a new gf like a few days b4 he broke up with me and i my dads house if far from him but my mums isn't ans im usually at my mums. i nearly wagged school 4 him and he wants me to still go on webcam
we actually know each-other. im 13 hes 14. hes new gf is 16. we went to school togetherI need peoples advice on a guy.?
sorry, but you don't know what love is. you're thirteen. and the only reason he ';loved'; you was because you gave him an erection. that's NOT love. and you should not be showing yourself naked to anyone. you are thirteen. and if he got a new girlfriend days after breaking up with you then he also didn't love you. and if now he still wants you to go on webcam but doesn't want a relationship than he is just using you.
i know that's pretty harsh, but you're just hurting yourself. people can be cruel. forget about him. he doesn't love you, he wants your body not your personality. guys need to love you for the person that you are not the bra size you have or how skinny you are.I need peoples advice on a guy.?
You have no chance against a 16 year old girl right now.
i got a webcam
he saw me naked
he asked me out.
i said yes.
a few months l8r he broke up with me.
i found out he had a older,skinnier girl.
and i was just the one that made him horny.
i love him. i know he loved me. he anoyed the **** out of my friends cause i broke my phone and was supposed to get a new one. and he only got a new gf like a few days b4 he broke up with me and i my dads house if far from him but my mums isn't ans im usually at my mums. i nearly wagged school 4 him and he wants me to still go on webcam
we actually know each-other. im 13 hes 14. hes new gf is 16. we went to school togetherI need peoples advice on a guy.?
sorry, but you don't know what love is. you're thirteen. and the only reason he ';loved'; you was because you gave him an erection. that's NOT love. and you should not be showing yourself naked to anyone. you are thirteen. and if he got a new girlfriend days after breaking up with you then he also didn't love you. and if now he still wants you to go on webcam but doesn't want a relationship than he is just using you.
i know that's pretty harsh, but you're just hurting yourself. people can be cruel. forget about him. he doesn't love you, he wants your body not your personality. guys need to love you for the person that you are not the bra size you have or how skinny you are.I need peoples advice on a guy.?
You have no chance against a 16 year old girl right now.
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Well i already posted this but people want me not to capitalize blah blah blah... so heres my story... okay iam currently in a relationship with my boyfriend; whom i really love and know he is the one. we've been dating for a while now. We talk about marriage WE ARE NOT going to marry soon but you know how it is. so anywho my mom and sister always burst my bubble! My mom was married and he left her cheated on her and physically abused her and same as thing happened to my grandma. So now my sister recently got married to a guy 15yrs older then her... he totally turned out to be a total different person. so they always brag to me about how i shouldn't get married and tell me things to change my mind. I'am 18yrs old and plan to get married maybe in a year or two. for Valentines day he bought me a georgous ring and i sort of think my sister is jealous i dont know why but i feel that way... FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE am happy and they always kill it. my mom always talks bad about men because of her marriage then how my dad did her wrong he left us for his other family.
so i always thought bad about men but now that i met my boyfriend it turned my feelings around about how i feel about men. i honestly think he wont change which my sister and mom assure me he will.
We thought about getting married through civil without telling anyone and i dont know am getting scared and having second thoughts i want my family to be their i want it to be beautiful . Everyone who is married gives me bad advice. i need to know is their hope? are all marriages really that bad?... he asks me if i see a future with him and i dont know what to answer i do. But after hearin my mom so much i dont know what to think? am confusedI need peoples Advice!?
take the time to get to know your BF and make triple sure you aren't making the family mistake of marrying someone who will be bad for you.
your family history is rife with women who choose poorly and growing up with that example you can't help but instinctively repeat their bad behaviors when choosing your mate. So you need to make sure you are not repeating their mistakes.
Once you are sure that you have chosen wisely then you have to ignore the nay sayers. When they make complaints about your BF, don't go on auto defense mode of him and pay close attention to what they tell you is wrong so you can make sure that you have chosen wisely.
I understand your frustration. My mother had a really crappy history with men. I made sure that I learned from her mistakes. I knew that where men were concerned that my mother's opinion was worthless. If I brought someone home to meet the family and my mother didn't like him, I knew I chose right because I listened to her reasons why she didn't like someone and basically I was picking guys that if she had been dating she would have never picked. and even in the rare occasion I did pick someone who passed her shallow values, once she got to know him, she'd reject him again because he didn't meet her shallow criteria for who she would have chosen for herself. As long as I knew I was picking men she wouldn't want then I knew I was picking the right men for me. (mom liked hotties and never looked past the surface and was only concerned with how things looked to the outside world. She never paid attention to things like character and values and common interests so she always wound up with smoking hot wealthy self involved jerks who mistreated her and cheated on her. My dates were never good looking enough, were never wealthy enough, were too short, too thin, too fat, not white enough, too smart, blah blah blah)I need peoples Advice!?
You have to have a church wedding and your family has to pay for it.
If you love him and see a future with him, what;s the big rush? Wairt til you are financially stable and on your own at age 25. It NEVER hurts to wait...but rushing into it can be a disaster.
Not every man is going to abuse you. That's like saying every man is a cheater or a liar, or no good. Would you stop listening to all the poisonous bullsh*t. They are going to keep filling your head with crap and you need to tell them to cut it out.
I have a fabulous marriage. A great life, wonderful children. There is no abuse. There are no lies. There is no cheating. So no marriages are not all bad.
There are both bad men and women out there. I am sure your mom was just as much to blame for the failure of her marriage. I'm sure it just wasn't his fault. Same goes for your sister.
how old is he and how long have you been with him??
you are very young to be engaged and unless he is much older you are waaay too young, even in a couple years, to be getting married.
sorry but i wouldnt break it off but wait a few years.
I think you are heading into a path of divorce and abuse. Every woman in your family was abused, and if you want to get married early and ruin your life, you will be abused too.
Instead, leave him, get an education,enjoy your youth,and be single!
I totally understand,my mom goes based off her and my fathers relationship as well and i just feel that your mom sister and you should have a real talk on it and you have to explain respectfully how it bothers you and that yall are two different people and you dad and your boyfriend are also 2 different people.And you have to look at it like this too i mean as quick as you fell in love you can fall out i would wait atleast a couple more years i say 22 because with marriage comes responsibility ans you have to cut out things you may enjoy to prevent problems .ex:if you like to party he might too but after a while u may get curiou bout if he enjoy it to much or he may think that of you and lets say u get pregnate its more stress due to not a stable marriage and fustration but i say that im glad you are happy in a relationship and as long as he loves you like you love him yall will and can make it well hope this helps best of luck bye
you are going to hear that you are too young as most of your answers. well its true. you don't know if you are in love. i am divorced myself. i thought i was. i got married to my high school sweet heart. i waited three years before i asked her to marry me. your mother and sister have lived longer than you have, they have more experience about life than you do. you need to listen to them. i know right now you are like ';they are just jealous bc i got something good.'; look at one point of their life they did too, that's why they got married. as a guy i have to be honest, its hard to be married and not get urges to do things with other girls, but i wasn't the one who cheated. anyway, as a guy i have to say we are a$$holes, not all of us but the majority of us are. I should have listen to my mom, but i was stubborn and ignorant. you might want to listen to them they are only telling you for your own good. marriage changes a lot of things, and more responsibility. it is a journey that both of you have to go through. if one of you isn't willing, then it wont work.
so i always thought bad about men but now that i met my boyfriend it turned my feelings around about how i feel about men. i honestly think he wont change which my sister and mom assure me he will.
We thought about getting married through civil without telling anyone and i dont know am getting scared and having second thoughts i want my family to be their i want it to be beautiful . Everyone who is married gives me bad advice. i need to know is their hope? are all marriages really that bad?... he asks me if i see a future with him and i dont know what to answer i do. But after hearin my mom so much i dont know what to think? am confusedI need peoples Advice!?
take the time to get to know your BF and make triple sure you aren't making the family mistake of marrying someone who will be bad for you.
your family history is rife with women who choose poorly and growing up with that example you can't help but instinctively repeat their bad behaviors when choosing your mate. So you need to make sure you are not repeating their mistakes.
Once you are sure that you have chosen wisely then you have to ignore the nay sayers. When they make complaints about your BF, don't go on auto defense mode of him and pay close attention to what they tell you is wrong so you can make sure that you have chosen wisely.
I understand your frustration. My mother had a really crappy history with men. I made sure that I learned from her mistakes. I knew that where men were concerned that my mother's opinion was worthless. If I brought someone home to meet the family and my mother didn't like him, I knew I chose right because I listened to her reasons why she didn't like someone and basically I was picking guys that if she had been dating she would have never picked. and even in the rare occasion I did pick someone who passed her shallow values, once she got to know him, she'd reject him again because he didn't meet her shallow criteria for who she would have chosen for herself. As long as I knew I was picking men she wouldn't want then I knew I was picking the right men for me. (mom liked hotties and never looked past the surface and was only concerned with how things looked to the outside world. She never paid attention to things like character and values and common interests so she always wound up with smoking hot wealthy self involved jerks who mistreated her and cheated on her. My dates were never good looking enough, were never wealthy enough, were too short, too thin, too fat, not white enough, too smart, blah blah blah)I need peoples Advice!?
You have to have a church wedding and your family has to pay for it.
If you love him and see a future with him, what;s the big rush? Wairt til you are financially stable and on your own at age 25. It NEVER hurts to wait...but rushing into it can be a disaster.
Not every man is going to abuse you. That's like saying every man is a cheater or a liar, or no good. Would you stop listening to all the poisonous bullsh*t. They are going to keep filling your head with crap and you need to tell them to cut it out.
I have a fabulous marriage. A great life, wonderful children. There is no abuse. There are no lies. There is no cheating. So no marriages are not all bad.
There are both bad men and women out there. I am sure your mom was just as much to blame for the failure of her marriage. I'm sure it just wasn't his fault. Same goes for your sister.
how old is he and how long have you been with him??
you are very young to be engaged and unless he is much older you are waaay too young, even in a couple years, to be getting married.
sorry but i wouldnt break it off but wait a few years.
I think you are heading into a path of divorce and abuse. Every woman in your family was abused, and if you want to get married early and ruin your life, you will be abused too.
Instead, leave him, get an education,enjoy your youth,and be single!
I totally understand,my mom goes based off her and my fathers relationship as well and i just feel that your mom sister and you should have a real talk on it and you have to explain respectfully how it bothers you and that yall are two different people and you dad and your boyfriend are also 2 different people.And you have to look at it like this too i mean as quick as you fell in love you can fall out i would wait atleast a couple more years i say 22 because with marriage comes responsibility ans you have to cut out things you may enjoy to prevent problems .ex:if you like to party he might too but after a while u may get curiou bout if he enjoy it to much or he may think that of you and lets say u get pregnate its more stress due to not a stable marriage and fustration but i say that im glad you are happy in a relationship and as long as he loves you like you love him yall will and can make it well hope this helps best of luck bye
you are going to hear that you are too young as most of your answers. well its true. you don't know if you are in love. i am divorced myself. i thought i was. i got married to my high school sweet heart. i waited three years before i asked her to marry me. your mother and sister have lived longer than you have, they have more experience about life than you do. you need to listen to them. i know right now you are like ';they are just jealous bc i got something good.'; look at one point of their life they did too, that's why they got married. as a guy i have to be honest, its hard to be married and not get urges to do things with other girls, but i wasn't the one who cheated. anyway, as a guy i have to say we are a$$holes, not all of us but the majority of us are. I should have listen to my mom, but i was stubborn and ignorant. you might want to listen to them they are only telling you for your own good. marriage changes a lot of things, and more responsibility. it is a journey that both of you have to go through. if one of you isn't willing, then it wont work.
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She just left tonight, was suppose to be here till Sunday....In Military...we were going to celebrate her Birthday Saturday night, but now she is on her way back to her apt.(in Florida, 800 miles away) had to leave.....I want to send her something to arrive at her place ON her Birthday, Valentines Day.....no jewelry....has a 2 1/2 yr old....any ideas????....C'mon Yahoo people I know you won't let me down!!!!Need Yahoo Q%26amp;A peoples advice...Valentines Day is Daughters Birthday...need gift idea...anyone????
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Peoples advice on the spirit that follows me?
have one in my house for my story to make scence i have to go back to december last year. when me and some of my family went to alelaide and vist a family friend who was a physic. ever scince then i have been interseted in spirits and stuff. only recently when i choose to do a project at school on spirits and i stared to understand what they were. sceretly i want to be able to talk to spirits (not knowintg anything about how bad they can be) so in my head i called out to the spirirts and asked them to talk to me. big mistake. ever scince then strange things have been happening that only i can hear. like footsteps and things moving in rooms when noone is in there. and only just recentaly i went to my friends house and it followed me there to.
and now i cant get rid of it. should i try to get rid of it. what should i do
Peoples advice on the spirit that follows me?
My ';Best-Advice'; on the spirit that follows you is to BREAK OFF (ALL CONTACT) With It !Peoples advice on the spirit that follows me?
inviting spirits into your house and life is very serious. Please stop NOW. If your are a christian you can do this but if not find someone who is to help. Your house must be anointed and the spirits told to leave in the name of Jesus [Yahshua] Don't mess with stuff again. I would advice you to start go to church if you don't already.applying eyeshadow
and now i cant get rid of it. should i try to get rid of it. what should i do
Peoples advice on the spirit that follows me?
My ';Best-Advice'; on the spirit that follows you is to BREAK OFF (ALL CONTACT) With It !Peoples advice on the spirit that follows me?
inviting spirits into your house and life is very serious. Please stop NOW. If your are a christian you can do this but if not find someone who is to help. Your house must be anointed and the spirits told to leave in the name of Jesus [Yahshua] Don't mess with stuff again. I would advice you to start go to church if you don't already.
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Hi, i would like to work as a waitress at a strip club because i've heard people say that they make good money and nowdays i need extra cash...
the thing is that i do not have the perferct body, people say that i look fine .
my question is: are there physical requirements to work at strip club, whether you dance or not?
thank you.I need advices from people who know!?
As long as your butt doesn't look like two Volkswagen's passing in an alley you will be fine. It's all in the attitude hon !!! Go for it !!!I need advices from people who know!?
I used to be good friends with this one girl who was a stripper. She did NOT have a good body. She had nice legs and big breast, but she had been pregnant a lot so her stomach looked disgusting! She really did have a nice gut on her and she had stretch marks and c-section scars and everything. But she made good money and guys would always take her out.
Strippers don't always have to have that movie star look they don't even have to have an hourglass figure they just have to pay attention to the guy. That is what about 95% of the who go come to have some female company. My friend had charm and she paid attention to the guy to make him feel like he was the only person there.
So if you work the bar or waitress there just flirt with the guys you need to make your tips too. But you may want to look into serving in a reasurant that you know is always busy like in the nightlife area of your city or a commerical place like Fridays or Cheesecake Factory.
Best of luck to you.
I'll share my story with you because it's important
I don't have the best body but I have an inner confidence that was dying to get out
After my divorce I danced at this club, I did it for me not because I needed the money but because I wanted to.
Just keep a good attitude and have fun while your young!
There were some ladies who were twice my age dancing and we all made awesome tips.
There's more to the story but I have to go look for worms for a baby bird my son brought home 'Sigh'
Have an awesome day!
Duchess
I agree with #1. Confidence, personality, and enthusiasm. I know a lot of gross people who would get more tips working in a strip club because they strut their stuff. If you're going to work there for the tips, be the person you need to be in order to get the dough. Just be careful!
