Have you people ever gone through this?? i need advice!?

ok this might be a lil confusing but here it goes. my friend told me that he wasnt really comfortable about me getting so close to him. i mean we are close friends. we have been friends for four years now. recently i got a lil bit closer to him because i like him more than just a friend. he told me once that he like me more than just a friend too. it was oni few weeks before he told me he dint feel comfortable. he teases me like everyday. we talk and laugh alot. and yes he said he likes me too but i think he is afraid and not comfortable in getting into a relationship??? recently after this whole problem, he is just avoiding me and kinda ignores me. he is a shy type of person but i dont know what the heck is goin on?? i mean he tells me he likes me more than a friend and when i try to get close, he says he is not comfortable with it??? i just dont get it. can someone tell me what is actually up with him??Have you people ever gone through this?? i need advice!?
Listen to what he says. He is not comfortable getting closer to you and to back that up he's avoiding you. Give him some time to want to be your friend again; then don't force the issue. Move on and find someone that wants you.Have you people ever gone through this?? i need advice!?
Maybe. he just isnt comfortable with the closeness because maybe he respects your friendship too much and doesnt want to loose it.


and hes being all distant now because hes trying to blow it off.


maybe try talking to him.


you never know it might help.
Maybe he isn't the one with the problem. Maybe it is your problem. He told you he isn't comfortable and you have to respect that. The more you push, the more he will pull away. That is why he is running now. He is uncomfortable and that is why he is ignoring you. Quit trying to push him into something he isn't comfortable with and tell him you are sorry for pushing him too far already. Apologize like there isn't no tomorrow. Then let him know when and if he wants more that friendship, you will be there. Then leave him alone about it. What if the tables were turned and he was trying to push you into something you kept telling him you weren't ready for? So leave him alone respect his wishes and if it is meant to happen it will.
honey no one can answer that question unless their really him,


you know why? cuz noone knows how he feels.


you needa ask him for your self, dont get upset or anything


just say hey, can we talk?


than ask away =]


i hope this helps