don't care about what othr people think or sayI have a big nose and cant go out bcos people talk aba me so much,can a psychologist advice and help me?
Not to make light of your problem, but you really don't need a psychologist, you just need to not worry about what other people think.
If you are really that concerned about your looks you can pretend you are a fundamentalist Muslim and start wearing a burka.
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BTW, I think that large noses are very attractive.
Barry Manilow seems to have done all right for himself, and Jimmy Durante made a career from his nose.
Everyone has their weaknesses/flaws. The only difference between people is how they handle them.
A counsellor might be a good idea as they could provide you with some insight on how to deal with your personal perceptions.
Don't worry too much about people gossiping about you though - chances are it doesn't happen as much as you think, and people who have nothing better to do than gossip aren't genuine people - so why would you care what the losers think?!?!
People ARE cruel and that's a fact of life, but when you allow this to stop you from living your life, you are hurting no one but yourself. Do you think Barbara Streisand worried about her nose? How about Jennifer Anniston? You may have to work a little to get people to notice you for YOU, but it is possible. The more self-conscious you are, the more other people will notice that you ARE self-conscious about your nose. Think of it this way - what if you had been in a horrible accident and had NO nose? Be thankful for what the good Lord gave you, because there is a reason. Make the most of your other attributes and keep your mind on something else. Don't know how old you are, but there was an old comedian named Jimmy Durante who became a success BECAUSE OF HIS NOSE.
its 3'; or 4'; or 5 inch or 7 inch ??
I met a girl with a big nose once, I thought she was beautiful.
we all have flaws, dont let it bother you.
There have been alot of famous people that used to their advantage. Jimmy Durante was one of the most famous. So don't hide at home, get out there and be proud or if it really bothers you that much save your pennies %26amp; get it reduced via plastic surgery.
We all have flaws, but you have to make the most of it. For starters, you may have to start with your self esteem, and not worry about what others think. If you make fun of yourself, people will not make fun of you, since they know it doesn't affect you...
But, if it bothers you that much, you can always get plastic surgery.
If you are self-conscious about your appearance, why don't you consider getting a consultation with a plastic surgeon? A consultation should not cost you anything, and you are under no obligation to get the procedure done if you decide against it. But the neat thing about doing this is that in some offices, you can see a picture of what you look like now and then a few pictures of how you might look with a new nose. Yes, it will probably be a little painful recovering from this (about a week of downtown maybe for all the bruising and swelling to go down), but the benefits are that it will drastically improve your self-confidence, may help you breath better depending on your unique situation and may even improve the quality of your voice. So what have you got to lose by getting a consultation? You have probably thought about it and so what's stopping you?
Wow, if it bothers you that much maybe you should consider cosmetic surgery.
Maybe you should consider getting a nose job if it bothers you that bad...it will bring your confidence up bc honestly in the world we live in people telling you not to worry about it is not going to help...fix the problem...if it is one
I think people really don't stare and gossip all you think they do. People are usually much too worried about their own appearance, behavior, acceptance to worry about anyone else. If this is indeed inhibiting your socialization and/or contact with people, then, yes, you do need the services of a psychologist to help you discover and nurture your own self worth. After you get your head on straight, if you are still somewhat self conscious about the size of your nose, enlist the services of an excellent cosmetic surgeon, and make your face as lovely as the rest of you.
If it really bothers you that much then a nose job would be cheaper and more effective in the long run.
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