Not really. You need to be attractive, but not perfect. The major thing is attitude. I've known some girls with horrible bodies, but they make tons at stripping. Yes, they're overweight, have cellulite, but they make big bucks. It's all about attitude. You won't make much money unless you've got attitude.
Just wear clothes that are sexy, but look good on you.
Why would you want to work at a place as disgusting as that and degrade yourself? It's not worth the money. There are plenty of other places to make really good money! It's horrible.
Confidence.
the thing is that i do not have the perferct body, people say that i look fine .
my question is: are there physical requirements to work at strip club, whether you dance or not?
thank you.I need advices from people who know!?
As long as your butt doesn't look like two Volkswagen's passing in an alley you will be fine. It's all in the attitude hon !!! Go for it !!!I need advices from people who know!?
I used to be good friends with this one girl who was a stripper. She did NOT have a good body. She had nice legs and big breast, but she had been pregnant a lot so her stomach looked disgusting! She really did have a nice gut on her and she had stretch marks and c-section scars and everything. But she made good money and guys would always take her out.
Strippers don't always have to have that movie star look they don't even have to have an hourglass figure they just have to pay attention to the guy. That is what about 95% of the who go come to have some female company. My friend had charm and she paid attention to the guy to make him feel like he was the only person there.
So if you work the bar or waitress there just flirt with the guys you need to make your tips too. But you may want to look into serving in a reasurant that you know is always busy like in the nightlife area of your city or a commerical place like Fridays or Cheesecake Factory.
Best of luck to you.
I'll share my story with you because it's important
I don't have the best body but I have an inner confidence that was dying to get out
After my divorce I danced at this club, I did it for me not because I needed the money but because I wanted to.
Just keep a good attitude and have fun while your young!
There were some ladies who were twice my age dancing and we all made awesome tips.
There's more to the story but I have to go look for worms for a baby bird my son brought home 'Sigh'
Have an awesome day!
Duchess
I agree with #1. Confidence, personality, and enthusiasm. I know a lot of gross people who would get more tips working in a strip club because they strut their stuff. If you're going to work there for the tips, be the person you need to be in order to get the dough. Just be careful!
Not really. You need to be attractive, but not perfect. The major thing is attitude. I've known some girls with horrible bodies, but they make tons at stripping. Yes, they're overweight, have cellulite, but they make big bucks. It's all about attitude. You won't make much money unless you've got attitude.
Just wear clothes that are sexy, but look good on you.
Why would you want to work at a place as disgusting as that and degrade yourself? It's not worth the money. There are plenty of other places to make really good money! It's horrible.
Confidence.
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im 10 days late with my period pregnancy test keep coming back negitive. that happend with my mom when she was pregnant with me she didnt find out untill she was 4 months pregnant finally a home test came back positive. does anybody know if thats genetic if it happend with my mom could that happen with me to just curious.Need peoples advice?
you should go to a Dr. or planned parenthood they have tests that are more sensitive to the pregnancy hormone.Need peoples advice?
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Home pregnancy tests are very sensitive today and it is rare for them not to detect a pregnancy when your period is already late (if you are indeed pregnant).
You should go to your doc and get a blood test. That is the only way to be sure!
I suppose it's possible. If you want a more accurate pregnancy test, go to your doctor and get a blood test done to test for pregnancy.
ask mom or dr
I say the same as the 1st 1 but also..it could be like the footsteps of ur moms pregnancy
Thats how my mom was wit my sister, I bet your pregnent.
you should go to a Dr. or planned parenthood they have tests that are more sensitive to the pregnancy hormone.Need peoples advice?
Get a blood test %26amp; it will tell you for sure.
Home pregnancy tests are very sensitive today and it is rare for them not to detect a pregnancy when your period is already late (if you are indeed pregnant).
You should go to your doc and get a blood test. That is the only way to be sure!
I suppose it's possible. If you want a more accurate pregnancy test, go to your doctor and get a blood test done to test for pregnancy.
ask mom or dr
I say the same as the 1st 1 but also..it could be like the footsteps of ur moms pregnancy
Thats how my mom was wit my sister, I bet your pregnent.
I need some FUN PEOPLES ADVICE!! ;)?
okay so i am skipping school tomorrow and heres where u come in. ;) i want to make tomorrow special and really fun and memorable. ill be home and need ideas of fun and crazy stuff to do. the point is that i want to have a really good time and do something crazy and cut loose or whatever. so please help me...tell me anything. lol and u should have auctually done it so that i will do it. THANKS ANY IMPUT IS APPRECIATED :):)I need some FUN PEOPLES ADVICE!! ;)?
Grab a friend and go to a lake and go swimming!
Grab a friend and go to a lake and go swimming!
I want muslims peoples advice?
i amin love with a married man he is muslim. i have been with him for 8 years. we have one child together, which is 5 years old. his wife knows about me and our child. his wife has accepted our child to go and same at the house where she lives with this man i am inlove with. as hes still with his wife. he has three children with his wife and one is married off. but he said he needs to marry off his other two children off before he can be with me and that will be a few years yet? are muslim familys like this ? is it a must? and why does his wife accept this whole **** when she knows he will always see me behind her back and know about us. she just keeps taking him back and he always chooses her over me . is he there for the children or is he there because off his wife?I want muslims peoples advice?
Dont do it!!!
You are best out of it all!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqHUdwePf鈥?/a>I want muslims peoples advice?
Hi to you,
I am not a religous person, and do not know much about the beliefs of Muslims...But.. he has informed you he needs to marry off his other two children off before he can be with you.
Therefor He must be practsing the religon of a Muslim..I think..
Yet in those beliefs does it not state,he should only be with/marry a person of the same religon.
And all other religons are ...some word cannot think of it at mo; but traslated means 'rubbish' (and that is polite translation)
He is probably with wife as she is excepted by his Famiy, he may be able to beat her, goodnes knows!
His wife may even be happy he has you, at least he don't bother her so much.
He is there,as he can have good Muslim Family, seen by Family/etcetera...great Husband and Daddy.....(Albeit I think not..) in the community.
Plus He has you, and unfortunately you state you love him.
I don't know if He loves you as a Man should love a woman, do you think he loves he's Wife? The Mother of His precious Children!!!!
IF (A BIG IF) you ever really got him, he would do toyou what he is doing to his wife...
This is only what I think...natually I could be wrong, but I think you should try to stop loving him, I know it will be hard..... but there are many nice single guys with no ties out there.
I got two handsome single Sons....any offers.............lol :-)
Good Luck to you.
hes having his cake and eating it-who wouldnt -he does because you allow him to
Sorry I am not muslim but I would like to offer you advise. I would suggest that if your man still puts his wife first it is because he has more respect for her than he does for you. I think that you should leave well alone and find a single man who wants to be with you and you alone. I am sure that your daughter will have a brighter future if she is just visiting dad at his house and not seeing him get the best of both worlds. As I said I am not muslim but I am certain that this is not the way regular muslim families conduct there lives. I have to say his wife must be something to put up with this behaviour from her husband. Before you go any futher consider your daughter and ask yourself if your daughter was treated like this by a man in her adult years would you be happy. Then remember that your daughter thinks this is how normal family life is. Think of that man's wife as well daoes she deserve to be treated like this ?
allah says in the quran...'; marry women of your choice, one , two, three up to four, BUT if you cannot do justice between them, marry ONLY one.';....its clear there is no justice he is giving for both of you..if he spend a night with his first wife, he MUST also spend a night with you, and if he buys a candy for his first wife, he should buy a candy also for you. he should not treat you as a mistress. a muslim can have 4wives (with equal justice) but not a mistress. if your married to him , you are legally entitled to ALL THE RIGHTS the first wife has together with your children, THAT IS IF YOUR MARRIED TO HIM LEGALLY IN ISLAM, but if your not, you are still a mistress, its HARAM( sin) for him and for you to live together.
In Islam there's no hokey pokey outside of marriage. As the bit on the side you are and always will be a non-entity. Even when the dude's children are grown up and spewing forth babies, he will say that he 'has stay and provide for his first wife, or Allah will strike him down and it'll be all your fault'.
If you wanted rights you'd have asked him to marry you (polygamy will afford you certain rights in Muslim countries).
He is getting his cake and eating it, and you are demented enough to believe he respects or loves either one of his women.
He wants comfort, not truth or love. If you were clever you'd tell him to take a hike.
Oh girl. No, Muslim families are not like this. Abusive, messed-up, self-centered men and the women who love them are like this. His wife clearly has no self-respect, and you are hanging on to a pipe dream if you think that he will ever marry you. Married men who fool around with other women--Muslim, Christian, Athiest, whatever--are not typically interested in serious relationships with those women. He has a child with you and he is not married to you? He has to get his other children married off first? He is feeding you a line. Even if he married you ';islamically';, it would likely not be acceptable according to Islamic law (are you a widow or orphan? Is there a shortage of marriagable men for you? Is he going to provide you with exactly the same financial and emotional support that he provides his other wife? Didn't think so.)
I think that women who accept being in a plural marriage in a society where that is not legally recognized, such as the US, are quite foolish, and I say that as a Muslim woman. You will have no rights as a second wife under US law, and he will not be accountable to you in any way (though he is accountable for helping to support your child with him).
He's using his family as an excuse for his unwillingness to commit to you, and since he is obviously incapable of even commiting to his ACTUAL, LEGAL wife, why do you think he would commit to you, even if he left her?
1st off all I assure you not all muslim families like this. its his wife right to be jealous from you. imagine your self in her situation! you will hate the other woman and will try your best to let her go.
I advise you to try to talk to him cleary and if it needed talk to his wife.
Good Luck
Hi,
Alrite , being a muslim il tell you why..
the first thing is that , in our religion we dont date ppl if we ARE married , seems like this guy is nuts to fall for you , and to be honest we will mostly end up never living with you...because he has childern from his first marriage..
Please dnt take me wrong but muslim guys dont get enough out of there wife thatswhy y they run after other women ,
and later dump them because they've had enough..
The wife will never let her husband walk towards you because we as muslim's dnt break our relations no matter wht happens..So the best advice to you my freind is your best to dump him before he dumps you..
Im nt being rude or anything.. just saving you frm what mite be cuming.. Once the guy has had enough out of you.( uve got his child now) he will probly find someone else and see them behind ur backk.. and then you can feel how his wife feels..
Asian guys never have enough off a women .. they think '; the more the merry'; ...So if i was you id think about it...
Ok wht made you thinnk youu would want to ruin someones happy married life..we all know love is blind but didnt you think what the outcome will be if he is married , woulld you want to be sitting there and waiting for a man who is still with this first wife and children..If the guy has kids.. he is surely having a great life... so in other words ur his time pass not his need , if ur were his need then he would come to you without thinking how may children he has to marry off, coz then that wouldnt be him problem..
You and Your child would be his priopty if he really loved you..
because if my husband was dating someone behind my back i wouldnt really bother cuz then wen he dumps her , she will realise wht it is like to break sumone's married life...
Hope this helps you.. Just saw ur questions and felt like giving you a honest answer to wht we see in our daily life as muslim's..
Good Luck..
Take care..
In our religion he is allowed four wives on one condition and that is to treat them equally.As in all religions we are not allowed to have an intimate relation outside weddlock,to have one that's a big mistake and not only is he doing this but also had a child too,being in his wife shoe I would look the other side and let him do what he wants as long as he is doing all and I mean all his duties.He is using his children as an excuse so think about it.
i am sorry if this will hurt you but I think you have been stupid. I am not sure if u are a muslim but as far as I am aware Islam protects the rights of women. I am a muslim feminist and dont take **** from men because in my opinion most muslim men do not potray true Islam. You have allowed yourself to be used. Your relatiuonship with this man is Haram. What have u been looking at for the past 8 years. His wife is a wise woman and knows how to keep her man. In Africa where I come from, we have very endurant women who dont care who their men see as long as He is married only to them. Such women exhibit a high level of diplomacy and tact.
If he really wants you he would have married you years ago. He is even asking you to wait till he marries off his kids. What gives u the assurance he will act as promised? My dear wake up and wipe off this 'love' thing off your head. We women fall in love 'stupidly' and blindly. You should not take abuse from any man. I still maintain my stand and say you have been used. May Allah forgive me but in my opinion this man is not practising proper Islam.
Either you ask him to marry you NOW, come to see your parents and ask for your hand in marriage or walk away from this sinful relationship, ask Allah for forgiveness and guidance and start your life afresh.
I am a very emotional person and fall in love easily but I will never trade my dignity or self respect for anything. If a man thinks I am of value, then he should make me his bride!
May Allah help you.
Dont do it!!!
You are best out of it all!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqHUdwePf鈥?/a>I want muslims peoples advice?
Hi to you,
I am not a religous person, and do not know much about the beliefs of Muslims...But.. he has informed you he needs to marry off his other two children off before he can be with you.
Therefor He must be practsing the religon of a Muslim..I think..
Yet in those beliefs does it not state,he should only be with/marry a person of the same religon.
And all other religons are ...some word cannot think of it at mo; but traslated means 'rubbish' (and that is polite translation)
He is probably with wife as she is excepted by his Famiy, he may be able to beat her, goodnes knows!
His wife may even be happy he has you, at least he don't bother her so much.
He is there,as he can have good Muslim Family, seen by Family/etcetera...great Husband and Daddy.....(Albeit I think not..) in the community.
Plus He has you, and unfortunately you state you love him.
I don't know if He loves you as a Man should love a woman, do you think he loves he's Wife? The Mother of His precious Children!!!!
IF (A BIG IF) you ever really got him, he would do toyou what he is doing to his wife...
This is only what I think...natually I could be wrong, but I think you should try to stop loving him, I know it will be hard..... but there are many nice single guys with no ties out there.
I got two handsome single Sons....any offers.............lol :-)
Good Luck to you.
hes having his cake and eating it-who wouldnt -he does because you allow him to
Sorry I am not muslim but I would like to offer you advise. I would suggest that if your man still puts his wife first it is because he has more respect for her than he does for you. I think that you should leave well alone and find a single man who wants to be with you and you alone. I am sure that your daughter will have a brighter future if she is just visiting dad at his house and not seeing him get the best of both worlds. As I said I am not muslim but I am certain that this is not the way regular muslim families conduct there lives. I have to say his wife must be something to put up with this behaviour from her husband. Before you go any futher consider your daughter and ask yourself if your daughter was treated like this by a man in her adult years would you be happy. Then remember that your daughter thinks this is how normal family life is. Think of that man's wife as well daoes she deserve to be treated like this ?
allah says in the quran...'; marry women of your choice, one , two, three up to four, BUT if you cannot do justice between them, marry ONLY one.';....its clear there is no justice he is giving for both of you..if he spend a night with his first wife, he MUST also spend a night with you, and if he buys a candy for his first wife, he should buy a candy also for you. he should not treat you as a mistress. a muslim can have 4wives (with equal justice) but not a mistress. if your married to him , you are legally entitled to ALL THE RIGHTS the first wife has together with your children, THAT IS IF YOUR MARRIED TO HIM LEGALLY IN ISLAM, but if your not, you are still a mistress, its HARAM( sin) for him and for you to live together.
In Islam there's no hokey pokey outside of marriage. As the bit on the side you are and always will be a non-entity. Even when the dude's children are grown up and spewing forth babies, he will say that he 'has stay and provide for his first wife, or Allah will strike him down and it'll be all your fault'.
