First off, If you were or are a person who had no clue what they wanted to do in life or what degree to get, i would like some advice.
I am the person who wants to do some many different things from medical to engineering to psychology to landscaping to real estate to owning a nightclub or restaurant to becoming a lawyer to carpentry, which doesnt require a degree, to so many different things.
Every year I tell my self i have found exactly what i want to do but it always ends not. I decided about a year ago to go into engineering, but now i am not feeling that way anymore.
How did you find what it is that you wanted to do. What struggles did you go through to get there. How long did it take to get there. How long did you spend trying to fugure it out. What kind of help did you get.???????????? Please help me.
I have went to my school advisor, but apparently its my engineering advisor and he only gives me advice as to why stay in engineering. He gave great advice, but im looking to find what it is i want to do.
Thanks, in advance!
I have to figure out now. I have already taken classes for 3.5 years and still dont know. I have taken psychology classes, medical classes, engineering classes, law classes..and the list goes on. Im wasting money and not finding what i want to do.
I dont want to be one of those people sour everyday of their lives bc they hate there job.For the people who stuggled finding the right career choice, can you suggest advice?
As a recent college grad, I can tell you many people are in the same position you're in. Remember you are very young and that some people in their 30's still have no idea what they want to do with their lives. My advice would be to keep exploring your possibilities by talking to people and researching on your own time. If you try exploring all your possibilities, I'm sure you'll find the right fit for you.For the people who stuggled finding the right career choice, can you suggest advice?
A med job is worth considering
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Thats it people ! i thought about it im getting a nose job !!! any advice?how much is it anyway?
the thing is ..... in 2005 i didnt like what i saw in pictures so ppl said that i need to lose weight so i did then i still didnt like what i saw in pictures.. they said u need to get a tummy tuck now.. and my surgery is in this summer.. but im sure it wont change that much .. but i still think i need a nose job
the thing is im a student in college or will be this semster so i dont have money i got the goverment to pay for my tummy tuck
but i dont think i can mange to get them to pay for the nose job
how much is it anyway? maybe after college.
ive post pics here once all the answers were you dont need a nose job all ppl say that too but i think i still do my nose is like 4.5 out of 10 so its so close to be an average one
which is confusin its not goodlookin its not badlookin!!
i think in pictures i look ugly its like my face is small but my nose is big but in mirrors its kinda better tho i mean when you look see me down street u will never say this boy needs a nose job coz its not that noteable and its not ugly at all but i think it ruin the face and my face would look alot better with a nose job. for example, if im a 6 right now maybe an 8 with a nose job
but my biggest fear is that ill keep going, plastic surgery after another.. tummy then nose job then god knows whatThats it people ! i thought about it im getting a nose job !!! any advice?how much is it anyway?
Here are some guidelines for finding the right plastic surgeon:
Check Board-Certification: A doctor's board-certification is the best indicator of his or her training in a particular medical or surgical specialty. Look for certification by the American Board of Plastic Surgery (ABPS), the only Board recognized by the American Board of Medical Specialties (ABMS) to certify doctors in the specialty of plastic surgery.
Check Society Membership: American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS) membership ensures that a doctor not only is ABPS-certified (or, in Canada, certified in plastic surgery by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada.) but also has significant experience in cosmetic surgery. ASAPS membership is by invitation only.
Check Facility Accreditation: Cosmetic surgery can safely be performed in a hospital, a surgicenter or an office-based surgical facility: Current p ublished data show that accredited office-based facilities have a safety record comparable to that of hospital ambulatory surgery settings. However, the majority of office-based surgical facilities are not accredited. Another advantage of selecting an ASAPS member is that all ASAPS surgeons operate in accredited, state-licensed or Medicare-certified facilities.
Check Hospital Privileges: Before granting operating privileges, hospital review committees evaluate a surgeon's training and competency for specific procedures. Wherever the surgery will be performed, be sure that the surgeon has operating privileges in an accredited hospital for the same procedure being considered.
Check Reliable Sources: Asking a patient's primary care doctor for recommendations is a good place to start, and friends may offer suggestions; but the surgeon's board-certification should always be verified independently by contacting the American Board of Plastic Surgery (www.abplsurg.org). Free referral information to board-certified plastic surgeons with significant experience in cosmetic surgery can be found on www.surgery.org . ASAPS' web site also offers extensive information about cosmetic surgical procedures.
Check Thoroughness: The consultation is an important opportunity for questions to be asked and answered. It should include a candid discussion of risks as well as benefits of the surgery. A thorough consultation also involves a review of medical history including any existing medical conditions. All these factors help the surgeon to custom-tailor the operation to best meet the needs of each patient.
Check Rapport: Even the most experienced surgeon is not the “right” surgeon for every patient. Any successful relationship depends on good communication. Patient satisfaction is enhanced when surgeon and patient candidly discuss goals, agree on realistic expectations, and plan the course of the surgical journey together.
Check Experience: Experienced aesthetic plastic surgeons generally perform a wide range of cosmetic surgeries on a regular basis. Patients should ask about the surgeon's experience with the particular procedure being considered. If considering a “new” technique or technology, patients should inquire whether results substantiating safety and effectiveness have been published in a peer-reviewed journal.
Check Follow-up Care: Good surgical care does not end with the surgery. Patients should inquire about follow-up visits and about the doctor's policies should surgical revisions be necessary.
Check Cost: National averages for surgeons' fees can be found on www.surgery.org . Fees may vary considerably depending on geographic region, surgeon experience and individual patient factors. Not all patients can be treated with the same technique, and the complexity and length of surgery affect cost. Patients should note that cosmetic surgery usually is not covered by insurance.Thats it people ! i thought about it im getting a nose job !!! any advice?how much is it anyway?
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo… PLZ don't! :(:(:(
stop! that's overkill. you don't need a nose job to make yourself look beautiful or superficially pretty, even. what's your aim anyway? are you aiming to look like someone particular? if so, then drop it. even if you aren't aiming to look like someone, why change your features? i know it's hard to just accept what you think are flaws but honestly, there are some people out there who'd rather have what you have. no one's perfectly happy with themselves, not by a long shot, but they learn to be content. i know this is probably gonna go in one ear and out the other because it's hard for me to realize and accept this advice myself, but at least i try to understand it and am in the process of changing myself for the better because of it. you need to realize that you're not the bad looking person you think you are.
yes, you will keep going if you do this! don't do it! you don't need it!
Stop now. Seriously...do you want to look like Joan Rivers? Think about it. The first thing you notice with her is plastic surgery everywhere. It doesn't eve look natural.
Okay here's the cliche that keeps on giving:
Beauty comes from within. Why don't you concentrate on stuff outside you, the life you lead, your friends, the things you're learning at college. Concentrate on being kind and generous and good-humored and intelligent and delightful to everyone you meet. Take up a hobby. Find God. WHATEVER.
While you're obsessed with your looks, you'll never be attractive and you'll never be happy. Chances are, you're fine to look at, you look like yourself, and your nose probably gives you character.
Put the money aside... come back in two years if you're still unhappy and get the nosejob. I believe that you'll just go ';HEY, money'; and go on a trip to Europe with it instead. THAT would make you happy and beautiful.
Good LUCK!
the thing is im a student in college or will be this semster so i dont have money i got the goverment to pay for my tummy tuck
but i dont think i can mange to get them to pay for the nose job
how much is it anyway? maybe after college.
ive post pics here once all the answers were you dont need a nose job all ppl say that too but i think i still do my nose is like 4.5 out of 10 so its so close to be an average one
which is confusin its not goodlookin its not badlookin!!
i think in pictures i look ugly its like my face is small but my nose is big but in mirrors its kinda better tho i mean when you look see me down street u will never say this boy needs a nose job coz its not that noteable and its not ugly at all but i think it ruin the face and my face would look alot better with a nose job. for example, if im a 6 right now maybe an 8 with a nose job
but my biggest fear is that ill keep going, plastic surgery after another.. tummy then nose job then god knows whatThats it people ! i thought about it im getting a nose job !!! any advice?how much is it anyway?
Here are some guidelines for finding the right plastic surgeon:
Check Board-Certification: A doctor's board-certification is the best indicator of his or her training in a particular medical or surgical specialty. Look for certification by the American Board of Plastic Surgery (ABPS), the only Board recognized by the American Board of Medical Specialties (ABMS) to certify doctors in the specialty of plastic surgery.
Check Society Membership: American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS) membership ensures that a doctor not only is ABPS-certified (or, in Canada, certified in plastic surgery by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada.) but also has significant experience in cosmetic surgery. ASAPS membership is by invitation only.
Check Facility Accreditation: Cosmetic surgery can safely be performed in a hospital, a surgicenter or an office-based surgical facility: Current p ublished data show that accredited office-based facilities have a safety record comparable to that of hospital ambulatory surgery settings. However, the majority of office-based surgical facilities are not accredited. Another advantage of selecting an ASAPS member is that all ASAPS surgeons operate in accredited, state-licensed or Medicare-certified facilities.
Check Hospital Privileges: Before granting operating privileges, hospital review committees evaluate a surgeon's training and competency for specific procedures. Wherever the surgery will be performed, be sure that the surgeon has operating privileges in an accredited hospital for the same procedure being considered.
Check Reliable Sources: Asking a patient's primary care doctor for recommendations is a good place to start, and friends may offer suggestions; but the surgeon's board-certification should always be verified independently by contacting the American Board of Plastic Surgery (www.abplsurg.org). Free referral information to board-certified plastic surgeons with significant experience in cosmetic surgery can be found on www.surgery.org . ASAPS' web site also offers extensive information about cosmetic surgical procedures.
Check Thoroughness: The consultation is an important opportunity for questions to be asked and answered. It should include a candid discussion of risks as well as benefits of the surgery. A thorough consultation also involves a review of medical history including any existing medical conditions. All these factors help the surgeon to custom-tailor the operation to best meet the needs of each patient.
Check Rapport: Even the most experienced surgeon is not the “right” surgeon for every patient. Any successful relationship depends on good communication. Patient satisfaction is enhanced when surgeon and patient candidly discuss goals, agree on realistic expectations, and plan the course of the surgical journey together.
Check Experience: Experienced aesthetic plastic surgeons generally perform a wide range of cosmetic surgeries on a regular basis. Patients should ask about the surgeon's experience with the particular procedure being considered. If considering a “new” technique or technology, patients should inquire whether results substantiating safety and effectiveness have been published in a peer-reviewed journal.
Check Follow-up Care: Good surgical care does not end with the surgery. Patients should inquire about follow-up visits and about the doctor's policies should surgical revisions be necessary.
Check Cost: National averages for surgeons' fees can be found on www.surgery.org . Fees may vary considerably depending on geographic region, surgeon experience and individual patient factors. Not all patients can be treated with the same technique, and the complexity and length of surgery affect cost. Patients should note that cosmetic surgery usually is not covered by insurance.Thats it people ! i thought about it im getting a nose job !!! any advice?how much is it anyway?
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo… PLZ don't! :(:(:(
stop! that's overkill. you don't need a nose job to make yourself look beautiful or superficially pretty, even. what's your aim anyway? are you aiming to look like someone particular? if so, then drop it. even if you aren't aiming to look like someone, why change your features? i know it's hard to just accept what you think are flaws but honestly, there are some people out there who'd rather have what you have. no one's perfectly happy with themselves, not by a long shot, but they learn to be content. i know this is probably gonna go in one ear and out the other because it's hard for me to realize and accept this advice myself, but at least i try to understand it and am in the process of changing myself for the better because of it. you need to realize that you're not the bad looking person you think you are.
yes, you will keep going if you do this! don't do it! you don't need it!
Stop now. Seriously...do you want to look like Joan Rivers? Think about it. The first thing you notice with her is plastic surgery everywhere. It doesn't eve look natural.
Okay here's the cliche that keeps on giving:
Beauty comes from within. Why don't you concentrate on stuff outside you, the life you lead, your friends, the things you're learning at college. Concentrate on being kind and generous and good-humored and intelligent and delightful to everyone you meet. Take up a hobby. Find God. WHATEVER.
While you're obsessed with your looks, you'll never be attractive and you'll never be happy. Chances are, you're fine to look at, you look like yourself, and your nose probably gives you character.
Put the money aside... come back in two years if you're still unhappy and get the nosejob. I believe that you'll just go ';HEY, money'; and go on a trip to Europe with it instead. THAT would make you happy and beautiful.
Good LUCK!
Need some solid, real advice about my marriage-I have faith in all of you people! Help me please!?
I am a thirty-year old,stay at home mother of four. I have been married to the father of my kids for eleven years.We have had a very rocky relationship.He has had a lot of trouble keeping a steady job over the years,and his looks are fading fast.He really doesn't make personal hygene a priority anymore and has let his body go in a big way.He just does not turn me on at all .He has always been very self-centered,but has made a concerted effort to be a better father and somewhat of a better husband in the last few years, but deep down, I have always known that he is not ';the One';.How stupid am I for having children if I knew this?Poor kids.Anyway, I am so over this situation and feel imprisoned,and that if I were to try to separate or divorce,that it would be my own selfishness making decisions for me,instead of me putting my childrens' happiness first, although they are feeling the tension between us.He swears that he doesn't want to lose me,but I am not feeling it. I am miserable.Help!Need some solid, real advice about my marriage-I have faith in all of you people! Help me please!?
i'm sorry to hear your marriage isn't going too well, from reading your post it reminded me of the tv show ';how to have sex after marriage'; if you havent seen one of their shows i suggest you do.
as i don't know you on a personal level i have no insight into your relationship other than what you have said but i'm sure as you married and had kids with him you were once madly in love with each other but obviously from what your saying its fizzled out =/
i think its a bit upsetting when someone choses to put the kids before their partner, you should come first or equal to them.
staying in a loveless marriage is painful for you, him and your children, if there is tention in the house hold it's not a great place to bring up children.
as for your husband saying he doesnt want to lose you, if that was the case then he would do everything in his power to hold onto you and if he wont, hes not worth it!
you need to be a strong woman not just for yourself but for your kiddies too. noone deserves to feel trapped and miserable. make sure he knows what he will be missing if he doesnt buck up his ideas!
don't let him get you down, hes obviously not worth it. xNeed some solid, real advice about my marriage-I have faith in all of you people! Help me please!?
I am sorry to hear this is your situation as was mine 2 months ago before I just up and left, I have never been happier but it was a long time coming and I think the kids new something was coming so it was not terribly traumatic. How can you love someone who does not love themselves? My husband litteraly pushed me out by his coments and actions but he would never leave me because of his marriage beliefs. We had 2 and a half years of marriage counseling so I highly recommend this befor any action be taken even if you still split up it will give you both the strength to manage after the fact and if you don't split then it was well worth it. Good luck to you - but it needs to be all about you, be honest with yourself and look after yourself.
