i told my best friend that i liked her but she said she doesnt have the same feelings..she just wants to be closer..what does that mean? how can i get her to realize i want to be with her? should i flirt with her more? i dont know what to do can someone help me out..? do i talk to her? should i call her on the phone and let her know i really want this? I NEED HELP ..ANY ONE PLEASE!HELP!! i need peoples advice and answers on dating!?
That's a weird comeback...
You need to ask HER. Don't be pushy about it, don't necessarily ask her right away, and don't sound disappointed or anything, that will just risk pushing her away.
Just tell her that you don't want to push her away, and you want to know what she meant, so you will know how to treat her, and how to act around her.
Then just be patient, take your time. You can't force people into these situations, maybe she just needs to move slower than you do.HELP!! i need peoples advice and answers on dating!?
She's saying you should stay as just friends. So don't try to make something happen if she was really interestend in dating you she probably would show it or tell you. If it's meant to be it will.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need peoples advice please?
okay so i have extremely curly hair and its a little past my shoulders and i want to get it cut into a bob kind of a long bob with bangs and straighten my hair every day my parents don't think it would look good but idk i rly want it like that do u think with having curly hair it will look ok??
I need peoples advice please?
i think it would be cute. but if you straighten it everyday it will ruin and burn your hair. but its your choiceI need peoples advice please?
to be honest curly bobs arent that cute. they tend to to be too short and it gets really big. If you want to see what it will look like on you get layers in your hair and then take the shortest layer and let them stay and the rest of the hair put up in a ponytail and then u will see what it looks like.
mmmmhhmmm Bobs were'nt made for curly hair! Straightening your hair daily will only damage it badly. BAD IDEA. Keep your curly hair
I need peoples advice please?
i think it would be cute. but if you straighten it everyday it will ruin and burn your hair. but its your choiceI need peoples advice please?
to be honest curly bobs arent that cute. they tend to to be too short and it gets really big. If you want to see what it will look like on you get layers in your hair and then take the shortest layer and let them stay and the rest of the hair put up in a ponytail and then u will see what it looks like.
mmmmhhmmm Bobs were'nt made for curly hair! Straightening your hair daily will only damage it badly. BAD IDEA. Keep your curly hair
Need Mortgage peoples advice...?
Moved from the West Coast to Middle America 9 months ago and bought a home, and now I want to move back to where I was, how long do I have stay in my home before I can move? And should I notify my mortgage company that I'm thinking about moving? I want to continue buying the house and I have a relative who wants to occupy it, so it wouldn't be vacant. I am very concerned about this, help!Need Mortgage peoples advice...?
I am assuming 'I want to continue buying this home' means that you wsh to continue paying the mortgage payment and that you closed this purchase 9 months ago...
The only thing you need to tell the existing mortgage company is the new address where you want the bill sent. Your interest rate will not change jut because you have decided to move and rent out this home. You have not committed loan fraud since you intended and indeed used this property as a primary home just like you said you were going to. The fact that you have decided to move back west does not matter.
Your real issue is going to be moving back and finding somewhere else to live. If you intend to purchase again keep in mind that you will now have to qualify for the new home along with the other property. Lenders will only allow you to use 75% of the rental income for qualification purposes since they know there is money spent on the rental in maintenance, vacancy etc...
If you do decide to buy again make sure that the renters have signed a rental agreement even though they are family since a new lender will want a copy of the agreement.
Other than that, good luck!
Kevin 866-562-6838 x 106
kruorock@firstatelending.comNeed Mortgage peoples advice...?
As long as you pay your mortgage on time you can move. The mortgage company won't care.
The mortgage company also won't care if you rent the house.
The home is legally yours and you can do with it what you please. The mortgage company only has a lien.
Much of this will depend on whether there is a prepayment penalty attached to the loan you have. Many of these would be at least a 2 year commitment with a penalty equal to 6 months interest if you close the loan early.
Even in that case that doesn't prevent you from selling the home immediately if you can afford it.
Here is some additional info. Hope this helps.
There is no reason to tell your mortgage company that you are moving. Also your interest rate will not change because you have not converted your former owner occupied property into a rental.
No one will come and knock on the door to find out who resides there except the censor.
You should notify mortgage company of the change of address, unless you trust your relatives to send the mail to you.
You are still responsible to the mortgage company to pay the mortgage.
I hope this is of some use to you, good luck.
';FIGHT ON';
They will care less who lives there now just so long as it is paid on time all the time! You can give them the new address to send all statements etc.
You can move whenever you want to. Since you will be renting it out, it won't be a good idea to tell your mortgage company, since this will no longer be your primary residence. They will consider it as commercial property and you interest rate will change.
It sounds like you haven't even closed on the purchase of this home in the Midwest yet?
If so, please read the following: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You can't continue with your purchase if you have zero intent to occupy the property.
Basically, since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Good luck!!
Since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.stella mccartney
I am assuming 'I want to continue buying this home' means that you wsh to continue paying the mortgage payment and that you closed this purchase 9 months ago...
The only thing you need to tell the existing mortgage company is the new address where you want the bill sent. Your interest rate will not change jut because you have decided to move and rent out this home. You have not committed loan fraud since you intended and indeed used this property as a primary home just like you said you were going to. The fact that you have decided to move back west does not matter.
Your real issue is going to be moving back and finding somewhere else to live. If you intend to purchase again keep in mind that you will now have to qualify for the new home along with the other property. Lenders will only allow you to use 75% of the rental income for qualification purposes since they know there is money spent on the rental in maintenance, vacancy etc...
If you do decide to buy again make sure that the renters have signed a rental agreement even though they are family since a new lender will want a copy of the agreement.
Other than that, good luck!
Kevin 866-562-6838 x 106
kruorock@firstatelending.comNeed Mortgage peoples advice...?
As long as you pay your mortgage on time you can move. The mortgage company won't care.
The mortgage company also won't care if you rent the house.
The home is legally yours and you can do with it what you please. The mortgage company only has a lien.
Much of this will depend on whether there is a prepayment penalty attached to the loan you have. Many of these would be at least a 2 year commitment with a penalty equal to 6 months interest if you close the loan early.
Even in that case that doesn't prevent you from selling the home immediately if you can afford it.
Here is some additional info. Hope this helps.
There is no reason to tell your mortgage company that you are moving. Also your interest rate will not change because you have not converted your former owner occupied property into a rental.
No one will come and knock on the door to find out who resides there except the censor.
You should notify mortgage company of the change of address, unless you trust your relatives to send the mail to you.
You are still responsible to the mortgage company to pay the mortgage.
I hope this is of some use to you, good luck.
';FIGHT ON';
They will care less who lives there now just so long as it is paid on time all the time! You can give them the new address to send all statements etc.
You can move whenever you want to. Since you will be renting it out, it won't be a good idea to tell your mortgage company, since this will no longer be your primary residence. They will consider it as commercial property and you interest rate will change.
It sounds like you haven't even closed on the purchase of this home in the Midwest yet?
If so, please read the following: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You can't continue with your purchase if you have zero intent to occupy the property.
Basically, since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Good luck!!
Since you're not selling, it doesn't matter how long you've been there.
Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
0k so i just watched the movie ( The Notebook) for the 1st time .. and let me tell you I was balling like a baby LOL .. i cant help but wonder if love like that is real is it true ? Ive been with my husband for 10 and a half years about to be married 5 ..we share a child together ..my marriage is very rocky and im not secure in it at all .. after watching that movie i cant help but wonder what im missing out on .. does love like that really exist is it real ? I put up with alot in my marriage cuz i feel i committed myself to him in marrige and its the right thing to do but now i cant help but wonder what im missing if that kinda love really exists i want to have it . has any of you had it ?? and if so plz explain ..my husband works and cares for me and our child while im a stay at home mom and i appreciate that very much ..but wonder if this is luv cuz i dont feel it.. i dont feel comfortable around my husbOlder adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
I was with a guy for 20 years where he lied and cheated almost the whole time, rarely worked, abused me and his kids, used me and drugs, didn't respect me or anyone else, and thought it was his right to cheat on his wife but not his wifes right to cheat on him (I didn't even though he did over and over). I was very young and stupid when I met and married this jerk. I finally got fed up, left, and divorced him.
I have since that time found true love. I have the most wonderful, amazing, fantastic, caring, loving, respectful, honest, truthful man on this planet!! He loves and respects me with his heart and soul, like I do him. He treats me like a goddess and has me on a pedestal, and I treat him like a king and have him on a pedestal. We have tons in common, and what we don't have in common makes the relationship interesting and fun. We don't depend on each other for much. We just compliment each others lives. I was too dependent on my ex for far too long and refuse to do that again.
Anyway, I do believe that there is true love, a soul mate, for every one. I got lucky and found mine.
I believe that when in a relationship, you must have: trust, great communication, lots of love, and respect. If you don't have those things for each other, then you really don't have a marriage but a relationship of convenience or a living hell. I think that you need to search in yourself and decide what you want and need to make you happy, with or without him. It is up to you to make yourself happy, not him. If he does, then all the better. But if he doesn't, then don't expect him to change and do it now. Have you talked with him to let him know how you feel? If not, then how is he to know what you want and or need. What kind of stuff are you putting up with? You shouldn't have to put up with anything, especially abuse and cheating. From what you have written, it sounds like he doesn't love or respect you. Do you really want to live with that? Do you really want your kids to see and feel the disrespect? Believe it or not, kids will see and sense the tension between you, even if you try to hide it from them. Then they suffer as much as you do because they don't like to see or sense that their parents are unhappy. It is not healthy for them to see or sense this stuff. When they do, they usually end up growing up thinking that that's how marriages are supposed to be: one abusing another, the abused putting up with it, etc. Do you really want that for your kids?
These are all things for you to think about and answer. Only YOU can answer these questions, and any others you can come up with. Only YOU can make the decision to change your life if you are unhappy. DON'T expect someone else to do it for you because it won't work. Only YOU can change your life.
Good luck. I do hope that this has helped.Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
There were times I thought I was, but looking back I'm not so sure...
True love begins within oneself.
We can spend our whole lives trying to make others happy and hope that they shower us with love in return.
It just doesn't happen that way.
One thing I know for sure is that love is not supposed to be painful or uncomfortable.
Sure marriage isn't easy, and it sometimes takes a lot of work;
but that's not a reason to be miserable.
Love is supposed to sponsor comfort.
Try to work it out with your husband, but remember that you can't force love.
It's either given freely or not at all.
You might even have to face the fact that you don't belong together.
i havent found it
Yes it does. I was married 30 years when my husband died at work, and I found it very hard to go on, but I did because that's all you can do.
I was with a guy for 20 years where he lied and cheated almost the whole time, rarely worked, abused me and his kids, used me and drugs, didn't respect me or anyone else, and thought it was his right to cheat on his wife but not his wifes right to cheat on him (I didn't even though he did over and over). I was very young and stupid when I met and married this jerk. I finally got fed up, left, and divorced him.
I have since that time found true love. I have the most wonderful, amazing, fantastic, caring, loving, respectful, honest, truthful man on this planet!! He loves and respects me with his heart and soul, like I do him. He treats me like a goddess and has me on a pedestal, and I treat him like a king and have him on a pedestal. We have tons in common, and what we don't have in common makes the relationship interesting and fun. We don't depend on each other for much. We just compliment each others lives. I was too dependent on my ex for far too long and refuse to do that again.
Anyway, I do believe that there is true love, a soul mate, for every one. I got lucky and found mine.
I believe that when in a relationship, you must have: trust, great communication, lots of love, and respect. If you don't have those things for each other, then you really don't have a marriage but a relationship of convenience or a living hell. I think that you need to search in yourself and decide what you want and need to make you happy, with or without him. It is up to you to make yourself happy, not him. If he does, then all the better. But if he doesn't, then don't expect him to change and do it now. Have you talked with him to let him know how you feel? If not, then how is he to know what you want and or need. What kind of stuff are you putting up with? You shouldn't have to put up with anything, especially abuse and cheating. From what you have written, it sounds like he doesn't love or respect you. Do you really want to live with that? Do you really want your kids to see and feel the disrespect? Believe it or not, kids will see and sense the tension between you, even if you try to hide it from them. Then they suffer as much as you do because they don't like to see or sense that their parents are unhappy. It is not healthy for them to see or sense this stuff. When they do, they usually end up growing up thinking that that's how marriages are supposed to be: one abusing another, the abused putting up with it, etc. Do you really want that for your kids?
These are all things for you to think about and answer. Only YOU can answer these questions, and any others you can come up with. Only YOU can make the decision to change your life if you are unhappy. DON'T expect someone else to do it for you because it won't work. Only YOU can change your life.
Good luck. I do hope that this has helped.Older adult peoples advice plz.. have you ever experiances real true love?
There were times I thought I was, but looking back I'm not so sure...
True love begins within oneself.
We can spend our whole lives trying to make others happy and hope that they shower us with love in return.
It just doesn't happen that way.
One thing I know for sure is that love is not supposed to be painful or uncomfortable.
Sure marriage isn't easy, and it sometimes takes a lot of work;
but that's not a reason to be miserable.
Love is supposed to sponsor comfort.
Try to work it out with your husband, but remember that you can't force love.
It's either given freely or not at all.
You might even have to face the fact that you don't belong together.
i havent found it
Yes it does. I was married 30 years when my husband died at work, and I found it very hard to go on, but I did because that's all you can do.
I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
so here's the story. We've been friends for awhile and only just started to see each other. We went to semi and i couldn't wait to go home. i honestly couldn't just go to the dance with one person and be expeced to dance with them all night. We kissed and it was one of the most...wierd things i have ever done. i really don't think i'm ready to be in relationship. i've never ben with anyone before. are these feeings normal or should i get out now before we're together too long and i end up hurting his feelings.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
That is all perfectly normal. Just do not stress about it, it's OK to like someone without getting all touchy. Boys are not good at that and he may not like it but that's his loss. If he ONLY want's to snog and paw you then he can not be your friend and you have to let him go.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
When I was young and started hanging out with my now fiance (been together 5 and half years) , he went in for the kiss and I didn't feel comfortable with it either. I thought I'd upset him but it all turned out ok, it's only good when you feel comfortable with yourself and the other person.. give it some time.
That is all perfectly normal. Just do not stress about it, it's OK to like someone without getting all touchy. Boys are not good at that and he may not like it but that's his loss. If he ONLY want's to snog and paw you then he can not be your friend and you have to let him go.I need peoples advice about this guy. Please help me!?
When I was young and started hanging out with my now fiance (been together 5 and half years) , he went in for the kiss and I didn't feel comfortable with it either. I thought I'd upset him but it all turned out ok, it's only good when you feel comfortable with yourself and the other person.. give it some time.
Need peoples advice?
This year i have made my New Years resolutions they are to loose weight , save money %26amp; better my families lives I really want to stick to these give me some good advice on things I can do to acomplish these resolutions ? We are a family of 6 if that helps any , also four boys are under the age of 14 .Need peoples advice?
here are just some little things to help accomplish your goals. especially since a lot of people dont keep new years resolutions because we try to make a dramatic difference all at once and ofcourse we get thrown off course and dont go back.. so by doing something so simple weighs itself out in the end!
lose weight
i would say stop eating after 8pm! or even 7, even something little like that over a period of time definately makes a difference.
save money
fast food! edit the amount you get fast food! im not saying dont go out to dinner or nething, just fast food!! ya maybe once a week but you limit the amount of fastfood you get you save bundles!!
and maybe other things such as snacks at a gas station, or a magazine, or little mundane things as such. (throw some snacks in your car if you must, such as goldfish, cheeseits, chex mix etc... (i kno these things are only a few dollars at once but just think about it, and add it up, people waste $100's of bucks a year on little things like that!
me and my fiance cut out fast food and just bought a few more groceries to eat at home, and we saved over $100 in one month!!!!!!
better your family life
patience is key! especially with 6children which im sure you've mastered the patience thing now!! but if not, when you feel like exploding...take a DEEEEP breath...dont do it in a rush, just try to breath...it helps clear your mind a little bit, and the least bit helps!!
also try to do atleast one family thing a week...i kno its hard to get a family to do stuff together especially one so large...but even something as small as watching a movie together, going out to dinner, going to the park to play, playing cards... anything helps!
everyone needs family time!!
GOODLUCK AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!Need peoples advice?
as far as loosing weight... the first step is watch what you eat, cut portions, keep out the processed stuff. Meat, rice, potatoes, veggies... just change up the combo's... make sure its balanced.
to make you and your kids happier.. cut out the sugar. look at the sugar content in things you buy them.. you will notice a difference in their energy levels, even their moods. i promice! go for walks, do a quick work out every day... once you start to see results you will only want to go further with it.
