All you people out there.. give a fella some advice?

I met a girl in a club on tuesday.. Didn't really talk very much cos was loud but danced but she gave me her number.. i'm 20 and don't know..





Want to text her but what should I say??All you people out there.. give a fella some advice?
First of all do it right away. Today. That stupid 3 day rule is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Try something like this: I had a great time dancing with you and wish we could have talked more. I've been thinking about you and every time I do, I feel like dancing. We should get together for some coffee or gummy bears or whatever.All you people out there.. give a fella some advice?
Be a man. Ask her out again. Girls usually wait for guys to call because they dont want to look desperate. Good god, you're 20...grow up and be a man.
say...i had fun last night, wanna meet for coffee or something?
I think you should say.. Hey there how ya doing, its ';';';'; from the other night... Had a good laugh with u the other night just texting to see how your doing..., duuno something like that, its been ages since ive been single
Erm..For a start text something like .. Heyy, diz iz (your name) from tuesday =] You cumin next time ? tb x (not sure about the text at the end thou )


And the you might be able to tell from the text you get as a reply if she's intrested.. Good Luck ;]
';Hey, how you doin? Was good to meet you the other night. Would you like to goto the *PLACE* with me on *DAY*?';
There's an excellent chance that she won't remember you. Girls give out their number to many guys (sometimes a dozen or so in 1 night), so you need to intrigue her a bit more than the standard ';Hi, I'm xxxxxxx...'; message would.





So... pretend that you've ';accidentally'; sent her a steamy message that was intended for someone else. Make it off-beat, even. I would send something like:





I know how to do that thing with my fuzzy rabbit that you like so much. L8ter.








Then, get her on the phone, and work your magic from there. Good luck!
Man, some of the advice up here is really bad.





Dude, what is it you want from this girl? You have to be honest with yourself. A long-term monogamous relationship? a casual relationship? a one-time fling? You gotta be specific.





Once you know what you want, you can tell her that. It's not hard, but she will respect your straightforwardness. You two will know what's up crystal clear. She may or may not like it, that's up to her. You cannot change her decision, you cannot change her likes, and dislikes. You cannot change her at all. You can only accept her.





Now you can listen to the other advice, maybe for example take the dinner advice. If you don't want anything more then a friends with benefits relationship, do you really feel obligated to ';pay'; to spend time with her when all you really know is that you want to get it on... and nothing more? You can lie to yourself, a lot of people do and portend and hide that fact; and always hurts in the long-run.





However if you do want something long and fulfilling, start slow, and get to know her. No rush. Do what you feel like, be yourself man. It's simple as that.





Listen to yourself man.
Just ask If she remembers you, then ask if she would like to get some dinner sometime!!!





and remember keep your cool, be calm, be nice!!!


everything will work out just fine!
!say hello hi, what you doing, miss you, want to see you again....!
Thefact that she gave you her number does not mean much.





Even then, just message her: ';Hi';... and see her response.





If she responses back either immediately or after some time, then you are in good books ... Your relationship with this girl can begin then.





GOOD LUCK!!
';hi, remember me from the dance floor the other night? want to get together over a coffe for a chat sometime?';
Hmmm.... write this


';Hey, how you? Hope u had a gr8 time on tuesday coz I certainitly did! Thanks 4 the dacing it was gr8! So how bout we meet up where it's not si loud and blingy more quiet and calm? I'd love to chat to you! Maybe interest u in a milkshake? Call me 鈾?br>

Love


Guy you danced all nite with';
Hello, I am glad I met you and I would like to get to know you as friends. Would you like to meet for lunch or a cup of coffee so that we can talk and get to know each other?





Why not call her instead of texting her. It is more personable.
dont be too flirty


dont make it too obvious that u like her...although it will mean to her that ure interested..


just be cool...be urself...


girls want what they cant have..really!!!
Why don't you say.......





Hey, (her name) we met at the club the other day and I was just wondering if you wanted to go have lunch or get some coffee so we can get to know each other better?





or....





Just be yourself and everything will turn out the way you want them!








or....





Why dont you just call her!!








Hope this Helps!!!


Kate
hell ya text her!! what Ur waiting for?? U don't know what can happen weather it could be bad or Good!!





remember don't be scared of rejection or someone not being interested in you because your going to definitely come across those problems in life anyway!!


Like i said u never know unless u try!! just text her and be like calm and easy going!! '; hey how it going?? dont know weather u remember me or not but me met ............... just thought I'd see what'z happening'; something like that!!


GOOD LUCK
Tell her you have not been able to get her out of your mind since you met her ... ask how she is ... tell her she had a pretty smile ... tell her everytime you think about her it makes you smile ... ask her if she'd like to meet for coffee ... or simply just say hello :)