Need some advice......asking in this section because i want to hear from older people.?

I met this gentleman last year january at a friends party. We got along really well and there was this very attractive thing between us. He and i spoke a little and exchanged email addresses. Later after that day he added me in to his facebook but we never once spoke to eachother and neither did we ever write on eachother walls. I dont know why but i never heard from him and he never heard from me. Now, i have liked him for the past year. I wanted to drop some comments or messages here and there on facebook but i didn't because i thought it might give him the impression that i am interested(which i don't want to give him at the moment). So 1 year passed and randomly in december 2008 i received the first ever message from him on facebook. Then i find out that he has moved to a different state. but we kept exchanging emails anyway





So now, we have been exchaning emails for the past 4 months. But its strange how he never moves ahead. he replies to all my emails.....replies on time....but never do i get to be personal with him....what is this suppose to mean?...i am becoming kind of hopeless about this now...should i just let go?...or shouldi hold on and see what comes next?....i am talking to him in spite of all this because i have really liked this guy for over an year now and always secretly wished that he would contact me sometime. Now that he have, he emails and talks about different issues but never gets personal...all his emails are kind of up to the same level and not fun to read....





What should i do? i really like him and don't want it to end this way. What do you say?





PS he is 25 years oldNeed some advice......asking in this section because i want to hear from older people.?
he may be married or in another relationship right now. if he never gets too personal he is avoiding something. let it go if he lives in another state its going to be difficult to carry on a relationship anyway.Need some advice......asking in this section because i want to hear from older people.?
I understand why you posted here. The other section has grade schoolers answering.





I think he just likes you as a friend. If a guy is really interested in you, you will know it. You will never have to chase a guy - trust me.





I think it's time you move on because there really isn't anything between the two of you.
He's 25. How old are you?





Regardless of the age difference, let it go. He obviously doesn't want to get personal and is treating you like any other email acquaintance. Let him go and find someone else. There are plenty of bulls on the prairie.
Are you under age? That could explain why he isn't interested, but either way, he never called you and moved away, so I'd say he isn't interested. You must know this, as you never contacted him either, for a reason, right?
You need to either make a move or move on. The friendly emails aren't giving him the ';hint'; you want, you are going to have to put yourself out there a bit.
well he's banging other chicks in the new state. why would he waste his time on you over the internet when he has them right there? are you blind? you can't see that?
This section is for marriage and divorce. Be nice if you would follow the guidlines instead of making up your own rules to suite your needs.
Well really, i don't think he is interested. Dating should not be that complicated.
whats the point ?? if you like him then say so he may be waiting for you 2 start the conversation whats there to lose ???
Leave him and never look back.
OK I'm just going to assume that 1 of you have been married and divorced so that your story fits in here.





You are just playing it too safe. If he hasn't made a move, why have you not instead? You don't gain anything if you don't take risks. It's that simple.





What have you got to lose? That you won't get him? Well, you don't have him in the first place. Make a move and good luck!
You don't know...have you met him in person? Well, if you didn't you are being fooled. He is probably married and having this little secret online tryst with you. Find out his real name; go on line; and pay $25 and you can find out alot about this guy...I think he is married and that is why he is so secretive about his personal life