These are simple things you can do that will make all the difference.
as far as resolution... DONT use that word..... thats almost like an excuse not to do it... just make it your goal :)
good luck
I agree buy in bulk for things that most or all of you like it save a bunch of money. Eat at home when ever possible and pack lunches from home as well. In order to stick to your goals why not write them down with suggestions on how to accomplish each of them.
Such as for losing weight you could write lose 1-2 lbs a week. And as for how to accomplish this write something like take a 30 minute walk each day. Then to implement it you could try taking a 10 minute walk every night after dinner, and gradually work your way up. If you are low on money you could use water bottles as weight to help you build muscle this will also help with you weight loss. If you stop buying soda when you shop and stock the fridge with cold water then you can save money as well as help aid in your weight loss.
To save money buy in bulk, eat at home, and pack lunches.
Don't try to do too much at once. Pick one for the first part of the year, then another, then another. Good luck!
Im feeling ya! I have the same goals! I have a family of 4 with 2 kids ages 2 and 3! Im not going to eat out as much and not buy as much junk food. That kinda helps me lose weight too. Don't buy anymore pop unless it is on sale...that gets really expensive too. Right now is the best time to buy things when they are on sale! Good luck!!!!
to save money sit down figure your total monthly bring home and write down each and every bill and how much each costs. Limit your grocery bill each week (or month depending on how often you want to go to the store) include entertainment and clothes and gas. Also make yourself a saving allotment and pretend it is a bill. That way you will have a little savings.
here are just some little things to help accomplish your goals. especially since a lot of people dont keep new years resolutions because we try to make a dramatic difference all at once and ofcourse we get thrown off course and dont go back.. so by doing something so simple weighs itself out in the end!
lose weight
i would say stop eating after 8pm! or even 7, even something little like that over a period of time definately makes a difference.
save money
fast food! edit the amount you get fast food! im not saying dont go out to dinner or nething, just fast food!! ya maybe once a week but you limit the amount of fastfood you get you save bundles!!
and maybe other things such as snacks at a gas station, or a magazine, or little mundane things as such. (throw some snacks in your car if you must, such as goldfish, cheeseits, chex mix etc... (i kno these things are only a few dollars at once but just think about it, and add it up, people waste $100's of bucks a year on little things like that!
me and my fiance cut out fast food and just bought a few more groceries to eat at home, and we saved over $100 in one month!!!!!!
better your family life
patience is key! especially with 6children which im sure you've mastered the patience thing now!! but if not, when you feel like exploding...take a DEEEEP breath...dont do it in a rush, just try to breath...it helps clear your mind a little bit, and the least bit helps!!
also try to do atleast one family thing a week...i kno its hard to get a family to do stuff together especially one so large...but even something as small as watching a movie together, going out to dinner, going to the park to play, playing cards... anything helps!
everyone needs family time!!
GOODLUCK AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!Need peoples advice?
as far as loosing weight... the first step is watch what you eat, cut portions, keep out the processed stuff. Meat, rice, potatoes, veggies... just change up the combo's... make sure its balanced.
to make you and your kids happier.. cut out the sugar. look at the sugar content in things you buy them.. you will notice a difference in their energy levels, even their moods. i promice! go for walks, do a quick work out every day... once you start to see results you will only want to go further with it.
These are simple things you can do that will make all the difference.
as far as resolution... DONT use that word..... thats almost like an excuse not to do it... just make it your goal :)
good luck
I agree buy in bulk for things that most or all of you like it save a bunch of money. Eat at home when ever possible and pack lunches from home as well. In order to stick to your goals why not write them down with suggestions on how to accomplish each of them.
Such as for losing weight you could write lose 1-2 lbs a week. And as for how to accomplish this write something like take a 30 minute walk each day. Then to implement it you could try taking a 10 minute walk every night after dinner, and gradually work your way up. If you are low on money you could use water bottles as weight to help you build muscle this will also help with you weight loss. If you stop buying soda when you shop and stock the fridge with cold water then you can save money as well as help aid in your weight loss.
To save money buy in bulk, eat at home, and pack lunches.
Don't try to do too much at once. Pick one for the first part of the year, then another, then another. Good luck!
Im feeling ya! I have the same goals! I have a family of 4 with 2 kids ages 2 and 3! Im not going to eat out as much and not buy as much junk food. That kinda helps me lose weight too. Don't buy anymore pop unless it is on sale...that gets really expensive too. Right now is the best time to buy things when they are on sale! Good luck!!!!
to save money sit down figure your total monthly bring home and write down each and every bill and how much each costs. Limit your grocery bill each week (or month depending on how often you want to go to the store) include entertainment and clothes and gas. Also make yourself a saving allotment and pretend it is a bill. That way you will have a little savings.
I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
theres this guy i like that lives next door to me and hes going away and cant decide whether hes cumin back
i really like him but he kinda older than me but he doesnt act like it
he doesnt know that i like him
wot can i doI really need peoples advice on sumthin?
he's going away. Forget about him %26amp; find someone a little closer to your age............I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
If he doesn't know that you like him, of cause he wouldn't react. Love is two-way. It's not about the age difference or what but something that made you feel he is the one for you.
did you tolk with him before about any thing ?
he is older then maybe he have gf .. do u fell he is trying to tolk with you ?
u can't do anything.. besides.. u don't even know if he likes u??? have u tried talking to him??? well talk to him and find out if he likes u2... if not.. let him go... if he does then tell him to stay...
If you really like him then you need to tell him.Make him want to come back,which I think if you tell him your feelings for him,he will want to come back. Love does not recognize
age,so what if he is older!!!! GOOD LUCK!
just let him go... there's a lot of young guys same age as you out there...
depends on how much older. if your under 18 and hes over forget it.
Tell him you are madly in love w/ him and that he shouldn't go.
start by saying that u really would love to be his friend and that u are hoping that u can keep in touch, for the sake of friendship. a smart guy wont turn down a girl's offer of wanting to be their friend. then, maybe from there u can start thinking bout ur phase 2 strategy =)
Make a move.
let it go if he is going away it is not going to work anyways, find someone who will be there.
i really like him but he kinda older than me but he doesnt act like it
he doesnt know that i like him
wot can i doI really need peoples advice on sumthin?
he's going away. Forget about him %26amp; find someone a little closer to your age............I really need peoples advice on sumthin?
If he doesn't know that you like him, of cause he wouldn't react. Love is two-way. It's not about the age difference or what but something that made you feel he is the one for you.
did you tolk with him before about any thing ?
he is older then maybe he have gf .. do u fell he is trying to tolk with you ?
u can't do anything.. besides.. u don't even know if he likes u??? have u tried talking to him??? well talk to him and find out if he likes u2... if not.. let him go... if he does then tell him to stay...
If you really like him then you need to tell him.Make him want to come back,which I think if you tell him your feelings for him,he will want to come back. Love does not recognize
age,so what if he is older!!!! GOOD LUCK!
just let him go... there's a lot of young guys same age as you out there...
depends on how much older. if your under 18 and hes over forget it.
Tell him you are madly in love w/ him and that he shouldn't go.
start by saying that u really would love to be his friend and that u are hoping that u can keep in touch, for the sake of friendship. a smart guy wont turn down a girl's offer of wanting to be their friend. then, maybe from there u can start thinking bout ur phase 2 strategy =)
Make a move.
let it go if he is going away it is not going to work anyways, find someone who will be there.
Hey. need peoples advice?
hey. k everyweekend we hang out with some girls. and i want to know how to sweet talk or persuade them to makeout with me. and only me that night because i hate peoples seconds. please you can tell me your experiences like thisHey. need peoples advice?
well....normally if a girl read something like this she'd slap you but...ill help...see what girls like...you gotta first find out if she likes good or bad boys so just slowly show different sides maybe shell get closer to one then the other...and then act like that..or if you just wanna stick to the sweet guy crap then keep pushing buy her presents and stuff...then with you and her alone in a romantic place *AND FOR A GIRL THE GARAGE OR BAR IS NOT ROMANTIC* and coplment her and then say you have sumthin in your eye ask her if she sees anything then BOOM shes in love! =)*cause you guys are staring into each others eyes.....but if you just want some slobber say hey you ***** come here and kiss me and then slobber away!.,.......*i see why they dont kiss you...*Hey. need peoples advice?
figure out what her intrests r by asking a friend of hers 2 ask the girl u like. then, say in front of her what she likes and that it is a quincedince that u 2 r so alike. then, there u go!
Well you sound like a real numpty to me and hopefully those girls will see right through you and what you want . Why not try being decent .
well....normally if a girl read something like this she'd slap you but...ill help...see what girls like...you gotta first find out if she likes good or bad boys so just slowly show different sides maybe shell get closer to one then the other...and then act like that..or if you just wanna stick to the sweet guy crap then keep pushing buy her presents and stuff...then with you and her alone in a romantic place *AND FOR A GIRL THE GARAGE OR BAR IS NOT ROMANTIC* and coplment her and then say you have sumthin in your eye ask her if she sees anything then BOOM shes in love! =)*cause you guys are staring into each others eyes.....but if you just want some slobber say hey you ***** come here and kiss me and then slobber away!.,.......*i see why they dont kiss you...*Hey. need peoples advice?
figure out what her intrests r by asking a friend of hers 2 ask the girl u like. then, say in front of her what she likes and that it is a quincedince that u 2 r so alike. then, there u go!
Well you sound like a real numpty to me and hopefully those girls will see right through you and what you want . Why not try being decent .
I took peoples advice and i when slowly and i put some lubricant and she still cry right know im doing it?
I know what you mean buddy. Maybe she's not relaxed enough, and therefore, no matter how much lubricant you use, she'll still feel discomfort. Perhaps an extended amount of foreplay would help relax her. If this problem persists, perhaps she should contact her GP. Maybe she needs to be reassured that after the two of you have sex, things will still be the same afterwards. Hope this helps. Triple peace out.I took peoples advice and i when slowly and i put some lubricant and she still cry right know im doing it?
dang, just how big r you? or is this just all for entertainment to make yourself feel better...........I took peoples advice and i when slowly and i put some lubricant and she still cry right know im doing it?
Try diffrent positions... If this doesn't work she may have something medical causing her pain.
use your mouth and toungue and then try and give it a go.. how tight is this chick?????
or make sure she is well in the moment of things and then give her a seeing to,
Maybe you're too big for her. Try different positions. Maybe she is just weak..or she doesnt' tolerate pain well. Not everyone finds sex enjoyable.stella mccartney
dang, just how big r you? or is this just all for entertainment to make yourself feel better...........I took peoples advice and i when slowly and i put some lubricant and she still cry right know im doing it?
Try diffrent positions... If this doesn't work she may have something medical causing her pain.
use your mouth and toungue and then try and give it a go.. how tight is this chick?????
or make sure she is well in the moment of things and then give her a seeing to,
Maybe you're too big for her. Try different positions. Maybe she is just weak..or she doesnt' tolerate pain well. Not everyone finds sex enjoyable.
I need advice on buying a guitar amp. I want to begin playing with people. Thoughts, Suggestions?
The brand of the amp doesn't matter as much as the size %26amp; wattage.
If you want to play with others, including possibly a drummer, you'll need at the MINIMUM a 30 watt amp. You also have a choice between ';solid state'; (cheaper, durable, good sound), and ';tube'; amp (much more expensive, require a bit of maintenance, GREAT sound) Tube amps are also typically louder than solid state amps....if you compare the same wattage.
You must also consider a ';stack'; or ';half stack'; vs. a ';combo'; amp. A stack is not necessary in most cases.....the right combo will suffice, and will be MUCH easier to transport.....with that said, I'll talk a little more about combo amps.
Another thing to consider is the speakers.......and amp and it's power is only as good as the speakers. I would suggest finding a combo amp with 2 - 10'; speakers or 2 - 12'; speakers. There are amps out there that do perfectly fine with 1 - 12'; speaker, but 2 is my personal preference.
Finally, the sound that you want is most likely going to determine what brand you end up getting.....try out some different ones (with your own guitar) and see what sounds best to you.I need advice on buying a guitar amp. I want to begin playing with people. Thoughts, Suggestions?
Do not feel you need a ';mega-watt'; amp to play in a band. Unless you are playing large halls or using the amp as your only source of amplification shoot for 40-60 watt amps. Peavey, Marshall, Fender, etc are all good quality. Look for specific features but most of all play through them. Picking an amp is like choosing a guitar, it has to feel good to you no matter what anyone else says. Of course, price will play a part also.
Have fun shopping.I need advice on buying a guitar amp. I want to begin playing with people. Thoughts, Suggestions?
you should get a crank amp even though they are expensive they are loud and hard to break
If you want to play with others, including possibly a drummer, you'll need at the MINIMUM a 30 watt amp. You also have a choice between ';solid state'; (cheaper, durable, good sound), and ';tube'; amp (much more expensive, require a bit of maintenance, GREAT sound) Tube amps are also typically louder than solid state amps....if you compare the same wattage.
You must also consider a ';stack'; or ';half stack'; vs. a ';combo'; amp. A stack is not necessary in most cases.....the right combo will suffice, and will be MUCH easier to transport.....with that said, I'll talk a little more about combo amps.
Another thing to consider is the speakers.......and amp and it's power is only as good as the speakers. I would suggest finding a combo amp with 2 - 10'; speakers or 2 - 12'; speakers. There are amps out there that do perfectly fine with 1 - 12'; speaker, but 2 is my personal preference.
Finally, the sound that you want is most likely going to determine what brand you end up getting.....try out some different ones (with your own guitar) and see what sounds best to you.I need advice on buying a guitar amp. I want to begin playing with people. Thoughts, Suggestions?
Do not feel you need a ';mega-watt'; amp to play in a band. Unless you are playing large halls or using the amp as your only source of amplification shoot for 40-60 watt amps. Peavey, Marshall, Fender, etc are all good quality. Look for specific features but most of all play through them. Picking an amp is like choosing a guitar, it has to feel good to you no matter what anyone else says. Of course, price will play a part also.
Have fun shopping.I need advice on buying a guitar amp. I want to begin playing with people. Thoughts, Suggestions?
you should get a crank amp even though they are expensive they are loud and hard to break
Don't you hate it when older people are always trying to give you advice?
I seem to have more answers than questions this morning, fire away, I'll give it my best shot.Don't you hate it when older people are always trying to give you advice?
Will sanctity ever conquer vile?Don't you hate it when older people are always trying to give you advice?
Yes.
I also don't like being called a kid, because I'm not. I know what is right for me and I've only made right decisions in my life. I appreciate what they're trying to tell me, but older people are not always right.
Yeah,
Like the time I asked dad could I go learn electronics.
Dad said not to worry about it cos electronics are a fad, and in a few years time you won't see any electronics around.
Duh !
.
no..i have always looked to older mentors for advice...
That would be just ma luck.
You are on a roll %26amp; I haven't heard you once say ';listen sonny';
hahahaha! well you hadn't before I answered, looks like you have now. ';Sonny'; tisk, tisk, tisk.
You do what you want old dear...
i think its funny when they think they know exactly what you're thinking and shoving it in your face
i've decided not to listen to them anymore. i wish i'd listened to myself
You mean to tell me there's older people? I babysat for Joe and Mary. Kid was a brat, try to give him a bath and he just walks on the water.
If a person could sort through the advice with slight alterations.Being times have change some of the advice can be proven to be beneficial.
yes yes yes
They must learn that advice when it is wanted is advice.
When it is not wanted it is interference.
I used too. Now I am that older person.
The older I get, the younger everyone else seems.
Not at all. You can learn a lot from older people!
Yes and whatever advice they give me I do the opposite in front of them just to irrate them.
yes and no... I love your advice..
not really hate, i can find humor on those obsolete advicex they give. its their way of showing their love and care so i would be glad.
Not always... I mean if I fell what they say is bs then I hate it but if I feel what they say could help me then I listen :)
No, cause they've actually lived it, you might learn something.
They've been on the earth longer then us and have more experience of life. Don't take the advice if you don't want to..=)
Yes, but we must always respect them. This is what i can only say.
no they are usually right
sometimes
Some times it can be helpful.Take on board what suits you %26amp; dismiss the rest.
It is the voice of experience talking, listen and learn or smile and ignore it.
yes. i also hate when my grandma's friends are like, 'so, do you have a boyfriend? why not?'