If you are not happy neither will your children be!!!!!!!!! Good luck and God bless
I think there two problems here. First is the psychological state of your husband that could probably be related with the jobs that he doesn't keep. Second it is your lack of love for him. Clearly you don't love him so for your own sake leave him. I would imagine that you feel pity for him, given the situation, but you need to get over it, otherwise it will TWO people completely unhappy. I believe it will be very difficult for you to do this but be brave, because you did not show, in your text, any sign of affection for him, the only thing that I see is your guilty feelings for leaving him. I don't know what is worse if it is the fact that you live a lie or the fact that he doens't notice it.
I personally do not believe in divorce. However, if you honestly don't think it will work out, leave. Don't stay together for the kids. Eventually, they will see how unhappy you are. Do what it best for you, if you are unhealthy spiritually, mentally, physically, or emotionally, it will only make them feel helpless. You owe it to yourself to be happy and have a chance at true matrimonial bliss.
i am a true believer than children are better off with a single happy parent- than with two miserable ones. Trust me- they learn from everything they see- and often model after it.
if they don't see either of you make an effort to be happy- it will wreak havoc on their self-esteem, and they, too will have issues as adults feeling that they deserve anything better. After all- their only frame of comparison is two parents that are eternally unhappy with eachother.
Good luck
you people think marriage is jsut a relationship? why did you even go out with him in the first place. Marriage is a decision of a lifetime and when you make it you gota keep the promise. You will be punished on judgement day if you divorce because in the bible says: ';you cannot divorce for any reason UNLESS if your husband or wife is cheating and being unfaithful, or if they are too sinful and you cant stand their sinful life';. Now make the choice. The way it sounds to me is that you just wnat to have fun but woe to you nonbelievers..god bless you..go to church.
Because of the children and the fact that they must all be under 11 years of age. I would suggest trying to work things out. Talk to him explain where your coming from. Think before taking drastic measures. Being a single parent with 4 young children. Will be hard. You will have to work then come home and take care of them. Dating will be practically impossible if you care about being a good parent. Plus you will have to worry about the kind of men you will attract. What decent man wants to date a woman with 4 small children? Unless he is a predator of kids. It will be practically a miracle to meet one worth having that will accept the children and care for them. Coming from a broken home. Where my mother had more children than you. And she decided to do her own thing. I know what I speak of.
I was in your shoes once.I was 27 %26amp; had 4 children also. But he made it easy for me.He cheated on me with our 15 yo
babysitter.It killed any feelings I had left for him.I made him
leave %26amp; he had to support us all. You are not being selfish so
don't let that stop you! Life is to short to be so miserable.From
one who has been there,done that also.
Your husband sounds depressed. He needs a complete medical check up and a psychological evaluation.
See a therapist as soon as possible...start with you, then maybe the two of you together. Take it easy. Take a deep breath. Do something nice for yourself!! Pamper yourself!! You've got 4 kids and you're only 30! Give yourself a break! And don't call a lawyer til you give therapy a chance! KJL
I'm sorry, but the whole 'his looks are fading fast' is really a shallow thing to say. We will all grow old (God willing) and our looks will fade.....some of that is beyond the scope of what we have control over.
';Deep down I have always known he's not the one'; What one? Don't spout romantic drivel...
You owe it to your children to drop the romantic fantasy and deal with the reality. The reality is that you've made four kids with this man, and at one point you loved him enough to marry him.
You say he is trying, and that is a good sign. Why not try marriage counseling? Why not try something different....like changing YOUR ATTITUDE? What have you done lately to promote your marriage? All I hear is complaining...and that's only going to get you one place, further in misery.
Sometimes the only thing we have control over is our own behavior. Why not PRETEND that you are feeling his efforts? Why not be kind and caring towards him? Even if you don't 'feel' it, just pretend it. You'd be surprised what a few nice and encouraging words from you can do.
Give him a compliment, build him up, quit tearing him down......
Good Luck.
I express how you are feeling with your husband and try to find a way for both of you to feel better.
Never put your children's happiness before your own. That is not a good role model for your children. If you are happy your children will be happy. By taking control of your happiness and life you will be demonstrating to them that they too are in control of their own happiness.
Seek out help from a professional who will help you as well make the right choices for yourself as it is difficult to express and give the right advice over a short yahoo answers session.
I don't think you should ever stay in a relationship for the children's sake. Kids are sharp, and we dont give them enough credit . they know when something is wrong, and if you are as unhappy as you say you are I can almost guarantee then can sense that
I do not think that staying married for the children is a good idea. You say that they are feeling the tension. They do. They know when things are not right and they know when you are not happy. It is not selfish to want to be happy. Your children might be more happy in a house that is not filled with tension.pores
i'm sorry to hear your marriage isn't going too well, from reading your post it reminded me of the tv show ';how to have sex after marriage'; if you havent seen one of their shows i suggest you do.
as i don't know you on a personal level i have no insight into your relationship other than what you have said but i'm sure as you married and had kids with him you were once madly in love with each other but obviously from what your saying its fizzled out =/
i think its a bit upsetting when someone choses to put the kids before their partner, you should come first or equal to them.
staying in a loveless marriage is painful for you, him and your children, if there is tention in the house hold it's not a great place to bring up children.
as for your husband saying he doesnt want to lose you, if that was the case then he would do everything in his power to hold onto you and if he wont, hes not worth it!
you need to be a strong woman not just for yourself but for your kiddies too. noone deserves to feel trapped and miserable. make sure he knows what he will be missing if he doesnt buck up his ideas!
don't let him get you down, hes obviously not worth it. xNeed some solid, real advice about my marriage-I have faith in all of you people! Help me please!?
I am sorry to hear this is your situation as was mine 2 months ago before I just up and left, I have never been happier but it was a long time coming and I think the kids new something was coming so it was not terribly traumatic. How can you love someone who does not love themselves? My husband litteraly pushed me out by his coments and actions but he would never leave me because of his marriage beliefs. We had 2 and a half years of marriage counseling so I highly recommend this befor any action be taken even if you still split up it will give you both the strength to manage after the fact and if you don't split then it was well worth it. Good luck to you - but it needs to be all about you, be honest with yourself and look after yourself.
If you are not happy neither will your children be!!!!!!!!! Good luck and God bless
I think there two problems here. First is the psychological state of your husband that could probably be related with the jobs that he doesn't keep. Second it is your lack of love for him. Clearly you don't love him so for your own sake leave him. I would imagine that you feel pity for him, given the situation, but you need to get over it, otherwise it will TWO people completely unhappy. I believe it will be very difficult for you to do this but be brave, because you did not show, in your text, any sign of affection for him, the only thing that I see is your guilty feelings for leaving him. I don't know what is worse if it is the fact that you live a lie or the fact that he doens't notice it.
I personally do not believe in divorce. However, if you honestly don't think it will work out, leave. Don't stay together for the kids. Eventually, they will see how unhappy you are. Do what it best for you, if you are unhealthy spiritually, mentally, physically, or emotionally, it will only make them feel helpless. You owe it to yourself to be happy and have a chance at true matrimonial bliss.
i am a true believer than children are better off with a single happy parent- than with two miserable ones. Trust me- they learn from everything they see- and often model after it.
if they don't see either of you make an effort to be happy- it will wreak havoc on their self-esteem, and they, too will have issues as adults feeling that they deserve anything better. After all- their only frame of comparison is two parents that are eternally unhappy with eachother.
Good luck
you people think marriage is jsut a relationship? why did you even go out with him in the first place. Marriage is a decision of a lifetime and when you make it you gota keep the promise. You will be punished on judgement day if you divorce because in the bible says: ';you cannot divorce for any reason UNLESS if your husband or wife is cheating and being unfaithful, or if they are too sinful and you cant stand their sinful life';. Now make the choice. The way it sounds to me is that you just wnat to have fun but woe to you nonbelievers..god bless you..go to church.
Because of the children and the fact that they must all be under 11 years of age. I would suggest trying to work things out. Talk to him explain where your coming from. Think before taking drastic measures. Being a single parent with 4 young children. Will be hard. You will have to work then come home and take care of them. Dating will be practically impossible if you care about being a good parent. Plus you will have to worry about the kind of men you will attract. What decent man wants to date a woman with 4 small children? Unless he is a predator of kids. It will be practically a miracle to meet one worth having that will accept the children and care for them. Coming from a broken home. Where my mother had more children than you. And she decided to do her own thing. I know what I speak of.
I was in your shoes once.I was 27 %26amp; had 4 children also. But he made it easy for me.He cheated on me with our 15 yo
babysitter.It killed any feelings I had left for him.I made him
leave %26amp; he had to support us all. You are not being selfish so
don't let that stop you! Life is to short to be so miserable.From
one who has been there,done that also.
Your husband sounds depressed. He needs a complete medical check up and a psychological evaluation.
See a therapist as soon as possible...start with you, then maybe the two of you together. Take it easy. Take a deep breath. Do something nice for yourself!! Pamper yourself!! You've got 4 kids and you're only 30! Give yourself a break! And don't call a lawyer til you give therapy a chance! KJL
I'm sorry, but the whole 'his looks are fading fast' is really a shallow thing to say. We will all grow old (God willing) and our looks will fade.....some of that is beyond the scope of what we have control over.
';Deep down I have always known he's not the one'; What one? Don't spout romantic drivel...
You owe it to your children to drop the romantic fantasy and deal with the reality. The reality is that you've made four kids with this man, and at one point you loved him enough to marry him.
You say he is trying, and that is a good sign. Why not try marriage counseling? Why not try something different....like changing YOUR ATTITUDE? What have you done lately to promote your marriage? All I hear is complaining...and that's only going to get you one place, further in misery.
Sometimes the only thing we have control over is our own behavior. Why not PRETEND that you are feeling his efforts? Why not be kind and caring towards him? Even if you don't 'feel' it, just pretend it. You'd be surprised what a few nice and encouraging words from you can do.
Give him a compliment, build him up, quit tearing him down......
Good Luck.
I express how you are feeling with your husband and try to find a way for both of you to feel better.
Never put your children's happiness before your own. That is not a good role model for your children. If you are happy your children will be happy. By taking control of your happiness and life you will be demonstrating to them that they too are in control of their own happiness.
Seek out help from a professional who will help you as well make the right choices for yourself as it is difficult to express and give the right advice over a short yahoo answers session.
I don't think you should ever stay in a relationship for the children's sake. Kids are sharp, and we dont give them enough credit . they know when something is wrong, and if you are as unhappy as you say you are I can almost guarantee then can sense that
I do not think that staying married for the children is a good idea. You say that they are feeling the tension. They do. They know when things are not right and they know when you are not happy. It is not selfish to want to be happy. Your children might be more happy in a house that is not filled with tension.
Need Help selecting a specialty (people in the medical field would be preferred but any advice is helpful)?
I need help deciding a specialty I would really like to do something in primary care but unfortunately all the ';big money'; jobs are kind of behind the scenes (anesthesiology, surgery, radiology ect.) I am wondering if there's something in between I really want a specialty where I can be with people a lot and be mentally stimulated and challenged on a daily basis but I have always liked the big physician salaries. If push comes to shove I'll choose people over money but i was just wondering if there's a primary care position that offers the ';big physician salary'; (on average of course)Need Help selecting a specialty (people in the medical field would be preferred but any advice is helpful)?
Not clear if you want to be a doctor, but where I live you could be a cardiac speciality where you have to meet with the patients before and after and of course, during! Also, Nurse Practioners make a good living and get to meet a lot of people. Another type of doctor wouldn't have to be medically involved but you could be a psychatrist, or a counselor. Psychatrists make over $100 an hour. I don't know what the hourly break down is for a doctor. I would also figure that psychatrists have better hours and not on call like a doctor would be.Need Help selecting a specialty (people in the medical field would be preferred but any advice is helpful)?
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Thinking of renting to own a house with a roof leak, my friend lives there now and is moving out, there was a small leak in the roof that they let go all winter long and here we are and its summer! I can now see the mold running down the wall, its in an outside wall on their porch/laundry room. I know its expensive to clean up like over 5,000 but how far do you think the mold has traveled since it started? I would buy the house if it was just that wall that needed ripped out and that section of the roof but i need advice, not even 100% sure its black mold but it is black and it is common for roof leaks. I am in love with this house and its in the perfect location....i just need some advice.Question on black mold from people who have experienced it personally or a mold inspector advice?
Without being in the house or doing sampling there is no way to determine how far the mold has grown, this is because the rate of growth is dependent on a number of factors such as amount of water, mold species, amount of food (drywall, studs, etc.), temperature, Relative Humidity. It could be as extensive as the whole house or as little as just a line down the wall where the leak is.
You could actually probably remove the mold for less than $5000 depending on the extent of the mold damage. However I would definitely have an environmental consultant that deals with or specializes in mold sampling come out and take some samples to determine the extent of the mold in the house. This should be done with air samples, core samples and tape lift if any is visible. This will give you a much better idea of how extensive the mold is in the house and of what type it is. This can run you between $500-2000 for the sampling, but it is money well spent if you love the house and want to buy it.
If you are a handy man and know how to fix the roof leak, and can deal with the drywall yourself then I would say that You could probably do the cleanup for less than $2000 depending on sampling costs and the extent of the mold infestation. If it's just the one room and wall possibly $500 for remediation and then sampling costs.
As far as selling the house with mold in it, it is absolutely legal to do that, however most people never buy a house with a known mold issue so the price is usually very very low and even then they rarely sell because the people feel that they have to level the house and start from scratch so they are just buying land.Question on black mold from people who have experienced it personally or a mold inspector advice?
I suggest hiring a mold inspector. I know of a couple of inspection companies out there. I used Partner Engineering and Science out of LA, CA, but they're nationwide, so they might be able to help you out. I think the guy who did the sampling for me was Brad, er... Bradley... something like that.
Call an inspector and have it inspected. Black mold is nothing to fool with. It's dangerous. Let an expert advise you.
Without being in the house or doing sampling there is no way to determine how far the mold has grown, this is because the rate of growth is dependent on a number of factors such as amount of water, mold species, amount of food (drywall, studs, etc.), temperature, Relative Humidity. It could be as extensive as the whole house or as little as just a line down the wall where the leak is.
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If you are a handy man and know how to fix the roof leak, and can deal with the drywall yourself then I would say that You could probably do the cleanup for less than $2000 depending on sampling costs and the extent of the mold infestation. If it's just the one room and wall possibly $500 for remediation and then sampling costs.