If you wanted rights you'd have asked him to marry you (polygamy will afford you certain rights in Muslim countries).
He is getting his cake and eating it, and you are demented enough to believe he respects or loves either one of his women.
He wants comfort, not truth or love. If you were clever you'd tell him to take a hike.
Oh girl. No, Muslim families are not like this. Abusive, messed-up, self-centered men and the women who love them are like this. His wife clearly has no self-respect, and you are hanging on to a pipe dream if you think that he will ever marry you. Married men who fool around with other women--Muslim, Christian, Athiest, whatever--are not typically interested in serious relationships with those women. He has a child with you and he is not married to you? He has to get his other children married off first? He is feeding you a line. Even if he married you ';islamically';, it would likely not be acceptable according to Islamic law (are you a widow or orphan? Is there a shortage of marriagable men for you? Is he going to provide you with exactly the same financial and emotional support that he provides his other wife? Didn't think so.)
I think that women who accept being in a plural marriage in a society where that is not legally recognized, such as the US, are quite foolish, and I say that as a Muslim woman. You will have no rights as a second wife under US law, and he will not be accountable to you in any way (though he is accountable for helping to support your child with him).
He's using his family as an excuse for his unwillingness to commit to you, and since he is obviously incapable of even commiting to his ACTUAL, LEGAL wife, why do you think he would commit to you, even if he left her?
1st off all I assure you not all muslim families like this. its his wife right to be jealous from you. imagine your self in her situation! you will hate the other woman and will try your best to let her go.
I advise you to try to talk to him cleary and if it needed talk to his wife.
Good Luck
Hi,
Alrite , being a muslim il tell you why..
the first thing is that , in our religion we dont date ppl if we ARE married , seems like this guy is nuts to fall for you , and to be honest we will mostly end up never living with you...because he has childern from his first marriage..
Please dnt take me wrong but muslim guys dont get enough out of there wife thatswhy y they run after other women ,
and later dump them because they've had enough..
The wife will never let her husband walk towards you because we as muslim's dnt break our relations no matter wht happens..So the best advice to you my freind is your best to dump him before he dumps you..
Im nt being rude or anything.. just saving you frm what mite be cuming.. Once the guy has had enough out of you.( uve got his child now) he will probly find someone else and see them behind ur backk.. and then you can feel how his wife feels..
Asian guys never have enough off a women .. they think '; the more the merry'; ...So if i was you id think about it...
Ok wht made you thinnk youu would want to ruin someones happy married life..we all know love is blind but didnt you think what the outcome will be if he is married , woulld you want to be sitting there and waiting for a man who is still with this first wife and children..If the guy has kids.. he is surely having a great life... so in other words ur his time pass not his need , if ur were his need then he would come to you without thinking how may children he has to marry off, coz then that wouldnt be him problem..
You and Your child would be his priopty if he really loved you..
because if my husband was dating someone behind my back i wouldnt really bother cuz then wen he dumps her , she will realise wht it is like to break sumone's married life...
Hope this helps you.. Just saw ur questions and felt like giving you a honest answer to wht we see in our daily life as muslim's..
Good Luck..
Take care..
In our religion he is allowed four wives on one condition and that is to treat them equally.As in all religions we are not allowed to have an intimate relation outside weddlock,to have one that's a big mistake and not only is he doing this but also had a child too,being in his wife shoe I would look the other side and let him do what he wants as long as he is doing all and I mean all his duties.He is using his children as an excuse so think about it.
i am sorry if this will hurt you but I think you have been stupid. I am not sure if u are a muslim but as far as I am aware Islam protects the rights of women. I am a muslim feminist and dont take **** from men because in my opinion most muslim men do not potray true Islam. You have allowed yourself to be used. Your relatiuonship with this man is Haram. What have u been looking at for the past 8 years. His wife is a wise woman and knows how to keep her man. In Africa where I come from, we have very endurant women who dont care who their men see as long as He is married only to them. Such women exhibit a high level of diplomacy and tact.
If he really wants you he would have married you years ago. He is even asking you to wait till he marries off his kids. What gives u the assurance he will act as promised? My dear wake up and wipe off this 'love' thing off your head. We women fall in love 'stupidly' and blindly. You should not take abuse from any man. I still maintain my stand and say you have been used. May Allah forgive me but in my opinion this man is not practising proper Islam.
Either you ask him to marry you NOW, come to see your parents and ask for your hand in marriage or walk away from this sinful relationship, ask Allah for forgiveness and guidance and start your life afresh.
I am a very emotional person and fall in love easily but I will never trade my dignity or self respect for anything. If a man thinks I am of value, then he should make me his bride!
May Allah help you.
Why DONT we give each other EMAILS and START talking? (people sometimes need others opinion and advices)?
I'M NOT A HACKER or something...
but really i was thinking...WHY not to have people u dont knw on ur list...just to talk ..its good (culturally) and spirtually.
ThanxWhy DONT we give each other EMAILS and START talking? (people sometimes need others opinion and advices)?
because the amount of nuts on the web outnumber the amount of nuts Peter Pan puts in it's peanut butter!
but really i was thinking...WHY not to have people u dont knw on ur list...just to talk ..its good (culturally) and spirtually.
ThanxWhy DONT we give each other EMAILS and START talking? (people sometimes need others opinion and advices)?
because the amount of nuts on the web outnumber the amount of nuts Peter Pan puts in it's peanut butter!
Seriously....i help people....STOP reporting me, i just want advice.??
-_- i am writting a poem for this guy i like, and when he reads it, he wont know that its about him (we're both writters and we talk all the time) plz give me advice on if i need to change/get rid of/add anything. thanx.this is NOT a lovey dovey poem.
';breaking dawn, breaks my heart.
you'd have to take away all my abuse.
turn this madness into art.
for my expression stays hidden.
i hate myself for doing this.
too many truths
and the after taste is akward.
a blend of colour.
to spark a fire
seaching
for what i'll never find.
(unfinished)Seriously....i help people....STOP reporting me, i just want advice.??
Great poem certainly better than i could ever do i would say almost perfect but the second paragraph - i hate myself ...and so on needs some more work so when you say it the you don't have to think about the rhythm it just comes to you like the rest of the poem absolutely brilliant!
Well Done!Seriously....i help people....STOP reporting me, i just want advice.??
One way to post your poems and not get the reported is to ask ';Can you help me improve?'; or something along those lines... this is what the Y/A officials told one of my friends... I hope that it helps you get your poems through in the future...
I think you've done it! It is very sad and to the point. I'm sorry you're are having such a confusing, conflicting, agonizing relationship! I hope you find some happiness.
akward. ...?
You're doing it wrong.
My opinion that I posted on this the 2nd time you posted still stands... Brilliant! I have very little critique that I can offer...
Blessed Be in the Second Time Around, Sirenapplying eyeshadow
';breaking dawn, breaks my heart.
you'd have to take away all my abuse.
turn this madness into art.
for my expression stays hidden.
i hate myself for doing this.
too many truths
and the after taste is akward.
a blend of colour.
to spark a fire
seaching
for what i'll never find.
(unfinished)Seriously....i help people....STOP reporting me, i just want advice.??
Great poem certainly better than i could ever do i would say almost perfect but the second paragraph - i hate myself ...and so on needs some more work so when you say it the you don't have to think about the rhythm it just comes to you like the rest of the poem absolutely brilliant!
Well Done!Seriously....i help people....STOP reporting me, i just want advice.??
One way to post your poems and not get the reported is to ask ';Can you help me improve?'; or something along those lines... this is what the Y/A officials told one of my friends... I hope that it helps you get your poems through in the future...
I think you've done it! It is very sad and to the point. I'm sorry you're are having such a confusing, conflicting, agonizing relationship! I hope you find some happiness.
akward. ...?
You're doing it wrong.
My opinion that I posted on this the 2nd time you posted still stands... Brilliant! I have very little critique that I can offer...
Blessed Be in the Second Time Around, Siren
I have gotten alot of good answer from you good people and I will take all of the advice you all have given.?
I gain the weight when I went to prison 2 years ago, also the meds I was on for depression help put the weight on me also. I am in the prosess of tring to get rid of the weight but it is not easy. I doing it for me not him. Like someone said if he can't love me for who or what I am he needs to be on his way. ThanksI have gotten alot of good answer from you good people and I will take all of the advice you all have given.?
Right on cool, I'm happy for you and you have a very positive attitude so, I wish you all the best and take care.
Chow.I have gotten alot of good answer from you good people and I will take all of the advice you all have given.?
Losing the weight for your self is the best way to loose the weight and to keep it off. Good Luck!
good attitude! hope you're successful.....but how is this a question??
Right on cool, I'm happy for you and you have a very positive attitude so, I wish you all the best and take care.
Chow.I have gotten alot of good answer from you good people and I will take all of the advice you all have given.?
Losing the weight for your self is the best way to loose the weight and to keep it off. Good Luck!
good attitude! hope you're successful.....but how is this a question??
Troubles with religion, people, and my faith. Anyone have any advice?
I am a huge skeptic. Ever since I was a sophomore in High school (I'm a college freshman now) I have stopped following my family's beliefs blindly and have been questioning everything I come across.
Since then I have been stressed out when it comes to religion and theism. I just don't know what to do.
Religion scares me. So does the Bible, preachers, priests, churches, etc. My problem is I don't trust other people or sources when it should come to a ';relationship'; with a higher power.
I don't feel that the Bible is a good source because of the level of superstition in it. I just cannot believe in MY HEART that there was a talking snake, a huge flood with two of each animal, earth's creation in seven days, Jesus rising from the dead etc.
I don't feel preachers, priests, and other people are necessary. If God is real, then I feel my relationship and connection to him should be one on one. I don't need a middle source.
And then there is Jesus. I'm having a very difficult time with that. Born of a virgin? Rose from the dead after three days? This does not come across me as realism. This comes across as superstition.
You can tell yourself and other you believe in something. But deep down inside, you do not. You cannot force yourself to believe in anything. That's what this is all about.
I feel I can never trust the Bible, or Church, or other people when it comes to a relationship with a higher power. And I feel the story of Jesus is pure mythology.
It stresses me out so much. My lack of faith in what Christianity teaches stresses my parents out and they feel ';heartbroken and will never be the same';.
I conclude with this: I am still skeptical when it comes to God (not necessarily the Christian one) but may accept that possibilities.
When it comes to religion and the things that go with it: I hate it and want to stay away.
Any information for someone to stressed and not knowing which way to go?Troubles with religion, people, and my faith. Anyone have any advice?
I'm not sure what you're trying to say here... are you telling us that you feel a call to honor God in some form, but that Christianity (which is what you've been describing) scares you?
In that case, it might be a matter of investigating the hundreds of other religions that are nothing like Christianity. A religion such as Wicca, which has no Bible or central hierarchy, accepts the validity of science, and in which every trained member is a priest/ess responsible for their own relationship with our Gods, might be more comfortable for you. Or the Belief-o-Matic quiz might help you to find a religion/philosophy that best suits you.
http://www.beliefnet.com/Entertainment/Q鈥?/a>
Best of luck to you, wherever your path may lead you.Troubles with religion, people, and my faith. Anyone have any advice?
Wow man I have been going through that for years. I was disowned by my grandparents when I told them the same thing. My wife also got disowned by her grandparents disowned her as well. Now my six year old has no family left how can I explain to her what happened. I would definately say that christianity has done me in. I only allow my child to go to church 1 time a month and I will try to keep her open minded so that she doesn't feel that she needs the bible or church because I don't want her to be scared into believing that a man was a god, which I can assure you is not true. I am 27 years old and I have been struggling with heaven and hell for a while and i can tell you the more and more research you do into it you will find that the translations are rong with the word hell. You know you can believe in a god and after life without picking up the bible, although I would recommend reading all religious texts no matter what religion. I think that there is a peace of the truth in all religious texts, I have read them all. Regaurdless of the claim no one knows what happens after we die and never will. Please don't let your family scare you back into being a radical christian. Most religions were political movements anyway. We also have to take into consideration what sort of god watches over us. A guy wo walcks around causing miracles just zapping things into existance, or a type of intelligence that webs through everything. Wow their are so many more peaceful alternatives to christianity, you should check them out or just keep your own beliefs to yourself so that your family doesn't disown you. I have been attacked by my own college professor and other students in my class over this issue and you can't win. GOOD LUCK arguing beliefs of the after life has been going on since the beginning of man and continues on.
Follow the path that is right for you. If other's object, you need to ignore them. Even your parents will come to accept it over time.
I'd say it's time to stop listening to everyone else and start listening to yourself. You were given the information you need from others, but now it's time to get introspective. They're not the ones who can tell you how you feel or think about some of these ideas you've been taught - only you can do that. And you'll know in your heart what is right for YOU. Just you. Only you. Even if you end up believing in something that many others do, it's still only you that must be at peace with the way you worship and believe (or even not at all). It's got to feel right, and something you can trust with all your heart.
Good luck on your path.
Be deliberate and fair about your questioning. Come to the conclusion that there is a truth to pursue and make it your goal to find it. Ask leaders and intellectuals in various faiths, including Christianity, to help answer these questions for you.
Lastly and most importantly, reach out to God and ask him to reveal who he is.
Since then I have been stressed out when it comes to religion and theism. I just don't know what to do.
Religion scares me. So does the Bible, preachers, priests, churches, etc. My problem is I don't trust other people or sources when it should come to a ';relationship'; with a higher power.
I don't feel that the Bible is a good source because of the level of superstition in it. I just cannot believe in MY HEART that there was a talking snake, a huge flood with two of each animal, earth's creation in seven days, Jesus rising from the dead etc.
I don't feel preachers, priests, and other people are necessary. If God is real, then I feel my relationship and connection to him should be one on one. I don't need a middle source.
And then there is Jesus. I'm having a very difficult time with that. Born of a virgin? Rose from the dead after three days? This does not come across me as realism. This comes across as superstition.
You can tell yourself and other you believe in something. But deep down inside, you do not. You cannot force yourself to believe in anything. That's what this is all about.
I feel I can never trust the Bible, or Church, or other people when it comes to a relationship with a higher power. And I feel the story of Jesus is pure mythology.
It stresses me out so much. My lack of faith in what Christianity teaches stresses my parents out and they feel ';heartbroken and will never be the same';.
I conclude with this: I am still skeptical when it comes to God (not necessarily the Christian one) but may accept that possibilities.
When it comes to religion and the things that go with it: I hate it and want to stay away.
Any information for someone to stressed and not knowing which way to go?Troubles with religion, people, and my faith. Anyone have any advice?
I'm not sure what you're trying to say here... are you telling us that you feel a call to honor God in some form, but that Christianity (which is what you've been describing) scares you?
In that case, it might be a matter of investigating the hundreds of other religions that are nothing like Christianity. A religion such as Wicca, which has no Bible or central hierarchy, accepts the validity of science, and in which every trained member is a priest/ess responsible for their own relationship with our Gods, might be more comfortable for you. Or the Belief-o-Matic quiz might help you to find a religion/philosophy that best suits you.
http://www.beliefnet.com/Entertainment/Q鈥?/a>
Best of luck to you, wherever your path may lead you.Troubles with religion, people, and my faith. Anyone have any advice?