Yeah i hate it when there talking bull.. its annoying.. : - )
should i get out of my p.j and get dressws
Yes
No 'older' people have paid their dues, experienced more, and have much to teach us.
Kind of.
Hee, hee, it's the younger ones that try to give me advice. LMAO
yeah its like they think their smarter than us......pssh where did they get that idea?
honestly,yup.
but i`m afraid i`ll do it when i going to be old as they are.
Will sanctity ever conquer vile?Don't you hate it when older people are always trying to give you advice?
Yes.
I also don't like being called a kid, because I'm not. I know what is right for me and I've only made right decisions in my life. I appreciate what they're trying to tell me, but older people are not always right.
Yeah,
Like the time I asked dad could I go learn electronics.
Dad said not to worry about it cos electronics are a fad, and in a few years time you won't see any electronics around.
Duh !
.
no..i have always looked to older mentors for advice...
That would be just ma luck.
You are on a roll %26amp; I haven't heard you once say ';listen sonny';
hahahaha! well you hadn't before I answered, looks like you have now. ';Sonny'; tisk, tisk, tisk.
You do what you want old dear...
i think its funny when they think they know exactly what you're thinking and shoving it in your face
i've decided not to listen to them anymore. i wish i'd listened to myself
You mean to tell me there's older people? I babysat for Joe and Mary. Kid was a brat, try to give him a bath and he just walks on the water.
If a person could sort through the advice with slight alterations.Being times have change some of the advice can be proven to be beneficial.
yes yes yes
They must learn that advice when it is wanted is advice.
When it is not wanted it is interference.
I used too. Now I am that older person.
The older I get, the younger everyone else seems.
Not at all. You can learn a lot from older people!
Yes and whatever advice they give me I do the opposite in front of them just to irrate them.
yes and no... I love your advice..
not really hate, i can find humor on those obsolete advicex they give. its their way of showing their love and care so i would be glad.
Not always... I mean if I fell what they say is bs then I hate it but if I feel what they say could help me then I listen :)
No, cause they've actually lived it, you might learn something.
They've been on the earth longer then us and have more experience of life. Don't take the advice if you don't want to..=)
Yes, but we must always respect them. This is what i can only say.
no they are usually right
sometimes
Some times it can be helpful.Take on board what suits you %26amp; dismiss the rest.
It is the voice of experience talking, listen and learn or smile and ignore it.
yes. i also hate when my grandma's friends are like, 'so, do you have a boyfriend? why not?'
Yeah i hate it when there talking bull.. its annoying.. : - )
should i get out of my p.j and get dressws
Yes
No 'older' people have paid their dues, experienced more, and have much to teach us.
Kind of.
Hee, hee, it's the younger ones that try to give me advice. LMAO
yeah its like they think their smarter than us......pssh where did they get that idea?
honestly,yup.
but i`m afraid i`ll do it when i going to be old as they are.
Do you feel it's Fair 4 people on Yahoo Answers 2 get free advice from U, then let the question go unresolved?
Just wondering whether or not there were others out there as frustrated about this as I am. Especially the questions that go ';Undecided';/Invoting after a few days---You know!-- those that you felt you put a lot (sometimes even your life passion) into them, and anyone with good sense could tell that you should I've gotten the ';Best Answer'; for it? I don't know... Maybe I'm just being too possessive about my answers--(I mean my ';Babies';---No----LOL). What do you think??
Does it frustrate you too?Do you feel it's Fair 4 people on Yahoo Answers 2 get free advice from U, then let the question go unresolved?
I don't think it is (pick one) polite, considerate, being a responsible user.
I also think that MOST questions seeking advice are violations of the site's rules. So is replying to answers to your questions within those questions, and, as Yahoo puts it, ';calling another user out by name';.
Fair does not, unfortuantely, have a lot to do with anything in the world. There are lots of things that are not fair.Do you feel it's Fair 4 people on Yahoo Answers 2 get free advice from U, then let the question go unresolved?
NO - it does not frustrate me. I simply go in and vote for my answer. It's perfectly legal to do that here. And if someone can't take the time to vote for best answer then they get the answer they deserve - MINE.
It gets very frustrating when the question lies fallow for two years, as the asker did not care to choose a best answer and no one cares to vote on the answers
Cry about it, woman.
i think stephen k. deserves all the best answers!!!
keep out ..hehe lol
Does it frustrate you too?Do you feel it's Fair 4 people on Yahoo Answers 2 get free advice from U, then let the question go unresolved?
I don't think it is (pick one) polite, considerate, being a responsible user.
I also think that MOST questions seeking advice are violations of the site's rules. So is replying to answers to your questions within those questions, and, as Yahoo puts it, ';calling another user out by name';.
Fair does not, unfortuantely, have a lot to do with anything in the world. There are lots of things that are not fair.Do you feel it's Fair 4 people on Yahoo Answers 2 get free advice from U, then let the question go unresolved?
NO - it does not frustrate me. I simply go in and vote for my answer. It's perfectly legal to do that here. And if someone can't take the time to vote for best answer then they get the answer they deserve - MINE.
It gets very frustrating when the question lies fallow for two years, as the asker did not care to choose a best answer and no one cares to vote on the answers
Cry about it, woman.
i think stephen k. deserves all the best answers!!!
keep out ..hehe lol
I think I want to see other people, but isn't sure..i need advice! please help?
In july my bf and I broke up, I was so hurt by him because he changed so much and did not understand why. Said he loved me but wasnt inlove with me and said he was confused. I tried so hard to get him back, while he was doing his own thing, I was so hurt and we live together still! we separated bedrooms and all. But i did get him back a month later.. after I let go and let him do his thing. Now we are back together, I think he just doesnt want to lose me all the way because I asked him if he wanted to see other people and it seems like thats when he saw that he wanted to be with me, maybe because he didn't want me to date other people. Now, we have been so good, we are understanding eachother a little more. We fought alot in the beginning, thats what lead to the break up. But then, I started talking to other guys because I think because he did it behind my back and flirted with other women (I found out through his myspace). Now I'm the one whos confused, I think I want to see other people but something is holding me back. The lease will end on dec and we are going separate ways with the apartment but still probably date.I have a 2 years old and he is so good with her, and my daughter loves her. And I met this other guy who wants to take me out this friday, I want to see whats other got to offer and Im feeling guilty. Like I said I want to see other people but I'm confuse how I really feel towards him. A part of me wants to tell him i want to see other people, but a part of me says Go out with this guy on friday and see if you could still make connection with other guys, then that means I dont want to be commited for now and just see my options. I think I am setteling. Pls help..what do u guys think is best for me to do?I think I want to see other people, but isn't sure..i need advice! please help?
Yes. I think it would be for the best to just move on and find someone else to be in a relationship with. I hope that everything works out for the best.
Yes. I think it would be for the best to just move on and find someone else to be in a relationship with. I hope that everything works out for the best.
Need advice about my son's mental health.He is shy in new environment and people.?
My 4 year old son is quite healthy physically and smart ,very thoughtful comparing to other kids of his age or above.He speaks very well both in English and my mother tongue.He can read,write all English Alphabets,his name and many more.At home,he talks very thoughtful and intelligent.Even at his age,he talks so thoughtful that we parent sometimes get suprised.He plays most of the games on computer himself...But,he is shy when he meets new people.He wants to play with much bigger people, for example,say graduate students.He appears to speak nothing to new people ,though he enjoys playing with them.He says'I wanna go someone's home'.But when I take him to their home,he speaks to no one,rather he starts to play with them,not using even a word .It seems he thinks more than he talks.His such behavior worries us(parent).Need advice about my son's mental health.He is shy in new environment and people.?
You may have a budding genius or child prodigy on you hands. He is remarkable for his age. You might want to get him tested for confirmation of this. Shyness in a child of this age is not unusual...but his intellect is very high above the norm. You must be very proud of him. It is extremely important that you keep him well grounded emotionally...which I believe is already taking place through your concern and love for him. I suspect he gets bored very easily. Children of high intellect seldom display an interest in the same things of other children his age. He sounds very special to me. You need to learn how you can best develop his potential.Need advice about my son's mental health.He is shy in new environment and people.?
Well I'd say maybe he needs more contact with kids rather with the computer or video games. Find out what he likes doing, and take him to a class with kids his age. Swimming, painting, there are lots of stuff out there !
And maybe you can ';bargain him'; Like if you make a friend, I'll buy both of you an ice crem
What do you think??
You may have a budding genius or child prodigy on you hands. He is remarkable for his age. You might want to get him tested for confirmation of this. Shyness in a child of this age is not unusual...but his intellect is very high above the norm. You must be very proud of him. It is extremely important that you keep him well grounded emotionally...which I believe is already taking place through your concern and love for him. I suspect he gets bored very easily. Children of high intellect seldom display an interest in the same things of other children his age. He sounds very special to me. You need to learn how you can best develop his potential.Need advice about my son's mental health.He is shy in new environment and people.?
Well I'd say maybe he needs more contact with kids rather with the computer or video games. Find out what he likes doing, and take him to a class with kids his age. Swimming, painting, there are lots of stuff out there !
And maybe you can ';bargain him'; Like if you make a friend, I'll buy both of you an ice crem
What do you think??
I'm feeling really upset about the people around me and need some good advice.?
Alot of the people that I used to be ok with all of the sudden started acting different around me. For instance, my counselor uses favoritism towards other students, will not help me with my college applications, and gives me dirty looks, like she look down on me. Same with my favorite teacher, she starts looking at me like im ****(excuse my language), doesnt care, and tends to other students that she doesnt even know,. And my friends started acting shady, my good guy friend is always comparing himself to me and acting like he doesnt want to talk, or be around me anymore, and along with my other friends, they seem not to care anymore. How do I cope with this? i really dont know wat 2 do...... Its like everybody has turned their backs, what should I do?I'm feeling really upset about the people around me and need some good advice.?
Concentrate on your education and show them just how successful you can really be.stella mccartney
Concentrate on your education and show them just how successful you can really be.
I'm kind of bitter about other people being happy...please give me some advice!!??
Whenever my sister comes up to me, and starts to talk about her new boyfriend, I get kind of irritated. First, it's probably because she talks about annoying little things, that I could care less about, and on top of that, I'm stressed w/so much work to do in my life, that its hard to sit there and fake smile about her stories to her! SEE THAT'S THE PROBLEM..that in itself shows how bitter I am! I should listen, as her sister, and be happy for her right? I CAN'T.
I recently (about 1.5 months ago), ended this ';dating'; relationship I had w/a guy (we were more like good friends)..and it was really short. he hurt me a lot..but that's a long story. Anyways, I've just been very lonely since then, because I don't have any guy friends..and I just lost my only guy. I've been lonely for a while. Now I just drown myself in work, I find myself having to remind myself to be happy
I am seeing a psychologist..but my question is, am I really that mean? She hasn't complained yet, but I feel it comingI'm kind of bitter about other people being happy...please give me some advice!!??
well everyone naturally feels bitter towards others happiness when you arn't happy, or as happy as that person. everyone wants to feel as though they are a little what the word ';higher'; to say the least. so don't feel bad. sometimes im a littel bitter when others have something i want (especially my little sister). and i see other peolpe do that all the time. it sounds as though your stressed so its easy to be bitter. you dont sound mean, if you are trying to put on a happy face for your sister. you probably dont want to, but its probably best to talk to your mom and sister one on one. hope i helped at least a little. i hope things owrk out for you to. :-]I'm kind of bitter about other people being happy...please give me some advice!!??
No you aren't mean. You may be bitter because your sister (sorry i have to say this) has a bf and you don't.Try to only do stuff you enjoy
Go for a jog.
try and not let ur self get caught up w/ all that work because once ur socially akward, u cant go back. and it sux!
id advice u take off work 4 a while and go ona family and friends trip, and have fun with the people who love you most.:)
I recently (about 1.5 months ago), ended this ';dating'; relationship I had w/a guy (we were more like good friends)..and it was really short. he hurt me a lot..but that's a long story. Anyways, I've just been very lonely since then, because I don't have any guy friends..and I just lost my only guy. I've been lonely for a while. Now I just drown myself in work, I find myself having to remind myself to be happy
I am seeing a psychologist..but my question is, am I really that mean? She hasn't complained yet, but I feel it comingI'm kind of bitter about other people being happy...please give me some advice!!??
well everyone naturally feels bitter towards others happiness when you arn't happy, or as happy as that person. everyone wants to feel as though they are a little what the word ';higher'; to say the least. so don't feel bad. sometimes im a littel bitter when others have something i want (especially my little sister). and i see other peolpe do that all the time. it sounds as though your stressed so its easy to be bitter. you dont sound mean, if you are trying to put on a happy face for your sister. you probably dont want to, but its probably best to talk to your mom and sister one on one. hope i helped at least a little. i hope things owrk out for you to. :-]I'm kind of bitter about other people being happy...please give me some advice!!??
No you aren't mean. You may be bitter because your sister (sorry i have to say this) has a bf and you don't.Try to only do stuff you enjoy
Go for a jog.
try and not let ur self get caught up w/ all that work because once ur socially akward, u cant go back. and it sux!
id advice u take off work 4 a while and go ona family and friends trip, and have fun with the people who love you most.:)
FRIENDS Say 'I AM RUNING MY LIFE' I KNOW I AM!! PEOPLE, PLZ HELP ME, I NEED UR ADVICE AND HELP NOW?
okay, well i was in love with someone we broke up a few months ago, i mean offically broke up we are not even friends anymore. I was cool with that and tell i realized ive got a porb,
i am turnin into a hopper as in i am slightly intto ever guy that i like a lil bit, and i remain friends and stay interested and all, till the time the guy askes me out cause after he asks me out, i run and i say No!!
I mean i am NOT into a relationship w/ anyone,
but i do wanna be
however i am jumping arnd too much - I D NOT KNOW WHY, AND I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO
People say that i am leading men on and then sayin nah, and movin on to the next guy.... but i guess its strange cause i do want someone real, and i want something that will actualy be a relationship...
i got a lecture for 2 hrs by a good frnd abt this
i do not know what to do - please tell me what to do, and please tell me how to deal with and handle this!!??FRIENDS Say 'I AM RUNING MY LIFE' I KNOW I AM!! PEOPLE, PLZ HELP ME, I NEED UR ADVICE AND HELP NOW?
When we go through somthing tragic like loseing someone we love, everyone reacts different. You are going through that right now and even though your boyfriend didn't die your still experienceing feelings of lose. You are also feeling insecure. You (not meaning to) are mostly interested in trying to get these guys to like you. You may slightly like them but not in the way you like someone you date. Your main goal is just to get them to like you, so you feel attractive and wanted. You are normal all females ( really all people ) want to feel attractive and desired by others. You are just going a little overboard right now because you've gone through a break-up and your seeking some reassurance that your desirable and that he wasn't the last guy on earth for you. Knowing this now just try to relax someone else will come along don't rush it, Maybe you should take the attitude of saying and thinking ';I've just experienced a break-up and I'm not looking to get involved in a new relationship right now';. Its all going to be O.K. as time passes you will get back to normal. Untill then try to remember that your emotions are messed up so you need to make an extra effort not to mess-up other peoples emotions, like the guys you feel as though you like untill the challenge is over an you realize you don't; and who knows you might actually like them your just not in the state of mind right now to know forsure how you feel about anyone, even yourself.FRIENDS Say 'I AM RUNING MY LIFE' I KNOW I AM!! PEOPLE, PLZ HELP ME, I NEED UR ADVICE AND HELP NOW?
It takes time to get over a relationship. When you meet someone new maybe mention to them about that you just got over a long relationship. It might help you out and relax you know that you know that he knows whats going on. And he might be able to give you some more time. I hope this helps and keep me updated
It's perfectly normal to want to date around after you break up with someone. Sometimes it's hard to get into a new relationship after the old one ends because you are a little more cynical and cautious. If you don't want to date them though, don't tease them. Just let them know that while you're interested in a relationship eventually, you aren't ready yet. Once the right guy comes around, you'll know. Hang in there!
You just didn't find the One to make you really blind and you don't want to be used or get hurt. You want your own way and is nothing wrong until you know what you really want.
Ok, guys (and girls for that matter) aren't fruit, you can't keep trying different ones until you find the one you like the most. You have to feel around first, if you think its real, then start getting serious, if not, kill it before anyone gets to involved
It seems that your just trying to find the right guy.
But it also seems like your last relationship has affected you.