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Advice needed about me and my best friend and a group of people we know?
ok, the situation with my best friend goes like this, we are each 23 year old males and we have been friends for 15 years. we like hanging out a lot and we have the same interests. we each believe strongly in going to Church, family life and no drugs/smoking/drinking. my family wasnt always 'all together' while i was growing up, my dad was an alcoholic in a clinic and my sister had 3 kids before the age of 25 so a lot of the time i was forced into babysitting. my best friend was constantly nice to me and invited me to baseball games and to his house to hang out knowing i had a busy home life. 3 years ago we met these people who as we found out after a while, did drugs and drank. i dont like it that they do this stuff but all we do is play sports and ive never done the bad stuff. my best friend has since refused to hang out with these people just to play sports and told me to do the same. i wasnt poplular and good at sports growing up and now i have gotten better as ive gotten older.Advice needed about me and my best friend and a group of people we know?
as for me, it's not bad to play sports but if hanging out with these kind of people makes your friend for 15 years of your lonely life angry, you might as well stop playing with those vicious men. It's hard to have a friendwho's always there with you and 15 years is enough for a proof. If I was in your place, i'll still to my good old friend, refuse the vicious ones and play with other men who are good influence to you. that's all.
as for me, it's not bad to play sports but if hanging out with these kind of people makes your friend for 15 years of your lonely life angry, you might as well stop playing with those vicious men. It's hard to have a friendwho's always there with you and 15 years is enough for a proof. If I was in your place, i'll still to my good old friend, refuse the vicious ones and play with other men who are good influence to you. that's all.
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Never be pushy
never be disrespectful
never ask anything too personal
never look at their chest when talking to them
never allow your eyes to wonder when another womans enters a room
never lie
never say trust me but work on earning that trust.
always be polite
always suggest dates around other people so she feels safe
opening doors, walking side by side while she holds your arm and always to the side of you that has the less amount of danger that could harm her are always good thing to do.
when meeting her friends be polite but dont stare.
and be neatly dressed and make sure you smell good.Finding people is hard enough... finding a girl to date and such is even harder... any advice?
What you should really try is online dating services like match.com , eHarmony.com , Yahoo personals, mate1.com
Now, when creating your online profile be sure to include some GOOD pictures of yourself where you're actually dressed nice. Make yourself presentable. Don't write an autobiography for your profile and keep it short and sweet. For your headline, choose something catchy and don't go with the typical ones every other guy is using.
As for real life dating, your problem is that you're probably too scared to walk up to women and just start talking. If you weren't, you'd have no trouble. I suggest you go to http://www.askmen.com and read ALL of the articles in the dating section. It'll help you understand what women really want in a guy, and pay close attention to what to do when on a date.
Once you finally do land a date don't take her out for a huge impressive good time. Take her to a coffee shop and show off your personality. Read up on askmen on how to use body language, voice tone, humor, intellect, and maturity to make women highly attracted to you.
I probably shouldn't be telling you this part, because it's a tad illegal. But if you go to http://www.limewire.com and download the client, it's spyware free, search for David DeAngelo. Now download his pdf (eBooks) on Attraction and Double Your Dating. Read everything and learn how it all works. You'll have so much success.
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i understand im with you all the way we are in the same predicament. the best suggestion i have is to go to events that has your best interest most likely the people you meet there will be most like you with the same things in mind{goals,life,passion}dont give up on finding a a decent girl itll happen, hopefully i can find him to lol
throw in the towl/give up.(or uhhh,...hmmm change to another lifestyle)
never be disrespectful
never ask anything too personal
never look at their chest when talking to them
never allow your eyes to wonder when another womans enters a room
never lie
never say trust me but work on earning that trust.
always be polite
always suggest dates around other people so she feels safe
opening doors, walking side by side while she holds your arm and always to the side of you that has the less amount of danger that could harm her are always good thing to do.
when meeting her friends be polite but dont stare.
and be neatly dressed and make sure you smell good.Finding people is hard enough... finding a girl to date and such is even harder... any advice?
What you should really try is online dating services like match.com , eHarmony.com , Yahoo personals, mate1.com
Now, when creating your online profile be sure to include some GOOD pictures of yourself where you're actually dressed nice. Make yourself presentable. Don't write an autobiography for your profile and keep it short and sweet. For your headline, choose something catchy and don't go with the typical ones every other guy is using.
As for real life dating, your problem is that you're probably too scared to walk up to women and just start talking. If you weren't, you'd have no trouble. I suggest you go to http://www.askmen.com and read ALL of the articles in the dating section. It'll help you understand what women really want in a guy, and pay close attention to what to do when on a date.
Once you finally do land a date don't take her out for a huge impressive good time. Take her to a coffee shop and show off your personality. Read up on askmen on how to use body language, voice tone, humor, intellect, and maturity to make women highly attracted to you.
I probably shouldn't be telling you this part, because it's a tad illegal. But if you go to http://www.limewire.com and download the client, it's spyware free, search for David DeAngelo. Now download his pdf (eBooks) on Attraction and Double Your Dating. Read everything and learn how it all works. You'll have so much success.
One last thing... when a woman tells you what she wants in a man NEVER believe her. She's lying to you, and to herself. This is why nice guys always fail. Don't be an extremely nice guy, be a man who treats her good.Finding people is hard enough... finding a girl to date and such is even harder... any advice?
i understand im with you all the way we are in the same predicament. the best suggestion i have is to go to events that has your best interest most likely the people you meet there will be most like you with the same things in mind{goals,life,passion}dont give up on finding a a decent girl itll happen, hopefully i can find him to lol
throw in the towl/give up.(or uhhh,...hmmm change to another lifestyle)
Does anybody need advice about jesus or what he did for us cause i am a and i want to bring people to jesus?
PSALMS AND SONG FOR JESUS IN THESE LAST DAY
Eph.2:7 Joy in the lord is for ages to come.
Eph.3:21 the world with Jesus is without end.
King David sang songs or Psalms 77:5,6 as time passing bring all closer to SALVATION
Eph.5:19 Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Eph.5:20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
Gal.5:22,23 But the fruits of the Spirit is Love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there
is no law.
THE ONLY TIME TO HAVE A HEAVY HEART BEFORE GOD IS FOR THOSE IN SIN FOR SIN:
2Tim.3:1-7; Matt.10:34-38[ Them shunning you or you shun them must be done ];
[ Sinful company spoils goodly intentions many ways, in last days ];Does anybody need advice about jesus or what he did for us cause i am a and i want to bring people to jesus?
Do you think you can bring him to me instead. I'm a busy guy.Does anybody need advice about jesus or what he did for us cause i am a and i want to bring people to jesus?
THINK ABOUT IT:
Which is the oldest bible in existence? Is that the version you follow, or do you prefer a more recently doctored version?
ANSWER:
Hi, Definetly NOT. May be some sort of CORRUPT translation in the form of different language.
This is due to the handy work of Satan/Jinn/Devil and also human nature to follow their own desires rather than following the simple message of all the prophets that is to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the PURPOSE OF LIFE.
Regarding the revelations from ONLY ONE GOD, GOD chosen angel Gabriel through prophets (from first prophet Adam to last prophet Mohammad (PBU them all) including Jesus (PBUH) to deliver the simple message to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the purpose of life. But every time the message got corrupted until GOD sent the final prophet Mohammad (PBUH) to make the religion PURE from CORRUPTION. Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) always tell his companions/scholars to write it down as soon as the revelation from GOD comes via angel Gibriel. On top of that many people don't know HOLY QURAN is the only BOOK that has been memorised from begining till end that was the case during the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) life and after that. Now there are millions of muslim even the four years old memorised the whole QURAN unlike any other book. That's how the Quran is preserved in ORIGINAL form via written record as well as by memorisation.
There are only two scared books to follow, first is the HOLY QURAN and the other is the SAYINGS OF PROPHET (PBUH).
Regarding the HOLY QURAN:
Man or science and technology in their own limitations can鈥檛 answer this things/believes/struggle. Only thing left for the mankind is to find out from the ONLY ONE CREATOR that created everything that exists.
The thing is people don鈥檛 know what to follow. They follow something that haven鈥檛 said by prophets including Jesus (peace be upon him PBUH) himself. The solution to this is to do a research and find out the AUTHENCITY of the source or the books. It is not at all difficult in today鈥檚 world.
In Short: The ONLY PURE ORIGINAL WORD OF GOD is left on the phase of the planet is the HOLY QURAN that came with the prophet 1400 years ago without any SINGLE LETTER corrupted, that Guides, Faith with Proof, shows way of life, tells in details the mission of prophets including Jesus (peace be upon him PBUH), gives answers to all questions, solutions and tells much in details of what will be going to happen (past, present and future) and the purpose of existence, etc. The WORD OF GOD came with the SAME MESSAGE through prophets (from first prophet Adam to last prophet Mohammad (PBU them all) including Jesus (PBUH) and only person to interpret is the prophet of GOD at that time. Unlike HOLY QURAN all the other Books are corrupted and are not in the PURE ORIGINAL WORD OF GOD that鈥檚 is due to the handy work of Satan/Jinn/Devil and also human nature to follow their own desires rather than following the simple message of all the prophets that is to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the PURPOSE OF LIFE. In Muslim world there are many books available today in different languages of the ORIGINAL INTERPRETATION of the HOLY QURAN by the prophet of GOD about 1400 years ago that is the only interpretation that has to be follow to be the true follower of the prophet as commanded by GOD and the ONLY WAY to SUCCESS that is both in this WORLD and ETERNAL PARADISE. Regards,
How many of you believe that Mary is the mother of God?
ANSWER
NOT the true believers. True believers including all the 1.6 Billions Muslim present on the phase of the planet and all the creatures of the ONLY ONE GOD. Mary (peace be upon her PBUH) is the mother of prophet Jesus (peace be upon him).
This is the how GOD describes HIMSELF in HOLY QURAN chapter 112.
[112:0] In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
[112:1] Proclaim, ';He is the One and only GOD.
[112:2] ';The Absolute GOD.
[112:3] ';Never did He beget. Nor was He begotten.
[112:4] ';None equals Him.';
NO ONE can challenge this. Except ISLAM, all other religions on the phase of this planet including their so called human gods cannot fit in this category.
NO INTERCESSION except in accordance with GOD will (HOLY QURAN chapter 2)
[2:254] O you who believe, you shall give to charity from the provisions GOD have given to you, before a day comes where there is no trade, no nepotism, and NO INTERCESSION. The disbelievers are the unjust.
[2:255] GOD: there is no other god besides Him, the Living, the Eternal. Never a moment of unawareness or slumber overtakes Him. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who could INTERCEDE with Him, except in accordance with His will? He knows their past, and their future. No one attains any knowledge, except as He wills. His dominion encompasses the heavens and the earth, and ruling them never burdens Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
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No, I sure do not need advice about what Jesus Christ did for me, but, if you want to bring more people to Jesus Christ, just follow the roman road of St. Paul.
Why you don't bring your self and others to the creator of Jesus because this way you will please the creator of all the One and Only true God Allah.
1. Say: He is Allah, the One and Only;
2. Allah, the Eternal, Absolute;
3. He begetteth not, nor is He begotten;
4. And there is none like unto Him.
Yeah why didn't Jesus tell people about Evolution and about how we evolved from monkeys instead of leaving the lies of Genesis?
i can see that u dont have any friends but u got to church , and u r very insecure about ur self and ur relgion mate
Dont u Christins have any other job apart from Converting other rel to ur rel
instead go and help your own people who dont have food and house in that ur jesus will bless u
Eph.2:7 Joy in the lord is for ages to come.
Eph.3:21 the world with Jesus is without end.
King David sang songs or Psalms 77:5,6 as time passing bring all closer to SALVATION
Eph.5:19 Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Eph.5:20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
Gal.5:22,23 But the fruits of the Spirit is Love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there
is no law.
THE ONLY TIME TO HAVE A HEAVY HEART BEFORE GOD IS FOR THOSE IN SIN FOR SIN:
2Tim.3:1-7; Matt.10:34-38[ Them shunning you or you shun them must be done ];
[ Sinful company spoils goodly intentions many ways, in last days ];Does anybody need advice about jesus or what he did for us cause i am a and i want to bring people to jesus?
Do you think you can bring him to me instead. I'm a busy guy.Does anybody need advice about jesus or what he did for us cause i am a and i want to bring people to jesus?
THINK ABOUT IT:
Which is the oldest bible in existence? Is that the version you follow, or do you prefer a more recently doctored version?
ANSWER:
Hi, Definetly NOT. May be some sort of CORRUPT translation in the form of different language.
This is due to the handy work of Satan/Jinn/Devil and also human nature to follow their own desires rather than following the simple message of all the prophets that is to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the PURPOSE OF LIFE.
Regarding the revelations from ONLY ONE GOD, GOD chosen angel Gabriel through prophets (from first prophet Adam to last prophet Mohammad (PBU them all) including Jesus (PBUH) to deliver the simple message to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the purpose of life. But every time the message got corrupted until GOD sent the final prophet Mohammad (PBUH) to make the religion PURE from CORRUPTION. Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) always tell his companions/scholars to write it down as soon as the revelation from GOD comes via angel Gibriel. On top of that many people don't know HOLY QURAN is the only BOOK that has been memorised from begining till end that was the case during the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) life and after that. Now there are millions of muslim even the four years old memorised the whole QURAN unlike any other book. That's how the Quran is preserved in ORIGINAL form via written record as well as by memorisation.
There are only two scared books to follow, first is the HOLY QURAN and the other is the SAYINGS OF PROPHET (PBUH).
Regarding the HOLY QURAN:
Man or science and technology in their own limitations can鈥檛 answer this things/believes/struggle. Only thing left for the mankind is to find out from the ONLY ONE CREATOR that created everything that exists.
The thing is people don鈥檛 know what to follow. They follow something that haven鈥檛 said by prophets including Jesus (peace be upon him PBUH) himself. The solution to this is to do a research and find out the AUTHENCITY of the source or the books. It is not at all difficult in today鈥檚 world.
In Short: The ONLY PURE ORIGINAL WORD OF GOD is left on the phase of the planet is the HOLY QURAN that came with the prophet 1400 years ago without any SINGLE LETTER corrupted, that Guides, Faith with Proof, shows way of life, tells in details the mission of prophets including Jesus (peace be upon him PBUH), gives answers to all questions, solutions and tells much in details of what will be going to happen (past, present and future) and the purpose of existence, etc. The WORD OF GOD came with the SAME MESSAGE through prophets (from first prophet Adam to last prophet Mohammad (PBU them all) including Jesus (PBUH) and only person to interpret is the prophet of GOD at that time. Unlike HOLY QURAN all the other Books are corrupted and are not in the PURE ORIGINAL WORD OF GOD that鈥檚 is due to the handy work of Satan/Jinn/Devil and also human nature to follow their own desires rather than following the simple message of all the prophets that is to believe in ONLY ONE GOD in order to achieve the PURPOSE OF LIFE. In Muslim world there are many books available today in different languages of the ORIGINAL INTERPRETATION of the HOLY QURAN by the prophet of GOD about 1400 years ago that is the only interpretation that has to be follow to be the true follower of the prophet as commanded by GOD and the ONLY WAY to SUCCESS that is both in this WORLD and ETERNAL PARADISE. Regards,
How many of you believe that Mary is the mother of God?