Wow man I have been going through that for years. I was disowned by my grandparents when I told them the same thing. My wife also got disowned by her grandparents disowned her as well. Now my six year old has no family left how can I explain to her what happened. I would definately say that christianity has done me in. I only allow my child to go to church 1 time a month and I will try to keep her open minded so that she doesn't feel that she needs the bible or church because I don't want her to be scared into believing that a man was a god, which I can assure you is not true. I am 27 years old and I have been struggling with heaven and hell for a while and i can tell you the more and more research you do into it you will find that the translations are rong with the word hell. You know you can believe in a god and after life without picking up the bible, although I would recommend reading all religious texts no matter what religion. I think that there is a peace of the truth in all religious texts, I have read them all. Regaurdless of the claim no one knows what happens after we die and never will. Please don't let your family scare you back into being a radical christian. Most religions were political movements anyway. We also have to take into consideration what sort of god watches over us. A guy wo walcks around causing miracles just zapping things into existance, or a type of intelligence that webs through everything. Wow their are so many more peaceful alternatives to christianity, you should check them out or just keep your own beliefs to yourself so that your family doesn't disown you. I have been attacked by my own college professor and other students in my class over this issue and you can't win. GOOD LUCK arguing beliefs of the after life has been going on since the beginning of man and continues on.
Follow the path that is right for you. If other's object, you need to ignore them. Even your parents will come to accept it over time.
I'd say it's time to stop listening to everyone else and start listening to yourself. You were given the information you need from others, but now it's time to get introspective. They're not the ones who can tell you how you feel or think about some of these ideas you've been taught - only you can do that. And you'll know in your heart what is right for YOU. Just you. Only you. Even if you end up believing in something that many others do, it's still only you that must be at peace with the way you worship and believe (or even not at all). It's got to feel right, and something you can trust with all your heart.
Good luck on your path.
Be deliberate and fair about your questioning. Come to the conclusion that there is a truth to pursue and make it your goal to find it. Ask leaders and intellectuals in various faiths, including Christianity, to help answer these questions for you.
Lastly and most importantly, reach out to God and ask him to reveal who he is.
Please help me people. i REALLY am in need of advice!?
is this a good idea?
im really wanting to talk to my ex (he broke up with me, nothing really went wrong except he was having family problems and this misunderstanding thing) it has been almost 3 months since we have talked. we never really talked about what went wrong and a true conversation over this breakup. he still did like me before he broke up with me. I have this strange feeling he still wants me back.. i can just sence it. and i feel like he needs me now (im not trying to build myself way up there but, all of his ';friends'; dont really like him anymore and he doesnt have a ';true friend'; he can tell anything too) i used to be the one that he told everything to. hes become a really different person and i know hes different on the inside... i know hes still the same boy i know and love. and i havent talked to him since he broke up with me, sure hi's and bye's here and there but not a true conversation. i want to show him ill always be there. will it push him farther away? ='[Please help me people. i REALLY am in need of advice!?
I think it's a great idea to talk to him again and maybe even get back with him. The important thing is to not dive in at the deep end and be too deep. Just maybe call him and say you were wondering how he's doing. After that have a nice long conversation and turn the conversation round to the break up and make your feelings know to him if you think the time is right!................... but the most important thing is to get back in touch with him because he obviously means a lot to you, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!Please help me people. i REALLY am in need of advice!?
i'd talk to him,,,that's would be the best thing to do in your situation!! good luck! =)
No it wont, but if he was interested in you, he'd have contacted you.
Keep it simple, and send him a SIMPLE letter or email. Then leave it up to him....That way you wont look desperate or make a fool of yourself.
no, he'll like the support, its time to put away your past and be friends again
im really wanting to talk to my ex (he broke up with me, nothing really went wrong except he was having family problems and this misunderstanding thing) it has been almost 3 months since we have talked. we never really talked about what went wrong and a true conversation over this breakup. he still did like me before he broke up with me. I have this strange feeling he still wants me back.. i can just sence it. and i feel like he needs me now (im not trying to build myself way up there but, all of his ';friends'; dont really like him anymore and he doesnt have a ';true friend'; he can tell anything too) i used to be the one that he told everything to. hes become a really different person and i know hes different on the inside... i know hes still the same boy i know and love. and i havent talked to him since he broke up with me, sure hi's and bye's here and there but not a true conversation. i want to show him ill always be there. will it push him farther away? ='[Please help me people. i REALLY am in need of advice!?
I think it's a great idea to talk to him again and maybe even get back with him. The important thing is to not dive in at the deep end and be too deep. Just maybe call him and say you were wondering how he's doing. After that have a nice long conversation and turn the conversation round to the break up and make your feelings know to him if you think the time is right!................... but the most important thing is to get back in touch with him because he obviously means a lot to you, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!Please help me people. i REALLY am in need of advice!?
i'd talk to him,,,that's would be the best thing to do in your situation!! good luck! =)
No it wont, but if he was interested in you, he'd have contacted you.
Keep it simple, and send him a SIMPLE letter or email. Then leave it up to him....That way you wont look desperate or make a fool of yourself.
no, he'll like the support, its time to put away your past and be friends again
BIRD ADVICE PLEASE! for BIRD LOVERS ONLY!(or if Ur good at convincing people!)?
okay i just moved to Colorado from NYC. i had two parrots, but i had to give them 2 my bff sarah. i am 12 and i really want to get another makaw. but my mom wont let me tho!!!! i am trying to convinse her to get me a parrolet, cockatoo, cockatiel, african grey or a conure, but all she says is when u move out of the house u can get watever u want. i cant wait that long tho! how do i convinse her? (w/o her killing me 4 bugging her sooooooooo much? THX!BIRD ADVICE PLEASE! for BIRD LOVERS ONLY!(or if Ur good at convincing people!)?
Giving up pets can be hard, and it's normal to want to replace them quickly.
First I'd find out why she is saying no, and then work with that. At 12 years old, she may not feel that she needs to explain her reasoning to you, and that is her right, and if that's the case, you need to honor your mother and respect her decision.BIRD ADVICE PLEASE! for BIRD LOVERS ONLY!(or if Ur good at convincing people!)?
first find out exactly WHY she won't let you have another one first
I think you should listen to your mom I mean she is the boss. You should listen to her and be patient about getting a bird and just wait until you arrive to your new home. I'm too a bird lover I know how that feels.
cry and complain til she can't take anymore
I'm 13 so i understand about parents so, what you should do is try to make her feel guilty about saying no if that doesn't work try to brive like you will pay for it and do dishes for a month straight....if that doesn't work then try to work on a smaller bird like a parrakeet they are in the parrot family and they can talk if you train them they are quiet and don't stink easy to clean and they have the cutest chirp they love to chatter i know about parakeets becaus i own two of them and i've had them for 3 years and parakeets live up to 15-20 years.If none of these ideas work then i'm sorry.I hoped I helped!
Good Luck!
Just tell her You will take care of it like you did with your last bird
tell her you will keep it in your room and take care of it and if you get one and cant take care of it or she dont like it after a few weeks you will give it away
What park of nyc are you from?
I'm moving to Astoria queens
I don't want to be mean, but I know this will most certainly come out that way.
At twelve you really shouldn't be raising anything bigger than a cockatiel.
Sure you can do it, but who's really taking care of the pet? Your mother.
Larger parrots are a big BIG resposibility, and although you want one so badly you need to think if it would be fair to the animal if you can give it the kind of attention it deserves.
Who's going to watch the bird when you're out playing or go somewhere with your family?
Smaller birds can make due, but larger parents are like having kids.
And at 12, you're not ready for a kid.
Where in Colorado do you live? If I were you, I would begin volunteering at a Parrot Rescue. That way, you can be around birds, but they won't be in your Mom's hair.
There is a good one outside of Aspen called ';The Gabriel Foundation';. The Founder's name is Julie Murad. Here's the link to their website:
http://www.thegabrielfoundation.org/Home鈥?/a>
If you absolutely have to have Parrots in your life, this would be a way to accomplish 2 things.
1. You will be helping a very worthy organization.
2. You will be proving to your Mom how important they are to you and how responsible you are volunteering at a wonderful non-profit organization. This might help your case with getting your birds back.
You can also mention this volunteer work on College Applications when you are getting ready to apply to College. It looks really good.
Be prepared for the gritty work: You'll be washing food bowls, cleaning cages, sweeping floors, changing newspaper, cutting up veggies, and wiping up parrot poop. But you will be around birds. And if it's that important to you, this is a very honorable way to go about it.
Good Luck!
She's your mom, what she says goes. Sorry hon, but her house, her rules.
Tell her you will clean the house for a month or more.
what i would do is listen to your mom.
getting the birds and taking care of them is easier said than done.
and letting them go when it's their time is the hardest thing ever.
i currently have 11 parakeets, and ive lost 3 in the past year: 2 to tumors, 1 to a heartache
one of mine i lost this past thursday (nov. 2)
so listen to your mom, she definitely knows what shes talking about.
why did you have to give the first two away for?
who did the maintance and up keep on your birds??
they can be quite messy and loud I agree with your mom i'm sure she has her reasons..
ask her for a smaller bird like a budge . they are easier to take care of
Giving up pets can be hard, and it's normal to want to replace them quickly.
First I'd find out why she is saying no, and then work with that. At 12 years old, she may not feel that she needs to explain her reasoning to you, and that is her right, and if that's the case, you need to honor your mother and respect her decision.BIRD ADVICE PLEASE! for BIRD LOVERS ONLY!(or if Ur good at convincing people!)?
first find out exactly WHY she won't let you have another one first
I think you should listen to your mom I mean she is the boss. You should listen to her and be patient about getting a bird and just wait until you arrive to your new home. I'm too a bird lover I know how that feels.
cry and complain til she can't take anymore
I'm 13 so i understand about parents so, what you should do is try to make her feel guilty about saying no if that doesn't work try to brive like you will pay for it and do dishes for a month straight....if that doesn't work then try to work on a smaller bird like a parrakeet they are in the parrot family and they can talk if you train them they are quiet and don't stink easy to clean and they have the cutest chirp they love to chatter i know about parakeets becaus i own two of them and i've had them for 3 years and parakeets live up to 15-20 years.If none of these ideas work then i'm sorry.I hoped I helped!
Good Luck!
Just tell her You will take care of it like you did with your last bird
tell her you will keep it in your room and take care of it and if you get one and cant take care of it or she dont like it after a few weeks you will give it away
What park of nyc are you from?
I'm moving to Astoria queens
I don't want to be mean, but I know this will most certainly come out that way.
At twelve you really shouldn't be raising anything bigger than a cockatiel.
Sure you can do it, but who's really taking care of the pet? Your mother.
Larger parrots are a big BIG resposibility, and although you want one so badly you need to think if it would be fair to the animal if you can give it the kind of attention it deserves.
Who's going to watch the bird when you're out playing or go somewhere with your family?
Smaller birds can make due, but larger parents are like having kids.
And at 12, you're not ready for a kid.
Where in Colorado do you live? If I were you, I would begin volunteering at a Parrot Rescue. That way, you can be around birds, but they won't be in your Mom's hair.
There is a good one outside of Aspen called ';The Gabriel Foundation';. The Founder's name is Julie Murad. Here's the link to their website:
http://www.thegabrielfoundation.org/Home鈥?/a>
If you absolutely have to have Parrots in your life, this would be a way to accomplish 2 things.
1. You will be helping a very worthy organization.
2. You will be proving to your Mom how important they are to you and how responsible you are volunteering at a wonderful non-profit organization. This might help your case with getting your birds back.
You can also mention this volunteer work on College Applications when you are getting ready to apply to College. It looks really good.
Be prepared for the gritty work: You'll be washing food bowls, cleaning cages, sweeping floors, changing newspaper, cutting up veggies, and wiping up parrot poop. But you will be around birds. And if it's that important to you, this is a very honorable way to go about it.
Good Luck!
She's your mom, what she says goes. Sorry hon, but her house, her rules.
Tell her you will clean the house for a month or more.
what i would do is listen to your mom.
getting the birds and taking care of them is easier said than done.
and letting them go when it's their time is the hardest thing ever.
i currently have 11 parakeets, and ive lost 3 in the past year: 2 to tumors, 1 to a heartache
one of mine i lost this past thursday (nov. 2)
so listen to your mom, she definitely knows what shes talking about.
why did you have to give the first two away for?
who did the maintance and up keep on your birds??
they can be quite messy and loud I agree with your mom i'm sure she has her reasons..
ask her for a smaller bird like a budge . they are easier to take care of
Trying to meet people to go out on a date? Advice, preferably from a woman...?
Here's the situation. I'm 21 and I've never dated outside of a blind date once. I talk with girls, but I've gotten rejected twice in the past month. I tried an Internet site (can see pictures, city where they live) and a girl said she would like to meet up sometime. The next day, though I asked her if I could call her sometime to hear her voice and she never sent me another message. I waited two days and sent her another message asking her how her weekend went. Was I too forward here? Also, there were two other girls that I liked. One I met once and wanted to talk with in class at college. Would it be rude to ask to sit next to her tomorrow? The other girl is pretty and my friend from class is giving her my email and Facebook profile, but I don't know if she gave it to her yet. I have confidence, but I'm beginning to think I won't be with any of the girls, and it hurts because they're all pretty and they can all probably get bfs easily. Sorry for the long post.Trying to meet people to go out on a date? Advice, preferably from a woman...?
Well...the one girl you might have been a little forward with. The others why dont you give it a try and I think you should sit next to her in class. Kepp trying and good luck.Trying to meet people to go out on a date? Advice, preferably from a woman...?
You need to put yourself out there more. Pretty girls are simply that ';pretty girls';. They arent aliens! I would bet you that out of 100 pretty girls, 75 of them would tell you that they NEVER get asked out. One or two simple trys is just not enough. So my answer to you is....YES! Ask her if you can sit by her tomorrow! If she says no, too bad for her, and ask another. Have fun with this, a few rejections isnt fun, but let it build you into a more confident dating machine! Try telling yourself that, the worst she can say is NO. And that should help. You seem like a sweet guy...keep on trying and good luck.
Well, I'm 24 and my bf had to ask me more than once before I gave in to him. I didn't show much interest, actually ignored him until he started showing me aspects of himself that was outside the cliche I'd heard of with guys. Long story short, he showed me how much he valued me above others and now, we're getting closer and very open with each other... that is sharing interests and stuff... we enjoy each other's company. Hope that helps you a lot; good luck!
Well...the one girl you might have been a little forward with. The others why dont you give it a try and I think you should sit next to her in class. Kepp trying and good luck.Trying to meet people to go out on a date? Advice, preferably from a woman...?
You need to put yourself out there more. Pretty girls are simply that ';pretty girls';. They arent aliens! I would bet you that out of 100 pretty girls, 75 of them would tell you that they NEVER get asked out. One or two simple trys is just not enough. So my answer to you is....YES! Ask her if you can sit by her tomorrow! If she says no, too bad for her, and ask another. Have fun with this, a few rejections isnt fun, but let it build you into a more confident dating machine! Try telling yourself that, the worst she can say is NO. And that should help. You seem like a sweet guy...keep on trying and good luck.
Well, I'm 24 and my bf had to ask me more than once before I gave in to him. I didn't show much interest, actually ignored him until he started showing me aspects of himself that was outside the cliche I'd heard of with guys. Long story short, he showed me how much he valued me above others and now, we're getting closer and very open with each other... that is sharing interests and stuff... we enjoy each other's company. Hope that helps you a lot; good luck!
Advice for 19 yr old gay guy (gay people preferred)?