Your flirting with other guys because you want to be in a relationship with someone. And that's not a problem! But, because you've had a bad break up, it's messing you up for commitment.
The best advice is for you to actually GO OUT with the person your checking in on. Don't run. Take the chance and actually say yes! Not all guys are the same.......
So if your scooping out some guy and he asks you out...... say yes! ^_^
i am turnin into a hopper as in i am slightly intto ever guy that i like a lil bit, and i remain friends and stay interested and all, till the time the guy askes me out cause after he asks me out, i run and i say No!!
I mean i am NOT into a relationship w/ anyone,
but i do wanna be
however i am jumping arnd too much - I D NOT KNOW WHY, AND I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO
People say that i am leading men on and then sayin nah, and movin on to the next guy.... but i guess its strange cause i do want someone real, and i want something that will actualy be a relationship...
i got a lecture for 2 hrs by a good frnd abt this
i do not know what to do - please tell me what to do, and please tell me how to deal with and handle this!!??FRIENDS Say 'I AM RUNING MY LIFE' I KNOW I AM!! PEOPLE, PLZ HELP ME, I NEED UR ADVICE AND HELP NOW?
When we go through somthing tragic like loseing someone we love, everyone reacts different. You are going through that right now and even though your boyfriend didn't die your still experienceing feelings of lose. You are also feeling insecure. You (not meaning to) are mostly interested in trying to get these guys to like you. You may slightly like them but not in the way you like someone you date. Your main goal is just to get them to like you, so you feel attractive and wanted. You are normal all females ( really all people ) want to feel attractive and desired by others. You are just going a little overboard right now because you've gone through a break-up and your seeking some reassurance that your desirable and that he wasn't the last guy on earth for you. Knowing this now just try to relax someone else will come along don't rush it, Maybe you should take the attitude of saying and thinking ';I've just experienced a break-up and I'm not looking to get involved in a new relationship right now';. Its all going to be O.K. as time passes you will get back to normal. Untill then try to remember that your emotions are messed up so you need to make an extra effort not to mess-up other peoples emotions, like the guys you feel as though you like untill the challenge is over an you realize you don't; and who knows you might actually like them your just not in the state of mind right now to know forsure how you feel about anyone, even yourself.FRIENDS Say 'I AM RUNING MY LIFE' I KNOW I AM!! PEOPLE, PLZ HELP ME, I NEED UR ADVICE AND HELP NOW?
It takes time to get over a relationship. When you meet someone new maybe mention to them about that you just got over a long relationship. It might help you out and relax you know that you know that he knows whats going on. And he might be able to give you some more time. I hope this helps and keep me updated
It's perfectly normal to want to date around after you break up with someone. Sometimes it's hard to get into a new relationship after the old one ends because you are a little more cynical and cautious. If you don't want to date them though, don't tease them. Just let them know that while you're interested in a relationship eventually, you aren't ready yet. Once the right guy comes around, you'll know. Hang in there!
You just didn't find the One to make you really blind and you don't want to be used or get hurt. You want your own way and is nothing wrong until you know what you really want.
Ok, guys (and girls for that matter) aren't fruit, you can't keep trying different ones until you find the one you like the most. You have to feel around first, if you think its real, then start getting serious, if not, kill it before anyone gets to involved
It seems that your just trying to find the right guy.
But it also seems like your last relationship has affected you.
Your flirting with other guys because you want to be in a relationship with someone. And that's not a problem! But, because you've had a bad break up, it's messing you up for commitment.
The best advice is for you to actually GO OUT with the person your checking in on. Don't run. Take the chance and actually say yes! Not all guys are the same.......
So if your scooping out some guy and he asks you out...... say yes! ^_^
I'm a young SingerSongwriter. But I'm tired of people calling my music gay just because it isn't rap. Advice?
I mean, I respect people who like that sexual stuff, but why can't they respect me? I just want to provide clean music to listen to, and just to live my dream really. By the way, anyone no of a way I can get my music out there without professionally recording it?I'm a young SingerSongwriter. But I'm tired of people calling my music gay just because it isn't rap. Advice?
They're never going to respect you because...you're music is different then theirs. Look to other bands in your genre for inspiration and advice and ignore what the other people say to you. Do you mean you actually respect that music, or you just respect those people's opinions for liking rap?
Record your own mixtapes, try starting a Myspace or another webpage with your music on it, pass out copies of your CDs after a gig to people who liked you, or tell people to check out your webpage. I know a band that never professionally recorded anything but have 3 CDs out and are becoming more and more popular in the Indie Rock scene.I'm a young SingerSongwriter. But I'm tired of people calling my music gay just because it isn't rap. Advice?
Don't listen...and keep with your own style, hopefully, people will be able to respect it for what it is....I personally don't listen to rap very frequently....so... Good luck!
%26amp; you can start a myspace music page or a purevolume to get to out there.
It is good that you want clean music ,I was watching CMT , AND IT HAS GOTTEN BAD . Belive in you self and live your dream. it does not matter what people say , because only you can let them hurt you , and I am learning that everyday,. Be stroung and keep trying never give up!!!!!!
maybe you can try hanging out with people who like your music and or find new people who will like your music
Just keep writing %26amp; ignore those who can't handle what U write.
record it and put it on myspace thats an easy way to get your music out there. And if guys really think its gay, then that means you're probabley gonna get a lot of pussy when you make it big
If you are serious about the business, you need to learn RIGHT NOW to stop caring what they think. No matter how many fans you have, you will have twice as many haters at any given time. Get over it, move on, and just remember: your music isn't for them anyway!
And as far as getting your music out there w/ out professionally recording, there are lots of ways. You could unprofessionally record it yourself. Also, you could look into local, appropriate venues (ones that would have shows of your type of music regularly) and see if there are any openings you can get, opening up for a bigger act or something. However, if you don't have recorded music in some form, that may prove very difficult. The best way is to just get some kind of recording, even in your basement with the Fisher Price mic set, and get it up on MySpace or something.
Best of luck!
Stop hanging out with people who like rap, and stop playing your music for people who like rap. They'll never get it, and rap is idiot music anyway. Go where there are people like you, who enjoy the same kind of music you do.
You can do your own recording. Get a TASCAM DP-01 FX, which is a recording machine that makes CDs, and a decent mike like a Shure SM-57. You can then learn to record yourself and if you take time to learn to do it right, you can make your own demo tapes and CDs. You can then copy your own CD's and make your own albums. You could also set up your own website, or get a MySpace page, and upload your music there.
The key is persistence. Just keep on doing what you're doing, in spite of what anyone says.
Follow your own dreams, not other people's. Rap all sounds the same.
In my opinion we don't need anymore rap in this world, all it is is a bunch of violent bullshit that u can't understand anyways. Props to u for doing a differnt genre, we need more variety these days. My advice to u about getting your music out there is try playing at some local venues where they let u try out for free, just one way of getting your stuff out there. Good Luck!!
They're never going to respect you because...you're music is different then theirs. Look to other bands in your genre for inspiration and advice and ignore what the other people say to you. Do you mean you actually respect that music, or you just respect those people's opinions for liking rap?
Record your own mixtapes, try starting a Myspace or another webpage with your music on it, pass out copies of your CDs after a gig to people who liked you, or tell people to check out your webpage. I know a band that never professionally recorded anything but have 3 CDs out and are becoming more and more popular in the Indie Rock scene.I'm a young SingerSongwriter. But I'm tired of people calling my music gay just because it isn't rap. Advice?
Don't listen...and keep with your own style, hopefully, people will be able to respect it for what it is....I personally don't listen to rap very frequently....so... Good luck!
%26amp; you can start a myspace music page or a purevolume to get to out there.
It is good that you want clean music ,I was watching CMT , AND IT HAS GOTTEN BAD . Belive in you self and live your dream. it does not matter what people say , because only you can let them hurt you , and I am learning that everyday,. Be stroung and keep trying never give up!!!!!!
maybe you can try hanging out with people who like your music and or find new people who will like your music
Just keep writing %26amp; ignore those who can't handle what U write.
record it and put it on myspace thats an easy way to get your music out there. And if guys really think its gay, then that means you're probabley gonna get a lot of pussy when you make it big
If you are serious about the business, you need to learn RIGHT NOW to stop caring what they think. No matter how many fans you have, you will have twice as many haters at any given time. Get over it, move on, and just remember: your music isn't for them anyway!
And as far as getting your music out there w/ out professionally recording, there are lots of ways. You could unprofessionally record it yourself. Also, you could look into local, appropriate venues (ones that would have shows of your type of music regularly) and see if there are any openings you can get, opening up for a bigger act or something. However, if you don't have recorded music in some form, that may prove very difficult. The best way is to just get some kind of recording, even in your basement with the Fisher Price mic set, and get it up on MySpace or something.
Best of luck!
Stop hanging out with people who like rap, and stop playing your music for people who like rap. They'll never get it, and rap is idiot music anyway. Go where there are people like you, who enjoy the same kind of music you do.
You can do your own recording. Get a TASCAM DP-01 FX, which is a recording machine that makes CDs, and a decent mike like a Shure SM-57. You can then learn to record yourself and if you take time to learn to do it right, you can make your own demo tapes and CDs. You can then copy your own CD's and make your own albums. You could also set up your own website, or get a MySpace page, and upload your music there.
The key is persistence. Just keep on doing what you're doing, in spite of what anyone says.
Follow your own dreams, not other people's. Rap all sounds the same.
In my opinion we don't need anymore rap in this world, all it is is a bunch of violent bullshit that u can't understand anyways. Props to u for doing a differnt genre, we need more variety these days. My advice to u about getting your music out there is try playing at some local venues where they let u try out for free, just one way of getting your stuff out there. Good Luck!!
I need some advice on what and how to talk to people.?
I'm pretty much in love with this girl. She likes me but she thinks we can't be together because neither one of us can hold a conversation. We have been good friends for over a year and we both have a lot in common. I need to know how to talk to her. I just need some help. What can you talk about? What do you do when you run out of things to talk about?I need some advice on what and how to talk to people.?
Communication requires working hard on both parties. Maybe it is her problem to bring up conversation, not your problem.I need some advice on what and how to talk to people.?
i think the best thing to do is not to try to think about wht to say coz the more u try to find an intrestin thing to say, the more unnatural it sounds..so just be random, talk about whtever is on yr mind when u're with her..dont forget to ask about wht's gng on in her life, ppl like to talk about themselves :))) hope it helps
Communication requires working hard on both parties. Maybe it is her problem to bring up conversation, not your problem.I need some advice on what and how to talk to people.?
i think the best thing to do is not to try to think about wht to say coz the more u try to find an intrestin thing to say, the more unnatural it sounds..so just be random, talk about whtever is on yr mind when u're with her..dont forget to ask about wht's gng on in her life, ppl like to talk about themselves :))) hope it helps
I need your advice on a boy situation please. Only mature people please. It's long....?
I'm 26 by the way....
First of all, I'm typically a quiet person around strangers until you get to know me. So while I've dated on and off, it really hasn't come to much and I've only been in a couple of short term relationships.
I met a friend through friend at a party and we immediately clicked, which has never happened to me before (as it usually takes people a while to get to know me to determine they like me or I'm just plain boring). Well, we spent a week together going to movies, hanging out, getting to know each other and the like. We made plans for the following week and he said he would call. A day went by and I didn't hear from him and knew something was up. A few days went by and I eventually got a text from him saying his ex was back in town and he was confused, etc. I texted him back and said good luck with whatever he decided and to contact me if he ever wanted to talk, which was just my polite way of responding to his saying, ';I don't want you.'; I do admit I was crushed.
So a couple of months pass by and I get a text randomly one night from him saying he's thought about me and would like to talk to me. I only responded at first because the number that came on my phone was unrecognizable and I had to ask who the person was. He said who he was and I didn't text back because I didn't want to get the wheels turning for some type of drama. I'm not dating anyone else, but I guess I just believe that if a guy likes you, he likes you and that putting my hope into dating him again would be foolish because he could dash my hopes again or suddenly decide the ex was much better after all. Also, he waited two months to contact me. I still won't get over, however, the fact that we clicked so immediately which is very rare for me to find with anyone.
So, my question is, do you think I'm doing the right thing? I refuse to settle, but is this simply a wishy washy guy. Any personal stories out there you can contribute?I need your advice on a boy situation please. Only mature people please. It's long....?
Oh, I don't like him already. He's a jerk for just putting you down for his EX (!!!) and then he waited two months to talk to you? Honey, he's not right. He was scared to contact you-he thought that you wouldn't understand. But for all you know, maybe he was still dating his 'ex' when he was going out with you. Oh, I don't like him. You did perfectly. 10/10.I need your advice on a boy situation please. Only mature people please. It's long....?
The guy has serious issues and I think that if you get involved with him the reality of the relationship is just going to be an emotional roller coaster- for you. I mean he has shown you that he is not really reliable since at first point when the ex came around he could have called then and there to tell you that he would not be able to link up with you as planned.
Now after all that time he wants to chill with you? I mean it seems that for the period that he didn't call you he was trying to make it work with his ex but since that did not work apparently now you are good enough for him? I agree he seems really flaky. Its such a pity that real cool guys sometimes turn out to be such pricks! Ithink that your actions are totally the right thing to do because its the only way for you to prevent ant major drama or heartbreak from happening.
I think your definitely doing the right thing! this has happened to me before and from my experience, if a guy tells you he's ';confused'; or basically that he's not interested in pursuing you any further, then he isn't, simple as that. and if he comes back 2 months later it's probably because something didn't work out with him and his ex or he doesn't have any other women in his life and wants to backtrack and try you again. but honestly, if that's how he's going to be - then you don't want him anyway! you deserve a guy that's going to make you his first priority from the get-go and not come crying back months later when something else doesn't work out. i can understand how hard it is to have to let go of someone you feel that connection with, and how disappointing it is. but it's probably for the best. and to know that there is one guy you can click with like that means that there are others!
but also on the other hand, if you do feel it's something special then you could risk getting your heart crushed a little bit and go for it and see where it goes. just know in advance that it might not end well.
just from the times guys have done this to me, i had to learn that unless they want me and only me, they aren't really worth it.
hope this helps :) good luck love
First of all, I'm typically a quiet person around strangers until you get to know me. So while I've dated on and off, it really hasn't come to much and I've only been in a couple of short term relationships.
I met a friend through friend at a party and we immediately clicked, which has never happened to me before (as it usually takes people a while to get to know me to determine they like me or I'm just plain boring). Well, we spent a week together going to movies, hanging out, getting to know each other and the like. We made plans for the following week and he said he would call. A day went by and I didn't hear from him and knew something was up. A few days went by and I eventually got a text from him saying his ex was back in town and he was confused, etc. I texted him back and said good luck with whatever he decided and to contact me if he ever wanted to talk, which was just my polite way of responding to his saying, ';I don't want you.'; I do admit I was crushed.
So a couple of months pass by and I get a text randomly one night from him saying he's thought about me and would like to talk to me. I only responded at first because the number that came on my phone was unrecognizable and I had to ask who the person was. He said who he was and I didn't text back because I didn't want to get the wheels turning for some type of drama. I'm not dating anyone else, but I guess I just believe that if a guy likes you, he likes you and that putting my hope into dating him again would be foolish because he could dash my hopes again or suddenly decide the ex was much better after all. Also, he waited two months to contact me. I still won't get over, however, the fact that we clicked so immediately which is very rare for me to find with anyone.
So, my question is, do you think I'm doing the right thing? I refuse to settle, but is this simply a wishy washy guy. Any personal stories out there you can contribute?I need your advice on a boy situation please. Only mature people please. It's long....?
Oh, I don't like him already. He's a jerk for just putting you down for his EX (!!!) and then he waited two months to talk to you? Honey, he's not right. He was scared to contact you-he thought that you wouldn't understand. But for all you know, maybe he was still dating his 'ex' when he was going out with you. Oh, I don't like him. You did perfectly. 10/10.I need your advice on a boy situation please. Only mature people please. It's long....?
The guy has serious issues and I think that if you get involved with him the reality of the relationship is just going to be an emotional roller coaster- for you. I mean he has shown you that he is not really reliable since at first point when the ex came around he could have called then and there to tell you that he would not be able to link up with you as planned.
Now after all that time he wants to chill with you? I mean it seems that for the period that he didn't call you he was trying to make it work with his ex but since that did not work apparently now you are good enough for him? I agree he seems really flaky. Its such a pity that real cool guys sometimes turn out to be such pricks! Ithink that your actions are totally the right thing to do because its the only way for you to prevent ant major drama or heartbreak from happening.