ANSWER
NOT the true believers. True believers including all the 1.6 Billions Muslim present on the phase of the planet and all the creatures of the ONLY ONE GOD. Mary (peace be upon her PBUH) is the mother of prophet Jesus (peace be upon him).
This is the how GOD describes HIMSELF in HOLY QURAN chapter 112.
[112:0] In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
[112:1] Proclaim, ';He is the One and only GOD.
[112:2] ';The Absolute GOD.
[112:3] ';Never did He beget. Nor was He begotten.
[112:4] ';None equals Him.';
NO ONE can challenge this. Except ISLAM, all other religions on the phase of this planet including their so called human gods cannot fit in this category.
NO INTERCESSION except in accordance with GOD will (HOLY QURAN chapter 2)
[2:254] O you who believe, you shall give to charity from the provisions GOD have given to you, before a day comes where there is no trade, no nepotism, and NO INTERCESSION. The disbelievers are the unjust.
[2:255] GOD: there is no other god besides Him, the Living, the Eternal. Never a moment of unawareness or slumber overtakes Him. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who could INTERCEDE with Him, except in accordance with His will? He knows their past, and their future. No one attains any knowledge, except as He wills. His dominion encompasses the heavens and the earth, and ruling them never burdens Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
Infact THE HOLY QURAN is ORIGINAL WORD OF GOD in PURE FORM and the FINAL TESTAMENT for mankind from ONLY ONE GOD who have created everything that exists.
No, I sure do not need advice about what Jesus Christ did for me, but, if you want to bring more people to Jesus Christ, just follow the roman road of St. Paul.
Why you don't bring your self and others to the creator of Jesus because this way you will please the creator of all the One and Only true God Allah.
1. Say: He is Allah, the One and Only;
2. Allah, the Eternal, Absolute;
3. He begetteth not, nor is He begotten;
4. And there is none like unto Him.
Yeah why didn't Jesus tell people about Evolution and about how we evolved from monkeys instead of leaving the lies of Genesis?
i can see that u dont have any friends but u got to church , and u r very insecure about ur self and ur relgion mate
Dont u Christins have any other job apart from Converting other rel to ur rel
instead go and help your own people who dont have food and house in that ur jesus will bless u
Why is it that when a guy gives good advice he is usually thought of as gay? lots of people ask me whether I麓m
whether Im gay and they say its because of the advice I give and that normally a guy wouldnt give such advice unless he was older and he had life experience etc and even then its rare to find such an understanding guy....
so Im like 15 and people come to me for advice and its usually the girls and the guys said it makes me look gay well i dont care what they think I just wanna know why they think that just because of my advice?Why is it that when a guy gives good advice he is usually thought of as gay? lots of people ask me whether I麓m
Are you? If you are then it's all true. If you're not they're probably jealous coz of all the attention you get from the girls.Why is it that when a guy gives good advice he is usually thought of as gay? lots of people ask me whether I麓m
tell them to stop hating. Its not your fault that you know what your talking about. Keep on giving it out, if you help people maybe you found out what your great at
The same thing was said of me by a few people during my school years because I preferred the company of women. It is entirely and easily possible to be a sensitive, caring man without being a closet homosexual or any other kind, which is apparently contrary to popular belief.
odakle si ti? jel si iz Srbije!!???
where r u from.. and whats ur email?
I feel, from personal experience, that I'm just a lot more sensitive, and given all the crap I've had to deal with, I just spend a lot more time thinking about the consequences of certain things when advising people on things to do. In any case, if it's only the guys who think you are gay, and the girls keep going to you for advice, then I wouldn't worry, because YOU are the one with all the girls. They're probably just jealous because they aren't as lucky with the ladies as you are. Either way, keep giving out the good advice regardless of how people think it makes you look. People are right that it can be difficult to find understanding people like yourself.
Sooo, what you're saying is that you're not gay. Do you want to be gay? Do you want to be received by the gay community as straight? Are you content with being straight and have no gay feelings? Do you like girls (that are not gay)? You are bound to have a problem in public school. You will be bombarded with pro-gay remarks from every teacher and most students because of the pro-homosexual ideology promoted by our educators today. Diversity is the catch word. If you are straight you should be informed as to your possible gay feelings that you might or might not have... yet. After all how do you know unless you are educated in a gay school on how many awful things gays have to deal with every day if you live just a straight life. Fudge packers and carpet licker's are the ones who need understanding, not the normal youth of today. Remember to pick up some on the man/boy love web sites to round out your education. 'Member, gay is straight and straight is gay.
I did not know that.
forget the people
The guys don't like it because the girls are coming to you instead of them when they need something. Gay men are actually known to be more intune to people's problems.
I don't know.
It's a stereotyping thing.
Most women, and men, expect men to by unsympathetic, and very stupid when it comes to giving good advice when it doesn't concern mechanics or sex.
Keep giving good advice. The people who instantly assume you're gay, when you're not, are the people who simply aren't worth your time.
I love people who give good advice, I need them like the air I breathe, they become my closest friends.
And there's nothing wrong with being gay either. Lovely people.pores
so Im like 15 and people come to me for advice and its usually the girls and the guys said it makes me look gay well i dont care what they think I just wanna know why they think that just because of my advice?Why is it that when a guy gives good advice he is usually thought of as gay? lots of people ask me whether I麓m
Are you? If you are then it's all true. If you're not they're probably jealous coz of all the attention you get from the girls.Why is it that when a guy gives good advice he is usually thought of as gay? lots of people ask me whether I麓m
tell them to stop hating. Its not your fault that you know what your talking about. Keep on giving it out, if you help people maybe you found out what your great at
The same thing was said of me by a few people during my school years because I preferred the company of women. It is entirely and easily possible to be a sensitive, caring man without being a closet homosexual or any other kind, which is apparently contrary to popular belief.
odakle si ti? jel si iz Srbije!!???
where r u from.. and whats ur email?
I feel, from personal experience, that I'm just a lot more sensitive, and given all the crap I've had to deal with, I just spend a lot more time thinking about the consequences of certain things when advising people on things to do. In any case, if it's only the guys who think you are gay, and the girls keep going to you for advice, then I wouldn't worry, because YOU are the one with all the girls. They're probably just jealous because they aren't as lucky with the ladies as you are. Either way, keep giving out the good advice regardless of how people think it makes you look. People are right that it can be difficult to find understanding people like yourself.
Sooo, what you're saying is that you're not gay. Do you want to be gay? Do you want to be received by the gay community as straight? Are you content with being straight and have no gay feelings? Do you like girls (that are not gay)? You are bound to have a problem in public school. You will be bombarded with pro-gay remarks from every teacher and most students because of the pro-homosexual ideology promoted by our educators today. Diversity is the catch word. If you are straight you should be informed as to your possible gay feelings that you might or might not have... yet. After all how do you know unless you are educated in a gay school on how many awful things gays have to deal with every day if you live just a straight life. Fudge packers and carpet licker's are the ones who need understanding, not the normal youth of today. Remember to pick up some on the man/boy love web sites to round out your education. 'Member, gay is straight and straight is gay.
I did not know that.
forget the people
The guys don't like it because the girls are coming to you instead of them when they need something. Gay men are actually known to be more intune to people's problems.
I don't know.
It's a stereotyping thing.
Most women, and men, expect men to by unsympathetic, and very stupid when it comes to giving good advice when it doesn't concern mechanics or sex.
Keep giving good advice. The people who instantly assume you're gay, when you're not, are the people who simply aren't worth your time.
I love people who give good advice, I need them like the air I breathe, they become my closest friends.
And there's nothing wrong with being gay either. Lovely people.
I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
okay so my best friend katrina and this guy named ryan were kind of together. they weren't like officially going out or anything.
but then he ';left'; her and he tells people that they went out and that he broke up with her.
katrina gets mad at this because they didn't go out and what he's saying is not true.
and people said that when he talks about katrina, he look away and he looks kind of sad and looks unsure.
could it be that he still has feelings for her?
if so, then how should she deal with this problem?
i mean, she doesn't wanna hurt his feelings by like telling him off(on telling people that they went out).
i feel like such a bad friend because i can never give her a good piece of advice.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
Sounds like high school. But anyways my advice would be for your friend to try to pull him aside and talk to him, she could try to do it at school like at lunch but if that is too hard maybe she should try to call him and ask to meet up for coffee or ice cream and talk. She should say she doesn't appreciate him talking about her and that she wishes he would be respectful and stop. But by sitting down and being honest he is more likely to be honest. Maybe there still is something there. But if she makes the effort to be honest and open up he more than likely will too. But there shouldn't have a confrontation in front of there friends because then it becomes about them just trying to impress everyone else and not solving things. But at the same time is his friendship really worth anything to your friend? If it isn't don't worry about it so what people talk crap they always will, be the bigger person and don't let it bother you move on and find someone else.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
she can easily poison him..............
but then he ';left'; her and he tells people that they went out and that he broke up with her.
katrina gets mad at this because they didn't go out and what he's saying is not true.
and people said that when he talks about katrina, he look away and he looks kind of sad and looks unsure.
could it be that he still has feelings for her?
if so, then how should she deal with this problem?
i mean, she doesn't wanna hurt his feelings by like telling him off(on telling people that they went out).
i feel like such a bad friend because i can never give her a good piece of advice.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
Sounds like high school. But anyways my advice would be for your friend to try to pull him aside and talk to him, she could try to do it at school like at lunch but if that is too hard maybe she should try to call him and ask to meet up for coffee or ice cream and talk. She should say she doesn't appreciate him talking about her and that she wishes he would be respectful and stop. But by sitting down and being honest he is more likely to be honest. Maybe there still is something there. But if she makes the effort to be honest and open up he more than likely will too. But there shouldn't have a confrontation in front of there friends because then it becomes about them just trying to impress everyone else and not solving things. But at the same time is his friendship really worth anything to your friend? If it isn't don't worry about it so what people talk crap they always will, be the bigger person and don't let it bother you move on and find someone else.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
she can easily poison him..............
Trying to meet people for a date? I need advice, preferably from a woman...?
Here's the situation. I'm 21 and I've never dated outside of a blind date once. I talk with girls, but I've gotten rejected twice in the past month. I tried an Internet site (can see pictures, city where they live) and a girl said she would like to meet up sometime. The next day, though I asked her if I could call her sometime to hear her voice and she never sent me another message. I waited two days and sent her another message asking her how her weekend went. Was I too forward here? Also, there were two other girls that I liked. One I met once and wanted to talk with in class at college. Would it be rude to ask to sit next to her tomorrow? The other girl is pretty and my friend from class is giving her my email and Facebook profile, but I don't know if she gave it to her yet. I have confidence, but I'm beginning to think I won't be with any of the girls, and it hurts because they're all pretty and they can all probably get bfs easily. Sorry for the long post.Trying to meet people for a date? I need advice, preferably from a woman...?
Just keep trying and getting to know the girls as friends before you start asking them out. Good Luck.Trying to meet people for a date? I need advice, preferably from a woman...?
first of all, you are trying too hard.
just make friends, and dont think them all as potential gf's. you could spook them because you could be too forward. if they like your friendship, they will eventually be comfortable going out with you. just dont worry about it, so that they can meet the real you. good luck
k um....u lyk 3 gal that is 2 much u need to concentrate on 1 gal if nt someday u cn go crazy...if i were u i would chose the first gal..
Just keep trying and getting to know the girls as friends before you start asking them out. Good Luck.Trying to meet people for a date? I need advice, preferably from a woman...?
first of all, you are trying too hard.
just make friends, and dont think them all as potential gf's. you could spook them because you could be too forward. if they like your friendship, they will eventually be comfortable going out with you. just dont worry about it, so that they can meet the real you. good luck
k um....u lyk 3 gal that is 2 much u need to concentrate on 1 gal if nt someday u cn go crazy...if i were u i would chose the first gal..
Serious people need only respond...i need some medical advice regarding pain.?
i have been having serious neck pain for years and years. my mri only shows that i have bulging disc on the c5-c6. my pain is not in that area its like in the disc area that meats the head.(maybe c1-c2 if there is such). i have been to pain management and have had epiderals (they didn't work) and had 1 faccett block and i was so sore for weeks after and didn't help much. doc says cause of bulging discs it may be causing upper bones to smash togeth and maybe small nerves in there being smashed. what i want to know is: what are faccetts? do they go away or do i have to fix bulging discs? are faccett blocks bad to have done? if anyone knows please answer. thank you very muchSerious people need only respond...i need some medical advice regarding pain.?
In April my husband had his c5-c6 disk fused because of a bulged disk. He was off work for 6 weeks after and now the pain has gone down significantly. The numbness and tingling in his arm and hand were gone as soon as the surgery was over. Now he is back to work and good as new!!Serious people need only respond...i need some medical advice regarding pain.?
sounds like you have been examined by a MD already. ask him
Have you seen a chiropractor?
I have the same thing. I started working out only twice a week and I have shown no signs of pain in four months. Trust me it's worth it. I also have two discs in my back that are 6 and 7 mm out. No pain in either part. Please try its worth it. Its for a better life.
In April my husband had his c5-c6 disk fused because of a bulged disk. He was off work for 6 weeks after and now the pain has gone down significantly. The numbness and tingling in his arm and hand were gone as soon as the surgery was over. Now he is back to work and good as new!!Serious people need only respond...i need some medical advice regarding pain.?
sounds like you have been examined by a MD already. ask him
Have you seen a chiropractor?
I have the same thing. I started working out only twice a week and I have shown no signs of pain in four months. Trust me it's worth it. I also have two discs in my back that are 6 and 7 mm out. No pain in either part. Please try its worth it. Its for a better life.
Means of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
Ok, here's a little detial.... I have been having some weird dreams lattly. They have these kids from school in them. Its the same kids every time. What does this mean? Does this mean that they want to be friends with me? They wqant to advoid me? Plz give you comment on what you think it is. Hereas more detail: in the deams: 1 were all friends and having a good time 2 its not always the same pkace juss same ppl 3 we're all guys.Means of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
Perhaps socially you are feeling rejected. Projecting having good time in dreams with same guys symbolizes the tendency of being socially accepted. In other words, you may be feeling the need to be noticed and recognized especially in your social life.
That dream is about you, not about them. So, whether or not they want to be friend with you, that is another matter. What matter most is that you want to gain attention sociallyMeans of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
I'd suggest in your subconcious you have been thinking about these ';kids';. Perhaps you want to be friends, but are self concious about it? You dream what you see, feel and hear. Alot of the time the messages get mixed up, but think about what you feel towards these kids, you might just have your answer!pores
Perhaps socially you are feeling rejected. Projecting having good time in dreams with same guys symbolizes the tendency of being socially accepted. In other words, you may be feeling the need to be noticed and recognized especially in your social life.