Well Im a 19 year old guy, and i have been dating a 32 year old man. Im a college student, and he is working on his Phd. I dated him because he seems kind, wise, and attracts me. He is also European, and I wanted to date someone who is nonamerican because the american culture, and american gay guys make me sick. Anyway, i dont know if this is going to work out especially because of our age differences 9i dont care he is 32 though), and because I need to know him more. Im not sure if he could be any different from typical gay american gays, since I am a relationship kind of person, and Im a virgin by the way (which means that Im not into play).
PS: I was dissapointed in him recently because he had a friend visit him from Florida who is gay. But says he is just friends with him. He told me he had sex with him about a year and a half before (because I asked him if they had anything to do with each other before).What do you think people?Advice for 19 yr old gay guy (gay people preferred)?
Yeah hes older, and wise. Id say leave him find another guy your age, let your love for each other become an adventure, romantic, and fulfilling as you discoverer each other (to me that sounds fun, you both will get to know eachother and work on your feelings ect just imagine it all) this man sound manipulative, you 19 virgin, and hes a 32 gay man with lots of experiences, he might just want to do you and use your bottom for his own game, and when hes dun just drop you. In sort a bottie call, yeah and more then likely he had sex with that one guy, because he was not getting any, so he lied but told the truth about having sex in the past to gain your trust even more. To me it sounds like hes playing a game. Id move on if i were you. Oh btw Im American :P Not offended, but that is kinda ignorant of you to subjugate every gay American like that. Its like all the straight people saying gays have HIV or are weird. ';There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance.'; SocratesAdvice for 19 yr old gay guy (gay people preferred)?
I either like them younger or older my age doesnt really attract me unless they look lots older
First of all, what do you mean nonamerican? most of the american culture is made up of people from europe....now that i got that out of the way; if my boyfriend went and visited a girl he used to sleep with i would not be havin it ; but i am a jealous person and i try not to hid it; you may be comfortable with you boyfriend being around people he used to sleep with i think thats your personal choice but it seems you are not ok with it if your own here trying to get other peoples advice; my best advice is to keep your guard up because you cant get hurt that way.
Hello.
The past is best left in the past. Don't Analyze things so much.
You are responsible for how you feel. If you feel good around him, age shouldn't be an issue. We always try to bring baggage into new or fairly new relationships, just let things be. Enjoy yourself, love, smile, the head will always play tricks on us. Be in the moment.
Uhmm I'd personally like a guy more my age but if that works for you then fine but since he's older, he could be more devilish and might be planning something behind your back (eg. using you as his sex... ya). See, 19 year old guys wouldn't think of things like that... OK I have no idea what I'm talking about I'll shut up.
as long as ur happy i suppose your find but id never date someone more then 6 yrs older then me but then again true love is true love
I'm an older man in love with a younger man from a different country and culture. We've been together for 1.5 years. The age difference, the language difference and the culture differences do present problems, but we have been able to deal with them pretty darn well.
Bottom line? The differences do present problems, but they can be addressed.
A well adjusted 32 year old man would not enter into a relationship with a 19 year old guy expecting something serious.
Ignore the age for a minute, it seems you have an issue with him going away %26amp; seeing an old flame. if you trust him, hang onto him, if not, you need to talk to him. Talk first, if you act rashly you may regret it.
I believe u'd be better off attempting to be heterosexual as the gay life sucks and leaves a continual bad taste in one's mouth the **** ain't normal and it will NEVER. EVER work in the long run. it is man and woman or NOTTA. just my personal opinion. i HATE being called gay or referenced to the disgusting , grotesque community.applying eyeshadow
PS: I was dissapointed in him recently because he had a friend visit him from Florida who is gay. But says he is just friends with him. He told me he had sex with him about a year and a half before (because I asked him if they had anything to do with each other before).What do you think people?Advice for 19 yr old gay guy (gay people preferred)?
Yeah hes older, and wise. Id say leave him find another guy your age, let your love for each other become an adventure, romantic, and fulfilling as you discoverer each other (to me that sounds fun, you both will get to know eachother and work on your feelings ect just imagine it all) this man sound manipulative, you 19 virgin, and hes a 32 gay man with lots of experiences, he might just want to do you and use your bottom for his own game, and when hes dun just drop you. In sort a bottie call, yeah and more then likely he had sex with that one guy, because he was not getting any, so he lied but told the truth about having sex in the past to gain your trust even more. To me it sounds like hes playing a game. Id move on if i were you. Oh btw Im American :P Not offended, but that is kinda ignorant of you to subjugate every gay American like that. Its like all the straight people saying gays have HIV or are weird. ';There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance.'; SocratesAdvice for 19 yr old gay guy (gay people preferred)?
I either like them younger or older my age doesnt really attract me unless they look lots older
First of all, what do you mean nonamerican? most of the american culture is made up of people from europe....now that i got that out of the way; if my boyfriend went and visited a girl he used to sleep with i would not be havin it ; but i am a jealous person and i try not to hid it; you may be comfortable with you boyfriend being around people he used to sleep with i think thats your personal choice but it seems you are not ok with it if your own here trying to get other peoples advice; my best advice is to keep your guard up because you cant get hurt that way.
Hello.
The past is best left in the past. Don't Analyze things so much.
You are responsible for how you feel. If you feel good around him, age shouldn't be an issue. We always try to bring baggage into new or fairly new relationships, just let things be. Enjoy yourself, love, smile, the head will always play tricks on us. Be in the moment.
Uhmm I'd personally like a guy more my age but if that works for you then fine but since he's older, he could be more devilish and might be planning something behind your back (eg. using you as his sex... ya). See, 19 year old guys wouldn't think of things like that... OK I have no idea what I'm talking about I'll shut up.
as long as ur happy i suppose your find but id never date someone more then 6 yrs older then me but then again true love is true love
I'm an older man in love with a younger man from a different country and culture. We've been together for 1.5 years. The age difference, the language difference and the culture differences do present problems, but we have been able to deal with them pretty darn well.
Bottom line? The differences do present problems, but they can be addressed.
A well adjusted 32 year old man would not enter into a relationship with a 19 year old guy expecting something serious.
Ignore the age for a minute, it seems you have an issue with him going away %26amp; seeing an old flame. if you trust him, hang onto him, if not, you need to talk to him. Talk first, if you act rashly you may regret it.
I believe u'd be better off attempting to be heterosexual as the gay life sucks and leaves a continual bad taste in one's mouth the **** ain't normal and it will NEVER. EVER work in the long run. it is man and woman or NOTTA. just my personal opinion. i HATE being called gay or referenced to the disgusting , grotesque community.
ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
ok so i have been kissing this guy for a while now and i think the world of him...but....before i ever met this guy i had met a guy who at first came across as abit of a big headed and cocky git however over time we became friends and now 8 months on we still chat and often meet up for nites out and a catch up...nothing has ever happened between us but recently i know that he has become close to a girl and even though i know we are just friends and i have no feelings for him sexually i mean i kinda found myself feeling mad or i suppose u cud call it jealous...this is the forst time that i actually even thought that perhaps i may have feelings for him and all of a sudden i have found myself comparing him to the guy i have been with for awhile now and wondering if maybe i have made the right decision...im really confused as before this i never would have done this or perhaps thought to myself that maybe there mite be something more to our friendship. but could i really like the two guys at once and if so what should i do??stay with the guy im with or maybe see could i work something with the other guy???Thanks XADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
I'd stick with who you're comfortable with.
If you can't really decide then weigh up the likelyness of a long-term relationship with each guy in turn and decide based on that.
One thing's pretty certain. If either one finds out about the other then chances are they'll both split with you so make a decision before that has a chance to happen.
Hope this helps =)ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
Sounds like jealously
I'd stick with who you're comfortable with.
If you can't really decide then weigh up the likelyness of a long-term relationship with each guy in turn and decide based on that.
One thing's pretty certain. If either one finds out about the other then chances are they'll both split with you so make a decision before that has a chance to happen.
Hope this helps =)ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
Sounds like jealously
Why do some people still stick to the old fashioned advice of ';Wait until marriage';?
A) Odds are, unless I really, really try, I wouldn't marry a virgin, so why should she get the so called ';honor'; that you say comes with being someones first time. Wouldn't that seem a tad bit unfair?
B) Willpower is a commodity, and there are better uses for it.
C) It's in our nature to have sex. I'm 19, peak age anyway.
D) Religion is slowly losing ground. Most teenagers I know are atheists.
E) This whole waiting-advice-thing ****** up my highschool years! Dammit, could have gotten laid that entire god damn time. But noooo, stupid advice anyway...
So WHY do people still say ';Wait until you're married!'; or something along those lines?Why do some people still stick to the old fashioned advice of ';Wait until marriage';?
BECAUSE SEX ISN'T A CASUAL THING!
sex was made to be shared between two people, and only two people. it wasn't made so we can throw it around on any god damn person we want to... so what if religion is losing ground? some people still believe! it's in our nature to have sex because we are supposed to use it in the correct ways... yes, it's in our nature...but if you have sex with every person you date, when you eventually get married than not only is your wife sleeping with all your past exes but you are sleeping with hers!
it's a special thing, meant to be shared with one person... and one person ONLY!Why do some people still stick to the old fashioned advice of ';Wait until marriage';?
I have no idea why some women wait until they are married. the only ones I know who did that, their marriages didn't last.
To me, sex is half of a marriage. (Money problems the other half) You should be sure you are compatable in the bedroom.
Marriage is a human institution you use to dull the fear of dying alone. It's an absurdity! It is nothing more than a desperate attempt to deny the reality of their existance--the reality that each of them is doomed from the very moment you are born. It is this reality that drives you, this reality that you seek so desperately to hide from, this one gnawing and inescapable truth that you are going to die, and there is nobody who can save you. Like love, it is the insipid construct of a feeble human intellect. It makes no difference what you do. The end is inevitable. So engage in your sexual pleasures while your human body is in existence.
B) Willpower is a commodity, and there are better uses for it.
C) It's in our nature to have sex. I'm 19, peak age anyway.
D) Religion is slowly losing ground. Most teenagers I know are atheists.
E) This whole waiting-advice-thing ****** up my highschool years! Dammit, could have gotten laid that entire god damn time. But noooo, stupid advice anyway...
So WHY do people still say ';Wait until you're married!'; or something along those lines?Why do some people still stick to the old fashioned advice of ';Wait until marriage';?
BECAUSE SEX ISN'T A CASUAL THING!
sex was made to be shared between two people, and only two people. it wasn't made so we can throw it around on any god damn person we want to... so what if religion is losing ground? some people still believe! it's in our nature to have sex because we are supposed to use it in the correct ways... yes, it's in our nature...but if you have sex with every person you date, when you eventually get married than not only is your wife sleeping with all your past exes but you are sleeping with hers!
it's a special thing, meant to be shared with one person... and one person ONLY!Why do some people still stick to the old fashioned advice of ';Wait until marriage';?
I have no idea why some women wait until they are married. the only ones I know who did that, their marriages didn't last.
To me, sex is half of a marriage. (Money problems the other half) You should be sure you are compatable in the bedroom.
Marriage is a human institution you use to dull the fear of dying alone. It's an absurdity! It is nothing more than a desperate attempt to deny the reality of their existance--the reality that each of them is doomed from the very moment you are born. It is this reality that drives you, this reality that you seek so desperately to hide from, this one gnawing and inescapable truth that you are going to die, and there is nobody who can save you. Like love, it is the insipid construct of a feeble human intellect. It makes no difference what you do. The end is inevitable. So engage in your sexual pleasures while your human body is in existence.
Troubled Lover (only people who actually can help and gimme advice)?
I met this girl at the end of last year, we knew each other before but never really hung out or anything. Then we both were at this lil party thing and ended up making out. A week later we hung out again at another party and made out again. From that point we were kinda a couple but never boyfriend girlfriend. We hung out and dated all summer. During the summer tho, she broke up with me twice even tho we got back together both times. The one time she broke up with me for her old boyfriend of 2 years. The other time because she got upset with me for gettin mad at her all the time for ditching me, which she did quite a few times. There were times when we got along great and other times when we fought but we always made up. About a month ago i decided i really did like her and i snuck out and walked 2 miles in the middle of the night just to ask her out. Things were great and i was extremely happy. We have alot of mutual friends and hang out all the time. But just yesterday we were supposed to go over to her house to hang out (me and my friend and her friend who have a thing). Right before that tho she said she didnt really wanna hang out which confused me because shouldnt your girlfriend who says she loves you always wanna be with you, so i asked her why and she got smart and we argued for a while then just stopped talking. However we still went to her that house that night and we didn't talk all night and it was awkward. But today i felt bad like i always do, because im such a sucker for her and even if something is her fault ill apologize. I texted and called her a few times all day but she didnt respond utnil i left a text asking her to please just talk to me. She responded telling me she didnt wanna deal with me right now, and i asked why and she said I was acting gay last night, which i might have been but so was she. IT was a two way thing. And now she says she wants her space....
I love the girl, i really actually love this girl. She is the first girl i think i have ever loved. She makes me happier then anyone else can, yet she can rip me to pieces just saying the smallest things. I don;t know what to do with this girl. With the fighting, the constant worry of her secretly talking to her ex boyfriend again, and the just overally sadness she can make me feel sometimes. I just want an opinion on what they think i should do.Troubled Lover (only people who actually can help and gimme advice)?
It sounds like you're spending too much time with her. If she says she wants her space, give her space. She wouldn't say it if she didn't need it. You probably don't realize that you are clinging to her because you love her so much and it's so unfamiliar. As far as the question about time-spending's relation to love, the answer is no. Loving someone doesn't mean they should always want to be with you. Plenty of people need alone time. The healthiest thing is to back it off a little and let her have some time to miss you, which is something she can't do when you're around. If the relationship can work, you won't find that out by invading her personal space.Troubled Lover (only people who actually can help and gimme advice)?
Feeling for girls are fake as our believes in general especially when you're young so forget it. and get going on.
I truly commend anyone who reads this essay. Cut it down a bit and you will get more answers
wow thats a long storie,
well i dont think a couple need to be with each other 24/7
people do need their space at time, girls are difficult they sometime just want to have their space without being question it can be really hard, if you do ask them you can come off as bossy and nosey. if you hang out with someone too much they'll get sick of you and fights begins
just wait and give her time
move on... there must be someone else! I am having the same problem!
answer mine please?
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You know what dude? Just go with the flow. Every sweet guy should that her gf is always right. But if you think that she's abusing you, then dump her. But now, all you have to do is be sweet and caring to her like tomorrow will be the last day of your life. Then always ask her out. about four times a week. Eat with her. And also, if you are going to her house or yours, go with her alone, don't go with people because if you're with a guy, she would think you are a gay, and if with a girl, she would think you like the girl.
Hope it all goes WELL
-Lance
You know, this exact same thing happened to my brother. He was dating a girl and she kept on breaking up with him for stupid stupid reasons. And of course he did some stupid things, but he really did love her and it was the first girl he ever loved.
You wanna know what happened. They broke up for the sixth time, he moved, and they don't talk anymore. He moved on and is dating other people now. And he's happy.
So, my advice is to move on. If she doesn't want to deal with you, say ';fine'; and don't let her deal with you.
I'm sure you want to make this work. But, maybe you two do need a little space for a bit. People tend to want what they don't have. If you want her back, give her space, and she may or may not come back to you. It's kind of a reverse psychology thing. Give her what she wants and you may get what you want in return.
i can tell you really love her. love can bite you in the a-- though. only lovers can fight like that. but she will cheat on you again and again. i would 4get and 4give 4 now. if she dumps you one more time than screw her. i can tell your an excellent guy and she doesn't deserve you. you can get any girl you want.