I think your definitely doing the right thing! this has happened to me before and from my experience, if a guy tells you he's ';confused'; or basically that he's not interested in pursuing you any further, then he isn't, simple as that. and if he comes back 2 months later it's probably because something didn't work out with him and his ex or he doesn't have any other women in his life and wants to backtrack and try you again. but honestly, if that's how he's going to be - then you don't want him anyway! you deserve a guy that's going to make you his first priority from the get-go and not come crying back months later when something else doesn't work out. i can understand how hard it is to have to let go of someone you feel that connection with, and how disappointing it is. but it's probably for the best. and to know that there is one guy you can click with like that means that there are others!
but also on the other hand, if you do feel it's something special then you could risk getting your heart crushed a little bit and go for it and see where it goes. just know in advance that it might not end well.
just from the times guys have done this to me, i had to learn that unless they want me and only me, they aren't really worth it.
hope this helps :) good luck love
Only for people who have had this happen to them... some advice please?
So you've had a ';friends with benifits'; relationship with someone, Does it really make you feel bad? Do you get attached to quickly knowing that's all it is? I dont know, i just want to know what it's like before i enter into one.Only for people who have had this happen to them... some advice please?
Uhh...I guess it depends on how good friends you are with the person to start with. I've had two 'friends with benefits' and with one, I wasn't interested in him for anything but sex, and we lived in different cities so only saw each other like once every six months BUT he developed 'feelings' for me and when I told him I didn't feel the same he got into a huff and we stopped speaking, but since I was never really friends with him before it didn't really hurt. The second one was perfect! We lived next door to each other and were friends of a sort, more like party buddies, and when we started sleeping together it worked fine. He'd have girls over and would introduce me, I'd have guys over and introduce him and then after our respective dates left we'd hook up. It was the perfect arrangement for an overactive libido. No feelings, just sex.Only for people who have had this happen to them... some advice please?
My advice, don't do it,
it can ruin a good friendship forever, and sooner or later one of you might want more and the other one won't.
I think that the whole ';friends with benefits';thing is just so wrong.
Because 1 person always gets attached and then what.
Dont do it. I lost one of my best friends due to this! We thought we could Handel just having sex and being friends but Jealousy comes into the picture and then its like your a couple and that's not what it was supposed to be and then it is a big old mess!! Stay away from it!
i had one and yes its hard because its literally based on sex you arent suppose to feel anything for them but when the guy i was messing around with got a girlfriend i was devastated, tured out i had more feelings for him than i thought, if you do this please be careful and respectful of both your feelings.stella mccartney
Uhh...I guess it depends on how good friends you are with the person to start with. I've had two 'friends with benefits' and with one, I wasn't interested in him for anything but sex, and we lived in different cities so only saw each other like once every six months BUT he developed 'feelings' for me and when I told him I didn't feel the same he got into a huff and we stopped speaking, but since I was never really friends with him before it didn't really hurt. The second one was perfect! We lived next door to each other and were friends of a sort, more like party buddies, and when we started sleeping together it worked fine. He'd have girls over and would introduce me, I'd have guys over and introduce him and then after our respective dates left we'd hook up. It was the perfect arrangement for an overactive libido. No feelings, just sex.Only for people who have had this happen to them... some advice please?
My advice, don't do it,
it can ruin a good friendship forever, and sooner or later one of you might want more and the other one won't.
I think that the whole ';friends with benefits';thing is just so wrong.
Because 1 person always gets attached and then what.
Dont do it. I lost one of my best friends due to this! We thought we could Handel just having sex and being friends but Jealousy comes into the picture and then its like your a couple and that's not what it was supposed to be and then it is a big old mess!! Stay away from it!
i had one and yes its hard because its literally based on sex you arent suppose to feel anything for them but when the guy i was messing around with got a girlfriend i was devastated, tured out i had more feelings for him than i thought, if you do this please be careful and respectful of both your feelings.
Hair Nightmare please advice me on what i should do (Black People Hair)?
For Black Hair.
I went to Nigeria to visit my family and got my hair braided there, it was quite beautiful but my front hair came off, like i did a middle pattern and my hair came off there. its pretty obvious because the rest of my hair is long except for that part.
its like the most disturbing thing ever. i feel so less than right now. knowing how beautiful my hair was till now. It makes me sad.
i need a back to school hair and of-course i can't braid my hair back again because i don't want it to fall off, plus i don't know if the part that fall of could be enough to hold to be braided
so i want to grow my hair back but i can't keep in natural because it look so uneven like obviously.
my options are to do get a Lace Wig and Invisible Part Weave. I just want to ask if i doing each one would let my hair grow. Would Lace Wig be a good idea if i want to grow my hair without showing it. i just want a hairstyle that covers my whole hair. But lets it grows
What should i do? Is there any hairstyles i could do or is getting a Lace Wig or Invisible Weave good.
Please Help. I have to go back to School in 2 days. And i go to University so i need a easy low maintenance hair.
Thanks for reading all of this. I am panicked.Hair Nightmare please advice me on what i should do (Black People Hair)?
Dont worry.
Lace wigs are the way to go. My best friend hair broke off, so she got a lace wig. Two months later, you see that it grew longer.Hair Nightmare please advice me on what i should do (Black People Hair)?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/forums/鈥?/a>
this website will hopefully help and don't get small tiny braids again
Yea I do Agree lace wigs are perfect. Also try to Grease your scalp alot
Lace wigs are HORRIBLE for your edges. Your hair in the middle will grow, but your edges will be gone. Plus, i've heard that the glue can irritate your skin. The braids were probably too tight. I'm guessing that you had microbraids. They are the most harsh type of braids you can get because only a few strands of your hair are pulled into each one. Go with a nice cornrow style, a sew-in (but tell the stylist not to braid too tight, especially around the edges), tree braids, or twists. It won't take your hair that long to grow back even with the rest, especially if you continue to get your ends trimmed every 6 weeks or so. You'll be alright. :)
I went to Nigeria to visit my family and got my hair braided there, it was quite beautiful but my front hair came off, like i did a middle pattern and my hair came off there. its pretty obvious because the rest of my hair is long except for that part.
its like the most disturbing thing ever. i feel so less than right now. knowing how beautiful my hair was till now. It makes me sad.
i need a back to school hair and of-course i can't braid my hair back again because i don't want it to fall off, plus i don't know if the part that fall of could be enough to hold to be braided
so i want to grow my hair back but i can't keep in natural because it look so uneven like obviously.
my options are to do get a Lace Wig and Invisible Part Weave. I just want to ask if i doing each one would let my hair grow. Would Lace Wig be a good idea if i want to grow my hair without showing it. i just want a hairstyle that covers my whole hair. But lets it grows
What should i do? Is there any hairstyles i could do or is getting a Lace Wig or Invisible Weave good.
Please Help. I have to go back to School in 2 days. And i go to University so i need a easy low maintenance hair.
Thanks for reading all of this. I am panicked.Hair Nightmare please advice me on what i should do (Black People Hair)?
Dont worry.
Lace wigs are the way to go. My best friend hair broke off, so she got a lace wig. Two months later, you see that it grew longer.Hair Nightmare please advice me on what i should do (Black People Hair)?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/forums/鈥?/a>
this website will hopefully help and don't get small tiny braids again
Yea I do Agree lace wigs are perfect. Also try to Grease your scalp alot
Lace wigs are HORRIBLE for your edges. Your hair in the middle will grow, but your edges will be gone. Plus, i've heard that the glue can irritate your skin. The braids were probably too tight. I'm guessing that you had microbraids. They are the most harsh type of braids you can get because only a few strands of your hair are pulled into each one. Go with a nice cornrow style, a sew-in (but tell the stylist not to braid too tight, especially around the edges), tree braids, or twists. It won't take your hair that long to grow back even with the rest, especially if you continue to get your ends trimmed every 6 weeks or so. You'll be alright. :)
I need some advice and well maybe some motivation. Why do people always take advantage?
Last night I broke it off nasty with my ex girl. I had given her her space all weekend and wanted to talk and discuss things. Ever since I got a new roommate she's been with a terrible attitude towards me. Very negative. I have try to help her in every-way possible and well she never appreciated. She's jobless, friendless and now Girl-friendless.
Then she said I betrayed her and that it was all my fault. What should I do? Why she been so bitchy? Why does it hurt so much? PLZ Help!I need some advice and well maybe some motivation. Why do people always take advantage?
Give her more time to get her life together and just keep an ear and eye open but no more or less. Besides you need to keep your ship on point and focused so keep moving on while being near enough to help out once she gets her heart and mind right again. It takes some ppl time to deal with hardships than others. Be well yourself.I need some advice and well maybe some motivation. Why do people always take advantage?
relax. your in love
Then she said I betrayed her and that it was all my fault. What should I do? Why she been so bitchy? Why does it hurt so much? PLZ Help!I need some advice and well maybe some motivation. Why do people always take advantage?
Give her more time to get her life together and just keep an ear and eye open but no more or less. Besides you need to keep your ship on point and focused so keep moving on while being near enough to help out once she gets her heart and mind right again. It takes some ppl time to deal with hardships than others. Be well yourself.I need some advice and well maybe some motivation. Why do people always take advantage?
relax. your in love
Would the following advice have been relevant to Collins submarine computerization people ?
%26lt;%26lt;BASIC ADVICE TO TACKLE WORKPLACE BULLIES
DOCUMENT AND DIARISE ALL SIGNIFICANT EVENTS RELATING TO YOUR BULLY. ACCUMULATE ALL EVIDENCE THAT WOULD SUPPORT YOUR CASE.
Decide if you want to make a complaint about your workplace bully to HR. This is risky as the person you complain to could side with your bully and it could get worse for you. It may be only worth doing this if you have good supportive evidence and/or the support of coworkers.
It may be possible to successfully coexist with your bully by ';keeping your head down';. It is a balancing act to be tactfully assertive to avoid your bully breaching your personal boundaries. For example, tactfully decline requests by your bully if you think that he is just attempting to manipulate you. You need to make it known to your bully that you are not a pushover and the bully may consequently find it easier to find another victim to manipulate. However, going too far and overtly criticising your bully can be dangerous. It can make him very angry (known as ';narcissistic rage';) and things could get a lot worse for you.
A variant of the previous strategy that may be worth trying, is to resist getting angry or respond to your bully when he taunts you. He may get off on making you angry so if you don't react or get angry he may get bored with you and go and bully someone else.
Once a bully has successfully breached your personal boundaries, he will just keep on doing it and successively try to breach forever deeper. He may intimidate you, yell at you, belittle you, make false accusations, try to get you to apologise for something that was not your fault. He may continually attempt to undermine your work, your self confidence and your self esteem. Once the bully manages to get you to play his game by manipulation and deceit, he is in control and recovering from the situation becomes increasingly difficult. He has sunk his claws into you. He may, for example, start smearing your name by spreading false rumours and get others to bully you on his behalf (known as mobbing).
It may be best just to cut your losses and run by getting another job.
You are unlikely to make a bully see the error of his ways as bullying is most likely second nature to him (called egosyntonic) - he is ';in denial';. It is usually a waste of time even trying. Chief bullies frequently have an incurable personality disorder. Bullies are commonly narcissistic and are often referred to as control freaks. They use a psychological defense mechanism called ';projection'; to offload their own failings and sense of shame onto the target. They claim that the target is to blame and he is the victim. They use scapegoating and even engineer failure by the target by setting them up to fail. Others may get taken in by the bully's manipulative charm and delusions - even some psychologists.
The only way you are likely to beat a bully is to get support from someone who has leverage and authority over the bully thus putting the bully back in his box.
Bullying can be overt and/or covert, where covert bullying is ';passive-aggressive'; behaviour.
PLEASE CHECK OUT THESE EXCELLENT RADIO INTERVIEWS
Interview with Martha Stout - author of ';The Sociopath Next Door';
A workplace bully target interviewed by John Peel on Radio 4
EXCELLENT ANTI-BULLYING WEBSITES
Tim Field's superb ground breaking ';Bullyonline'; website
';Ban Bullying at Work'; website
The Workpace Bullying Institute website
Humane Resources website
Bullied Academics website
Dignity At Work Now website
Workplace Bullying Online Support Community
Workplace Bullying entry on Wikipedia
EXCELLENT BULLY PSYCHOLOGY WEBSITES
Toxic Managers and Corporate Psychopaths
Narcissistic Personality Disorder MSN Group
Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group - An Online Support Community For Abuse Survivors
Narcissism guru Sam Vaknin's website
EXCELLENT ANTI-BULLYING BOOKS
Bully in Sight: How to Predict, Resist, Challenge and Combat Workplace Bullying - Overcoming the Silence and Denial by Which Abuse Thrives (by Tim Field)
Workplace Bullying: A Costly Business Secret (by Andrea Needham)
The Bully at Work (by Gary Namie)
Bullying at Work: How to Confront and Overcome It (by Andrea Adams)
When You Work for a Bully: Assessing Your Options and Taking Action (by Susan Futterman)
Mobbing: Emotional Abuse in the American Workplace, 2002 Revised Edition (by Noa Davenport, Ruth D. Schwartz, Gail Pursell Elliott)
Mobbing (by Heinz Leymann)
The Bullying Culture (by Ruth Hadikin, Muriel O'Driscoll)
EXCELLENT BULLY PSYCHOLOGY BOOKS
Snakes in Suits : When Psychopaths Go to Work (by Paul Babiak, Robert D. Hare)
Coping with Toxic Managers, Subordinates ... and Other Difficult People: Using Emotional Intelligence to Survive and Prosper (by Roy H. Lubit)
Toxic Coworkers: How to Deal with DysfuWould the following advice have been relevant to Collins submarine computerization people ?
If you are capable at your work then go somewhere else. Organizations that permit bullying do not deserve your contributions.
Find someplace that has work available that you enjoy.
DOCUMENT AND DIARISE ALL SIGNIFICANT EVENTS RELATING TO YOUR BULLY. ACCUMULATE ALL EVIDENCE THAT WOULD SUPPORT YOUR CASE.
Decide if you want to make a complaint about your workplace bully to HR. This is risky as the person you complain to could side with your bully and it could get worse for you. It may be only worth doing this if you have good supportive evidence and/or the support of coworkers.
It may be possible to successfully coexist with your bully by ';keeping your head down';. It is a balancing act to be tactfully assertive to avoid your bully breaching your personal boundaries. For example, tactfully decline requests by your bully if you think that he is just attempting to manipulate you. You need to make it known to your bully that you are not a pushover and the bully may consequently find it easier to find another victim to manipulate. However, going too far and overtly criticising your bully can be dangerous. It can make him very angry (known as ';narcissistic rage';) and things could get a lot worse for you.
A variant of the previous strategy that may be worth trying, is to resist getting angry or respond to your bully when he taunts you. He may get off on making you angry so if you don't react or get angry he may get bored with you and go and bully someone else.
Once a bully has successfully breached your personal boundaries, he will just keep on doing it and successively try to breach forever deeper. He may intimidate you, yell at you, belittle you, make false accusations, try to get you to apologise for something that was not your fault. He may continually attempt to undermine your work, your self confidence and your self esteem. Once the bully manages to get you to play his game by manipulation and deceit, he is in control and recovering from the situation becomes increasingly difficult. He has sunk his claws into you. He may, for example, start smearing your name by spreading false rumours and get others to bully you on his behalf (known as mobbing).
It may be best just to cut your losses and run by getting another job.
You are unlikely to make a bully see the error of his ways as bullying is most likely second nature to him (called egosyntonic) - he is ';in denial';. It is usually a waste of time even trying. Chief bullies frequently have an incurable personality disorder. Bullies are commonly narcissistic and are often referred to as control freaks. They use a psychological defense mechanism called ';projection'; to offload their own failings and sense of shame onto the target. They claim that the target is to blame and he is the victim. They use scapegoating and even engineer failure by the target by setting them up to fail. Others may get taken in by the bully's manipulative charm and delusions - even some psychologists.
The only way you are likely to beat a bully is to get support from someone who has leverage and authority over the bully thus putting the bully back in his box.
Bullying can be overt and/or covert, where covert bullying is ';passive-aggressive'; behaviour.