That dream is about you, not about them. So, whether or not they want to be friend with you, that is another matter. What matter most is that you want to gain attention sociallyMeans of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
I'd suggest in your subconcious you have been thinking about these ';kids';. Perhaps you want to be friends, but are self concious about it? You dream what you see, feel and hear. Alot of the time the messages get mixed up, but think about what you feel towards these kids, you might just have your answer!
Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
That's the question I also want to ask! I don't judge people, yet they judge me, and I don't know why people are like that. Whatever you do, never get on ugoplayer.com forums, because the people there are evil, and will make fun of you for completely stupid reasons. *Sigh* Why can't everybody just be nice to eachother? Just proves to you everybody has their flaws.
~Maddie
P.S.
I'll add you to my contacts, 'kay?Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
its hard because there are dumb asses, know it alls, jerks, well wishers, clueless people, and all sorts of people out one the web. u put urself at risk for what they have to say when u post a questions. by posting a question you open ur self to their opinions (which they are allowed to have...free will and such) dont get mad when people dont understand, its not worth the emotion.
people will always judge because we all think we kno best...so MY opinion and advice is if it bothers you that much...dont post questions...or use the advice that makes sense to you and ignore the jerksWhy cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
Huh? I have never been mean to you or anyone on this site. What are you talking about?
You know, I agree with you, but there are those that are helpful too. I understand where you are coming from, I no that when you post you will get those who answer rudely, but then again you get those who understand and try to give you their best advise. So don't take them to heart, just ignore them and move on to the next answer ok. Because I had one of those who answered one of mine.
~Maddie
P.S.
I'll add you to my contacts, 'kay?Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
its hard because there are dumb asses, know it alls, jerks, well wishers, clueless people, and all sorts of people out one the web. u put urself at risk for what they have to say when u post a questions. by posting a question you open ur self to their opinions (which they are allowed to have...free will and such) dont get mad when people dont understand, its not worth the emotion.
people will always judge because we all think we kno best...so MY opinion and advice is if it bothers you that much...dont post questions...or use the advice that makes sense to you and ignore the jerksWhy cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
Huh? I have never been mean to you or anyone on this site. What are you talking about?
You know, I agree with you, but there are those that are helpful too. I understand where you are coming from, I no that when you post you will get those who answer rudely, but then again you get those who understand and try to give you their best advise. So don't take them to heart, just ignore them and move on to the next answer ok. Because I had one of those who answered one of mine.
Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
on how to find a mate? I've had married friends/coworkers ask me why am I still single like it's a disease. Some have even hinted that I'm single because I'm ';too picky'; and that I just need to get out there and meet someone. Usually the people who are telling me this have been married for years and don't really understand what it's like to be single nowadays. It's very irritating (and hurtful) to have people act like singlehood is a crime. Have any other single people experienced this as well?Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
YES!!!!!!!!
It works on my nerves......so they are telling you that they settled so do what worked for them...I would rather wait, not looking for perfect but I am not willing to just jump into anything. Trust me your doing the right thing. You just have to zone them out with all that ';advice'; that is being offered.Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
hell yes
YES!!!!!!!!
It works on my nerves......so they are telling you that they settled so do what worked for them...I would rather wait, not looking for perfect but I am not willing to just jump into anything. Trust me your doing the right thing. You just have to zone them out with all that ';advice'; that is being offered.Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
hell yes
If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Alive is hard
I guess I would choose Bill Clinton
But my choice for dead is Mother TheresaIf you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
My Dad and my Grandmother. They were my best friends.If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Dead: My Grandfather.
Alive: Probably my close friends, I don't see how a famous person would really necessarily care.
BUT if famous people are what you were going for
Alive: Barack Obama
Dead: Princess Diana
Maya Angelou and my grandmother.
i would choose alive, they r more likely to answer me!
Someone that is alive? I dont know. But I defiantly wouldnt want advice from a dead person. Because they obviously havent figured out the secret to immortality lol. J/K umm. Alive-I still dont know, Dead-Audrey Hepburn %26amp; Steve Biko. xo, me.
I guess I would choose Bill Clinton
But my choice for dead is Mother TheresaIf you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
My Dad and my Grandmother. They were my best friends.If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Dead: My Grandfather.
Alive: Probably my close friends, I don't see how a famous person would really necessarily care.
BUT if famous people are what you were going for
Alive: Barack Obama
Dead: Princess Diana
Maya Angelou and my grandmother.
i would choose alive, they r more likely to answer me!
Someone that is alive? I dont know. But I defiantly wouldnt want advice from a dead person. Because they obviously havent figured out the secret to immortality lol. J/K umm. Alive-I still dont know, Dead-Audrey Hepburn %26amp; Steve Biko. xo, me.
All people who are wise and christians or just smart give me advice please.?
Hey, I am a fourteen year old girl and would love to pursue a career in modelling/acting but I am just worried of the extra attention and press media. I am scared as my family will never be able to go out with out press following us as we arent really into all that as we a re just a quiet nigerian family. They may hear us say something rude to each other or whatever and you see some big press media story and I will be ruined. I want a normal life and a normal teenagehood but I would LOVE to do modelling, go to a normal state schoola and basically just be able to go to the local highstreet without always having tobe asked for autographs. I am just worried of the price that comes with it. Like some familys enjoy the fame, but I wouldnt especially. But what I could do is just be cool and wow wow wow on stage etc but not go out to clubs or wild partys or smoke etc but stay in school and rarley talk to the press. Be kind of like Lily cole. What should I do?All people who are wise and christians or just smart give me advice please.?
THE FEAR OF GOD, IS THE BEGAINING OF ALL
WISDOM.
WHATEVER you embark on in your life.Be sure to
put Gog first.
He always have the last word in this world.
Because when its all said and done....its the ALMIGHTY
GOD that we have to face.
As it is written What does it profit to gain the whole
world....and lose your own soul.All people who are wise and christians or just smart give me advice please.?
The odds of you being killed in a car accident are better than becoming famous. You have no plan, you're only fantasizing, so, how can we answer this?
What you're describing is how you DON'T really want to be famous but want to be able to feel better than others. Is that normal?
If you become a little bit famous you can try to see how much publicity you can handle. I agree with the first answerer. You're getting a bit ahead of yourself girlie.....
THE FEAR OF GOD, IS THE BEGAINING OF ALL
WISDOM.
WHATEVER you embark on in your life.Be sure to
put Gog first.
He always have the last word in this world.
Because when its all said and done....its the ALMIGHTY
GOD that we have to face.
As it is written What does it profit to gain the whole
world....and lose your own soul.All people who are wise and christians or just smart give me advice please.?
The odds of you being killed in a car accident are better than becoming famous. You have no plan, you're only fantasizing, so, how can we answer this?
What you're describing is how you DON'T really want to be famous but want to be able to feel better than others. Is that normal?
If you become a little bit famous you can try to see how much publicity you can handle. I agree with the first answerer. You're getting a bit ahead of yourself girlie.....
I need friend advice i was invted to the same place by two different people who hate eachother i double booked?
my friend bella and i were talking about going to a concert for a while, but she never got back to me so i asked my other friend jessieif she could get tickets becuase she has connections. my friend bella got back to me todya, the concert is tomorrow she said she got from row seats. but i told jessie i would go with her but jessie didnt get tickets so we were going to try to buy them there. jessie and bella dont get along, who do i go with. also my parents are good friends with jessie parentsI need friend advice i was invted to the same place by two different people who hate eachother i double booked?
Well you should go with the person who got the tickets, which means you should go with Bella.
Well you should go with the person who got the tickets, which means you should go with Bella.
I need help getting people to attend my club meetings at my university. Need advice from religious folks.?
I am the Vice President of a club at my University, but we are having trouble getting the types of people we want to come to our meetings.
(I hope anyone who takes the time to answer also takes the time to read my question and try to understand where I am coming from).
There are many christian and muslim organizations at our univeristy which have many members. However, we also have an organization called AAFSA (Atheist, Agnostic, Free Thinking Student Association), which was formed by a friend of mine (the current president).
We meet every other week to have discussions on various topics. About a week before our meeting I create and post flyers around the school advertising the meeting, stating the current topic, and inviting everyone to come and participate.
Examples of past topics were: ';What are your views on extremists in religion? What defines an extremist, and what positive and negative purposes do they serve?';
[More details to follow]I need help getting people to attend my club meetings at my university. Need advice from religious folks.?
Reach out to other groups and offer to debate others on their viewpoints. Make sure you don't attack them and be sure to have very clear rules for the discussion, or it could all turn bad. Then you could host joint meetings and have spinoff discussions within your own separate groups.I need help getting people to attend my club meetings at my university. Need advice from religious folks.?
Have them in a bar. Seriously.
My friend,meetings are good but why such topics?
You are all wasting your time talking about nothing you will benefit.
Why don't switch into bible study which will help you live a life of faith in God and the living hope in it.
Just as you might be uncomfortable attending a revival at a Pentecostal church because you would be leery of the evangelism, probably those religious believers you want to share with are afraid of your form of ';evangelism.';
In one of your topics, you use the word ';extremist.'; That is a loaded word that may have scared people off. Extremists don't believe they are extreme, they believe they are doing the will of God, and they see any discussion of the matter as criticism. Also, many religious people are taught not to associate with atheists.
If you are honest about the sharing of information and are an open forum for everyone, and are careful about not denigrating the beliefs of others, and perhaps use less loaded language in your flyers, you may get people of all faiths to attend. Maybe the Christians and Muslims would listen to you, and perhaps you would listen to them and everyone would learn something.
I was involved in many university clubs in my time, and found there was only one sure fire way to get people to show to meetings...
Free booze.
Seriously, it's the only thing that works.
Doesn't even matter how disgusting the free booze is. You can mix up vile vats of Yucca Flux (slimy fruit cocktail remnants mixed with whatever spirits are on sale that day), and you'll get people.
My original answer was just going to be provide food, but after actually reading your question I'm actually going to give a real answer.
I'm not exactly sure if you're actually posting, time %26amp; location on your fliers or not, but that might be what is keeping people from attending. I know in this day and age you shouldn't have to worry about meeting, no matter who you are, but the fact of the matter is that some people still don't feel save revealing that they are ';Atheist, Agnostic, Free Thinking';
So what I'd suggest is have meetings by word of mouth and open by invitation only. I know you don't want to make this an exclusive club, but initially this will create a ';safer'; environment. You can also start by utilizing a private message board, then when you obtain enough members, you can start meeting in person.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
I believe in something called religious science %26amp; what we do when we want something is something called a prayer treatment you can do the same thing %26amp; call it visualization. We know that everything is energy %26amp; what we are seeking is seeking us. So we focus our energy on all the people who are there that have been wanting a group like the one you are offering. I would just know that they are coming to out meeting %26amp; sharing the info. with others %26amp; it is growing in positive ways. You might want to read ';the secret'; I don't think it is religious if it is just ignore the religious part. Science of mind/religious science is also for all people no matter what they believe you can look them up on internet %26amp; call %26amp; ask them to do a treatment which can be mystical or just a way to focus your thougths it works so just try it %26amp; you get what you want or you can keep doing what you are doing that isn't working.
Best of luck to you. More Free Thought clubs are popping up on campuses, a good sign.
Films are always a good draw.
I'm not religious, but if you want religious people to come to your meetings, you're going to have to change your name. Maybe just make it the Free-Thinkers Society, or something like that. Having atheist and agnostic in the name will keep religious folks away from you like NASCAR fan clubs keep Mensa members away.
';What are your views on extremists in religion? What defines an extremist, and what positive and negative purposes do they serve?';
I would not come to this meeting because I am not interested in others opinion on this. People that come would, as you say, all have the same opinion of which I am supportive. so why would I want to come to a meeting to listen to people that agree with me and each other. Lets have a meeting to discuss our opinions of chocolet.
r
I think that even the extremists don't know they are extremists. They think you are talking about other extreamists.
The very tone of your group suggests, ';Lets get togehter and bash religious people and talk about how dumb they are.';
What ';Types'; of people are you trying to attract. Religious people so you can tell them how awful they are and try to convert them?
Maybe there is not as many athiests and agnositcs as you think on campus. Or maybe you are saying, we are a group of athiests and agnostics and we want people other than athiests and agnostics to come to our meetings. The whole things seems scary to me. It does not sound like a free thinker would be welcome unless they were a free thinking agnostic or atheists.
However, you might try sex drugs and rock and roll. worked in the 60s.
This is a good help:
http://www.chick.com
The quail of doom suggests something like cake and punch. Also, I would be interested about what would happen if you passed a plate along.pores
(I hope anyone who takes the time to answer also takes the time to read my question and try to understand where I am coming from).
There are many christian and muslim organizations at our univeristy which have many members. However, we also have an organization called AAFSA (Atheist, Agnostic, Free Thinking Student Association), which was formed by a friend of mine (the current president).
We meet every other week to have discussions on various topics. About a week before our meeting I create and post flyers around the school advertising the meeting, stating the current topic, and inviting everyone to come and participate.
Examples of past topics were: ';What are your views on extremists in religion? What defines an extremist, and what positive and negative purposes do they serve?';
[More details to follow]I need help getting people to attend my club meetings at my university. Need advice from religious folks.?
Reach out to other groups and offer to debate others on their viewpoints. Make sure you don't attack them and be sure to have very clear rules for the discussion, or it could all turn bad. Then you could host joint meetings and have spinoff discussions within your own separate groups.I need help getting people to attend my club meetings at my university. Need advice from religious folks.?
Have them in a bar. Seriously.
My friend,meetings are good but why such topics?
You are all wasting your time talking about nothing you will benefit.
Why don't switch into bible study which will help you live a life of faith in God and the living hope in it.
Just as you might be uncomfortable attending a revival at a Pentecostal church because you would be leery of the evangelism, probably those religious believers you want to share with are afraid of your form of ';evangelism.';
In one of your topics, you use the word ';extremist.'; That is a loaded word that may have scared people off. Extremists don't believe they are extreme, they believe they are doing the will of God, and they see any discussion of the matter as criticism. Also, many religious people are taught not to associate with atheists.
If you are honest about the sharing of information and are an open forum for everyone, and are careful about not denigrating the beliefs of others, and perhaps use less loaded language in your flyers, you may get people of all faiths to attend. Maybe the Christians and Muslims would listen to you, and perhaps you would listen to them and everyone would learn something.
I was involved in many university clubs in my time, and found there was only one sure fire way to get people to show to meetings...
Free booze.
Seriously, it's the only thing that works.
Doesn't even matter how disgusting the free booze is. You can mix up vile vats of Yucca Flux (slimy fruit cocktail remnants mixed with whatever spirits are on sale that day), and you'll get people.
My original answer was just going to be provide food, but after actually reading your question I'm actually going to give a real answer.