I understand your concern...i get paranoid too about some of my gfs sometimes communicatiing with their ex...but judging by her behavior it looks like she already is...to avoid hurting yourself in the future consult her about it...and if things did'nt work out just forget about her..i did the same thing last time...it hurts but love goes on forever bro...good luck...
This actually happened to me.
Love can be a real ***** sometimes.
To tell you the truth, I think you should just be friends. It's not worth the pain of fighting all the time just for that small, fleeting moment of happiness.
Do what your heart says, and it will work out in the end.
it sounds like she might have someone else. she is making excuse so she doesn't have to see you, and picking fights with you.You even said she broke up with you for this other boyfriend. open your eyes guy. she was never yours. you can do much better. find someone who deserves you.
ok lets start here. give her space if you think about it what choice do you have. sometimes if you want that other person to think about you, miss you, she will not be able to if you are on her constantly .I suggest you find another girl to date. do not feel bad or guilty, she is telling you to, she probably wants to hang out with her old friends. so why you are home worrying about her ,feeling bad, she is out having a good time, not even thinking about you . so please continue dating there are other women who would love your company and as soon as you find a nice girl to date, your girlfriend will be bothering you all the time she don';t want you but she don';t want anyone else to have you . start dating someone else and watch. Be careful you do not fall in love with someone else I know you can not think that way right now but do not waste your time it goes by fast good luck
Dude i know exactly what ur going through, the same thing is happening with with this girl she doesn't text me back either and she treats me like **** but i keep going back 2 her and she is even talking to her ex 2. Its crazy how similar our stories are im just going to move on by hanging out with some different girls i think you should do the same.
I think your best bet would be to let it be for a few days, let her settle down. Then, send her an email (not a text) asking what is wrong. Be as thoughtful and nice as possible so she understands that you are concerned about her. I wouldn't drop the ';But I love you'; bomb just yet, but if things get better it might re-assure her. Good luck lover-boy!
Give the girl her space. You can not make someone want to be with you. It sounds as though she has some issues she is confused about. Neediness will not win her back. You might like to reevaluate how this relationship developed. It sounds as though it was not on stable ground to begin with, you sort of approached it backwards. A firm foundation of mutual respect should come before making out. Clear boundaries about what constitutes a relationship will help you next time. Maybe this will work out, maybe it won't. It is okay to feel bad and grieve for a while, but don't wallow. Do not let her string you along, treat both of you with honesty and respect. Best Wishes to You.
see ...if a relationship is normal and satisfying you should not have to write this question . the very fact that you have written this shows you have deep doubts ..and dear man if you are in love there is either love or not ..no doubts ...love is like math .. if you are thinking too much while solving the answer .... very probably your answer is wrong
I love the girl, i really actually love this girl. She is the first girl i think i have ever loved. She makes me happier then anyone else can, yet she can rip me to pieces just saying the smallest things. I don;t know what to do with this girl. With the fighting, the constant worry of her secretly talking to her ex boyfriend again, and the just overally sadness she can make me feel sometimes. I just want an opinion on what they think i should do.Troubled Lover (only people who actually can help and gimme advice)?
It sounds like you're spending too much time with her. If she says she wants her space, give her space. She wouldn't say it if she didn't need it. You probably don't realize that you are clinging to her because you love her so much and it's so unfamiliar. As far as the question about time-spending's relation to love, the answer is no. Loving someone doesn't mean they should always want to be with you. Plenty of people need alone time. The healthiest thing is to back it off a little and let her have some time to miss you, which is something she can't do when you're around. If the relationship can work, you won't find that out by invading her personal space.Troubled Lover (only people who actually can help and gimme advice)?
Feeling for girls are fake as our believes in general especially when you're young so forget it. and get going on.
I truly commend anyone who reads this essay. Cut it down a bit and you will get more answers
wow thats a long storie,
well i dont think a couple need to be with each other 24/7
people do need their space at time, girls are difficult they sometime just want to have their space without being question it can be really hard, if you do ask them you can come off as bossy and nosey. if you hang out with someone too much they'll get sick of you and fights begins
just wait and give her time
move on... there must be someone else! I am having the same problem!
answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
You know what dude? Just go with the flow. Every sweet guy should that her gf is always right. But if you think that she's abusing you, then dump her. But now, all you have to do is be sweet and caring to her like tomorrow will be the last day of your life. Then always ask her out. about four times a week. Eat with her. And also, if you are going to her house or yours, go with her alone, don't go with people because if you're with a guy, she would think you are a gay, and if with a girl, she would think you like the girl.
Hope it all goes WELL
-Lance
You know, this exact same thing happened to my brother. He was dating a girl and she kept on breaking up with him for stupid stupid reasons. And of course he did some stupid things, but he really did love her and it was the first girl he ever loved.
You wanna know what happened. They broke up for the sixth time, he moved, and they don't talk anymore. He moved on and is dating other people now. And he's happy.
So, my advice is to move on. If she doesn't want to deal with you, say ';fine'; and don't let her deal with you.
I'm sure you want to make this work. But, maybe you two do need a little space for a bit. People tend to want what they don't have. If you want her back, give her space, and she may or may not come back to you. It's kind of a reverse psychology thing. Give her what she wants and you may get what you want in return.
i can tell you really love her. love can bite you in the a-- though. only lovers can fight like that. but she will cheat on you again and again. i would 4get and 4give 4 now. if she dumps you one more time than screw her. i can tell your an excellent guy and she doesn't deserve you. you can get any girl you want.
I understand your concern...i get paranoid too about some of my gfs sometimes communicatiing with their ex...but judging by her behavior it looks like she already is...to avoid hurting yourself in the future consult her about it...and if things did'nt work out just forget about her..i did the same thing last time...it hurts but love goes on forever bro...good luck...
This actually happened to me.
Love can be a real ***** sometimes.
To tell you the truth, I think you should just be friends. It's not worth the pain of fighting all the time just for that small, fleeting moment of happiness.
Do what your heart says, and it will work out in the end.
it sounds like she might have someone else. she is making excuse so she doesn't have to see you, and picking fights with you.You even said she broke up with you for this other boyfriend. open your eyes guy. she was never yours. you can do much better. find someone who deserves you.
ok lets start here. give her space if you think about it what choice do you have. sometimes if you want that other person to think about you, miss you, she will not be able to if you are on her constantly .I suggest you find another girl to date. do not feel bad or guilty, she is telling you to, she probably wants to hang out with her old friends. so why you are home worrying about her ,feeling bad, she is out having a good time, not even thinking about you . so please continue dating there are other women who would love your company and as soon as you find a nice girl to date, your girlfriend will be bothering you all the time she don';t want you but she don';t want anyone else to have you . start dating someone else and watch. Be careful you do not fall in love with someone else I know you can not think that way right now but do not waste your time it goes by fast good luck
Dude i know exactly what ur going through, the same thing is happening with with this girl she doesn't text me back either and she treats me like **** but i keep going back 2 her and she is even talking to her ex 2. Its crazy how similar our stories are im just going to move on by hanging out with some different girls i think you should do the same.
I think your best bet would be to let it be for a few days, let her settle down. Then, send her an email (not a text) asking what is wrong. Be as thoughtful and nice as possible so she understands that you are concerned about her. I wouldn't drop the ';But I love you'; bomb just yet, but if things get better it might re-assure her. Good luck lover-boy!
Give the girl her space. You can not make someone want to be with you. It sounds as though she has some issues she is confused about. Neediness will not win her back. You might like to reevaluate how this relationship developed. It sounds as though it was not on stable ground to begin with, you sort of approached it backwards. A firm foundation of mutual respect should come before making out. Clear boundaries about what constitutes a relationship will help you next time. Maybe this will work out, maybe it won't. It is okay to feel bad and grieve for a while, but don't wallow. Do not let her string you along, treat both of you with honesty and respect. Best Wishes to You.
see ...if a relationship is normal and satisfying you should not have to write this question . the very fact that you have written this shows you have deep doubts ..and dear man if you are in love there is either love or not ..no doubts ...love is like math .. if you are thinking too much while solving the answer .... very probably your answer is wrong
Serious but honest people only need both guys and girls advice on relationships!?
I have only had one relationship in my life and we have been together 8 years on and off. Well we got back together and we have been back together for 6 months. The first few months was good but now everything is different. He won't have intercourse with me unless I agree to let someone else join in. I am an old fashion girl with lots of morals. I told him no because I don't feel right. I feel that if you are happy in a relationship then why invite someone else in plus I feel sex should between to people who love each other. He said it would only happen once unless we like it then we could do it more often but it just don't seem right. So my question is what should I do and am I wrong for the way I feel. He is very pushy about it lately.Please help thank you very muchSerious but honest people only need both guys and girls advice on relationships!?
omg do you hear your self...you answered your own question! you know the answers!! get him gone!Serious but honest people only need both guys and girls advice on relationships!?
i've been in my current relationship for about 9 years, and its my one and only real relationship ever so i know how you feel in that regard. However, if you are not comfortable with doing what he's asking, he obviously isn't the right person for you (anymore). Would you rather break it off now or waste another 5 years with this creep? move on and make yourself happy. if he wants threesomes there's nothing wrong with that unless you dont want it.
ok... ya thats just wrong. if you say no and he keeps asking, then dump him.
thats just wrong of him to say he wont have sex with you unless someone else joins in.
if you dont want to do it, you definately shouldnt.
I personally think you should just find a new guy already.
you are not wrong at all! he shouldn't be making you feel uncomfortable like that or forcing you to do anything. i think maybe you should just take a break from him for a while and see if he's really worth it. since you've only had one relationship go out and date more people! you'll probably find someone you like tons better and will totally worship you. good luck!
i think you are right to feel the way you feel and if he really loves you he will respect that you only want to do it with him and not let someone else join in. if not i would leave him and find someone who feels the way you do.
omg if u aren't married and ur an old-fashioned kinda girl then why are u having sex with him?? but to answer ur question if u don't want to and it is out of ur comfort zone don't do it. and if he cant respect ur wishes drop his a s s and don't go back to it
he is a creep and if you dont want to do that then dont stay out of it and tell him to find someoe else
Well, i a threesum ruins relationships. and people that are that pushy on the subject know it and might try to ruin the relationship. I think you should end it once and for all... Good luck.. I sympathise with you
what a JERK screw his ***, kick him off the curb and say next, he is messing with u and wants to use you to fullfill his selfish fantasies tell him u think hes disrespecting u and if he want someone else to join u will opt out and give him the gratitude of finding another loser to feed his sorry excuse of an Ego.
omg do you hear your self...you answered your own question! you know the answers!! get him gone!Serious but honest people only need both guys and girls advice on relationships!?
i've been in my current relationship for about 9 years, and its my one and only real relationship ever so i know how you feel in that regard. However, if you are not comfortable with doing what he's asking, he obviously isn't the right person for you (anymore). Would you rather break it off now or waste another 5 years with this creep? move on and make yourself happy. if he wants threesomes there's nothing wrong with that unless you dont want it.
ok... ya thats just wrong. if you say no and he keeps asking, then dump him.
thats just wrong of him to say he wont have sex with you unless someone else joins in.
if you dont want to do it, you definately shouldnt.
I personally think you should just find a new guy already.
you are not wrong at all! he shouldn't be making you feel uncomfortable like that or forcing you to do anything. i think maybe you should just take a break from him for a while and see if he's really worth it. since you've only had one relationship go out and date more people! you'll probably find someone you like tons better and will totally worship you. good luck!
i think you are right to feel the way you feel and if he really loves you he will respect that you only want to do it with him and not let someone else join in. if not i would leave him and find someone who feels the way you do.
omg if u aren't married and ur an old-fashioned kinda girl then why are u having sex with him?? but to answer ur question if u don't want to and it is out of ur comfort zone don't do it. and if he cant respect ur wishes drop his a s s and don't go back to it
he is a creep and if you dont want to do that then dont stay out of it and tell him to find someoe else
Well, i a threesum ruins relationships. and people that are that pushy on the subject know it and might try to ruin the relationship. I think you should end it once and for all... Good luck.. I sympathise with you
what a JERK screw his ***, kick him off the curb and say next, he is messing with u and wants to use you to fullfill his selfish fantasies tell him u think hes disrespecting u and if he want someone else to join u will opt out and give him the gratitude of finding another loser to feed his sorry excuse of an Ego.
Maybe you reptilian people could help me with a froggie advice?
Please read my question: http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>Maybe you reptilian people could help me with a froggie advice?
I beleive the laws are very strict on the removal and keeping of wild frogs in austrailia. I personaly would have found somewhere close by to re-locate him if you where worried about him being in a dry place. Then again I would have also felt sorry for him.
You seam to be doing well though, I don't know what sort of tank set up you have, you'll probably need to do daily water changes, unless you have a filter then once or twice a week should be ok.
Go to your pet shop and ask if they have that species on their wholesalers list, if they haven't got them in store they may be able to order one.
From what I understand the crickets should be dusted with a vitamin supliment in order to keep him healthy.
Good luck.applying eyeshadow
I beleive the laws are very strict on the removal and keeping of wild frogs in austrailia. I personaly would have found somewhere close by to re-locate him if you where worried about him being in a dry place. Then again I would have also felt sorry for him.
You seam to be doing well though, I don't know what sort of tank set up you have, you'll probably need to do daily water changes, unless you have a filter then once or twice a week should be ok.
Go to your pet shop and ask if they have that species on their wholesalers list, if they haven't got them in store they may be able to order one.
From what I understand the crickets should be dusted with a vitamin supliment in order to keep him healthy.
Good luck.
Yu-Gi-Oh People that play the games I need Advice.?
I had all the Yu-Gi-Oh games just about for the Game Boy Advanced SP when i was in middle school my favorite one along with all my friends was the ';Yu-Gi-Oh! Worldwide Edition Stairway to the Destined Duel .';
I played that one for years and i lost my game, but found my SP and was looking through some old stuff and found my cards again so i was looking at games that are still out their and was looking at getting and DS Lite.
I was looking at some reviews online for some of the games that have come out for the DS and since i don't have a DS nor have i played these wanted some reviews or advice on them.
Also in these games is it the same yu-gi-oh from back in the day or have they change cards meanings and redone the rules in game. Because all the cards i have and the yu-gi-oh i know were all from the day of ';Yu-Gi-Oh! Worldwide Edition Stairway to the Destined Duel';
Thank you in advance!
Yu-Gi-Oh! World Championship Tournament 2008
Yu-Gi-Oh World Championship 2007
Yu-Gi-Oh Nightmare TroubadourYu-Gi-Oh People that play the games I need Advice.?
if your asking wich one to get i would say yugioh w c 2008
its the most up to date one except in a few months the 2009 version comes out so that is something to consider (sp?)Yu-Gi-Oh People that play the games I need Advice.?
Rules are all still the same with the inclusion of Synchro Monsters. ( kind of like ritual summoning, except you offer one required monster along with any other monster, and you dont need a spell card for it) the fusion deck zone had its name changed. (still the same thing just different name) all the cards that were in yu-gi-oh worldwide edition are back in all the yugioh games you listed, along with others. note: WC 2008 and 07' are really all about just dueling so if your looking for a story mode kind of thing you wont find it here. Nightmare Troubadour and Tag Force are your best bets on story mode kind of game
I played that one for years and i lost my game, but found my SP and was looking through some old stuff and found my cards again so i was looking at games that are still out their and was looking at getting and DS Lite.