PLEASE CHECK OUT THESE EXCELLENT RADIO INTERVIEWS
Interview with Martha Stout - author of ';The Sociopath Next Door';
A workplace bully target interviewed by John Peel on Radio 4
EXCELLENT ANTI-BULLYING WEBSITES
Tim Field's superb ground breaking ';Bullyonline'; website
';Ban Bullying at Work'; website
The Workpace Bullying Institute website
Humane Resources website
Bullied Academics website
Dignity At Work Now website
Workplace Bullying Online Support Community
Workplace Bullying entry on Wikipedia
EXCELLENT BULLY PSYCHOLOGY WEBSITES
Toxic Managers and Corporate Psychopaths
Narcissistic Personality Disorder MSN Group
Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group - An Online Support Community For Abuse Survivors
Narcissism guru Sam Vaknin's website
EXCELLENT ANTI-BULLYING BOOKS
Bully in Sight: How to Predict, Resist, Challenge and Combat Workplace Bullying - Overcoming the Silence and Denial by Which Abuse Thrives (by Tim Field)
Workplace Bullying: A Costly Business Secret (by Andrea Needham)
The Bully at Work (by Gary Namie)
Bullying at Work: How to Confront and Overcome It (by Andrea Adams)
When You Work for a Bully: Assessing Your Options and Taking Action (by Susan Futterman)
Mobbing: Emotional Abuse in the American Workplace, 2002 Revised Edition (by Noa Davenport, Ruth D. Schwartz, Gail Pursell Elliott)
Mobbing (by Heinz Leymann)
The Bullying Culture (by Ruth Hadikin, Muriel O'Driscoll)
EXCELLENT BULLY PSYCHOLOGY BOOKS
Snakes in Suits : When Psychopaths Go to Work (by Paul Babiak, Robert D. Hare)
Coping with Toxic Managers, Subordinates ... and Other Difficult People: Using Emotional Intelligence to Survive and Prosper (by Roy H. Lubit)
Toxic Coworkers: How to Deal with DysfuWould the following advice have been relevant to Collins submarine computerization people ?
If you are capable at your work then go somewhere else. Organizations that permit bullying do not deserve your contributions.
Find someplace that has work available that you enjoy.
How do I behave around these people? I dont know how to act, advice please....?
My husbands nephew and his new wife, they live with my husbands mom and my husbands sister (his nephews mom). So we havent been able to bring our kids over to their grandmas house because of the nephew. The nephew hates my husband, so he hates me too. Like 20 years ago, my husband beat his nephews father up because the man was a wife beater and sent my hubbys sister to the hospital. So the nephew grew up hating my husband. The nephew is Satanic %26amp; dresses like it and is different than I am, The nephew found me on myspace and cussed me out and talked a bunch of crap to me, so now I dont even want to see him again (which is always on accident). So this is the first year we havent gone over there for Christmas, %26amp; I dont know how to behave when I cannot defend myself being on the nephews turf when the other family thinks he's an angel. He gives me dirty looks and makes me feel uncomfortable and he aimed a air gun at my pregnant stomach last pregnancy, Ive never even had a conversation with him. My natural instincts are to confront him and not let him back away from, but that would NOT be acceptable by his families expectations of me...he is younger, by 4 years than I am. I get his game, but I dont know how to act without him winning, like being a victim. If he gives me a dirty look, do I give him one back like I want to? My instincts tell me NO, because I dont want to make the problems worse...I just dont know how to go about dealing with this. Now my husband wants to kick his butt,,,and that just makes me more anxious, the family will think badly of my husband and even worse of me ';for causing it';....even though I didnt cause anything....its just lame.How do I behave around these people? I dont know how to act, advice please....?
The best thing I can think of is IGNORE HIM! When you see him look right through him. Try to get your husband to do the same. If his wife treats you the same then ignore her too. On the other hand, if she is friendly then try to get together with her w/out the family or the crazy nephew knowing and get to know her. she might be able to help her husband get past this.How do I behave around these people? I dont know how to act, advice please....?
just ignore him,u may want to fight back but u should learn to be more patient because God is in you..The more you show him that you are affected the more he is happy to do bad things which will make the situation worst. Forgive and forget...Time will heal all wounds. I myself also experience relatives of my husband, different kind of people. Some are good and some are not, yet i never lose the faith in God to make me patient at all times.As my husband told me once the saying : ';Think of difficult people as sandpaper. They may rub %26amp; scratch u painfully,but eventually u end up smooth %26amp; polished, %26amp; the sandpaper ends up worn out';..May God Bless u always!
The best thing I can think of is IGNORE HIM! When you see him look right through him. Try to get your husband to do the same. If his wife treats you the same then ignore her too. On the other hand, if she is friendly then try to get together with her w/out the family or the crazy nephew knowing and get to know her. she might be able to help her husband get past this.How do I behave around these people? I dont know how to act, advice please....?
just ignore him,u may want to fight back but u should learn to be more patient because God is in you..The more you show him that you are affected the more he is happy to do bad things which will make the situation worst. Forgive and forget...Time will heal all wounds. I myself also experience relatives of my husband, different kind of people. Some are good and some are not, yet i never lose the faith in God to make me patient at all times.As my husband told me once the saying : ';Think of difficult people as sandpaper. They may rub %26amp; scratch u painfully,but eventually u end up smooth %26amp; polished, %26amp; the sandpaper ends up worn out';..May God Bless u always!
Can someone tell me why people are so rude on here this is a place for advice!!!?
I know. It sucks.
I get these stupid insults and people giving rude answers too.
You can report them if you're greatly irritated by it.
Or you could just give them a low rating.
PS ~%26gt; It helps to put 'No rude answers please' at the end of your questions. i did it and it works.Can someone tell me why people are so rude on here this is a place for advice!!!?
the answer is simple sweetie...
you came with advice because the world is full of ppl that make it difficult for good ppl to be happy...why so suprised that you found some ';characters'; online?
it's all part of wonderful natureCan someone tell me why people are so rude on here this is a place for advice!!!?
Well just because this is a place for advice does not change the way a person is. Dont take it to heart and just ignore it .People are rude every were .
I try to be as nice as I can when I answer questions.
But sometimes, they questions are so absurdly stupid that I feel the need to be a little bit rude.
If they are very rude to you, they probably are NOT WORTH your attention. Ignore them.
AS in real life you are dealing with all types of people.
*cause some of the questions are incredibly stupid
maybe they are so bored,
or just irritated by the question.
:)
good day.
bc. there's to many mean people in the world.
b/c they have no life
I get these stupid insults and people giving rude answers too.
You can report them if you're greatly irritated by it.
Or you could just give them a low rating.
PS ~%26gt; It helps to put 'No rude answers please' at the end of your questions. i did it and it works.Can someone tell me why people are so rude on here this is a place for advice!!!?
the answer is simple sweetie...
you came with advice because the world is full of ppl that make it difficult for good ppl to be happy...why so suprised that you found some ';characters'; online?
it's all part of wonderful natureCan someone tell me why people are so rude on here this is a place for advice!!!?
Well just because this is a place for advice does not change the way a person is. Dont take it to heart and just ignore it .People are rude every were .
I try to be as nice as I can when I answer questions.
But sometimes, they questions are so absurdly stupid that I feel the need to be a little bit rude.
If they are very rude to you, they probably are NOT WORTH your attention. Ignore them.
AS in real life you are dealing with all types of people.
*cause some of the questions are incredibly stupid
maybe they are so bored,
or just irritated by the question.
:)
good day.
bc. there's to many mean people in the world.
b/c they have no life
Need some advice about a girl I fancy and if people could tell me what they would do in a similar situation?
I fancy this girl at my school and this is like the first time I've really properly fancied someone LOL anyways she's in my circle of friends and I've asked her out before but she turned me down. All her friends were saying how they thought she would say yes. Should I just forget about her or ask her again or what? Thanks guys:)Need some advice about a girl I fancy and if people could tell me what they would do in a similar situation?
you still like her, and there's a good chance she'll say yes.
if her FRIENDS are telling you this, why not?
you still like her, and there's a good chance she'll say yes.
if her FRIENDS are telling you this, why not?
Only single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
when you want to ';date'; someone what do you first thing look in them ? is it their look ? i mean every one has some stranders. the reason im askin this is because. an old girl who fits all my look stranders. and shes a fun person,has money, but shes a shallow person,she has no goals in life,the only talks about her relationships,
all what she does in life is go to college.n focus on her relationships/n try to have fun in weekends, thats all!! she either look for a bf or she has one, dont get me wrong she aint a hoe, but i think being in a relationship is the most important thing to her, infact,she has nothin esle going on.
is it me ? or thats what 19 years old girl think about ?
i want someone fun/look good/money and actually has abimitions, somethin i think my ';stranders'; are so unrealistic i mean i wont find a goodlooking+educated=in one person ?
or a fun in an immature way and also mature on other things if u know what i mean. what is the most important thing that i should lookOnly single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
Different person looks for different requirements. In order to have the relationship work and last, these are some pointers in which u can take note;
1) Good personality
Eg, Kind, warm-hearted, faithful, understanding
2) Same Objective
What both will be aiming towards
3) Chemistry
Without this, can't last long
Getting forever together does not involve love only. In future, love will become a routine. U need to find out what will bring both together.
Age plays a part too. Too young, they can't think properly. By the age of about 22-26 onwards, they are more mature and will look into these factors.
Lastly, all the best.Only single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
it's all down to 'chemistry' i've dated all types from high school drop outs to phd's but it's whoever fulfills ur soul........they can be anyone from anywhere u can't put restrictions or have a 'type' if u knw what i mean etc.
u just need to meet some like minded (trust me, even this's a BIG task) then take it from there.
good luck.
no your standards arn't too high. There are girls out there with all of that they are just harder to find. Why settle for second best?
I have to agree with Deshi on this one,why can only single people answer this? Everyone, whether they are single or not have standerds,right?:) You are going to be the one that will have to ';deal'; with the person you are in a relashonship with so therfore, your standerds can never be too high! BUT remember everyone has bad things about them and knowone is perfect so you just try to overlook the bad as long as it is not to bad:) Good Luck!!!!
First of all - why are you only interested in listening to the advice of single people?
I would suggest that if you want to find out how to get a girlfriend, ask someone who has one how they did it!!!
Secondly, everyone is different and has different priorities in life. Putting relationahips first is not worng - this girl is just different from you. Sounds like you need to find someone you have more in common with.
all what she does in life is go to college.n focus on her relationships/n try to have fun in weekends, thats all!! she either look for a bf or she has one, dont get me wrong she aint a hoe, but i think being in a relationship is the most important thing to her, infact,she has nothin esle going on.
is it me ? or thats what 19 years old girl think about ?
i want someone fun/look good/money and actually has abimitions, somethin i think my ';stranders'; are so unrealistic i mean i wont find a goodlooking+educated=in one person ?
or a fun in an immature way and also mature on other things if u know what i mean. what is the most important thing that i should lookOnly single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
Different person looks for different requirements. In order to have the relationship work and last, these are some pointers in which u can take note;
1) Good personality
Eg, Kind, warm-hearted, faithful, understanding
2) Same Objective
What both will be aiming towards
3) Chemistry
Without this, can't last long
Getting forever together does not involve love only. In future, love will become a routine. U need to find out what will bring both together.
Age plays a part too. Too young, they can't think properly. By the age of about 22-26 onwards, they are more mature and will look into these factors.
Lastly, all the best.Only single people who are looking for a partner answer this please.need your advice?
it's all down to 'chemistry' i've dated all types from high school drop outs to phd's but it's whoever fulfills ur soul........they can be anyone from anywhere u can't put restrictions or have a 'type' if u knw what i mean etc.
u just need to meet some like minded (trust me, even this's a BIG task) then take it from there.
good luck.
no your standards arn't too high. There are girls out there with all of that they are just harder to find. Why settle for second best?
I have to agree with Deshi on this one,why can only single people answer this? Everyone, whether they are single or not have standerds,right?:) You are going to be the one that will have to ';deal'; with the person you are in a relashonship with so therfore, your standerds can never be too high! BUT remember everyone has bad things about them and knowone is perfect so you just try to overlook the bad as long as it is not to bad:) Good Luck!!!!
First of all - why are you only interested in listening to the advice of single people?
I would suggest that if you want to find out how to get a girlfriend, ask someone who has one how they did it!!!
Secondly, everyone is different and has different priorities in life. Putting relationahips first is not worng - this girl is just different from you. Sounds like you need to find someone you have more in common with.
Need advices from people who are married in the Military?
My boyfriend just came back from Iraq.he was by me yesterday and he said that he wants to have a baby.I want to have a kid too but i want to get married before i get pregnant.He said that is not ready to get married.what should i do?I am really surprised about what he said. when we decided to be together,we both wanted to have a serious relationship.he has a son with his ex girlfriend.She left him when their baby was 6 months and went back to her ex.We are both 29,we live in GermanyNeed advices from people who are married in the Military?
speaking as a father, and grand-father, i would say no way. not being ready for marriage but ready for a family is not going to work. it does for some but why should you change your beliefs. i am old school and think you should be married then start a familiy. i spent ten years in the military and seen boyfriend girlfriend with children go to hell in a hand bag. talk to him and tell him your feelings. he may get mad give him space after that if he wants, but tell him how important your feelings are,Need advices from people who are married in the Military?
Don't know how the German military does it, or if he's an American Soldier stationed in Germany, but if you two have a kid, he could claim that kid as a dependent and he'd just get more money. Personally, I wouldn't marry him because if something happened to you... You got sick or hurt, you wouldn't be insured through the military because you're not his spouse, but if you were married and something was to happen to you or your child, both would be covered medically as well as financially in the event of a death (If he has you and child as beneficiaries)
No, halt it right there. Military or no, this is not a situation to get into. First of all, you don't want a baby until you're married, thus don't try to get pregnant just because he does. Secondly, you really need to question why it is he's ready to commit to a child with you, but not to you. As far as dependents go, the only increase he'd get is in his BAH, being that he already has a child, he's probably drawing BAH with dependents anyway. It's doesn't increase with additional dependents.
I'm not married and never have been, but I was in the military. You would have to decide for yourself and talk it over with him, but I'd say no to the kid. I believe that if he isn't ready to get married to you yet, he really isn't ready to have a kid with you. At least, not ready to have a kid with you where the two of you would raise it together.
If he thinks he is ready to commit to having a baby but not ready to commit to marriage, he is retarded. Trade him in for someone competent.
im a married marine with a daughter.. this sounds suspect, im sure youre a great gal, but any guy who wants to father his second child out of wedlock is stupid. a man without the commitment to get married doesnt have the commitment to be a father. they are not mutually exclusive. it sounds like he is contemplating his legacy as stress over there can make you think about your mortality. I say you work on getting married first, then have children, and i am not even the slightest bit religious, but its just better for the kids.
speaking as a father, and grand-father, i would say no way. not being ready for marriage but ready for a family is not going to work. it does for some but why should you change your beliefs. i am old school and think you should be married then start a familiy. i spent ten years in the military and seen boyfriend girlfriend with children go to hell in a hand bag. talk to him and tell him your feelings. he may get mad give him space after that if he wants, but tell him how important your feelings are,Need advices from people who are married in the Military?
Don't know how the German military does it, or if he's an American Soldier stationed in Germany, but if you two have a kid, he could claim that kid as a dependent and he'd just get more money. Personally, I wouldn't marry him because if something happened to you... You got sick or hurt, you wouldn't be insured through the military because you're not his spouse, but if you were married and something was to happen to you or your child, both would be covered medically as well as financially in the event of a death (If he has you and child as beneficiaries)
No, halt it right there. Military or no, this is not a situation to get into. First of all, you don't want a baby until you're married, thus don't try to get pregnant just because he does. Secondly, you really need to question why it is he's ready to commit to a child with you, but not to you. As far as dependents go, the only increase he'd get is in his BAH, being that he already has a child, he's probably drawing BAH with dependents anyway. It's doesn't increase with additional dependents.
I'm not married and never have been, but I was in the military. You would have to decide for yourself and talk it over with him, but I'd say no to the kid. I believe that if he isn't ready to get married to you yet, he really isn't ready to have a kid with you. At least, not ready to have a kid with you where the two of you would raise it together.
If he thinks he is ready to commit to having a baby but not ready to commit to marriage, he is retarded. Trade him in for someone competent.
im a married marine with a daughter.. this sounds suspect, im sure youre a great gal, but any guy who wants to father his second child out of wedlock is stupid. a man without the commitment to get married doesnt have the commitment to be a father. they are not mutually exclusive. it sounds like he is contemplating his legacy as stress over there can make you think about your mortality. I say you work on getting married first, then have children, and i am not even the slightest bit religious, but its just better for the kids.
