Thursday, August 19, 2010

Has anyone got any advice as to how I can become more confident speaking to people?

I've started jogging %26amp; I've lost quite a bit of FAT and bought some nice clothes which makes me feel a quite a bit more confident.





But I just still cant seem to be 'open' like others can. I've always been such a 'thinker' but I want to be more of a 'talker'. I've always been so quiet and slow when it comes to 'witt'. I NEED to become more chatty and confident and stop being scared of everyone! Any advice would be much appreciated.Has anyone got any advice as to how I can become more confident speaking to people?
Congratulations! You just did! Your intro is just how I got out of my shell. HONESTY!!! I walked into a party looking all perplexed and said Hi to all that was there and : Damn! I am so nervous. Y'all are initidateding!!! Big laughs and looks cracked ice!Has anyone got any advice as to how I can become more confident speaking to people?
practice, start slowly, just start saying hi to people you may have seen a few times but never spoken to, like at work or school or at the gym. then add a few more details, like if its at the gym, how was your work out, or at work/ school, something like, wot did you think of that lesson/meeting etc and it will move forward from there. the conversation shud start to flo and they will ask you questions and it will go on from there. dont worry about being witty just be yourself and congrats on the weight loss im sure you look great
if u tell ur self u cant be confident then ur giving up before even trying but just ease ur self into confidence and start with a smile when u walk by or a small hi but make sure that u dont run away when some one trys to talk to u that will just make them think u hate them and they will be put down also dont think 2 much about it. it might seem easier if ur not looking straight at their face so try that. good luck and if u need something else contact me :D
Ok sweety let me gave u some tips to confidence,first things first believe in your self an notting else would be a problem, not even wat people has to say cause da way i see things u have problem with your self esteem bvut like i said believe in your self an try to bill your self esteem an if want to hear some more contact me on carlinebenjamin_18@yahoo.com GOD bless ya
one thing you should keep in mind is that the people are on your side. they are not your opponents. they don't want you to make a fool of yourself, they want to have a nice conversation. so just have fun talking to them.
Just be who you are and be comfortable with yourself, don't try to be some one that your not. You are on the right track,people will notice you, just give it a while. Good luck.
Practice. Talk in front of a mirror, or in front of family. Don't be scared. More people probably feel this way then you would think.
get a breath mint even if ur breath doesnt stink.


dont think much, just say it.

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