Saturday, July 31, 2010

I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?

okay so my best friend katrina and this guy named ryan were kind of together. they weren't like officially going out or anything.


but then he ';left'; her and he tells people that they went out and that he broke up with her.


katrina gets mad at this because they didn't go out and what he's saying is not true.


and people said that when he talks about katrina, he look away and he looks kind of sad and looks unsure.


could it be that he still has feelings for her?


if so, then how should she deal with this problem?


i mean, she doesn't wanna hurt his feelings by like telling him off(on telling people that they went out).


i feel like such a bad friend because i can never give her a good piece of advice.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
Sounds like high school. But anyways my advice would be for your friend to try to pull him aside and talk to him, she could try to do it at school like at lunch but if that is too hard maybe she should try to call him and ask to meet up for coffee or ice cream and talk. She should say she doesn't appreciate him talking about her and that she wishes he would be respectful and stop. But by sitting down and being honest he is more likely to be honest. Maybe there still is something there. But if she makes the effort to be honest and open up he more than likely will too. But there shouldn't have a confrontation in front of there friends because then it becomes about them just trying to impress everyone else and not solving things. But at the same time is his friendship really worth anything to your friend? If it isn't don't worry about it so what people talk crap they always will, be the bigger person and don't let it bother you move on and find someone else.I NEED HELP PEOPLE!! please. i am a bad advice giver.?
she can easily poison him..............

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