Thursday, July 29, 2010

Help people I don't know what advice to give my best friend.?

My best friend is dating this guy and he told her that he had to work for New Years and turns out he was a big liar. He actullay went to a party and she found out cause someone posted a picture on his myspace of him at the party. The whole time he was calling her saying he was two hours away and even went as far to say they just got off work and was going back to the hotel room. While meantime he's at a party 15 minutes away living it up while she stayed home cause she thought he was out of town working. The guy has apologized since then and is begging for another chance and swears he'll never lie to her again. What do you think she should do?Help people I don't know what advice to give my best friend.?
This all depends, missing a little bit of information to make a rational suggestion.





If this is the first time he has lied to her, maybe she could give him another chance, if it isn't the first then I would say get rid of him, if it is not the first time it looks like a pattern has developed that will not change.





but foremost for your friend is if she has any trust left in him, if not don't flog a dead horse as it will never work out.Help people I don't know what advice to give my best friend.?
She should tell him - bye bye. Besides being a liar, something is wrong if he did not want to take her to the party. Tell her to dump him. She doesn't need to be treated like that.
He is obviously incapable of telling the truth. Also think about how bad it made your friend feel to know that he so desperately didn't want to take her to this party that he went so far as to lying and making up a completely bad story. Dump him. There are better people out there who won't lie to her and who will WANT to take her places.
That's a BIG lie! I would want some time apart and see if things change. I probably would never talk to the guy again if he did that to me! Or he would have no balls left! Either one!
It's hard to tell someone to dump someone,specially if they have real feelings for that person.But if this is a new relationship then she should dump him.Because he will lie to her again,only because he can get away with it.Because if she forgives him,that gives him power to do it again,he may think that she will forgive him again.He will only be making a fool out of her.So unless she wants a liar for a boyfriend,get rid of him.
First of all they should talk about it. If that doesnt work, she should give him one more chance. If he does tell the truth then she should keep him 4 now but if he lies again (like a big lie) then she should dump him. Even if she still likes him, lying is simply the worst thing for a relationship. soo just get rid of him asap!!

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