I was looking at some reviews online for some of the games that have come out for the DS and since i don't have a DS nor have i played these wanted some reviews or advice on them.
Also in these games is it the same yu-gi-oh from back in the day or have they change cards meanings and redone the rules in game. Because all the cards i have and the yu-gi-oh i know were all from the day of ';Yu-Gi-Oh! Worldwide Edition Stairway to the Destined Duel';
Thank you in advance!
Yu-Gi-Oh! World Championship Tournament 2008
Yu-Gi-Oh World Championship 2007
Yu-Gi-Oh Nightmare TroubadourYu-Gi-Oh People that play the games I need Advice.?
if your asking wich one to get i would say yugioh w c 2008
its the most up to date one except in a few months the 2009 version comes out so that is something to consider (sp?)Yu-Gi-Oh People that play the games I need Advice.?
Rules are all still the same with the inclusion of Synchro Monsters. ( kind of like ritual summoning, except you offer one required monster along with any other monster, and you dont need a spell card for it) the fusion deck zone had its name changed. (still the same thing just different name) all the cards that were in yu-gi-oh worldwide edition are back in all the yugioh games you listed, along with others. note: WC 2008 and 07' are really all about just dueling so if your looking for a story mode kind of thing you wont find it here. Nightmare Troubadour and Tag Force are your best bets on story mode kind of game
Dealing with difficult people, depression and anxiety. (Read Details) Any advice?
I started a new job recently. But, I find the women to be very two-faced. I overhear them saying horrible stuff about me like how they don't like me, or how I'm stupid, ugly and conceited. They also make jokes and laugh at me occasionally.Then, these same people smile in my face. I ignore it and I keep being friendly as I can't control how they feel. But, it does hurt me as I am a sensitive person. Also, I find people like these wherever I go and I feel it is ruining my life. I have horrible anxiety and I don't like to be in social environments.Dealing with difficult people, depression and anxiety. (Read Details) Any advice?
Adults can be as cruel if not more so than teenagers sometimes unfortunately. You can't control their behavior but you can control how you react to it and how it makes you feel.
If anyone tells you to report them to your boss, I personally would not suggest you do so because unless they are sexually harassing you, there is not much that can be done and they will find out you went to the boss and cause more trouble.
They are gossiping because they have no interesting life. Those type of people will do all they can to make others miserable in order to satisfy their need for attention so they aren't the ones being made fun of.
You need to do your job, hold your head high, and realize that this world is not always going to treat you fair at all.
If you truly have extreme anxiety in general, I would suggest you seek professional help as there are treatments available and I suffer from anxiety myself and know for a fact you can be helped.
Never let them see you hurt and don't take what they say to heart. You are just a target and if it wasn't you, they would pick someone else. If a new person starts working there, they may move on because you refuse to ever react and start picking on the ';new person'; instead of you.
You are handling this the right way but I know you must go home every day wanting to just cry and the built up anxiety of all their personal attacks on you are not healthy.
You should not care what other people think about you; especially people that you are not close to.
Words do hurt people and we should all be conscious of what we say about others and their feelings.
Only care about your job performance and paycheck until you can resolve this in some way. You may have to look for another job but you said yourself this happens anywhere you go. Stay and face the demons and yourself is what I say.
Get help to do so first.Dealing with difficult people, depression and anxiety. (Read Details) Any advice?
You are wise to realize that you can't control how other people behave. You can only control how you live your own life.They are sad and insecure people who are probably unhappy in their own life.Do you think these people would focus all their negative energy on you and try to hurt you if they actually had something positive to boast about in their own life? Take pride in your work and your daily choices and do not let these slackers make you feel bad.If you overhear something and it is really bothering you , you could say something like '; Did you say something ?'; and it will put them on the defencive. It is surprising when they are put on the spot they suddenly have nothing to say.
have you heard of the law of attraction? ive been telling a lot of people about this because it really changed my life. but what it means is that if think a lot about something , that something will come to you. so if these people are making fun of you just ignore it and eventually it will all go away. trust me just think positive thoughts, a positive thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative thought. so if these people put you down just think about something that makes you feel good like a song, your pet, a vacation the list goes on!!
I'm sorry sweet, that there are people in the world so cruel. I wish I could tell you something, but all I have for you to do is pray. Matthew 5:44 says But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you ; You can read what God says about this matter. Leave them in the hands of God, he knows how to deal with cruel people. He knows their very heart. You just give your heart to him and serve him. Jesus will take care of you. I believe this with my whole heart. For he cares for us.
Try to find some pity in your soul for these poor fools who are trying to make their miserable lives seem better, by abusing others. I feel so sorry for these folks who have nothing better to do than find fault with others, when it is their own lives that need improvement. You might even find the compation to let them know this. good thoughts to you.
Realize people act like that because THEY are the ones who are unhappy. When you notice them saying something, just smile and know they are the ones who are miserable.
I am very sorry for you to feel like this because of bunch of losers.
They are ignorant and their lvl of intelligence is probably below the lvl of
Paris Hilton.I also wonder what kind of job is that when they have time to make jokes and dont focus on productivity of their work..You should NEVER have to feel bad about something you didnt do and THEY are the ones that are doing bad thing to you! The best thing to do is avoid them with a smile on your face and never show them that you are upset ,not even for a second,just be very courteous and polite and that will make them feel terrible! You need to go out with your friends and dont pay attention to this type of people, yes there are plenty of those out there but there are also nice people and you need to be surrounded by those in your life!
I wish you the best!!
Adults can be as cruel if not more so than teenagers sometimes unfortunately. You can't control their behavior but you can control how you react to it and how it makes you feel.
If anyone tells you to report them to your boss, I personally would not suggest you do so because unless they are sexually harassing you, there is not much that can be done and they will find out you went to the boss and cause more trouble.
They are gossiping because they have no interesting life. Those type of people will do all they can to make others miserable in order to satisfy their need for attention so they aren't the ones being made fun of.
You need to do your job, hold your head high, and realize that this world is not always going to treat you fair at all.
If you truly have extreme anxiety in general, I would suggest you seek professional help as there are treatments available and I suffer from anxiety myself and know for a fact you can be helped.
Never let them see you hurt and don't take what they say to heart. You are just a target and if it wasn't you, they would pick someone else. If a new person starts working there, they may move on because you refuse to ever react and start picking on the ';new person'; instead of you.
You are handling this the right way but I know you must go home every day wanting to just cry and the built up anxiety of all their personal attacks on you are not healthy.
You should not care what other people think about you; especially people that you are not close to.
Words do hurt people and we should all be conscious of what we say about others and their feelings.
Only care about your job performance and paycheck until you can resolve this in some way. You may have to look for another job but you said yourself this happens anywhere you go. Stay and face the demons and yourself is what I say.
Get help to do so first.Dealing with difficult people, depression and anxiety. (Read Details) Any advice?
You are wise to realize that you can't control how other people behave. You can only control how you live your own life.They are sad and insecure people who are probably unhappy in their own life.Do you think these people would focus all their negative energy on you and try to hurt you if they actually had something positive to boast about in their own life? Take pride in your work and your daily choices and do not let these slackers make you feel bad.If you overhear something and it is really bothering you , you could say something like '; Did you say something ?'; and it will put them on the defencive. It is surprising when they are put on the spot they suddenly have nothing to say.
have you heard of the law of attraction? ive been telling a lot of people about this because it really changed my life. but what it means is that if think a lot about something , that something will come to you. so if these people are making fun of you just ignore it and eventually it will all go away. trust me just think positive thoughts, a positive thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative thought. so if these people put you down just think about something that makes you feel good like a song, your pet, a vacation the list goes on!!
I'm sorry sweet, that there are people in the world so cruel. I wish I could tell you something, but all I have for you to do is pray. Matthew 5:44 says But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you ; You can read what God says about this matter. Leave them in the hands of God, he knows how to deal with cruel people. He knows their very heart. You just give your heart to him and serve him. Jesus will take care of you. I believe this with my whole heart. For he cares for us.
Try to find some pity in your soul for these poor fools who are trying to make their miserable lives seem better, by abusing others. I feel so sorry for these folks who have nothing better to do than find fault with others, when it is their own lives that need improvement. You might even find the compation to let them know this. good thoughts to you.
Realize people act like that because THEY are the ones who are unhappy. When you notice them saying something, just smile and know they are the ones who are miserable.
I am very sorry for you to feel like this because of bunch of losers.
They are ignorant and their lvl of intelligence is probably below the lvl of
Paris Hilton.I also wonder what kind of job is that when they have time to make jokes and dont focus on productivity of their work..You should NEVER have to feel bad about something you didnt do and THEY are the ones that are doing bad thing to you! The best thing to do is avoid them with a smile on your face and never show them that you are upset ,not even for a second,just be very courteous and polite and that will make them feel terrible! You need to go out with your friends and dont pay attention to this type of people, yes there are plenty of those out there but there are also nice people and you need to be surrounded by those in your life!
I wish you the best!!
ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
ok so i have been kissing this guy for a while now and i think the world of him...but....before i ever met this guy i had met a guy who at first came across as abit of a big headed and cocky git however over time we became friends and now 8 months on we still chat and often meet up for nites out and a catch up...nothing has ever happened between us but recently i know that he has become close to a girl and even though i know we are just friends and i have no feelings for him sexually i mean i kinda found myself feeling mad or i suppose u cud call it jealous...this is the forst time that i actually even thought that perhaps i may have feelings for him and all of a sudden i have found myself comparing him to the guy i have been with for awhile now and wondering if maybe i have made the right decision...im really confused as before this i never would have done this or perhaps thought to myself that maybe there mite be something more to our friendship. but could i really like the two guys at once and if so what should i do??stay with the guy im with or maybe see could i work something with the other guy???Thanks XADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
Hello dear,
Really So nice Question please. I will definitely answer you in detail of your nice question but little latter because some guests came here in my house. So It鈥檚 request to you please don鈥檛 put this question for Voting before I add detail.
Hope! have a nice day and nice dream.ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
why stop ay only 2 ?
Hope this helps, I'm 20 and sort of had a similar problem. I was with my past bf for over 2 years and belived I was very happy until I started getting much closer to a male friend. Although I never cheated I saw him very often and grew closer and closer still telling myself I loved my bf. I went a little crazy/depressed and it played on my mind far to often until I finally realised I had to leave my bf and see what happened with the other man. After a long, and probably drawn out talks with both men, it was the best decision i ever made. I never thought I would fancy this person or indeed commit to a loveing relastionship but we have and its the best thing ever! If you and the other bloke are meant to be then theres always time. Persure other options!!! x
Hello dear,
Really So nice Question please. I will definitely answer you in detail of your nice question but little latter because some guests came here in my house. So It鈥檚 request to you please don鈥檛 put this question for Voting before I add detail.
Hope! have a nice day and nice dream.ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
why stop ay only 2 ?
Hope this helps, I'm 20 and sort of had a similar problem. I was with my past bf for over 2 years and belived I was very happy until I started getting much closer to a male friend. Although I never cheated I saw him very often and grew closer and closer still telling myself I loved my bf. I went a little crazy/depressed and it played on my mind far to often until I finally realised I had to leave my bf and see what happened with the other man. After a long, and probably drawn out talks with both men, it was the best decision i ever made. I never thought I would fancy this person or indeed commit to a loveing relastionship but we have and its the best thing ever! If you and the other bloke are meant to be then theres always time. Persure other options!!! x
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Y do this have to happen to me of all people? It's long but can someone please give me some kind of advice?
OK I have been taking clomid since first part of Nov. and still haven't gotten pregnant yet. I started out on 50mg , but didn't ovulate so Dr. up my dose to 100mg. So in Dec. I had provera to jump start my period and took clomid on cycle days 5-9 and got a positive for ovulation on cycle day 16, but didn't get pregnant. I believe I didn't get pregnant is because the day after I got my positive for ovulation I got an yeast infection and used monistat 7 to clear it up. But anyway got my period on the 4th of Jan. and again took clomid on cycle day 5-9. This month I used a different ovulation kit and didn't get a positive for ovulation. But at first I thought it was because of the kit, but when I didn't get my period on the 4(Feb.) and took a hpt on the 3(Feb.) cycle day 31 which came back neg I just went crazy not knowing what was going on. I took another test on the 8th(cycle day 36) and got another neg result. So where is AF? Have anyone every been on clomid and ovulated the first month but didn't ovulate the next?Y do this have to happen to me of all people? It's long but can someone please give me some kind of advice?
skipping a month of ovulation would be normal if you're really stressing out over getting pregnant or if you have pcos. regular ov kits didnt pick up my ovulation, it took a clearblue digital fertility monitor to start tracking mine. turns out instead of day 14 i was ovulating day 21-22. you could have hostile cm too. it will not support the life of his sperm. i would get iui done if you continue to have problems. its quicker.Y do this have to happen to me of all people? It's long but can someone please give me some kind of advice?
clomid will make your cycle longer so just keep using the ovulation test or see your dr for monitoring. i took clomid for seven months and never conceived but i hope you have better luck
I haven't done Clomid, but I have done Femara, and there have been a couple of times where I just didn't ovulate. And maybe since you didn't ovulate, you are just going to skip your period this month. You made need to do Provera again. I would call my doctor tell him what's going on. They'll probably have you come in, do another test, and if it's negative, you'll just try again. That's all you can do. I've been TTC for 2.5 years. I know what you're going through. And it sucks.
skipping a month of ovulation would be normal if you're really stressing out over getting pregnant or if you have pcos. regular ov kits didnt pick up my ovulation, it took a clearblue digital fertility monitor to start tracking mine. turns out instead of day 14 i was ovulating day 21-22. you could have hostile cm too. it will not support the life of his sperm. i would get iui done if you continue to have problems. its quicker.Y do this have to happen to me of all people? It's long but can someone please give me some kind of advice?
clomid will make your cycle longer so just keep using the ovulation test or see your dr for monitoring. i took clomid for seven months and never conceived but i hope you have better luck
I haven't done Clomid, but I have done Femara, and there have been a couple of times where I just didn't ovulate. And maybe since you didn't ovulate, you are just going to skip your period this month. You made need to do Provera again. I would call my doctor tell him what's going on. They'll probably have you come in, do another test, and if it's negative, you'll just try again. That's all you can do. I've been TTC for 2.5 years. I know what you're going through. And it sucks.
I like to help people and I always am trying to make them feel better, but I can't take my own advice?
so.. I'm pretty much depressed and moody around my family. Probably because my mom is the most negative person in the world. Otherwise, I love being with my friends and other people I meet.
I am always trying to make people feel better and I feel good about myself when I do that.. but something always goes wrong in my life and I can't control my emotions or anything. like for example, my parents have been looking to get me a crappy car. I was grateful. Now, they decide that they don't feel like spending money or haveing to deal with it.
ugh.. I don't know what to do. can anyone help me and my messed up brain?
btw, I've tried antidepressents. I don't believe in them and they don't work.I like to help people and I always am trying to make them feel better, but I can't take my own advice?
i understand how your grateful and all but i `m in the the same situation as you like that example except i`m not getting a car yet i have to go to a expensive all girls school for high school what you should try to do is to try to take your own advice or whatever your parents is making you do give it a try you might like that's what i have to do. GOOD LUCK !I like to help people and I always am trying to make them feel better, but I can't take my own advice?
im the same way
I think it is great that you know meds are only going to help you ignore what you can ignore with out the meds. So you are chosing to deal with by learning how to think differently. I suggest you don't expect to change over night but to go on a journey in life trusting you will learn what you are ready to learn %26amp; don't have to eat the whole grocery store of food at once but can take one meal at a time. I would get familiar with the public library. You can check out a book which is also on dvd but get the book to cause it has a great lifechanging chart in the middle of the book. It is You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay ..You created this situation to learn how to overcome it....you can look up Hay now %26amp; see she is a rags to riches story by following he own advice.
