Thursday, July 29, 2010

People over 23yrs would like ur advice?

im just lookin for advice in general...Im with a grl i love her not in luv cause im not sure if it is ';real luv'; but anyways i like this grl but i feel imma get hurt because wat the women before did to me but i trust her cause i can see shes diff., so im with her as a bf/gf type thing for sumtime now and its great. Its seems me and her are just a weekday couple and when her sisters comes around everything seems to revolve around her on that weekend. Im barely acknowledged and during that time and she tells me we can meet later that night but at the last min she says she cant and i get my plans ruined and i get mad but i look past it but it seems her attitude changes cause of her sister and she becomes influenced or sumthing....her sister is engaged and cheats on her husband and once i was suppose to meet her and her sister was havin a bad day and didnt want to meet me( i thought that was rude because i wouldnt be like that even if i had a bad day i would say hello nice to meet u)People over 23yrs would like ur advice?
If your gf is acting different when her sister comes over maybe you should point that out to her in a NICE way. Let her know how you feel and why you feel left out ant disrespected by her sister. It's always better to be up front with your gf then talk about her to others. If you feel her sister is changing her in a bad way then speak up. But you most remember blood is always thicker then water and she might take her sister's side. However if you are upfront and nice about it she might be too.People over 23yrs would like ur advice?
blood is thicker than water....
Ditto on needing grammar and spelling classes.





There are a few things you two need to address. First, realize that she isn't the ones that hurt you before. Whatever these previous girls did to hurt you is in the past you're still not over, and it's effecting your current relationship. Get past that stuff. Then, talk to her about how she acts different towards you around her sisters--it may have more to do with her sisters than you or her. Seriously, it's not that big of a deal. Once you talk to her and find out why she's acting this way, decide whether or not you want to stay with her.
I think she's just putting family first. Just because her sister is doing something doesn't necessarily mean she's doing the same. If someone in your family was in need of you at any given time they would expect you to come through for them. I think you should talk with your girl and tell her how you feel about this because this does not give her a right to disrespect you either.
well D.C me Advice to u is try to meet her sister and be more involved in there stuff together and i bet the Girl is in love with u to so just sit tight and she'll come around your friend Nikki
Talk to her about this and explain to her you would like to know where you stand with her sothat you can be certain.
Your gf is probably cheating when she gets together with her sister.
for get her
What you need is an English teacher, period.

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