Thursday, August 19, 2010

How do u become popular cause im the new kid in my school who people think is really shy and i need advice.?

Be boisterous enough in class to get noticed but be laid back enough to not care about anything. Be cool, baby.How do u become popular cause im the new kid in my school who people think is really shy and i need advice.?
Become involved in school activities...just be yourself but get noticed by being outgoing...How do u become popular cause im the new kid in my school who people think is really shy and i need advice.?
I can identify with what it feels like to be the new kid. Believe it or not, with time, you really will adjust and make new friends. Instead of worrying about being popular, what you should do is simply work on meeting other people, and finding some that you have things in common with. These common interest will help to forge great friendships. Don't forget to always be true to yourself. True friends are out there and they will like you and will appreciate you for the person that you are without having to fake anything at all. One way to meet people at your new school who have the same interests that you do is to join a club or a society or sport that you are interested in. Then you simply need to introduce yourself to people there and get involved in the activities that they offer you. Working together on common interests provide a very natural and relaxed way to get to know people and for them to get to know you.If you aren't interested in any sport or specific hobby club like yearbook or photography, etc. --try joining a civic club that will focus on volunteer opportunities. The advantage to joining such a club is that you get to meet other kids interested in helping others, you get to be part of the solution to a problem, and you will make new friends among the people that you help. Good luck to you, and don't worry---things are gonna be great, just give them a little bit of time!
Get involved with activities at school...what interests you?


More than likely you will meet like-minded people and before you know it, you have friends, you are having fun, doing well in school...all that. Who cares about being ';popular'; if you are truely happy. Just do what you do be who you are and you will be just fine.
say hello to some peoples around you and select them. u must read their character and read the situation then take the chance. and then choose who you do think good.


be nice, and be yourself (it's very important) and dont worry too much if u can not find anyone good for you in early days or weeks, it needs a process so pe patient ;)


place yourself in a suitable place and that place should make u feel comfortable. if u're not feel comfortable, so leave it and find the other one, dont waste your time there.


wish u luck then :D
i say dont worry abt it cuz ppl are gonna judge u anyway. jus be urself and b sure 2 hav fun while ur young! wen ppl c how much fun u r 2 b around then they will b drawn 2 u! @ least thats what it would b like in a utopian society. jus njoy ur youth and live life 2 the fullest bc u only get 1 lifetime; dont live it 4 others and their opinions of you.
Don't try to be popular, just focus on being yourself and being true to yourself. Do the things you love to do and you will meet people with the same passions as you. If your goal is for everyone in the school to know you, then you can do that by doing anything - good or bad. But, if you want people to respect you and admire you, the best way is to stand up for yourself. Don't try to become what everyone else wants you to be. You're letting other people decide your life for you and nobody wants that. Be an individual, be yourself, have fun along the way, and everything else that comes with it is gravy. When I was growing up, I moved to 5 different states, so I know what it's like being the new kid all of the time. It takes a while to become acquainted with everyone and everything, but take your time in really getting to know people. Regarding your shyness, my good friend and mentor always says, ';fake it till you make it.'; There's an actress in all of us, act confident, and soon you will be confident. Good luck to you!

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