Monday, August 23, 2010

ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?

ok so i have been kissing this guy for a while now and i think the world of him...but....before i ever met this guy i had met a guy who at first came across as abit of a big headed and cocky git however over time we became friends and now 8 months on we still chat and often meet up for nites out and a catch up...nothing has ever happened between us but recently i know that he has become close to a girl and even though i know we are just friends and i have no feelings for him sexually i mean i kinda found myself feeling mad or i suppose u cud call it jealous...this is the forst time that i actually even thought that perhaps i may have feelings for him and all of a sudden i have found myself comparing him to the guy i have been with for awhile now and wondering if maybe i have made the right decision...im really confused as before this i never would have done this or perhaps thought to myself that maybe there mite be something more to our friendship. but could i really like the two guys at once and if so what should i do??stay with the guy im with or maybe see could i work something with the other guy???Thanks XADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
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Hope! have a nice day and nice dream.ADVICE PLEASE!Can u have feelings for two people at once?
why stop ay only 2 ?
Hope this helps, I'm 20 and sort of had a similar problem. I was with my past bf for over 2 years and belived I was very happy until I started getting much closer to a male friend. Although I never cheated I saw him very often and grew closer and closer still telling myself I loved my bf. I went a little crazy/depressed and it played on my mind far to often until I finally realised I had to leave my bf and see what happened with the other man. After a long, and probably drawn out talks with both men, it was the best decision i ever made. I never thought I would fancy this person or indeed commit to a loveing relastionship but we have and its the best thing ever! If you and the other bloke are meant to be then theres always time. Persure other options!!! x

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