Have took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
i really want my avater to sakura and it does not work what do i do i have a 360 page toHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
make your sakura picture in 360 as your primary picture instead of your avatar
click my page
edit personal photos, change your primary picture and don't forget to save it
go back to My Q%26amp;A in yahoo answers
edit info
then choose 360 pictureHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
are you clicking the save all changes button ???
make your sakura picture in 360 as your primary picture instead of your avatar
click my page
edit personal photos, change your primary picture and don't forget to save it
go back to My Q%26amp;A in yahoo answers
edit info
then choose 360 pictureHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
are you clicking the save all changes button ???
Umm, i took some peoples advice and...?
I had these 2 huge red pimples on my neck and i took some peoples advice and left it there, and now its not swollen anymore and not red, its gray-ish black and hard! what should I do?
Umm, i took some peoples advice and...?
kinda sounds like a poison sspider bite go to the doctorUmm, i took some peoples advice and...?
you are going to die.
Get to the doctor!!
that doesn't sound good at all.
it sounds almost as if it's dying or rotting.
i would get to a dermatologist as soon as possible.
Umm, i took some peoples advice and...?
kinda sounds like a poison sspider bite go to the doctorUmm, i took some peoples advice and...?
you are going to die.
Get to the doctor!!
that doesn't sound good at all.
it sounds almost as if it's dying or rotting.
i would get to a dermatologist as soon as possible.
Why do some people on here think they can give advice on?
medical matters, I always tell the asker to go see a doctor. Don't people realize that they could be putting life at risk.
rod-mckuan-dukebawkes.piczo.comWhy do some people on here think they can give advice on?
My relative is a doctor and they are certainly not stupid.
I also advise them to go see a doctor.Why,I read that some one was giving advice to a person about a cough and cold as being typhoid.Do they even know that?I Wonder.
I certainly don't think that people think that their answer has a lot of responsibility.C'mon,they'll do anything for a few points.?!
It is really a concern.And why do people ask health relate questions?
They can buy a computer but they can't consult a doctor?
Hope people realize it soon!Anyway,you are smart!Why do some people on here think they can give advice on?
if people ask an opinion, they get an opinion
a person may have direct experience of a condition.
personally, i have 'less faith' in doctors than i used to have - I personally know 2 people who have been misdiagnosed, when they had MAJOR conditions... not just once, but repeatedly... because those conditions were unusual, not often seen, and the doctors were too overworked to do a proper job of diagnosis
I would also advise people to go see a doctor rather than RELY on what they get on YA!, simply because they can never give enough info on here to make a full diagnosis........... but, at least they can go in, armed with a little extra information
er, because yahoo gives opinions man, anyway most doctors are really stupid so its a good idea to have an idea what is wrong with you before you go, i was told my pneumonia was ';stress'; by a doctor, what dumb fook cant tell a chest infection from stress?
y do they post medical questions it don't say don't answer medical questions....it's usual to go to doctor but u get sum stupid ppl who get embarrased to go ..so they deserve it...maybe next time they'lll go to doctor..y do those ppl think ppl on here know the answer/s
It's true, people should see their doctors.
On the other hand, some of us have had certain things and can give advice based on personal experience. I've had pneumonia twice and can certainly tell all about that.
Sometimes a little help and encouragement will get people to do the right thing.
rod-mckuan-dukebawkes.piczo.comWhy do some people on here think they can give advice on?
My relative is a doctor and they are certainly not stupid.
I also advise them to go see a doctor.Why,I read that some one was giving advice to a person about a cough and cold as being typhoid.Do they even know that?I Wonder.
I certainly don't think that people think that their answer has a lot of responsibility.C'mon,they'll do anything for a few points.?!
It is really a concern.And why do people ask health relate questions?
They can buy a computer but they can't consult a doctor?
Hope people realize it soon!Anyway,you are smart!Why do some people on here think they can give advice on?
if people ask an opinion, they get an opinion
a person may have direct experience of a condition.
personally, i have 'less faith' in doctors than i used to have - I personally know 2 people who have been misdiagnosed, when they had MAJOR conditions... not just once, but repeatedly... because those conditions were unusual, not often seen, and the doctors were too overworked to do a proper job of diagnosis
I would also advise people to go see a doctor rather than RELY on what they get on YA!, simply because they can never give enough info on here to make a full diagnosis........... but, at least they can go in, armed with a little extra information
er, because yahoo gives opinions man, anyway most doctors are really stupid so its a good idea to have an idea what is wrong with you before you go, i was told my pneumonia was ';stress'; by a doctor, what dumb fook cant tell a chest infection from stress?
y do they post medical questions it don't say don't answer medical questions....it's usual to go to doctor but u get sum stupid ppl who get embarrased to go ..so they deserve it...maybe next time they'lll go to doctor..y do those ppl think ppl on here know the answer/s
It's true, people should see their doctors.
On the other hand, some of us have had certain things and can give advice based on personal experience. I've had pneumonia twice and can certainly tell all about that.
Sometimes a little help and encouragement will get people to do the right thing.
Advice on overcoming a fear of meeting new people?
I have been very quiet in classrooms for the past 5 years in school, this is my 3rd year in college. i want to change that but i've been traumatize on confronting new people since high school. I had a crush on a girl since 6th grade and i keep doing wierd things to her like writing to her and putting in her mailbox but i didn't know her (never spoke to her in person, only like once or twice) then i was attracted to her, i knew her house address because my friend told me that is where she live (she really did live there). so let's fast forward this, so in high school, i wrote like a blog where i ';fell'; in love with her and i kept asking her to go somewhere so i can ask her out, but i never did ask her out in high school and she went to that place. i never asked her out because i knew she didn't like me but i had ';loved'; her. not sure why though but oh well. so right now, i am traumatize on speaking to new people. how can i overcome my fear of introducing myself to new people in my college? I'm that scared that i won't even introduce myself to classmate in the same class before the class starts. However, i wouldn't mind talking to them if the teacher allows us to talk to each other (like during classtime, like teacher said ';get to know your neighbor';). I want to become more open. How can I find enough confidence to meet new people?Advice on overcoming a fear of meeting new people?
well, i wasn't that freaky, but i had the same thing.
what i did, was get a job that forced me to interact with people. i worked at an outdoor concert hall and people would come up and talk to me all the time. so i learned what to say and when to say it.Advice on overcoming a fear of meeting new people?
Listen to them, what they are telling you, what they problems are. If you can understand them, you'll feel more confident. It won't be easy at the beginning.. it is training. I'm also doing the same thing.
well, i wasn't that freaky, but i had the same thing.
what i did, was get a job that forced me to interact with people. i worked at an outdoor concert hall and people would come up and talk to me all the time. so i learned what to say and when to say it.Advice on overcoming a fear of meeting new people?
Listen to them, what they are telling you, what they problems are. If you can understand them, you'll feel more confident. It won't be easy at the beginning.. it is training. I'm also doing the same thing.
People, I've been waiting for 20 minutes, please give me some advice!?
I'm going to be honest with you my friends. I am 37 years old, and I haven't led the greatest of lives. I have only kissed one girl, and that's when I was 16. She said it was a bet. I am still a virgin, I've never had a girlfriend. My Gears of War clan members all say it's fine, but I feel so depressed. I live with my mother and father. My father gets angry with me a lot. Always saying I'm a loser. He tells me to leave the house and get a job. Is there really something wrong with the way I live? And what should I do about the virgin situation? If there are any girls out there that want to talk with me over a Gears of War match, tell me.People, I've been waiting for 20 minutes, please give me some advice!?
Okay, I have ignored the post because I really didn't think it was serious. Apparently, I was wrong. First off, you need to move out of your parent's house. You are too old to be living off of them. That problem is probably directly related to why you can't get any. Also, if you have clan members for Gears of War, you probably are spending too much time in the virtual world and not enough in the real one. Try going out and socializing.People, I've been waiting for 20 minutes, please give me some advice!?
ok first...when your on a date with the girl dont talk about video games...talk about yourself...ask her about her....stand up to your father your not a kid anymore your an adult....he is right get a job....dont leave the house until you have money to get your own or an apartment...about the virgin thing...dont worry....find a girl....get to know her....ask her out on date...make it romantic....do u have a car?....if not save up for one...my suggestion would be an old car...for example....67 mustang or something...something that girls like...when you two get to know eachother better and if she asks you to come inside or what ever dont hesitate...before you go onto date listen to some motivation music...my suggestion insane clown posse....i advise not to let your parents hear it...dont act like icp just listen to the words they dont care whos listenin they just want people to know that when they want to speak their mind they will do it....yo bro hit me up sometime...i have yahoo messenger my username is broli_ss74525....and i have msn messenger my username is broli_ss74525@hotmail.com and if you have a myspace go to www.myspace.com/ryanchristopheryoder aight bro peace out
well, where do I start??? You are 37 years old and you don't have a job and you still live at home....here is where your problems lie!! You need to get a job and then move out!!! No girl wants to date a guy that is jobless or lives at home ( I know in some cases it's alright, exp....if one is taking care of their parents). You ask if there is something wrong with the way you live....well, look at it! yes, there is something wrong with it. grow up! get a job! move out! then maybe, just maybe someone will pay attention to you.
wow....
dude, if you really wanna play games all your life, get sex from hookers, and hang out with your gears of war buddies, then its perfectly fine cuz its your life. But, it is not alright to do that on your parents dime. it is not right for your dad and mom to work their *** off for you, while you sit at home playing games all day. Get a job, and pay for your life yourself.
Uhm, I don't play Gears of War. You should get a job, start going out to places and forget what your ******** father tells you! Know wonder you haven't found the right woman is because you listen to all the things that man tells you, and all you do is play video games. Come on sweetie get yourself together and stop being so imature. your 37 you say? Well get with it! I'm 18 I've been working since I was 14 and now I'm pregnant and engaged to the love of my life, find out what works for you and go from there! Go enroll in college or something stop being soo depressed cause it's making me depressed
Buddy,it's time to leave home. You will never experience life while living with your parents. Your ';Gears of War'; geek buddies are out to lunch. Put the games aside and start living.
Read'; Maxim'; or '; Esquire'; or ';Stuff'; magazines or something. Here is a scenario for you. Imagine yourself talking to a women and, if it would get that far, telling her you still live at home at thirty seven freaking years old. Do you honestly think she would take you to her house? Only if you get a pity F***. Wake up!
P.S. I really hope for you sake that this is a joke.
But if it is not check out this web site. You are a prime candidate for his advice. http://doubleyourdating.com/0/IndexSurve鈥?/a>
Listen to your father.Its time to grow up and be a man.That means getting a job and supporting yourself and doing something with your life.Most girls arent clamoring to get married to a guy who is 36 and lives with ';mommy and daddy';Most women in your age range who are available and decent wants a guy who can take care of himself and her and any kids you make.They see you and say ';I dont want to live with my inlaws and have my honeymoon in the bedroom next to theirs yuck!'Think about it.
Hey man look first of all we cant really help you i mean u dont post no pics you could be sum ugly nasty lookin guy we dont know but livin with your parens statistically 4% of americans over 25 live with their parents as for the job get a JOB simply said i am not being mean just tryin to help a fellow gamer out as for the girl situation go out to a bar r sumthin dont b palyin games all the time i am a gamer my choice is Battlefield 2 Modern Combat but yet when i feel like findin a girl i will go out to a bar or downtown and cruise cmon man its not that hard be W1Ld
VerdictllGuilty
-----1 0f the l0sTs
I don't want to be judemental or rude but yea there's kind of something wrong with the way you live. When your 37 usually you need to have your own life away from your parents with your own career and house and responsibility. It's about being a grown up. A lot of girls would probably never get with you because of that factor. Not because of you as a person but because girls need security and nurturing in a relationship and if you still live with your parents then they know they won't get either one of those. As far as the virgin situation....your best bet is to take care of the latter first and then worry about a girl. Just don't lose it to someone random. Have your first experience at least be with someone you care about. Just first start taking care of yourself and get your own life together and then get out there and meet people and have some fun. Then someone will come your way. hope I wasn't too harsh just telling it like it is
i think you should get out there and get a good job and start raising money for a house. then you should try to get a gf but not just to have sex with her but to get married i mean find someone you really love. don't forget to pray to god to lead your life in the right direction.
The way you live is in the minority for sure. Is it wrong? Well that depends on how wrong is defined. I wouldn't say that it's evil, it's just outside the norm. You really should move out of your parents' house and find a place of your own but you need to have a job first to support yourself. I say you should do this because some independence would boost your confidence. As for the virgin thing, be aware that many women will not be interested in a virgin at your age and this will be cause for a lot of embarrassment on your part which I don't think is worth going through. Not everybody is meant to have relationships. I think at your age, you will be a life-long virgin, but you don't need sex to survive. It's possible that you may have a form of autism known as asperger's syndrome in which your brain is different than someone who is neurotypical. People with this condition have the same kind of symptoms that you described, but it's not your fault if you have asperger's. You were born that way.
First off unless you are taking care of your parents due to health reasons you need to move out after finding a job. It is your life and you are responsible to make your own way.
Next, women want a man with ambition and drive. Someone who is stable and will help provide in the home. So again the job is crucial in finding a possible mate.
As for being a virgin at your age, when you get established in a job and out on your own, you then can start trying to find a steady girlfriend. Be honest with her about your inexperience. To some girls they will enjoy this as a breath of fresh air and be willing to show you things as well. Research in the mean time so you will know things that are really part of having a solid relationship with a woman.
Last point of reference, your father's frustration is because he wants you to have your own life. It is time to play life over video games.
hello! 27yr.old female here...it's fine that your still a virgin,quit tripping over that! you really need to focus on moving out of your parents home! your self esteem will get better, in turn you will then be able to focus on looking for that right girl....good luck
That's right! Get out of the house and get a good paying job. Backhoes love a dude with money. You don't even need a personality.
dude....
move out of the house find a job
your dad is right
when you have a job you will meet women and friends who have women friends
than you will get laidapplying eyeshadow
Okay, I have ignored the post because I really didn't think it was serious. Apparently, I was wrong. First off, you need to move out of your parent's house. You are too old to be living off of them. That problem is probably directly related to why you can't get any. Also, if you have clan members for Gears of War, you probably are spending too much time in the virtual world and not enough in the real one. Try going out and socializing.People, I've been waiting for 20 minutes, please give me some advice!?
ok first...when your on a date with the girl dont talk about video games...talk about yourself...ask her about her....stand up to your father your not a kid anymore your an adult....he is right get a job....dont leave the house until you have money to get your own or an apartment...about the virgin thing...dont worry....find a girl....get to know her....ask her out on date...make it romantic....do u have a car?....if not save up for one...my suggestion would be an old car...for example....67 mustang or something...something that girls like...when you two get to know eachother better and if she asks you to come inside or what ever dont hesitate...before you go onto date listen to some motivation music...my suggestion insane clown posse....i advise not to let your parents hear it...dont act like icp just listen to the words they dont care whos listenin they just want people to know that when they want to speak their mind they will do it....yo bro hit me up sometime...i have yahoo messenger my username is broli_ss74525....and i have msn messenger my username is broli_ss74525@hotmail.com and if you have a myspace go to www.myspace.com/ryanchristopheryoder aight bro peace out
well, where do I start??? You are 37 years old and you don't have a job and you still live at home....here is where your problems lie!! You need to get a job and then move out!!! No girl wants to date a guy that is jobless or lives at home ( I know in some cases it's alright, exp....if one is taking care of their parents). You ask if there is something wrong with the way you live....well, look at it! yes, there is something wrong with it. grow up! get a job! move out! then maybe, just maybe someone will pay attention to you.
wow....
dude, if you really wanna play games all your life, get sex from hookers, and hang out with your gears of war buddies, then its perfectly fine cuz its your life. But, it is not alright to do that on your parents dime. it is not right for your dad and mom to work their *** off for you, while you sit at home playing games all day. Get a job, and pay for your life yourself.
Uhm, I don't play Gears of War. You should get a job, start going out to places and forget what your ******** father tells you! Know wonder you haven't found the right woman is because you listen to all the things that man tells you, and all you do is play video games. Come on sweetie get yourself together and stop being so imature. your 37 you say? Well get with it! I'm 18 I've been working since I was 14 and now I'm pregnant and engaged to the love of my life, find out what works for you and go from there! Go enroll in college or something stop being soo depressed cause it's making me depressed
Buddy,it's time to leave home. You will never experience life while living with your parents. Your ';Gears of War'; geek buddies are out to lunch. Put the games aside and start living.
