Been there, done that....in high school is was tortured for being mixed race, over weight, and intellegent, and having a deformity on my hand....and it was horrible....then I lost a lot of weight and took part in the school show and they all started to take notice and then i thought to myself how shallow are these people?
I was lucky that I had a good group of friends who stood by me no matter what and that's what you need!
Forget the popular kids....i tried to be like them and was drinking on the streets at 14 and got a serious beating from my mum!
Just be yourself and what you leave high school and look back at what they become (in my case most of them were in prison or one drugs or with three kids all different daddy's by the age of 20)and make sure you just make a success of yourself.....if it really matters to you think of something that may gain their respect and maybe acceptance but if they don't like you for you then they aren't worth it!If you have problems with popular people at your skool give me sum advice and tell me what u do to help urself
i am out of school
but before i had moved, i used to be popular, but not stuck-up
i was realy nice
but when i moved, i wasnt popular and i just kept my head up and ignored them
i didnt try to be popular by following their style of clothes either
gud luck..everything will turn out fine
btw..all the popular people i knew were total sluts and in fact i remember this realy popular but slutty girl i had in one of my classes and our teacher said that when she grew up, she was gonna be a ****, but then she relized what she had said
becaz teachers cant say that stuff abt students even if its true
and aid that she didnt mean it, but u could tell that she meant it
so gud luck once again..hang in there..If you have problems with popular people at your skool give me sum advice and tell me what u do to help urself
Do nothing! You help yourself by NEVER comparing yourself to others. There's always going to be prettier, better, worse, uglier, happier, sadder, more fun, less fun, smarter, dumber people than you so comparing yourself to others does nothing and means nothing. You're the one defining them as popular. What makes someone popular???? Most people can't even answer that question cause nothing really does. Yes, people like to look at pretty girls and pretty women and generally, that can make someone well known but at the end of the day, no one really cares about popularity. Just do your thing. It ain't a problem!!! :): )
Be yourself if they don't like it then thats their problem. Most people will say bad things about you whether their true or not it just helps them feel better about themselves. It will be much better in college.
P.S. if you don't like yourself they won't either.
it seems your young.. Trust me when you get into highschool and college.. the people that seem so ';popular'; aren't that special.. its the individuals that make life interesting.. have fun with your friends you have.. and don't waist ur time trying to get into the ';in'; crowd.. People will like you for who you are, not who your trying to be
Keep your head up!
Ignore them, I have alot of snobs at school, and I ignore them, it's makes them feel like superior if no one cares about them = )
there r these girls and they act all th@. 1 used 2 b my bff but now she flips her hair in my way %26amp; ignores me. i just ignore. im not in her class so i dont c her. just ignore, hope it helps.
There are these kids at my school who are like the popular kids and they are the meanest people ever!! To ignore them just walk away from them. There is not a difference between anyone. Some people just think they are better because they are richer or skinner. These are the people you avoid!!
No comments:
Post a Comment