People think my bf's abusing me?! advice!?

Im 13 and at cheerleading practice my friend asked me how I got these bruises on my arm and i told her it was from practicing cheerleading at home because thats usually where all my bruises come from!.. i bruise easily! and now everyone is always like oh howd you get that bruise? was it your bf?.. and i even had a teacher ask me if im alright.. its annoying and there just asking because people like drama.. but anyway i dont want this to get back to my boyfriend either....


advice please?!


thanks!People think my bf's abusing me?! advice!?
Falcon punch all of them.People think my bf's abusing me?! advice!?
awww..





you're probably anemic. not to be an asshole, or anything, but, most thirteen year olds dont have this awesome stellar diet. SO, try and get some more iron based foods iin your diet. that'll help with the bruising. OR tell your mom, like, 'dude, mom, i need more iron, i keep getting bruises like really easily'


she'll probably have your back.





and then dont worry about it. the more you talk about it, the more a rumor becomes true. find the source of it, and stop it if you can. or just tell close friends 'oh hey, i found out i'm anemic. its iron deficiency and i bruise easily' kind of start your own rumor about yourself.





good luck. that sounds like a really crappy rumor. :\
Tell them to mind their own business. Tell them that if your boyfriend was abusing you, he wouldn't be your boyfriend anymore.


And you're right, it is because people love drama when it has nothing to do them. So, yeah. Again, just tell them to lay off and that if he really was hurting you, you'd be smart enough to get some help.
these ppl really are trying to help you... they have the best intentions at heart but i get that it can be annoying. Just smile when people ask and say ,'no way! i'm just practicing my cheers and get bruised sometimes.' and if they don't buy it then you should just let it fly unless it really bugs you. If it really does, then tell that one person at your school, the town cryer that you tend to get bruises from practicing at home... soon enough it'll blow over..
tell them straight and tell your parents the worry you have, they may have too write a letter too the school just explaining the fact your bruise easily and are hurt by these rumours don't worry i get the same being a apprentice chef i burn my wrist and arms all the time, and get asked if im a self harmer when im not.lol so just learn to laugh it off? cheers:)
I'm sure its not as bad as you think it is.


Bruises only stay on your arms for a little while so relax.


Just repeat your self ALL the time. People will eventually get the idea and they will remember next time.


Or has it occured to you that... that's how people see your boyfriend? Because to jump to conclusions like that immedietely must mean something...
I'm sure your boyfriend won't react like a crazy man if he hears that. Is he like a tough looking guy or somethin? If you already told everyone that it wasn't him and it's from cheerleading then tell them to back off! And that your boyfriends not a asshole who would hit you!


~Jamie
since it seems like you're saying it isn't true, just ignore them! nobody is abusing you and you know it! you just bruise easily which is totally normal, inless you have SO many, maybe you should see a doctor about the bruising issue
I like how that magica girl said your young when she's 3 years older than you bahaha. Wow. Anyways, back to your question, just ignore them, because you know he didn't do anything to you. You have nothing to prove to them.





Hope I helped :)
i';m sorry kiddo. i';m sure they think they are just trying to help you, but honestly that juswant to gossip. tell anyone that asks to mind their own effin business. because chances are it isn't their busisness in the first place.
Just keep saying what you're saying. There's nothing else you can do. Unless you're trying to convince yourself of something..
tell ur BF before someone else does and tell him u didnt start it. he should under stand. but be nice.





something u will learn in life is dont hide things how ever small or big they are. x x
Just tell them the truth.


They are trying to help you.





Never stay in an abusive relationship.


You are better than that!





Get help and report your bf!
omg same here.


yeah i get bruises from cheerleading...


do they know your in cheerleading?


or you can just ignore them
tell your bf that people is thinking that so even when people tell ur bf he wont careand wont think that you told them that he hurt you and im 13 too!!!
You know what?


Kick the **** out of them...ALL OF THEM
Just tell them, ';No it was not my best friend.'; Im practicing cheerleading at home. I know you already did that, but just me more serious about it. Good Luck:)
Just let it pass. People have their own problems to worry about. Sooner or later they'll stop bothering you.
Tell them to ask you that in front of your bf then they would know
Your only lying to yourself.
stop practicing from home.
they're probably right
did u get molested ? tell an adult
well first of all, You are 13....i am 16.....u r too young to have a boyfriend in the first place kiddo!!!!!!