Read'; Maxim'; or '; Esquire'; or ';Stuff'; magazines or something. Here is a scenario for you. Imagine yourself talking to a women and, if it would get that far, telling her you still live at home at thirty seven freaking years old. Do you honestly think she would take you to her house? Only if you get a pity F***. Wake up!
P.S. I really hope for you sake that this is a joke.
But if it is not check out this web site. You are a prime candidate for his advice. http://doubleyourdating.com/0/IndexSurve鈥?/a>
Listen to your father.Its time to grow up and be a man.That means getting a job and supporting yourself and doing something with your life.Most girls arent clamoring to get married to a guy who is 36 and lives with ';mommy and daddy';Most women in your age range who are available and decent wants a guy who can take care of himself and her and any kids you make.They see you and say ';I dont want to live with my inlaws and have my honeymoon in the bedroom next to theirs yuck!'Think about it.
Hey man look first of all we cant really help you i mean u dont post no pics you could be sum ugly nasty lookin guy we dont know but livin with your parens statistically 4% of americans over 25 live with their parents as for the job get a JOB simply said i am not being mean just tryin to help a fellow gamer out as for the girl situation go out to a bar r sumthin dont b palyin games all the time i am a gamer my choice is Battlefield 2 Modern Combat but yet when i feel like findin a girl i will go out to a bar or downtown and cruise cmon man its not that hard be W1Ld
VerdictllGuilty
-----1 0f the l0sTs
I don't want to be judemental or rude but yea there's kind of something wrong with the way you live. When your 37 usually you need to have your own life away from your parents with your own career and house and responsibility. It's about being a grown up. A lot of girls would probably never get with you because of that factor. Not because of you as a person but because girls need security and nurturing in a relationship and if you still live with your parents then they know they won't get either one of those. As far as the virgin situation....your best bet is to take care of the latter first and then worry about a girl. Just don't lose it to someone random. Have your first experience at least be with someone you care about. Just first start taking care of yourself and get your own life together and then get out there and meet people and have some fun. Then someone will come your way. hope I wasn't too harsh just telling it like it is
i think you should get out there and get a good job and start raising money for a house. then you should try to get a gf but not just to have sex with her but to get married i mean find someone you really love. don't forget to pray to god to lead your life in the right direction.
The way you live is in the minority for sure. Is it wrong? Well that depends on how wrong is defined. I wouldn't say that it's evil, it's just outside the norm. You really should move out of your parents' house and find a place of your own but you need to have a job first to support yourself. I say you should do this because some independence would boost your confidence. As for the virgin thing, be aware that many women will not be interested in a virgin at your age and this will be cause for a lot of embarrassment on your part which I don't think is worth going through. Not everybody is meant to have relationships. I think at your age, you will be a life-long virgin, but you don't need sex to survive. It's possible that you may have a form of autism known as asperger's syndrome in which your brain is different than someone who is neurotypical. People with this condition have the same kind of symptoms that you described, but it's not your fault if you have asperger's. You were born that way.
First off unless you are taking care of your parents due to health reasons you need to move out after finding a job. It is your life and you are responsible to make your own way.
Next, women want a man with ambition and drive. Someone who is stable and will help provide in the home. So again the job is crucial in finding a possible mate.
As for being a virgin at your age, when you get established in a job and out on your own, you then can start trying to find a steady girlfriend. Be honest with her about your inexperience. To some girls they will enjoy this as a breath of fresh air and be willing to show you things as well. Research in the mean time so you will know things that are really part of having a solid relationship with a woman.
Last point of reference, your father's frustration is because he wants you to have your own life. It is time to play life over video games.
hello! 27yr.old female here...it's fine that your still a virgin,quit tripping over that! you really need to focus on moving out of your parents home! your self esteem will get better, in turn you will then be able to focus on looking for that right girl....good luck
That's right! Get out of the house and get a good paying job. Backhoes love a dude with money. You don't even need a personality.
dude....
move out of the house find a job
your dad is right
when you have a job you will meet women and friends who have women friends
than you will get laid
For people who have time to read and give advice.thanks. I ll rate you really high?
Is it wrong to love a friend
Lately, since it's the last time I'm ever gonna see him, I've been thinking of telling him my true feelings-how I feel about him.He is my friend actually, my only true guy friend.First let me describe him to you the simplest way I can.He is a really really attractive guy in every way possible.,A real gentleman if you ask me or any other people who knows him well enough.He knows how to start a conversation and keep it interesting. He knows how to tell jokes and pull-off pranks, yet he also know his limitations.I love him for everything he does and for who he is.I may not show my feelings to him when he's around, but deep inside, I really do want to talk to him about it but I don't know how.I hid my feelings for 3 years.I hid them for I don't want to risk losing our friendship.I just kept myself contented with the only thing we have'; true friendship'; .We like talking about different things.When his talking to me, I always make sure I listen to him carefully while staring at him. Although it really is not obvious how I feel about him fo I always deny.I'm good at that.denying.He always teases me that I might fall inlove with him in a way that he could make you say yes but I stop my feelings from taking over and I just do something or say something to make him stop talking about it.I had the chance to talk to him last night for we talked all night long.These are one of the moments I won't forget when I'm with him.As we sat at the bridge, talking, he held my hand and forced it towards him.I was shocked when he did it so I immediately snatched my hand away from him.But then he held my knees and he put his head on my lap staring at the stars above while continuing on talking.I didn't get the chance to get him away for he already looks comfty.So I just let him.After a while, he took his head off my lap for I think he noticed that I felt uncomfortable for I can't feel my legs anymore so after he took off his head, I got up and stretche and got back to seat with him again.I'll always remember those moments.I really like him a lot and I don't know what to do.Another thing on why I don't want to tell hm is because he already has a girlfriend.Actually there is two of them.It would've been 3 but he just broke up w/ one of them.YES.he is a lady's man a chick boy a total playboy.But when we talk,he tells me of the girls he really did love and how much he loved them so I quite know what kind of friend and a lover he is.This is why I love him. What should I do? should I tell him? does he have any feelings 4 me at all too?? what should I do??/For people who have time to read and give advice.thanks. I ll rate you really high?
Okay, you have written such touching and ever so meaningful words.
They bring back so many memories flooding me to almost tears.
So, here is some advise from an old lady: ARE YOU NUTS!
Tell him how you feel. Take a chance that maybe, just maybe you are the one that he will choose to be monogamous for.
Talk with him even, maybe print out the words you have written here and show him.
At least you can discuss weather to continue as you currently are with ';No Harm No Foul'; for opening up or you two can try and se where things will go.
Yes, loving and loosing is a hurtful thing, but to love and be silent also hurts.
My heart goes out to you and I hope the best, but, please be quiet no more.For people who have time to read and give advice.thanks. I ll rate you really high?
First i have to tell how lovely is your story, and as i see , you have done right, keeping in secret your feelings, because , your ';loved friend'; has found in you something that he can麓t find in others, somebody to trust.
but now that he is leaving , and you are completely sure that you would not see him again, you have to tell him, how special is him for you.
BE CAREFUL...he sounds like a sweet talker. But if this is person you really feel that you connect with, GO FOR IT GURLIE!!! I mean, what are you waitin for??? He could be thinking the same thing about you and you wouldnt even know it. This whole thing seems so familiar like something out of a book, i just cant put my finger on it. but oh well, tell him how you feel. you never know, he may take you with him wherever he may be going. And it sounds like you guys are so comfortable with each other i dont think your friendship would be destroyed. sometimes in life you have to take chances and risks and sometimes you lose people along the way. but from the sound of it, this ones a keeper! ;-)
Let him read your entry. It is as sweet as sweet and honest as you ca get. He would be honered.
You've got to discuss this with him! Try something like this:
'I know you're quite a ladies man and I need to know if you are playing me? You're very good and I could fall for it so stop it if you don't mean it. If I fall for you our friendship as we know it will be over. Tell me straight. If you're not into me stop doing those intimate things cos they are confusing. If you're for real the deal is that you would have to stop playing the field. I want you to think this through cos our relationship is important to me and I don't want it to be ruined by hasty words. Please call me tomorrow.'
I hope it works out!
hello! i think you should definately tell him how you feel...dont be like me and keep it to yourself...thats something i will always regret. dont be afraid to say what you feel...just do it! also, since he is a ladies man be careful. i had a guy like that and he didnt give up his ways. but just tell him...you will always wonder what he wouldve said or done if you dont. good luck!
Lately, since it's the last time I'm ever gonna see him, I've been thinking of telling him my true feelings-how I feel about him.He is my friend actually, my only true guy friend.First let me describe him to you the simplest way I can.He is a really really attractive guy in every way possible.,A real gentleman if you ask me or any other people who knows him well enough.He knows how to start a conversation and keep it interesting. He knows how to tell jokes and pull-off pranks, yet he also know his limitations.I love him for everything he does and for who he is.I may not show my feelings to him when he's around, but deep inside, I really do want to talk to him about it but I don't know how.I hid my feelings for 3 years.I hid them for I don't want to risk losing our friendship.I just kept myself contented with the only thing we have'; true friendship'; .We like talking about different things.When his talking to me, I always make sure I listen to him carefully while staring at him. Although it really is not obvious how I feel about him fo I always deny.I'm good at that.denying.He always teases me that I might fall inlove with him in a way that he could make you say yes but I stop my feelings from taking over and I just do something or say something to make him stop talking about it.I had the chance to talk to him last night for we talked all night long.These are one of the moments I won't forget when I'm with him.As we sat at the bridge, talking, he held my hand and forced it towards him.I was shocked when he did it so I immediately snatched my hand away from him.But then he held my knees and he put his head on my lap staring at the stars above while continuing on talking.I didn't get the chance to get him away for he already looks comfty.So I just let him.After a while, he took his head off my lap for I think he noticed that I felt uncomfortable for I can't feel my legs anymore so after he took off his head, I got up and stretche and got back to seat with him again.I'll always remember those moments.I really like him a lot and I don't know what to do.Another thing on why I don't want to tell hm is because he already has a girlfriend.Actually there is two of them.It would've been 3 but he just broke up w/ one of them.YES.he is a lady's man a chick boy a total playboy.But when we talk,he tells me of the girls he really did love and how much he loved them so I quite know what kind of friend and a lover he is.This is why I love him. What should I do? should I tell him? does he have any feelings 4 me at all too?? what should I do??/For people who have time to read and give advice.thanks. I ll rate you really high?
Okay, you have written such touching and ever so meaningful words.
They bring back so many memories flooding me to almost tears.
So, here is some advise from an old lady: ARE YOU NUTS!
Tell him how you feel. Take a chance that maybe, just maybe you are the one that he will choose to be monogamous for.
Talk with him even, maybe print out the words you have written here and show him.
At least you can discuss weather to continue as you currently are with ';No Harm No Foul'; for opening up or you two can try and se where things will go.
Yes, loving and loosing is a hurtful thing, but to love and be silent also hurts.
My heart goes out to you and I hope the best, but, please be quiet no more.For people who have time to read and give advice.thanks. I ll rate you really high?
First i have to tell how lovely is your story, and as i see , you have done right, keeping in secret your feelings, because , your ';loved friend'; has found in you something that he can麓t find in others, somebody to trust.
but now that he is leaving , and you are completely sure that you would not see him again, you have to tell him, how special is him for you.
BE CAREFUL...he sounds like a sweet talker. But if this is person you really feel that you connect with, GO FOR IT GURLIE!!! I mean, what are you waitin for??? He could be thinking the same thing about you and you wouldnt even know it. This whole thing seems so familiar like something out of a book, i just cant put my finger on it. but oh well, tell him how you feel. you never know, he may take you with him wherever he may be going. And it sounds like you guys are so comfortable with each other i dont think your friendship would be destroyed. sometimes in life you have to take chances and risks and sometimes you lose people along the way. but from the sound of it, this ones a keeper! ;-)
Let him read your entry. It is as sweet as sweet and honest as you ca get. He would be honered.
You've got to discuss this with him! Try something like this:
'I know you're quite a ladies man and I need to know if you are playing me? You're very good and I could fall for it so stop it if you don't mean it. If I fall for you our friendship as we know it will be over. Tell me straight. If you're not into me stop doing those intimate things cos they are confusing. If you're for real the deal is that you would have to stop playing the field. I want you to think this through cos our relationship is important to me and I don't want it to be ruined by hasty words. Please call me tomorrow.'
I hope it works out!
hello! i think you should definately tell him how you feel...dont be like me and keep it to yourself...thats something i will always regret. dont be afraid to say what you feel...just do it! also, since he is a ladies man be careful. i had a guy like that and he didnt give up his ways. but just tell him...you will always wonder what he wouldve said or done if you dont. good luck!
For people who HATE the iPhone and for the people who LOVE it. I NEED YOUR ADVICE?
Okay, i have a iPod touch 16gb in my hands unwrapped. I wondering whether I should return it and buy an iPhone or keep it and be satisfied. I thinking about buying an iPhone because of all the vast amount of things it can do. BUT i have heard a lot of bad things about it, such as the billing for it. I'm thinking about keeping the iPod Touch because I don't want to pay for the iPhone every month, and the iPod Touch seems to keep me saftisfied with what it has. So im stuck. SHOULD I BUY AN iPhone? is it worth paying for the bills? OR SHOULD I KEEP THE IPOD TOUCH? I NEED THE PROS AND CONS OF THIS SITUATION. I need the best of the bashers and best of the lovers of the iPhone to answer my question. I have till this friday! THANKS!For people who HATE the iPhone and for the people who LOVE it. I NEED YOUR ADVICE?
I have the PERFECT answers for you. I came across a website which lists the pros and cons of the iphone. One of the cons is one that you listed yourself...the monthly cost of the phone. Follow the link below for more pros and cons concerning the iphone.
Good Luck!For people who HATE the iPhone and for the people who LOVE it. I NEED YOUR ADVICE?
I got one for my birthday last week. I can't tell you how much fun I am having with it!
Here is what I like:
1.Better than my old phone, which wasn't bad.
2.It's basically AMAZING.
Dislikes:
1.They're going to be cheaper in December
2.They;re going to be faster next year
3.There's practically no way to NOT pay $2.00 for new ring tones
For me, I needed a phone and I couldn't be happier with my iphone! Love it. Hope that helps you!
keep the ipod touch!, cause att bills really sucks.
Hello,
Get the iphone!
The monthly plan isn't that expensive for what you get. The phone is great.
They are not going to be cheaper in December!
Apple already lowered the price by $200!
They are not going to come out with a new one for a long time. Apple is going to release updates every 2-3 months, (they already released one in September) which will upgrade the phone.
Pros: MANY!!
Cons: NONE! (compared to the iPod touch)
GET THE IPHONE! IT IS AMAZING!
just return it, waste of money, try using your iphone while eating kfc or anything else with your fingers grease all over your phone. Alot of bugs, maybe not for a novice user but if your really want to get the most out of it you will find alot of bugs, go with a helio. best thing out there. besides is your life really that boring you need a play toy in your pocket at all times, get a lover. they can atleast cook for you sometimes.
I have the PERFECT answers for you. I came across a website which lists the pros and cons of the iphone. One of the cons is one that you listed yourself...the monthly cost of the phone. Follow the link below for more pros and cons concerning the iphone.
Good Luck!For people who HATE the iPhone and for the people who LOVE it. I NEED YOUR ADVICE?
I got one for my birthday last week. I can't tell you how much fun I am having with it!
Here is what I like:
1.Better than my old phone, which wasn't bad.
2.It's basically AMAZING.
Dislikes:
1.They're going to be cheaper in December
2.They;re going to be faster next year
3.There's practically no way to NOT pay $2.00 for new ring tones
For me, I needed a phone and I couldn't be happier with my iphone! Love it. Hope that helps you!
keep the ipod touch!, cause att bills really sucks.
Hello,
Get the iphone!
The monthly plan isn't that expensive for what you get. The phone is great.
They are not going to be cheaper in December!
Apple already lowered the price by $200!
They are not going to come out with a new one for a long time. Apple is going to release updates every 2-3 months, (they already released one in September) which will upgrade the phone.
Pros: MANY!!
Cons: NONE! (compared to the iPod touch)
GET THE IPHONE! IT IS AMAZING!
just return it, waste of money, try using your iphone while eating kfc or anything else with your fingers grease all over your phone. Alot of bugs, maybe not for a novice user but if your really want to get the most out of it you will find alot of bugs, go with a helio. best thing out there. besides is your life really that boring you need a play toy in your pocket at all times, get a lover. they can atleast cook for you sometimes.
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