I'm not exactly sure if you're actually posting, time %26amp; location on your fliers or not, but that might be what is keeping people from attending. I know in this day and age you shouldn't have to worry about meeting, no matter who you are, but the fact of the matter is that some people still don't feel save revealing that they are ';Atheist, Agnostic, Free Thinking';
So what I'd suggest is have meetings by word of mouth and open by invitation only. I know you don't want to make this an exclusive club, but initially this will create a ';safer'; environment. You can also start by utilizing a private message board, then when you obtain enough members, you can start meeting in person.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
I believe in something called religious science %26amp; what we do when we want something is something called a prayer treatment you can do the same thing %26amp; call it visualization. We know that everything is energy %26amp; what we are seeking is seeking us. So we focus our energy on all the people who are there that have been wanting a group like the one you are offering. I would just know that they are coming to out meeting %26amp; sharing the info. with others %26amp; it is growing in positive ways. You might want to read ';the secret'; I don't think it is religious if it is just ignore the religious part. Science of mind/religious science is also for all people no matter what they believe you can look them up on internet %26amp; call %26amp; ask them to do a treatment which can be mystical or just a way to focus your thougths it works so just try it %26amp; you get what you want or you can keep doing what you are doing that isn't working.
Best of luck to you. More Free Thought clubs are popping up on campuses, a good sign.
Films are always a good draw.
I'm not religious, but if you want religious people to come to your meetings, you're going to have to change your name. Maybe just make it the Free-Thinkers Society, or something like that. Having atheist and agnostic in the name will keep religious folks away from you like NASCAR fan clubs keep Mensa members away.
';What are your views on extremists in religion? What defines an extremist, and what positive and negative purposes do they serve?';
I would not come to this meeting because I am not interested in others opinion on this. People that come would, as you say, all have the same opinion of which I am supportive. so why would I want to come to a meeting to listen to people that agree with me and each other. Lets have a meeting to discuss our opinions of chocolet.
r
I think that even the extremists don't know they are extremists. They think you are talking about other extreamists.
The very tone of your group suggests, ';Lets get togehter and bash religious people and talk about how dumb they are.';
What ';Types'; of people are you trying to attract. Religious people so you can tell them how awful they are and try to convert them?
Maybe there is not as many athiests and agnositcs as you think on campus. Or maybe you are saying, we are a group of athiests and agnostics and we want people other than athiests and agnostics to come to our meetings. The whole things seems scary to me. It does not sound like a free thinker would be welcome unless they were a free thinking agnostic or atheists.
However, you might try sex drugs and rock and roll. worked in the 60s.
This is a good help:
http://www.chick.com
The quail of doom suggests something like cake and punch. Also, I would be interested about what would happen if you passed a plate along.
Broke up with g/f and need advice how to get back out there and meet new people :(?
I am 19 and I am out of school, and my job is on the railroad so it's full of men so I really can't talk to ';girls'; there. All I do is hang out with friends and when I go to parties I hang with more friends and usually get wasted/baked. There is a lot of chicks there but I don't know if they are single, and + I am pretty shy.
I don't think I am that attractive but others say different so it's that whole self-esteem thing.
I am also down because not even a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. After I put so much time and money into her. She helped me a lot she got me to stop smoking after 4 years of smoking, quit cold turkey cause she said it was either I give up smoking or it's over so I stopped. I even bought her a 2006 Jetta. :( I feel like used piece of **** sigh.
So in the relationship she got me to quit smoking and I thank her for that but, now I feel so lost in the ';dating game '; I guess you would call it.
Broke up with g/f and need advice how to get back out there and meet new people :(?
lol...that sucks!!!! losing her to a freaking internet guy!!!!...fuc** this sh***...get on the internet and do the same,...to somebody...get revenge..lolBroke up with g/f and need advice how to get back out there and meet new people :(?
hey, i am usually helpfull when it comes to fixin guys wit gurls lol, but i dont know you lol so that a bit hard. I dont believe in looking at those website things, but instead looking for people in real life! Why not try and talk to some girls at a party??? It might help, try not to be toooo drunk though, they might just use you.
give yourself time first, unless you want the ';i lay anyone i can'; forgetting treatment...
get your self-esteem back on the track, work out and so on, then try to go out and date. oh and good lucj with the court thing. trust me such a gal wasnt worth it tho=/. you should have just let her go, and be happy it turned out what she's like before its too late....
Forget about the whole self esteem thing and put yourself out there. Try to find someone that you could have a good conversation with that you find attractive and go for it.Your ex was obviously a ***** if she went for your freind forget about her.
Simple..get over with your being or feeling 'shy'...and have self-confidence..
okay hun, you sound like a good aweseme quality american guy, props to you for breaking his jaw. she's obviously spoiled and has low self worth going or something, cause that sounds pretty retarded what she did. and you deserve someone who loves you. trust me, she didn't love you.
your too good for that kind of thing, get out of the ';dating game'; its gonna kill you. i've known too many guys like you who aren't afraid to love... they're real MEN. and then when they get broken like this, they turn into the stereotypical guy, who won't let his heart out of the steel box they've got it in, and who only want sex. you need to find someone who loves you. and the only way you can do that, is to be yourself. as cliche as it is, its the truth. you've got SO much to offer, so BE that, and the right girl will find you... even if it takes a few YEARS... trust me, it will be worth the wait. why would you want to waste your time on anyone else, but the purfect girl. and hopefully, you'd marry her... idk if thats something you want, but i think you deserve it.
Just forget about her! Easier said than done right?
Try to overcome your fears talking to women by talking to women! Not just people that peak your intrest but every woman. Every single one of them. If you can have a conversation with a nice older lady at the grocery store, do it. There are tons of women out there, literally everywhere. If you take everything in strides and smile all the time they will find you. It's all about confidence. Stop worrying about losing the girl you love, if it was meant to be then she would still be with you right? Get out there and meet people. Talk to everyone, be yourself, be calm, and confident. That's all it takes.
I don't think I am that attractive but others say different so it's that whole self-esteem thing.
I am also down because not even a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. After I put so much time and money into her. She helped me a lot she got me to stop smoking after 4 years of smoking, quit cold turkey cause she said it was either I give up smoking or it's over so I stopped. I even bought her a 2006 Jetta. :( I feel like used piece of **** sigh.
So in the relationship she got me to quit smoking and I thank her for that but, now I feel so lost in the ';dating game '; I guess you would call it.
Broke up with g/f and need advice how to get back out there and meet new people :(?
lol...that sucks!!!! losing her to a freaking internet guy!!!!...fuc** this sh***...get on the internet and do the same,...to somebody...get revenge..lolBroke up with g/f and need advice how to get back out there and meet new people :(?
hey, i am usually helpfull when it comes to fixin guys wit gurls lol, but i dont know you lol so that a bit hard. I dont believe in looking at those website things, but instead looking for people in real life! Why not try and talk to some girls at a party??? It might help, try not to be toooo drunk though, they might just use you.
give yourself time first, unless you want the ';i lay anyone i can'; forgetting treatment...
get your self-esteem back on the track, work out and so on, then try to go out and date. oh and good lucj with the court thing. trust me such a gal wasnt worth it tho=/. you should have just let her go, and be happy it turned out what she's like before its too late....
Forget about the whole self esteem thing and put yourself out there. Try to find someone that you could have a good conversation with that you find attractive and go for it.Your ex was obviously a ***** if she went for your freind forget about her.
Simple..get over with your being or feeling 'shy'...and have self-confidence..
okay hun, you sound like a good aweseme quality american guy, props to you for breaking his jaw. she's obviously spoiled and has low self worth going or something, cause that sounds pretty retarded what she did. and you deserve someone who loves you. trust me, she didn't love you.
your too good for that kind of thing, get out of the ';dating game'; its gonna kill you. i've known too many guys like you who aren't afraid to love... they're real MEN. and then when they get broken like this, they turn into the stereotypical guy, who won't let his heart out of the steel box they've got it in, and who only want sex. you need to find someone who loves you. and the only way you can do that, is to be yourself. as cliche as it is, its the truth. you've got SO much to offer, so BE that, and the right girl will find you... even if it takes a few YEARS... trust me, it will be worth the wait. why would you want to waste your time on anyone else, but the purfect girl. and hopefully, you'd marry her... idk if thats something you want, but i think you deserve it.
Just forget about her! Easier said than done right?
Try to overcome your fears talking to women by talking to women! Not just people that peak your intrest but every woman. Every single one of them. If you can have a conversation with a nice older lady at the grocery store, do it. There are tons of women out there, literally everywhere. If you take everything in strides and smile all the time they will find you. It's all about confidence. Stop worrying about losing the girl you love, if it was meant to be then she would still be with you right? Get out there and meet people. Talk to everyone, be yourself, be calm, and confident. That's all it takes.
Okay people, I'm new to this section but I need some advice? ;l?
You see, I have this extreeeeeeeeeeeeemely racist friend.
I really hate it. I try to laugh with her, but deep inside it really hurts me even though it doesn't affect me.
She always makes fun of ghetto people, or black people whenever she has the chance and honestly, I just want to punch her in the mouth so she could shut the hel l up already.
I mean not only that. She's like a majoooor cock block. Since guys are always all over me she keeps saying '; you don't need guys, guys are whatever friends and forever'; ( biggest bulllllllll... by the way )
And she says I'm ignorant when she can't see through the thick cloud of hers when I try to criticize the way she views things!
Well, what I'm asking is should I stop being her friend altogether or should I help her.. and make her understand were all actually equal and all of this race/bullcrap really doesn't mean anything.
+++ ohh and she's arabic [ muslim.. w/e] her siblings are into the ghetto style wheras she isnt..
she really gets on my last nerves. people say im weird.. but she takes it to another level -_-
but i still love her :/ shes really understanding. yet fricken UGHGHGHGH
okay well any advice.. ty ty ty
sorry if its too long ^^Okay people, I'm new to this section but I need some advice? ;l?
wow what a *****!Okay people, I'm new to this section but I need some advice? ;l?
I agree with the 1st poster, in America, ever since 9/11, Arabs are racially picked on by society more than blacks.
If she's arab, then she's colored herself. Everyone South of Europe, East of Greece and east of the Urals is colored.
Wow that's alot! I'm not racist, but I can't stand white people talking and acting black! The ghetto used to be what it is, poor minorities...now its cool I guess?
Try to tell her how you fill, if she doesn't listen or disregards what you say she isn't really you're friend.
Maybe she says all racist stuff because deep inside she might have insecurities. Considering the fact that shes arab, people may have made fun of her before and now shes trying to hid all that wound and hurt by picking on other people. OR She might be afraid that people WILL be racist towards her because shes arab so before anyone can do that to her, shes doing it to them.
Behing each bully is a coward
I say you should try to help her. One person can make a huge difference in the world off people who cannot accept diversity
Besides she is your best friend and try to help her before you ditch her
If nothing works than leave her. you did your best
I really hate it. I try to laugh with her, but deep inside it really hurts me even though it doesn't affect me.
She always makes fun of ghetto people, or black people whenever she has the chance and honestly, I just want to punch her in the mouth so she could shut the hel l up already.
I mean not only that. She's like a majoooor cock block. Since guys are always all over me she keeps saying '; you don't need guys, guys are whatever friends and forever'; ( biggest bulllllllll... by the way )
And she says I'm ignorant when she can't see through the thick cloud of hers when I try to criticize the way she views things!
Well, what I'm asking is should I stop being her friend altogether or should I help her.. and make her understand were all actually equal and all of this race/bullcrap really doesn't mean anything.
+++ ohh and she's arabic [ muslim.. w/e] her siblings are into the ghetto style wheras she isnt..
she really gets on my last nerves. people say im weird.. but she takes it to another level -_-
but i still love her :/ shes really understanding. yet fricken UGHGHGHGH
okay well any advice.. ty ty ty
sorry if its too long ^^Okay people, I'm new to this section but I need some advice? ;l?
wow what a *****!Okay people, I'm new to this section but I need some advice? ;l?
I agree with the 1st poster, in America, ever since 9/11, Arabs are racially picked on by society more than blacks.
If she's arab, then she's colored herself. Everyone South of Europe, East of Greece and east of the Urals is colored.
Wow that's alot! I'm not racist, but I can't stand white people talking and acting black! The ghetto used to be what it is, poor minorities...now its cool I guess?
Try to tell her how you fill, if she doesn't listen or disregards what you say she isn't really you're friend.
Maybe she says all racist stuff because deep inside she might have insecurities. Considering the fact that shes arab, people may have made fun of her before and now shes trying to hid all that wound and hurt by picking on other people. OR She might be afraid that people WILL be racist towards her because shes arab so before anyone can do that to her, shes doing it to them.
Behing each bully is a coward
I say you should try to help her. One person can make a huge difference in the world off people who cannot accept diversity
Besides she is your best friend and try to help her before you ditch her
If nothing works than leave her. you did your best
Most people ask questions, but I'm giving the best piece of advice I got.?
Live your life like it's the last. Have fun, don't wait, and enjoy. I see a lot of questions asking should I do this or that. Just do it unless it gets you in trouble. If you like someone tell them don't beat around the bush. If you love someone scream it. If you want to kiss someone kiss them like you won't ever agian. If your not happy with your relationship say something and if it doesn't change, end it. Don't argue or get mad just think about how YOU can fix it. Be outgoing and don't waist time. If you don't like your life change it. As the world as it is now just thank god or what ever you believe in for your food and that you even have enough money for a computer. So give you Boyfriend or Girlfriend a kiss and tell your parents you love them and make a change. I know you can.
Also remember the quote ';Happiness is Only Real When Shared.';Most people ask questions, but I'm giving the best piece of advice I got.?
thats really sweet! Add me on your contacts please!Most people ask questions, but I'm giving the best piece of advice I got.?
Aww... good post!
I took your advice. Thanks!
Also remember the quote ';Happiness is Only Real When Shared.';Most people ask questions, but I'm giving the best piece of advice I got.?
thats really sweet! Add me on your contacts please!Most people ask questions, but I'm giving the best piece of advice I got.?
Aww... good post!
I took your advice. Thanks!
I am asking married people because I think that they will have the best advice?
Okay so I am a single mom of two fantastic kids one is 4 and the other is 7. They are great they listen and they are two bright children.
Anyways there dad just sends child support and never sees them which is fine. He moved away and has started a new life with a women that loves him. We don't even talk he just mails me a check monthly.
Anyways lately I have been trying to date again when it comes to that I do not want to date guys that have kids because most of the time their exes start problems and since I will not bring any extra problems from my exe I don't think that I should have to endure that.
My mom says that this is wrong and I should give everyone a chance if they have kids or not.
Is it wrong for me not to want to date guys with kids because I have two of my own?I am asking married people because I think that they will have the best advice?
You have every right to date who you want, kids or no kids. Nothing wrong with it.I am asking married people because I think that they will have the best advice?
I won't date men with children either and I have 3. That's a personal choice, I don't owe anyone and explanation and neither do you.