Relax %26amp; enjoy what you have.
I am always trying to make people feel better and I feel good about myself when I do that.. but something always goes wrong in my life and I can't control my emotions or anything. like for example, my parents have been looking to get me a crappy car. I was grateful. Now, they decide that they don't feel like spending money or haveing to deal with it.
ugh.. I don't know what to do. can anyone help me and my messed up brain?
btw, I've tried antidepressents. I don't believe in them and they don't work.I like to help people and I always am trying to make them feel better, but I can't take my own advice?
i understand how your grateful and all but i `m in the the same situation as you like that example except i`m not getting a car yet i have to go to a expensive all girls school for high school what you should try to do is to try to take your own advice or whatever your parents is making you do give it a try you might like that's what i have to do. GOOD LUCK !I like to help people and I always am trying to make them feel better, but I can't take my own advice?
im the same way
I think it is great that you know meds are only going to help you ignore what you can ignore with out the meds. So you are chosing to deal with by learning how to think differently. I suggest you don't expect to change over night but to go on a journey in life trusting you will learn what you are ready to learn %26amp; don't have to eat the whole grocery store of food at once but can take one meal at a time. I would get familiar with the public library. You can check out a book which is also on dvd but get the book to cause it has a great lifechanging chart in the middle of the book. It is You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay ..You created this situation to learn how to overcome it....you can look up Hay now %26amp; see she is a rags to riches story by following he own advice.
Relax %26amp; enjoy what you have.
Of the 5% of A.D.D. people who graduate from college, are there any out there who can offer some advice?
I have been diagnosed with A.D.D. since I was a kid. The medication helps when it comes to focus, memory, reading comprehension, problem solving, behavior and conversational skills. But they don't help me stay on track or improve my time management skills. Various tests and evaluations have characterized me as ';highly intelligent';. Still, I often take 8 hours on what should have taken 30 min. This analytical chain reaction occurs in my head and rather than a 1 page paper on photosynthesis (for example), I now have 12 pages of notes on photosynthesis, botany, agriculture, environmentalism, etc. I love research and writing. When I'm on my med's, I feel like all my pent up creativity and inspiration has finally been released and I'll explode if I supress it all by doing boring assignments. If I do manage to turn my attention to my assignments, the effort it takes to keep it there makes it difficult to maintain focus. Does anyone have any advice or maybe an A.D.D. success story?Of the 5% of A.D.D. people who graduate from college, are there any out there who can offer some advice?
I can tell you that a restricted diet which eliminates wheat, dairy, corn syrup and soy seems to be quite helpful in managing ADD symptoms.
If you want my opinion, I think that ADD and Autism show a kind of evolution for humanity as we tap into deeper levels of creativity and consciousness. It's fascinating as the parent of an 8 yr old girl with autism symptoms, to see the less I interfere with her (by giving her supplements and therapy) the better she does. The world is in a difficult spot and we need these new ways of being - the hyper creativity and the psychic stuff that the autism community displays - and so they are coming.
I wonder what it is that you want to do that makes you want to go to college. Your abilities - your own innate talents - will be a total gift to you in the right profession. Not everyone is programmed to learn in the traditional college way - in fact I hear lots of success stories about folks who find a firm they want to work for and intern for a year for free to learn the business, only to get a lot of offers at the end of the year. Someone who can sit and research for long periods of time and come up with ideas and make connections that others don't is a precious gift to some industry or area of humanity. Don't medicate or force that away. Find it's true calling, cash in and be happy.
Peace!Of the 5% of A.D.D. people who graduate from college, are there any out there who can offer some advice?
Find the vocation you love so your ';focus'; can be directed in a very good way.
ADD is different, I have it, my son has it. My son is getting straight A's in High School, but he occasional needs reminders that if he wants to go into his program of interest in college he'll need to get good grades.
If your professor is requesting one page, try to trim the 12 pages of notes but summarizing each page's highlights.
I focused my ADD into a decent career as a computer geek. I have a lot of various interests and hobbies.
I know of several physicians (with ADD) who have done well for themselves, many have become circuit speakers and earn very good income.
The boring assignments I did first. I had a couple of courses I took during college one was a Social Psych course that had the WORST teacher in town teaching it.She was a real dud. I went to class and wrote prolific papers, as my major was physiological psychology. The social psych ditz was troubling for me. My minor was history, and a couple of the courses we dull, it took extra effort to keep me from staring out the windows.
I can tell you that a restricted diet which eliminates wheat, dairy, corn syrup and soy seems to be quite helpful in managing ADD symptoms.
If you want my opinion, I think that ADD and Autism show a kind of evolution for humanity as we tap into deeper levels of creativity and consciousness. It's fascinating as the parent of an 8 yr old girl with autism symptoms, to see the less I interfere with her (by giving her supplements and therapy) the better she does. The world is in a difficult spot and we need these new ways of being - the hyper creativity and the psychic stuff that the autism community displays - and so they are coming.
I wonder what it is that you want to do that makes you want to go to college. Your abilities - your own innate talents - will be a total gift to you in the right profession. Not everyone is programmed to learn in the traditional college way - in fact I hear lots of success stories about folks who find a firm they want to work for and intern for a year for free to learn the business, only to get a lot of offers at the end of the year. Someone who can sit and research for long periods of time and come up with ideas and make connections that others don't is a precious gift to some industry or area of humanity. Don't medicate or force that away. Find it's true calling, cash in and be happy.
Peace!Of the 5% of A.D.D. people who graduate from college, are there any out there who can offer some advice?
Find the vocation you love so your ';focus'; can be directed in a very good way.
ADD is different, I have it, my son has it. My son is getting straight A's in High School, but he occasional needs reminders that if he wants to go into his program of interest in college he'll need to get good grades.
If your professor is requesting one page, try to trim the 12 pages of notes but summarizing each page's highlights.
I focused my ADD into a decent career as a computer geek. I have a lot of various interests and hobbies.
I know of several physicians (with ADD) who have done well for themselves, many have become circuit speakers and earn very good income.
The boring assignments I did first. I had a couple of courses I took during college one was a Social Psych course that had the WORST teacher in town teaching it.She was a real dud. I went to class and wrote prolific papers, as my major was physiological psychology. The social psych ditz was troubling for me. My minor was history, and a couple of the courses we dull, it took extra effort to keep me from staring out the windows.
Im a 13 y/o girl who wants to run away. Im not asking for people to tell me not to do it I just need advice.?
I am not suffereing from abuse or anything, just lots of stress. My parents are great, but they are so wrapped up in their responsibilities that I feel as if I am a burden to them. I feel that I was born to travel the world, but they are stationary with their lives right now. I am in a difficult situation because my dad is mayor of a town, and he has to deal with all of that stuff. I asked my mom if i could leave them, but she said no. I have depression, and I truely do believe that travelling would benifit me. I don't think they would be willing to go with me, so Im ready to go alone. Im not gonna run out of the country right away, but I want to leave where I am now. I have talked with my best friend, who is abused, and she said her grandma would let us go there to live with her in Florida, and she would pay for everything. Not trying to sound conceited, but I am an intelligent person, with an IQ of 141. I have been told I am very wise for my age, so thats why Im seeking advice now.Im a 13 y/o girl who wants to run away. Im not asking for people to tell me not to do it I just need advice.?
Wow -- we have the exact same IQ. The difference is, I have almost 25 years more life experience.
DO NOT run away.
I've traveled the world, and it's REALLY dangerous out there.
That said, I understand your feelings. Thirteen is perhaps the hardest of all ages -- your dissatisfaction with life is perfectly age-appropriate and is coming from within, not external circumstance.
You say your parents are great, so I assume that you love them. Think about what your running away would do to them. Can you even begin to imagine how terrified and heartbroken they'd be?
Use that big brain of yours to kick butt at school for the next 4 years, then take the academic scholarship you'll surely earn and study abroad.
If you approach your future with maturity and respect instead of impatience, there will be no limit to what you can accomplish -- and consequently, where you can go.
And when you get really down, just picture yourself at 19, living in a cool apartment, studying at the University of Paris... imagine how hot your French boyfriend will be! (Much cuter than the skeezy pimp who'll try to take advantage of you if you're alone on the streets at 13.)
P.S. -- I've enjoyed communicating with you -- it's rare to find a 13-year-old on YA who can form a decent sentence. If you need someone to talk to, post again... I'd be happy to keep in touch.Im a 13 y/o girl who wants to run away. Im not asking for people to tell me not to do it I just need advice.?
you might be wise for your age, however, you are only 13.
try getting some help for your depression.
running away isn't going to solve anything.
bad things can happen that you may not be prepared for.
you'll be worst off than you are at home.
you have parents who love you. talk to them and tell them you need help.
i know how you feal my father is a loard.i wanted to run away when i was 12.but i stoped and thought about it.and i thought to my self,i dont know anyone.and the world is a big place,and some times bad.please take your time.and things will work out,talk to your mum and dad.its all you can do.hope this helps
I've often felt like this, luckily ive never had a friend thats been abused, seriously, don't run away, its not smart, and you could run into a bad situation. If you really feel you need to be a world traveler, see if you could become an exchange student.
All a 13 year old girl needs to concentrate on is School and Boys. Thats it. Don't be stupid and ruin your life while your young. Just get a good education and get into a university. then travel if you want to. Thats what I'm going to do, plus I'm going to get my career set up. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. 'm sure they'll understand
I'm 13 as well.
And I feel your situation, and I understand how it feels to be stressed and depressed.
But you have your whole life ahead of you.
Talk to your parents.
Honestly, the world is so so so much more harsh than it seems, and you can't trust everyone out there.
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you're only 13 you need to listen to ur parents cuz they know wats best for you. if you want more attention just ask them for it. do you know the children out there who would kill to be where ur at right now. you are bless and u need to just talk to ur parents.
Lol I'm not helping a minor do something stupid. I was your age once and did think that way. Now that I'm older I realized how much of a fool I was.
Ok, screw your IQ, I'm afraid your intelligence has gone out of the window here.
Don't you realise how hurtful this is to your parents?
You are not a burden to them, but you are just a child.
Imagine having a daughter who felt like a burden to you and wanted to leave to travel the world.
You have no legal rights to anything, no money, no where to go, no transport, nothing.
Your parents are wrapped up in responsibilties working to make money for you. You are lucky to have parents who work hard.
When I was 13 I thought all these things too. It's just a stage every girl AND boy go through at the beginning of puberty, and your life might feel like a rollercoaster while you go through a load of changes.
I don't think you know what depression in, you are 13.
If you are wise for your age then be wise, and stay with your parents like a child is supposed to. They love you, and you need to learn to appreciate it before you grow bitter.
You have aaaaall your life to travel, wait until you are older with money and a good credit rating.
If anything happens to you it will be your parents who have to deal with it, not you.
I don't care how high you say your IQ is, you are still 13 and you need to be at home with your parents. You should be proud of your parents and appreciate what they have and are doing for you. Be grateful for what you have. Do you know how many 13 year old children in America and the world would love to be in your place? Millions. Look for the positives in your live, say ';thank you'; to your parents and mean it, think lovingly about them, and see how wonderful your life will become. Be happy.
Wow -- we have the exact same IQ. The difference is, I have almost 25 years more life experience.
DO NOT run away.
I've traveled the world, and it's REALLY dangerous out there.
That said, I understand your feelings. Thirteen is perhaps the hardest of all ages -- your dissatisfaction with life is perfectly age-appropriate and is coming from within, not external circumstance.
You say your parents are great, so I assume that you love them. Think about what your running away would do to them. Can you even begin to imagine how terrified and heartbroken they'd be?
Use that big brain of yours to kick butt at school for the next 4 years, then take the academic scholarship you'll surely earn and study abroad.
If you approach your future with maturity and respect instead of impatience, there will be no limit to what you can accomplish -- and consequently, where you can go.
And when you get really down, just picture yourself at 19, living in a cool apartment, studying at the University of Paris... imagine how hot your French boyfriend will be! (Much cuter than the skeezy pimp who'll try to take advantage of you if you're alone on the streets at 13.)
P.S. -- I've enjoyed communicating with you -- it's rare to find a 13-year-old on YA who can form a decent sentence. If you need someone to talk to, post again... I'd be happy to keep in touch.Im a 13 y/o girl who wants to run away. Im not asking for people to tell me not to do it I just need advice.?
you might be wise for your age, however, you are only 13.
try getting some help for your depression.
running away isn't going to solve anything.
bad things can happen that you may not be prepared for.
you'll be worst off than you are at home.
you have parents who love you. talk to them and tell them you need help.
i know how you feal my father is a loard.i wanted to run away when i was 12.but i stoped and thought about it.and i thought to my self,i dont know anyone.and the world is a big place,and some times bad.please take your time.and things will work out,talk to your mum and dad.its all you can do.hope this helps
I've often felt like this, luckily ive never had a friend thats been abused, seriously, don't run away, its not smart, and you could run into a bad situation. If you really feel you need to be a world traveler, see if you could become an exchange student.
All a 13 year old girl needs to concentrate on is School and Boys. Thats it. Don't be stupid and ruin your life while your young. Just get a good education and get into a university. then travel if you want to. Thats what I'm going to do, plus I'm going to get my career set up. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. 'm sure they'll understand
I'm 13 as well.
And I feel your situation, and I understand how it feels to be stressed and depressed.
But you have your whole life ahead of you.
Talk to your parents.
Honestly, the world is so so so much more harsh than it seems, and you can't trust everyone out there.
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you're only 13 you need to listen to ur parents cuz they know wats best for you. if you want more attention just ask them for it. do you know the children out there who would kill to be where ur at right now. you are bless and u need to just talk to ur parents.
Lol I'm not helping a minor do something stupid. I was your age once and did think that way. Now that I'm older I realized how much of a fool I was.
Ok, screw your IQ, I'm afraid your intelligence has gone out of the window here.
Don't you realise how hurtful this is to your parents?
You are not a burden to them, but you are just a child.
Imagine having a daughter who felt like a burden to you and wanted to leave to travel the world.
You have no legal rights to anything, no money, no where to go, no transport, nothing.
Your parents are wrapped up in responsibilties working to make money for you. You are lucky to have parents who work hard.
When I was 13 I thought all these things too. It's just a stage every girl AND boy go through at the beginning of puberty, and your life might feel like a rollercoaster while you go through a load of changes.
I don't think you know what depression in, you are 13.
If you are wise for your age then be wise, and stay with your parents like a child is supposed to. They love you, and you need to learn to appreciate it before you grow bitter.
You have aaaaall your life to travel, wait until you are older with money and a good credit rating.
If anything happens to you it will be your parents who have to deal with it, not you.
I don't care how high you say your IQ is, you are still 13 and you need to be at home with your parents. You should be proud of your parents and appreciate what they have and are doing for you. Be grateful for what you have. Do you know how many 13 year old children in America and the world would love to be in your place? Millions. Look for the positives in your live, say ';thank you'; to your parents and mean it, think lovingly about them, and see how wonderful your life will become. Be happy.
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