Everyone has personal choices in who they date....there's different reasons and this one is no different.
To the person that made the comment, ';what if a man felt the same way about you';....Who cares! That's his choice and he should date a woman with no kids.
This is America....freedom of speech/choice.
UM YA??? YOU have kids. Don't you think your being a little selfish?? How about if all guys felt that way?? That they didn't want to date a woman with kids?? How would you feel?? maybe theres a guy out there in your boat. That maybe theres no problems with the ex. You do what you want. But I think it's really unfair thinking on your part.
It is your choice who you date. Everyone has their own unique set of strengths and weaknesses that they bring with them to a relationship. It is your right to be careful and choosy. Keep your eyes open, though, there is always an exception to every rule. :)
Blended families are very difficult...with lots of compromise. However, how can you expect a man to accept your children when you would not be willing to accept his? You severely narrow your choices. You should keep all of your options open...you may find the perfect mate.
I applaud you for looking to the future and trying to avoid problems in a future relationship. If you end up with a man who has no children, your kids won't have to compete with step-brothers or sisters.
yeah, i think it's a little wrong of you. what if a man with no kids doesn't want you solely because you have kids? i think you give whoever, kids or not, a fair chance. if they do have a lot of ex-drama, then move on before feelings grow.
How would you feel if someone was to tell you this?They didn't want to date you because you had 2 kids and all the problems that come with the ex.
Yes, so what if the guy has kids, I agree with your mom. In these times and days it might be hard to find a guy who wants to take on a women with 2 kids. Everyone does deserve a chance.
You should give them the benefit of the doubt. They might have an ex that is gone as well. Just because they dont' have kids doesn't mean they are any better for you than a man with kids.
It is wrong of you to date anyone until your youngest turns 18. You need to focus on raising your children, not dating, shacking up or marrying someone.
you can date whoever you want! you are narrowing the prospects, that's all your mom is concerned about.
don't be offended by guys that don't wanna date you b/c you have kids then
What if every guy thought the same way your thinking?
as a single dad of a teen also, its makes it a lot easier to look at others that have been down the kids road also. they under stand a lot more the issues with it. good and bad.
by middle age a lot are ether going to have kids or not. [ or they have kids and they Don't want them] while the ex's can make some complication's its more gauging how they act them self's. [ are they nuts] but do keep in mind that a lot of single guys that have not had kids will not look at your for long term dating, other then a weekend thing. you are hopefully looking at long term,, though weekends are fun for a while also...
meetup.com http://www.plentyoffish.com/
Nope it's quite ok!
I had 2 kids when started dating my now husband. He was never married before and has no kids. I will tell you now he bonded with them pretty quick and to this day considers them his own. (he has adopted them) There is no ';step'; used in our household.
If he would have had kids before ';US'; I know it would have been different.
You do what you prefer and what makes you happy, quite honestly I don't blame you for wanting to not deal with any exes. It's not wrong to prefer a man that has no kids. That just makes you a woman who knows what she wants and doesn't want.
There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and going after that. You are absolutley right about the fact that alot of exes do seem to make life hell for their ex husbands. Why would someone want to put themselves through that drama? I think most do because they fall in love and are willing to put up with it.
I would however keep looking for a decent type with no kids, but if one with kids did present himself I wouldn't turn him away just because he has kids. Your mum is right you don't know unless you give them a chance, and you never know, he could have a well behaved ex! Good luck.
I am a single guy with two kids in tow and I am an awsome catch. I take care of my own and am independent and I would never ask a date or relationship to deal with my baggage.
I feel that people that are good parents and active with their childrens lives are some of the most kind, unselfish and caring people on the planet.
Now, this all said, you chose an undesireable mate that has turned his back on his children. Could it be that you are unknowingly seeking the same selfish qualities for your next mate. Just something to think about.
Did you even read what you just wrote?
';most of the time their exes start problems';
You realize, you are someone's ex-wife as well, don't you? That you're possibly one of those crazy women you're talking about?
Love is love is love, and it happens between two people who are compatible, trust and respect each other. To discount over half the population because their previous marriage didn't work is just wrong.
That said, you have every right to decide what you will and won't put up with - it's your life. But before you start crossing people off the list, remember that YOU have kids and aren't bringing ex-husband baggage to the table - why wouldn't you allow someone else the same courtesy?
I have two children from my first marriage, their father passed away. I am remarried now and he has one child. I do get frustrated because we have to deal with his ex-wife her husband and ex in laws. I feel like my husband got to step into the role as dad without any complications from outsiders. He is a good dad to them and I am so grateful, however when his son comes over there is always jealousy among the kids, his son's mother always starts stuff and complicates holidays. There have been times that I wish I would have married someone that didn't already have kids. My situation is different than yours but I understand what you are saying. Bottom line, I believe people come into our life for a reason. When you meet the right person it won't matter if they have children or not. Good luck and just listen to your heart.
Anyways there dad just sends child support and never sees them which is fine. He moved away and has started a new life with a women that loves him. We don't even talk he just mails me a check monthly.
Anyways lately I have been trying to date again when it comes to that I do not want to date guys that have kids because most of the time their exes start problems and since I will not bring any extra problems from my exe I don't think that I should have to endure that.
My mom says that this is wrong and I should give everyone a chance if they have kids or not.
Is it wrong for me not to want to date guys with kids because I have two of my own?I am asking married people because I think that they will have the best advice?
You have every right to date who you want, kids or no kids. Nothing wrong with it.I am asking married people because I think that they will have the best advice?
I won't date men with children either and I have 3. That's a personal choice, I don't owe anyone and explanation and neither do you.
Everyone has personal choices in who they date....there's different reasons and this one is no different.
To the person that made the comment, ';what if a man felt the same way about you';....Who cares! That's his choice and he should date a woman with no kids.
This is America....freedom of speech/choice.
UM YA??? YOU have kids. Don't you think your being a little selfish?? How about if all guys felt that way?? That they didn't want to date a woman with kids?? How would you feel?? maybe theres a guy out there in your boat. That maybe theres no problems with the ex. You do what you want. But I think it's really unfair thinking on your part.
It is your choice who you date. Everyone has their own unique set of strengths and weaknesses that they bring with them to a relationship. It is your right to be careful and choosy. Keep your eyes open, though, there is always an exception to every rule. :)
Blended families are very difficult...with lots of compromise. However, how can you expect a man to accept your children when you would not be willing to accept his? You severely narrow your choices. You should keep all of your options open...you may find the perfect mate.
I applaud you for looking to the future and trying to avoid problems in a future relationship. If you end up with a man who has no children, your kids won't have to compete with step-brothers or sisters.
yeah, i think it's a little wrong of you. what if a man with no kids doesn't want you solely because you have kids? i think you give whoever, kids or not, a fair chance. if they do have a lot of ex-drama, then move on before feelings grow.
How would you feel if someone was to tell you this?They didn't want to date you because you had 2 kids and all the problems that come with the ex.
Yes, so what if the guy has kids, I agree with your mom. In these times and days it might be hard to find a guy who wants to take on a women with 2 kids. Everyone does deserve a chance.
You should give them the benefit of the doubt. They might have an ex that is gone as well. Just because they dont' have kids doesn't mean they are any better for you than a man with kids.
It is wrong of you to date anyone until your youngest turns 18. You need to focus on raising your children, not dating, shacking up or marrying someone.
you can date whoever you want! you are narrowing the prospects, that's all your mom is concerned about.
don't be offended by guys that don't wanna date you b/c you have kids then
What if every guy thought the same way your thinking?
as a single dad of a teen also, its makes it a lot easier to look at others that have been down the kids road also. they under stand a lot more the issues with it. good and bad.
by middle age a lot are ether going to have kids or not. [ or they have kids and they Don't want them] while the ex's can make some complication's its more gauging how they act them self's. [ are they nuts] but do keep in mind that a lot of single guys that have not had kids will not look at your for long term dating, other then a weekend thing. you are hopefully looking at long term,, though weekends are fun for a while also...
meetup.com http://www.plentyoffish.com/
Nope it's quite ok!
I had 2 kids when started dating my now husband. He was never married before and has no kids. I will tell you now he bonded with them pretty quick and to this day considers them his own. (he has adopted them) There is no ';step'; used in our household.
If he would have had kids before ';US'; I know it would have been different.
You do what you prefer and what makes you happy, quite honestly I don't blame you for wanting to not deal with any exes. It's not wrong to prefer a man that has no kids. That just makes you a woman who knows what she wants and doesn't want.
There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and going after that. You are absolutley right about the fact that alot of exes do seem to make life hell for their ex husbands. Why would someone want to put themselves through that drama? I think most do because they fall in love and are willing to put up with it.
I would however keep looking for a decent type with no kids, but if one with kids did present himself I wouldn't turn him away just because he has kids. Your mum is right you don't know unless you give them a chance, and you never know, he could have a well behaved ex! Good luck.
I am a single guy with two kids in tow and I am an awsome catch. I take care of my own and am independent and I would never ask a date or relationship to deal with my baggage.
I feel that people that are good parents and active with their childrens lives are some of the most kind, unselfish and caring people on the planet.
Now, this all said, you chose an undesireable mate that has turned his back on his children. Could it be that you are unknowingly seeking the same selfish qualities for your next mate. Just something to think about.
Did you even read what you just wrote?
';most of the time their exes start problems';
You realize, you are someone's ex-wife as well, don't you? That you're possibly one of those crazy women you're talking about?
Love is love is love, and it happens between two people who are compatible, trust and respect each other. To discount over half the population because their previous marriage didn't work is just wrong.
That said, you have every right to decide what you will and won't put up with - it's your life. But before you start crossing people off the list, remember that YOU have kids and aren't bringing ex-husband baggage to the table - why wouldn't you allow someone else the same courtesy?
I have two children from my first marriage, their father passed away. I am remarried now and he has one child. I do get frustrated because we have to deal with his ex-wife her husband and ex in laws. I feel like my husband got to step into the role as dad without any complications from outsiders. He is a good dad to them and I am so grateful, however when his son comes over there is always jealousy among the kids, his son's mother always starts stuff and complicates holidays. There have been times that I wish I would have married someone that didn't already have kids. My situation is different than yours but I understand what you are saying. Bottom line, I believe people come into our life for a reason. When you meet the right person it won't matter if they have children or not. Good luck and just listen to your heart.
You give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
i'm a young people of the church...
so my aim is to get message from you...
to encourage the young people to have faith in God... the more fruitful message the more the message help the young people...specially for the students who suffer difficulties in thier studies...
please indicate your name after typing your meaningful message...
God BLeSs?!
please... help... tnx...You give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
Tell all who will listen, ';That Fools Despise Wisdom.'; Start out, those who as less inclined to listen, to read the Book of PROVERBs, which tells the difference between a wise man, and a fool!You give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
I will answer this with experience. I brought my children up in our Church. I was an active member and brought them with me. They learned their faith from not only me but by their Sunday School teachers and members of the congregation.
Because they were brought up in the Church they were ingrained with Christian beliefs and morals. They had a solid foundation from which they could build their lives on. Their peer group kept them on the strait and narrow.
I remember when ever someone strayed from the path that the kids, not only mine but the church group, would get together and discuss what they could do for that person to guied them back to the fold. Then someone would call them, usually my daughter and she would boldly tell them what they were doing wrong and they had best come to our house or she and all the other kids were coming over there! It worked soon they were all together and the person repented coming back to the fold.
When children are raised with Christain rules and The Commandments of God it is hard for them to stray as they know where they stand and what is expected of them. They learn dicipline and become worhy and independent adults.
Mine all came out great. It was because we lived our religion together. Oh, there were some teary times as all children have to try out there wings but once they realized that they were straying they repented and came back. Mostly because they were disapointing themselves, God, and us their family.
Just tell them you interviewed a Godly Person...Smile...
my name is ryan
God says in Psalms that He will not hide wisdom from those who seek it. that has been one of my favorite verses even though i can't remember the reference. if someone could help me out that would be amazing. thanks
Hi I am Claude %26amp; I do try to give good advise to the youth.
All we can do is try, regardless of what God you pray for or even if you pray to a God. You dont need to be holy or religious to have good moral qualities.
Good luck, you are on the right path brother.
so my aim is to get message from you...
to encourage the young people to have faith in God... the more fruitful message the more the message help the young people...specially for the students who suffer difficulties in thier studies...
please indicate your name after typing your meaningful message...
God BLeSs?!
please... help... tnx...You give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
Tell all who will listen, ';That Fools Despise Wisdom.'; Start out, those who as less inclined to listen, to read the Book of PROVERBs, which tells the difference between a wise man, and a fool!You give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
I will answer this with experience. I brought my children up in our Church. I was an active member and brought them with me. They learned their faith from not only me but by their Sunday School teachers and members of the congregation.
Because they were brought up in the Church they were ingrained with Christian beliefs and morals. They had a solid foundation from which they could build their lives on. Their peer group kept them on the strait and narrow.
I remember when ever someone strayed from the path that the kids, not only mine but the church group, would get together and discuss what they could do for that person to guied them back to the fold. Then someone would call them, usually my daughter and she would boldly tell them what they were doing wrong and they had best come to our house or she and all the other kids were coming over there! It worked soon they were all together and the person repented coming back to the fold.
When children are raised with Christain rules and The Commandments of God it is hard for them to stray as they know where they stand and what is expected of them. They learn dicipline and become worhy and independent adults.
Mine all came out great. It was because we lived our religion together. Oh, there were some teary times as all children have to try out there wings but once they realized that they were straying they repented and came back. Mostly because they were disapointing themselves, God, and us their family.
Just tell them you interviewed a Godly Person...Smile...
my name is ryan
God says in Psalms that He will not hide wisdom from those who seek it. that has been one of my favorite verses even though i can't remember the reference. if someone could help me out that would be amazing. thanks
Hi I am Claude %26amp; I do try to give good advise to the youth.
All we can do is try, regardless of what God you pray for or even if you pray to a God. You dont need to be holy or religious to have good moral qualities.
Good luck, you are on the right path brother.
People from the Middle East (and not from the Middle East....advice please!?
I need advice from both sides...thanks! A muslim family from Palestine recently moved in on my street. I live in Canada and am of European descent. I am really into different cultures and I like to talk to people from all over the world. I speak Farsi(persian) and a little bit of arabic. Anyways I went over to say hi to them because they were outside. It was a bit awkward because the mother couldn't speak english and the kids were 16 and under. (I am in my early 20's.) I know our cultures are quite different and I do have A LOT of muslim friends. Do you think it was the right thing for me to do to say hi? It seemed they were neutral to me coming to say hi and I don't want to feel awkward whenever I see them. People from the Middle East (and not from the Middle East....advice please!?
Just keep saying hi or waving when you see them but don't try and spark up a conversation. I think it was the right thing as your intention was to make them feel welcome and not to be rude or anything but since they just recently moved here they may not be used to this. I'm not sure since I don't really know what Palestinian culture is about but I do know that after being here for awhile they will probably warm up to you and will recognize you as a friendly face.
I say as long as you aren't forcing yourself into their homes and what have you, no harm done.People from the Middle East (and not from the Middle East....advice please!?
Saying hello to anyone with the intention of closeness %26amp; friendship is always OK, in my opinion.
No one can ever make you feel awkward, without your consent! If you allowed them to make you feel bad, then you have only got one person to talk to. The one in the mirror!
But with the good heart that you seem/sound to have, go ahead, say hi, salaam, shalom, and make someone's day!
Good job! Be proud of all the good deeds that you do! Don't let small things distract you! Best of success to you!
i totally think its okay because saying hi shows that you are welcoming them to the neighborhood and shows that you are nice. they probably are just still adjusting to everything. but it was nice that u went over to tell them hi. i speak farsi too btw! :)
salaam. khoobi? :)
You can speak farsi cool!! Did u take it in school or something? my best friend's dad is Persian, i love their culture lol!! You should just wave hi to them, since they are new, they are probably a little scared, from what's happening in their country. You should try to get close with teh kids, like playing basketball or teachign them to play whatever sport you like, make them feel welcome!! Your a really kind person. : ) If you have aalot of muslim friends, ask the arabic ones to teach you to speak simple arabic, since you know alittle it shouldnt be hard.pores
Just keep saying hi or waving when you see them but don't try and spark up a conversation. I think it was the right thing as your intention was to make them feel welcome and not to be rude or anything but since they just recently moved here they may not be used to this. I'm not sure since I don't really know what Palestinian culture is about but I do know that after being here for awhile they will probably warm up to you and will recognize you as a friendly face.
I say as long as you aren't forcing yourself into their homes and what have you, no harm done.People from the Middle East (and not from the Middle East....advice please!?
Saying hello to anyone with the intention of closeness %26amp; friendship is always OK, in my opinion.
No one can ever make you feel awkward, without your consent! If you allowed them to make you feel bad, then you have only got one person to talk to. The one in the mirror!
But with the good heart that you seem/sound to have, go ahead, say hi, salaam, shalom, and make someone's day!
Good job! Be proud of all the good deeds that you do! Don't let small things distract you! Best of success to you!
i totally think its okay because saying hi shows that you are welcoming them to the neighborhood and shows that you are nice. they probably are just still adjusting to everything. but it was nice that u went over to tell them hi. i speak farsi too btw! :)
salaam. khoobi? :)
You can speak farsi cool!! Did u take it in school or something? my best friend's dad is Persian, i love their culture lol!! You should just wave hi to them, since they are new, they are probably a little scared, from what's happening in their country. You should try to get close with teh kids, like playing basketball or teachign them to play whatever sport you like, make them feel welcome!! Your a really kind person. : ) If you have aalot of muslim friends, ask the arabic ones to teach you to speak simple arabic, since you know alittle it shouldnt be hard.
PEOPLE I neeed help with my crush!!! Please answer with good advice!!?
ok..so...we've never talked before, he didnt know who i was untill one of my friends told him that i liked him. i think hes really cute and i want to talk to him, but my friend told him that i liked him over a month ago, so the time to talk to him has kinda passed, plus he probably thinks im a stalker because now hes heard from several ppl that i am like in love with him. also, i think he might like some other really popular girl but im not sure. Please give me advice on what to do and what i should say to him. Also, none of my friends are friends with him. I have the courage to talk to him, but idk what i should say.PEOPLE I neeed help with my crush!!! Please answer with good advice!!?
Too much damage has been done Watch your reputation Do not display yourself as a woman who gushes after men You have made a mistake now gracefully with womanly control start backing out. If he knows you like him, because several people have told him, then why has he not asked you out on a date or come and talk to you. When people tell a fellow a lady likes him, they are laughing about it They are not telling him to give important information that he needs to have. He knows you are in love with him but really, you are acting like a silly girl If conversation does not come naturally between you, then there is none. Old fashion as this maybe, it really is better if the man comes to you. Your self worth is being challenged by yourself. You are worth more than what you are doing to yourself. Start focusing on what is important to you. If he likes the popular girl, let him If you are putting yourself in a position where you know you will lose, you are hurting yourself. You are setting yourself up. You dont need to do this to yourself. Move on. In the future you will see. He is not a man if he does not come to you. Or rather, he is not a man for you, if he does not come to you and talk with you. You are important to the people who love you. They would not want to see you do this to yourself.PEOPLE I neeed help with my crush!!! Please answer with good advice!!?
i really dont wnat to be mean but the time for you to actually talk to him has kind of passed. Maybe you should actully get to kno w his group of frinds with your group of friendsand go out together, maybe this would start a friendship between the two of you. You should just come out with it and see what happens. good luck
Could u pick up my pencil?
just say to him u wanna go out some time movies, drink or somein.
Too much damage has been done Watch your reputation Do not display yourself as a woman who gushes after men You have made a mistake now gracefully with womanly control start backing out. If he knows you like him, because several people have told him, then why has he not asked you out on a date or come and talk to you. When people tell a fellow a lady likes him, they are laughing about it They are not telling him to give important information that he needs to have. He knows you are in love with him but really, you are acting like a silly girl If conversation does not come naturally between you, then there is none. Old fashion as this maybe, it really is better if the man comes to you. Your self worth is being challenged by yourself. You are worth more than what you are doing to yourself. Start focusing on what is important to you. If he likes the popular girl, let him If you are putting yourself in a position where you know you will lose, you are hurting yourself. You are setting yourself up. You dont need to do this to yourself. Move on. In the future you will see. He is not a man if he does not come to you. Or rather, he is not a man for you, if he does not come to you and talk with you. You are important to the people who love you. They would not want to see you do this to yourself.PEOPLE I neeed help with my crush!!! Please answer with good advice!!?
i really dont wnat to be mean but the time for you to actually talk to him has kind of passed. Maybe you should actully get to kno w his group of frinds with your group of friendsand go out together, maybe this would start a friendship between the two of you. You should just come out with it and see what happens. good luck
Could u pick up my pencil?
just say to him u wanna go out some time movies, drink or somein.
Means of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
Ok, here's a little detial.... I have been having some weird dreams lattly. They have these kids from school in them. Its the same kids every time. What does this mean? Does this mean that they want to be friends with me? They wqant to advoid me? Plz give you comment on what you think it is. Hereas more detail: in the deams: 1 were all friends and having a good time 2 its not always the same pkace juss same ppl 3 we're all guys.Means of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
Perhaps socially you are feeling rejected. Projecting having good time in dreams with same guys symbolizes the tendency of being socially accepted. In other words, you may be feeling the need to be noticed and recognized especially in your social life.
That dream is about you, not about them. So, whether or not they want to be friend with you, that is another matter. What matter most is that you want to gain attention sociallyMeans of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
I'd suggest in your subconcious you have been thinking about these ';kids';. Perhaps you want to be friends, but are self concious about it? You dream what you see, feel and hear. Alot of the time the messages get mixed up, but think about what you feel towards these kids, you might just have your answer!
Perhaps socially you are feeling rejected. Projecting having good time in dreams with same guys symbolizes the tendency of being socially accepted. In other words, you may be feeling the need to be noticed and recognized especially in your social life.
That dream is about you, not about them. So, whether or not they want to be friend with you, that is another matter. What matter most is that you want to gain attention sociallyMeans of dreams: people. please give your opinon or advice!?
I'd suggest in your subconcious you have been thinking about these ';kids';. Perhaps you want to be friends, but are self concious about it? You dream what you see, feel and hear. Alot of the time the messages get mixed up, but think about what you feel towards these kids, you might just have your answer!
Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
That's the question I also want to ask! I don't judge people, yet they judge me, and I don't know why people are like that. Whatever you do, never get on ugoplayer.com forums, because the people there are evil, and will make fun of you for completely stupid reasons. *Sigh* Why can't everybody just be nice to eachother? Just proves to you everybody has their flaws.
~Maddie
P.S.
I'll add you to my contacts, 'kay?Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
its hard because there are dumb asses, know it alls, jerks, well wishers, clueless people, and all sorts of people out one the web. u put urself at risk for what they have to say when u post a questions. by posting a question you open ur self to their opinions (which they are allowed to have...free will and such) dont get mad when people dont understand, its not worth the emotion.
people will always judge because we all think we kno best...so MY opinion and advice is if it bothers you that much...dont post questions...or use the advice that makes sense to you and ignore the jerksWhy cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
Huh? I have never been mean to you or anyone on this site. What are you talking about?
You know, I agree with you, but there are those that are helpful too. I understand where you are coming from, I no that when you post you will get those who answer rudely, but then again you get those who understand and try to give you their best advise. So don't take them to heart, just ignore them and move on to the next answer ok. Because I had one of those who answered one of mine.
~Maddie
P.S.
I'll add you to my contacts, 'kay?Why cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
its hard because there are dumb asses, know it alls, jerks, well wishers, clueless people, and all sorts of people out one the web. u put urself at risk for what they have to say when u post a questions. by posting a question you open ur self to their opinions (which they are allowed to have...free will and such) dont get mad when people dont understand, its not worth the emotion.
people will always judge because we all think we kno best...so MY opinion and advice is if it bothers you that much...dont post questions...or use the advice that makes sense to you and ignore the jerksWhy cant people just be kind! Why cant you just give advice and not judge me cause you dont know me!!!?
Huh? I have never been mean to you or anyone on this site. What are you talking about?
You know, I agree with you, but there are those that are helpful too. I understand where you are coming from, I no that when you post you will get those who answer rudely, but then again you get those who understand and try to give you their best advise. So don't take them to heart, just ignore them and move on to the next answer ok. Because I had one of those who answered one of mine.
Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
on how to find a mate? I've had married friends/coworkers ask me why am I still single like it's a disease. Some have even hinted that I'm single because I'm ';too picky'; and that I just need to get out there and meet someone. Usually the people who are telling me this have been married for years and don't really understand what it's like to be single nowadays. It's very irritating (and hurtful) to have people act like singlehood is a crime. Have any other single people experienced this as well?Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
YES!!!!!!!!
It works on my nerves......so they are telling you that they settled so do what worked for them...I would rather wait, not looking for perfect but I am not willing to just jump into anything. Trust me your doing the right thing. You just have to zone them out with all that ';advice'; that is being offered.Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
hell yes
YES!!!!!!!!
It works on my nerves......so they are telling you that they settled so do what worked for them...I would rather wait, not looking for perfect but I am not willing to just jump into anything. Trust me your doing the right thing. You just have to zone them out with all that ';advice'; that is being offered.Single people: Do your married friends or coworkers ever get on your nerves offering advice?
hell yes
If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Alive is hard
I guess I would choose Bill Clinton
But my choice for dead is Mother TheresaIf you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
My Dad and my Grandmother. They were my best friends.If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Dead: My Grandfather.
Alive: Probably my close friends, I don't see how a famous person would really necessarily care.
BUT if famous people are what you were going for
Alive: Barack Obama
Dead: Princess Diana
Maya Angelou and my grandmother.
i would choose alive, they r more likely to answer me!
Someone that is alive? I dont know. But I defiantly wouldnt want advice from a dead person. Because they obviously havent figured out the secret to immortality lol. J/K umm. Alive-I still dont know, Dead-Audrey Hepburn %26amp; Steve Biko. xo, me.
I guess I would choose Bill Clinton
But my choice for dead is Mother TheresaIf you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
My Dad and my Grandmother. They were my best friends.If you needed advice from someone (alive and dead) which two people would you choose?
Dead: My Grandfather.
Alive: Probably my close friends, I don't see how a famous person would really necessarily care.
BUT if famous people are what you were going for
Alive: Barack Obama
Dead: Princess Diana
Maya Angelou and my grandmother.
i would choose alive, they r more likely to answer me!
Someone that is alive? I dont know. But I defiantly wouldnt want advice from a dead person. Because they obviously havent figured out the secret to immortality lol. J/K umm. Alive-I still dont know, Dead-Audrey Hepburn %26amp; Steve Biko. xo, me.
Hey, can you people on here give me some advice?
well, ive made a goal for myself that when i go back to school in september, im gonna be just in general a better person. more people will like me, girls will like me more, ill look better and be seen in a better light. im in highschool. its not so much about changing my personality as it is just the way i carry myself and react to people. if my current personality matters alot then i would say im definitely the funny guy in the bunch, always laughing. and i can talk to girls very easily, its just id like to see it progress a little more.Hey, can you people on here give me some advice?
Yes. Sure.
1) Be happy and cheerful always.
2) Help other to the maximum.
3) Be attentive and supportive.
4) Be playful and accommodating.
5) Remember peoples help and never forget to thank.
6) Remember their names and value their friendship.
7) Never try to project yourself as somebody not your real self.
8) Concentrate on the growth of your academic carrier .
9) Be a good son, good neighbor, good friend, good companion, good citizen, and good student, good brother.
10) Always give respect to others opinion and wishes.
11) Don't ever be arrogant, selfish, or rude to any of them.
12) Always present yourself in a decent and appropriate dressing.
13) Never use foul language or harsh words against anybody. Be soft spoken.
14) Never be jealous or cunning.
15) Try to appreciate other persons good qualities, and ignore their bad ones.
and you will automatically be a much sought after boy, not only in your school, but also in your entire locality.Hey, can you people on here give me some advice?
I notice that you equate being a better person with being liked and being perceived in a certain way by others. You didn't say anything about improving your inner qualities. While it is okay to want the love and approval of others, don' t let your self-esteem rest solely on how other people react to you. That's the best way to end up unhappy.
be more touchy, display higher value, it'll come.pores
Yes. Sure.
1) Be happy and cheerful always.
2) Help other to the maximum.
3) Be attentive and supportive.
4) Be playful and accommodating.
5) Remember peoples help and never forget to thank.
6) Remember their names and value their friendship.
7) Never try to project yourself as somebody not your real self.
8) Concentrate on the growth of your academic carrier .
9) Be a good son, good neighbor, good friend, good companion, good citizen, and good student, good brother.
10) Always give respect to others opinion and wishes.
11) Don't ever be arrogant, selfish, or rude to any of them.
12) Always present yourself in a decent and appropriate dressing.
13) Never use foul language or harsh words against anybody. Be soft spoken.
14) Never be jealous or cunning.
15) Try to appreciate other persons good qualities, and ignore their bad ones.
and you will automatically be a much sought after boy, not only in your school, but also in your entire locality.Hey, can you people on here give me some advice?
I notice that you equate being a better person with being liked and being perceived in a certain way by others. You didn't say anything about improving your inner qualities. While it is okay to want the love and approval of others, don' t let your self-esteem rest solely on how other people react to you. That's the best way to end up unhappy.
be more touchy, display higher value, it'll come.
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